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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm having an issue with a guy who flirted with me like crazy. He would call me sexy and hot and cute and he would make me feel really good about myself even though I knew that this guy uses girls he talks to, I kept flirting back. He did this to one of my friends and she warned me but I didn't listen cuz he is soo hot, six pack and fit. We kept flirting and I realize the girl that was warning me actually still had a crush on him. I felt so bad cuz she is one of my best friends and I always talked to her about him but she said she was finally over him so I kept on texting him. He asked me to the movies but I didn't trust him enough to go yet and he's "experienced". I'm not really that experienced. He asked again. I would have gone but I was busy. I realized since I didn't go he thought I was a prude but I was just busy. He said to prove I wasn't a prude I had to send him a naked pic. I'm not like that so I didn't. I really liked him so I sent one that wasn't really that bad. I shouldn't have but I did. Then we were texting again but he still talked about me so I talked about him to get even. I talked about him to my friend and she told him cuz apparently she still had feelings for him. I felt sick cuz she betrayed me and he hated me. I forgave her though cuz she's my best friend but he never forgave me. Then I realize he asked out one of my ex-best friends. They started dating and I felt horrible. So (I know this is mean of me) I started hanging out with her again just so I could convince her to dump him. He dumped her eventually and I felt bad again. I keep telling myself and my friends I'm over him but truthfully I'm not. I needed to get that out. I really like him a lot and he won't accept my appologies. I'm mad and sad at the same time. I want him to like me again!Please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): I hear a whole lot of bullshit catfighting over this guy, and I hear nothing about him that justifies it except "he's so hot!!!"
So he's hot. So he flirts with all of you (while trying to get into your pants). So what? You really think you won't get played too?
Find some other guys to obsess over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): at the end of the day only you know what you want and only you can weigh up the risks
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