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male
age
36-40,
*andersen
writes:I recently broke up with my bf, a month ago...He broke it up with me as I was not prepared to end it at all.The break up was hard and still is hard on me.He told me that he felt he was not really ready for a realationship at the moment and that he although about to turn 40, was not looking for a relationship for a very long time.He told me that he would not walk away and would always be there, and wanted to be friends, and he has lived up to that so far.After me broke up there have been libgering hugs, and when I stayed over at his place a week after we broke up he agreeed that I could stay with him but nothing could happen, as a result, he instigated the affection and one thing lead to another....The next day he seemed that he felt guilty and wanted me to go, but sent me a text that night out of the blue saying, " hey beautiful, can you tell me what date your birthday is so that I can put it in my diary',A week later I called in to see me and when he told me that he loved me but not in that way, I got so upset and he just wanted me to leave.I agreed to let go and stay as friends, and I gave him a bit over a week space and in that time and have composed the strength and changed so much.I have spoken to him in person about it and he was so happy with me, he even sent me a text that night saying,"you know, your much more attractive when you smile, and today your really smiled, well done you!We are still cahatting every few days and he called me just to see how my recent job interview went.Is it that he is just not ready for a relationship , but may have some lingering feeling still????
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