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He's been saying he's "too tired" but I catch him watch him porn!

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Question - (2 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *hanjo35 writes:

my husband and i have been married since may this year

we have been together for a year and a half. in the beginning of our relationship we had sex atleast once a week but for the past year he always says he is tired but I catch him watching porn it has been four months and I am tired of being put on the back burner

any suggestions?

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A female reader, Befuddled1 United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2008):

Befuddled1 agony auntread the advice i received for the same problem...it may be of help. you are not alone!

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/jenna-jameson-has-stolen-my-man-and-i.html

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A female reader, emptyland99 United States +, writes (2 September 2008):

emptyland99 agony auntDoes he do strenuous work and is he under a lot of stress. First you should ask yourself that. If neither is the case you need to tell him that you feel bad that he would rather watch a porno than have sex with you. plain and simple. But you need to tell him because he may just not know how you feel about it and as far as I know men haven't developed mind reading into their glorious plethora of talents. So seriously talk it out, he wont know how your feeling unless you tell him.

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A female reader, epifanatical Australia +, writes (2 September 2008):

epifanatical agony aunttypical male behaviour.. perhaps you should sit and talk to him about how you feel.. a year and a half is a short time to go off someone.. is he under any stress?.. work?.. friends?.. home? OR could he maybe be having an affair?.. this is typical of people that are sexually satisfied elsewhere.. and come home and plead exaustion.. where theres smoke theres fire.. the signs are there its up to you to do the investigating..and you have a right to find out.. :)

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