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I've tried everything to forget about him, but nothing seems to work. Please help.

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Question - (29 September 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i am 21, I met this guy when i was 20 and been in love with him ever since. problem is hes got a girlfriend he told me that he liked me sooo much and he wished things wre different.

i have tried everything to forget about him, but nothing seems to work. I realy need help to forget about him cos its been a year, and i think about him every single day x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008):

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thanx u guys for your help i wil take everythin u sed on board and yes now i reali am ready to move on ,i no its aint gunna be easy but with all that u said in my mind i know i will be fine and someone owt theres waitin 4 me

thanx guys

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A female reader, FIRE United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2008):

awwww babe,i know how you feel as i have been in the same situation as you and infact it's been 13months since we split.it hurts so much and i do cry still was everyday but it gets better.what you had with him will never go away and never be forgotten not even by him but you do really have to move on.there is no other choice and especially him being with someone else now.there is so many others out there,even if you do feel your never love again but you will one day.....i promise but don't expect it to happen straight away!!! go out have fun with your mates and do as much as possible to keep busy,that helps as i would be sure to know,trust babygirl.take care sweetie and thats from the bottom of my heart!xxxx

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A female reader, doracherish Nigeria +, writes (30 September 2008):

doracherish agony auntyou have to let him go if he has moved on you have to do the same how long do you intend to cry over a split milk it better yhat you give away with i know that it's not easy to do even when you are in love wit him but u have to let him go so as not to be stulk in a place

baby you just have to muve on so that you will have a good thing .you can never say some one might be in love with u and u might end up falling in love with you but you must learn to let the past go so as to go on

you must let go of thing that actually attract you to him so that you.you are still young to give up on love cos it will definatly come you worth a million to someone so why do you have to become worthless to someone

take care of urself

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A male reader, sparty United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2008):

hey umm, the only way that i can think of to help you is to find someone else, find a new guy that u find irristable, put urself out there and u will def get distracted, meaning that with any guy that comes along and u get along with u will gradually start to forget about him.

hope i have helped

sparty

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A female reader, falconear United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2008):

falconear agony auntHave you told him how you feel and what you want from him?

The main thing is his girlfriend, he might have strong feelings for you but maybe a different connection with his girlfriend,or he is scared of hurting her feelings.

If it has been a year and still no progress, i would move on. Don't worry, there are people worthy of you love!

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