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Are Virgos able to forgive?

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Question - (30 September 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, *harm5 writes:

Once a Virgo has had their fellings hurt and they ask for sometime to think and feel uncomfotable around the one who hurt them . Are Virgos able to forgive after an apology has been made right away or do they just eliminate the person out of their life and that is that? Do they usually like to take sometime to digest what just happen and go from there?

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A female reader, charm5 United States +, writes (28 July 2009):

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She asked me to stay away and never contact her and is ok.Its hard not to. She was all to me and I miss her. I will never forget her but I have accepted the fact that she will never come back in to my life.I always smile when I think of her..she will always be my best best friend...

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A female reader, Sorrora Malaysia +, writes (28 July 2009):

To me, not everyone with the same horoscope necessarily have the same attitude. But I think that if that one person is special to a virgoan, I bet she/he would never hold any grudge even if she/he was badly hurt. They understand and care more about their loves one feeling more than themselves. So in a relationship, they choose to just forgive and forget... I believe this because I was so lucky to have one as a best friend.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008):

Hey, how you doing babes. I hope your friend has forgiven you, but if she hasn't, then don't ever cut contact. Every now and then just drop her a card to tell her you are thinking about her and you miss her. You can wear her down and prove your love by being an unconditional friend. If she's a true Virgo, she won't be able to resist this example of friendship from afar. It's worth a try if you and her are good friends. It shouldn't irritate her, but it will make her realise that friendship lasts forever.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008):

i'm a virgo, i forgive.

not always though; i can hold a grudge.

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A female reader, charm5 United States +, writes (1 October 2008):

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I think that every sign has its characteristics. My youngest daughter is a virgo and I cant figure her out sometimes. She is quiet and seems at times emotionless yet other times she is explosive. I know she cares cause she does things to show me she does love me. The friend I had the argument with said once that if someone crosses her she will eliminate them from her life. She never said she cared but her actions did. Im an aries and I pretty much fit the description of an aries. I said some things to my friend that she said she didnt want to deal with it emotionally so she needs time and we both need therapy. I apologized and after two weeks send her an apology note with a book on friendship and she has not call or written.Im afraid Ive lost her forever. I consider her my best friend and soulmate. Im impatient and very impulsive and I cant just let it be.

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A male reader, Passthrough United States +, writes (1 October 2008):

Passthrough agony auntDo you really think the month (or so) in which somebody is born has any effect at all of their mental state and personal characteristics?

BTW, I am a virgo, and I forgive.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008):

I'm a female Virgo, and because we are brilliant, we Virgo's can do anything in the world. Personally I can forgive a lot, a hell of a lot. But there dose come a point where I refuse to forgive anymore, or the injury is too bad. Then yes, I can cut people out of my life as if they were dead. No hard feelings, no emotions, nothing bad, you just no longer exist in my world...

I hear Virgo men are much worse, and sometimes display less patience than the brilliant, fantastic Virgo woman. One thing is Virgo's usually tell the truth if they can. If your Virgo man has asked for time to think, that's exactly what he means. He needs time to think. He is weighing up the whole situation just like a calculator. Who knows what his findings will be. He may forgive, he may not. He doesn't know, cause he's still thinking.

Leave him alone with his calculations. Don't phone him, don't beg or plead for forgiveness, because he'll probably be beyond emotion and just using logic to think things out. A small pretty card, with some simple message saying.. "I understand I've hurt you and for that I am sorry. I'm here if you are willing to talk, I really would like for us to work things out..." might help. But he needs to evaluate things. I don't know what you did wrong so I can't help much more than this.

PS: People are people, not star signs, so who knows how things will turn out...

PPS: I did the same to my girlfriend. She upset me badly so I did the same thing. After thinking and calculating everything about our friendship over 20years, it was easy to forgive her almost anything she did... Blessings

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A female reader, Candie South Africa +, writes (30 September 2008):

I'm a virgo too. And i may forgive someone who hurts me but can NEVER forget. When i'm hurt, the thing stays in ma thoughts for a very long time. But we are certainly different as people!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2008):

My husband is a virgo and says "it doesn't matter what religion you are."

Everyone needs time to forgive. You can't just say sorry and expect it to be fine straight away.

Good Luck!! xx

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