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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My best friend lost her virginity to her cousin...and may be pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My best friend was seeing her cousin up until a couple of weeks ago when her parents found out and stopped all contact between them completely. I can fully understand why they have reacted in this way but he was the first person my best friend truly loved. They knew it was a ... (267 words)

I barely know him but I told him I loved him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - ok I like this boy named Bryan I barly met him and I barly know him yet, I find myself telling him I love him. He told me that he really likes me to so I asked him out. He said NO. So we went on being franns and now he wants to get closer but he still does not agree to go ... (80 words)

He said I am annoying when I 'mother' him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) age 16-17 - hi. so i have this really big problem. well not really big. but i really like this guy and i cant tell if he likes me. he makes it so confusing. like everytime we talk hes mean to me. but hes nice to everybody else. and i've talked to my friends about it and they say that he ... (105 words)

She's not there for me...emotionally...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Well... I have been dating a girl for nearly a year. We got together while she was on summer break from college. I tried every way to do the right thing with this girl because i fell for her very soon. We are both going to school. She is at a university an hour away and i go to ... (284 words)

Do you think my husband is a sociopath?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my husband has a lust and masterbating problem. We have been married 22 years this june. I was just blown away when I figured it out. He confessed of the lies and lusting. He has been doing this for 22 years and because of all the deception I never knew ... (110 words)

My boyfriend never calls or talks to me in class!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 days and he never calls me! unless i tell him to since we started going out he only called twice and thats because i told him to. and at school we barely ever talk or see eachother because were in different grades. i want him to ... (90 words)

Will my adolescent abuse rear its ugly head if I have a daughter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Anyone who reads this will have to bear with me as I don't know if it'll actually be in the form of a question, therefore making it difficult to provide an answer, but I'd like to know what others have to say. I'm 19, about to embark on my junior year of college, and in ... (387 words)

My boyfriend has a ton of online interactions. Should I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year. all through the year i have been findin out stuff he has been doing behind my back. at the beginning i found texts he sent to his ex saying he still loves her and she told me they met and stuff...then i found a myspace with ... (179 words)

My wife cheated with a 72 year old man. What do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 28, my wife's 26. We have a 5-year-old son. Last night she said to me she had something to confess. I listened as she aadmitted to me she'd been having an affair with a 72-year-old man and that it was basically just sex for her, and that the man also said it was a sex-only... (387 words)

I just lost my virginity but I couldnt orgasm with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - ok so heres my story.. i am 16 years old healthy lil man.. i dance(breakdance)and am fit no health problems anyway its was october when i "lost" my virginity and i ve done it outside.. no the beach about 4 am the woman i had sex with was older than me..anyway i was soo har... (288 words)

Which has more accurate results: home pregnancy kits or vs. blood test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I made an appointment to take a blood test.. To find out if I'm expecting.:) Should I keep the appointment for the blood test or get a home pregnancy test and if it turns out negative I can use this appointment for a pap smear and to go back on birth control? I ju... (111 words)

I've dramatically changed my appearance. Will this help me get more girls, or will I have to change more than just my looks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone, As you may have noticed from my avatar, I've cut my hair! It's a dramatic change (I used to have an Afro, in case you didn't know) and I'm hoping it brings me good things in the future. I'm off of uni for the next couple of weeks, so I'm going to try to be as hea... (227 words)

Help! I'm dating a Baby-Daddy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I recently started dating a wonderful man, he's everything I could have ever hoped for. And here's the kicker he seems crazy about me too! Last week however we ran into his ex whose "very" pregnant but unsure of who the father is. And yes my man is one of the poss... (97 words)

Is he trying to make me feel guilty for not having sex with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been seeing this guy for over a month. Im 19 and he is 23 and we were friends for about 2 months before we got together. We havent done anything sexual yet but he always wants to and says that he cant help it because Im so sexy. Last night we were making out and he indi... (179 words)

Is he interested, or fancies me? or doesn't like me in that way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hello, Lately I been going crazy about this boy named JK his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Today I saw him when I was walking to school he kept looking behind to see me and at the end he crossed the road and then looked at me and I smiled and he wav... (223 words)

Am I using condoms corectly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - when i put a condom on it only goes like ahalf way down and it wont go any furthere..... is this rite o and is it supost to be so tight it hurts???... (33 words)

I just found out my husband is an alcoholic. What do I do now? Help me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 21 years. I recently realized my husband has a drinking problem. He will drink everyday if given the opportunity. It will be two years in August since the tragic death of our son, his stepson. I miss my son and I know his death has affected the enti... (253 words)

My daughter is dating a man 25 years older, and I am concerned about it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My daughter is 20 years old and is away in college. While there, she supposedly accidently bumped into her former best friend's father, who now lives in that town. She told me about it but at first I didn't think too much of it. Eventually she started dropping his name more... (189 words)

Should I tell my b/f that his cousin keeps sending me text messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a boyfriend we have known each other for about a year and half and we have been dating for ten months and everything is great with him i love been with him and everything. the problem is a cousin he has he knew that his cousin use to have a crush on me or at least we t... (125 words)

My boyfriend is hurting my self esteem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it normal that my boyfriend, who is 57(I am 50)takes pictures of other women's cleavage, their butts and them in short shorts, or in a short skirt, but will not allow me to wear a low cut shirt to show off my cleavage? He tells me all the time that I am very beautiful, sexy... (89 words)

Severe period pains...any home remedies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I came on my period today and I usually get pretty bad pains, but because I take paracetamol they usually take care of it. But today were out of them, and my mum forgot to pick some up, I'm sure many women posters have them bad so if anyone knew of any home remedies I could ... (90 words)

Work worries, under-valued, upset and hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Are you allowed to post work related questions on here? i'm not sure because i've heard people can get fired for 'bad-mouthing' the company. but if i dont state the company and it's not the company's fault, its the current manager and colleagues, then am i allowed? It's just... (419 words)

Should I give this wonderful guy a chance? I still can't get over my cheating ex b/f!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a problem i just broke up with my boyfriend a month ago because he was cheating one me,,,,, Now i trying to move on but i found out one of my guy friends is in love with me he even proposed i'm just 16 so idk what to tell him because i'm so hurt so i just dont want to h... (135 words)

Am I right to want to break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Check out my other posts on my huge fight with my boyfriend this weekend. But I have another huge problem. My boyfriend lied to me last night. He told me he was going out for coffee with his guy friend, and I talked to that guy friend today(mutual friend) and he said he didn... (198 words)

Just curious ... how does "cling wrap" work when giving a girl oral?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - i was at work the other day and was wrapping things with cling wrap, and was just thinking how is it that you use that for having safe sex when giving a girl oral? heard that was how you do it but never looked it up or did it (not worried about stds since were married) . ... (69 words)

Harassed by other men but boyfriend wont help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok basically. I get harassed by other men when i go to the clubs and my boyfriend doesn't do anything to help me because he believes I should get rid of them myself. I understand its my responsibility to get rid of them, but he just watches me or ignores it when im in need of ... (119 words)

Sleep without the sex? What is happening here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Sleep without the sex? - Can someone explain to me why me and my boyfriend (both in our 30s - who have just started to spend the nights together)cannot innitiate sex? I do feel the relationship is a little one sided as I am madly in love with him and he is a little less int... (111 words)

Honeymoon period over but how do I get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So here's the thing. I've been with my beautiful girlfriend for 18 months now. For the first 10 months everything was fine, great in fact. We fell deeply in love. She worshipped the ground I walked on. When we weren't together, she'd ring and text all the time and tell me... (638 words)

I want my best friend back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - how do i become friends with my sister again? She doesn't come around much since i had my son. She loves him to death and is his godmother. She is turning 19 years old and we have always been close. Now that im married and she doesn't really like my husband she wont hang out ... (103 words)

I'm too shy and I'm gonna lose my first love because of it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi! I'm 15 and I was hoping you help me because I got 2 problems. The first 1 is: there's a boy in my class and he's like madly in love with me but I don't love him! He keeps getting me stuff you know many presents and I couldn't refuse them because it would break his heart!! ... (290 words)

Lesbian vibes? Now what the hell is that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't know, I am in a very awkward situation. All my friends think that I give off lesbian vibes and the reason is all the girls fall head over heels for me.. one of my friends introduced me to this gay guy and he couldn't stop staring at me, later on he told this friend ... (89 words)

Opinions please... Is my friend a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My best friend who is 20 years old makes out with the other girls when she is drunk and a couple of times she hinted we should do to. Like she would say I am soo high right now I wanna make out with you.. Recently she confessed that she made out with her girlfriend when dru... (74 words)

Do you think she'll change her mind the more time we spend together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - After my ex girlfriend broke up with me about 5 or 6 months ago we still continued to talk every once in a while; catching up from time to time, talking on the phone, texting etc. We dated for about a year and are both at different colleges and see each other about once every ... (530 words)

The engagement, the abuse and the good times... how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Let's just say I met this guy when I was 16 (I am almost 19 now) and he was 18 (now he is 21), we had a really great relationship he was my first serious boyfriend and I lost my virginity to him. After a year he started lying to me and cheating on me( I had evidence he kept ... (336 words)

Should I tell him that what he said upset me or should I just carry on like normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Earlier on today me and my boyfriend were speaking on msn when I went to get dinner and he usually puts "I love you, so, so much :D xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx" but instead he just put "kk, talk ltr xxxx" - I know I might be overreacting but I was shocked, so I just signed off. I ... (156 words)

Follow up: 16 year old male dating a 20 year old female (with a baby boy)...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Mod note: This is a follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-16-dating-a-20-year-old-with.html Hi, I previously wrote about me dating a 20 year old with a baby boy but I forgot one very important detail - she's married and he knows but he doesn't know what I look lik... (162 words)

How can I get my girlfriend back? What is the best thing to do from here on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - i have been dating a girl for 8 months when last night she told me she wanted to break up. The reason she gave was that she had a lot of things going on in her head and she couldn't sort everything out whilst being in a relationship. she said it would be unfair on me. I abso... (185 words)

Why yes one minute and no the next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - ok so basically i no this guy hes rlly sweet 2 me he has told me he luvs me and that im gorgeous and sexy. i luv this guy 2 bits but wen i ask him if he would like 2 go out 1 minute he wil say yea i would love to date a girl like you and the next minute he says no cuz he doesnt ... (118 words)

How do I find the strength to leave this monster of a husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been married for 8 years and my marriage is going down the drain I kick my husband out 2 days ago but i don't think I'm strong enough to let go. Will he's a drunk we wen to a party and he got so wasted he dragged me around all night I didn't know anyone at this party he w... (141 words)

I think I am a lesbian! Am I in love or in lust, with my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hello im a 17year old girl and i have a serious problem... i love my best friend who happens to be a girl. we kiss when we are drunk and recently we had sex (however girls have it) and ever since i find it impossible to forget about her. i find myself getting lost in the memo... (137 words)

How long do you wait to tell your bf and parents that you're pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Curious.. If the Dr. gives you the Big surprise that you're pregnant..how long do you wait to tell your boyfriend? Is there a right time? I don't want to freak him out until I'm 100% sure..? And the parents? ... (45 words)

I took the morning after pill in Feb, but am I now pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i was wondering, i took the morning after pill one hour after i had unprotected sex.it was on february the 24th, 2009. then i felt terribly sick and then in a few days had some spotting. i then saw my period on march the 20th, 2009. i had not had sex since then(feb 24th that ... (124 words)

Drama over a kiss!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm going to try to make this short but I can't promise anything. Basically my gf and I split for s weekend, and over that weekend my exbff kissed her. Then the exbff made my gf swear not to tell me until the summer because she didn't want "problems". Some bff right? Well ... (241 words)

How can I include my boyfriend more in my pregnancy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - im 16 and im pregnant and everyone has been making a big fuss of me including my bf's mum and grandparents. How can i include my lovely boyfriend more in the pregnancy? i think he is feeling a bit pushed out.I was thinking maybe letting him pick our child's name? does this soun... (57 words)

Hurt and confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone, thanks for taking the time to read! I've been friends with this girl for about a year and lately I've been wanting to get into a proper relationship with her, and thinking maybe she wanted it too. We've been seeing a lot of each other recently, in a friendly wa... (393 words)

Love hurts! But, shall I call her, or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

- Well Well i don't know what to say, i dont know what to do with this girl i am going out with for last 14 months ..I LOVE HER a lot but she is very hard person to be with, She swear a lot when gets angry, and always think she is rite ..At first i use to ignore with whatever ... (288 words)

Advice needed: Guys what would your reaction be and just what am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - something happened 3 weeks ago that i still need to like figure out , me and my boyfriend went over to a friend's house while his parents were away , there was the 3 of us and the friend's gf , anyways we got drunk and were having fun , he was showing me , his gf around and ... (244 words)

Anxieties after a breakup.Help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Please someone help, I can't stop crying as I write this. I've posted a few times but find it helps. I broke up with my boy friend of five years five months ago. I was totally fine and had never felt so together with myself. I liked my guy friend but he let me down. I dated ... (136 words)

As Meatloaf said "It just won't quit"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - After a long split with my girlfriend of two years, she started seeing someone else and I found out. Since that time I tried to be as normal as possible, saying to myself I'm better than this. Since the split there have been many hot and cold times, and I feel like neither of u... (452 words)

No one seems to think what I have to say is important!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - When ever i have something to say or a story to tell i get people speaking over me. It has happened for a long time now my friends and family both do it. Ill be saying something and then the people i am speaking to will just start talking about somehing else between themselves ... (197 words)

My sister asked me about masturbation. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My sister asked me "What is masterbate?" She's 11 and I was shocked at the time to I just told her "You'll find out when your older." because I couldn't think if I should tell her or not. So, what should I do, should I tell her what it is if she asks me again or should I tell... (106 words)

Missed period and negative test, but still worried. Advice please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - ok this is a birth control question,my doctor put me on the pill, loestrin 24fe and i started my second pack on the 29th when i was supposed to but i never got my period at all and i have never missed one before , my doc said not to worry and i have taken 3 tests and they were ... (92 words)

In love and scared to death...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm totally in love with this guy at work. He is 34 and I am 42. This doesn't seem to bother him....he started flirting with me in a very gentle shy way...calling for no reason....wished me a Happy St. Pat's day (I'm Irish and he's Latino) ---showing me he is interest... (536 words)

Follow up: How do I get over my bf (who made me feel like crap)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-bf-is-making-me-feel-like-crap.html Thank you, all, for the responses. I have just been so confused because as one of you mentioned - yes, he does flatter me a LOT. But when it comes to the actual act of sex, he immediately shoo... (411 words)

She left me for someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi so here is the situation: Me and my girlfriend were together for about a year but before we were good friends for about 5 years. It was highly passionate, and everything seemed perfect. We were both dutch, devout Christians, both had loving families and everything you c... (564 words)

What is your opinions on his actions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Right. So before I start I don't want to be lectured for the subject of the question. I know that having a relationship with a teacher is wrong, I just want your opinions on his actions, so if you could leave it to that it would be great thanks. My teacher is a really nice guy... (410 words)

Is meeting b/f's relatives a good sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone so recently my boyfriend came back from school and we spent a lot of time together. On Sunday it was our last day together before he had to go back to school he invited me to go to the city with him and meet his relatives. We've only been going out for 4 months t... (78 words)

I'm a virgin ... mind is willing but flesh isn't :-(

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - i am a virgin.., and my girlfriend wants to have sex..., and so do i, i love her a lot.., and i don't have a problem with it...but every time that i am about to put it in... i just loose my erection.. its there another time i need it but, idk i just cant....idk if its ... (89 words)

My boyfriend wants to keep our relationship a secret whereas I want to tell the world!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - my boyfriend is 17 and i am 15 he said for me not to tell anyone about us going out because he thinks people will call him a perv for going out with me. i'v talked to him about it but he just doesn't want anyone to know and keeps changing his story about why he doesn't want to ... (195 words)

Does he like me, or was it just the alcohol?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (?) age 16-17 - first off I'm 15 and I have a crush on my next door neighbor he's 18 . Him and my 25 y/o cousin were drinking on Saturday night. Then came inside to watch a movie and i sat in a chair next to a table where his ipod happen to be at . so my neighbor came to get it and wrote a cu... (110 words)

Have I missed my chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Well i'm 13 and over msn i have a best friend who has just currently turned 17, ive met him a few times and goes to my school. we were really close, and he liked me and i liked him but i didn't realize that he liked me so i didnt say anything. we always used to text each othe... (174 words)

Could my tounge rip?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am a lesbian, and last night i was having oral sex with my girlfriend. I do have a short tongue. :/ But i think i might've ripped my frenulum of the tongue. [[which is the line/skin that's under tongue that holds it]] Its really sore, and it hurts. I looked in the mirror, ... (112 words)

What should I do? Who shall I choose between these two boys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi =) okay so I've been really good friends with this boy for round about 4(ish) months but I think he's starting to like me. He usually says stuff about how he thinks I'm really funny and cool ect. Last night we were both on web cam on msn doing silly stuff, e.g using pens a... (160 words)

Does this mean he is really in to me in a big way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone. Just really wanting some second opinions. I've been wit a new guy now for a few weeks and everything is going good, really good in fact, but this last week he's been acting differently. Good differently, and I just wanted to say some of the things he's been ... (122 words)

I am just being cautious

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just ended a relationship 2 months ago of a man whom I truly loved but who was not honest about who he was - in fact he was all likes. It was truly devastating to me. Since then I have met someone else (actually I went to school with 10 years ago and just moved to my stat... (231 words)

My husband seems 'unplugged' from our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for nearly 25 years. I have found over the years that he tends to want to live 'in his own world' and becomes very unplugged within our relationship. I have found that the way to get him 'plugged back in' is extremely difficult, it usua... (347 words)

I can't stop thinking about either of these men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't know what to do, sorry if i ramble a bit i think all this detail is important i am single and have really only had two significant boyfriends and i can't seem to move on and be happy. i met Boyfriend 1 in 1995 and went out with him for about 6 years. he was lovely, k... (566 words)

What should I do to lose weight and look good this summer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey,I'm 14,probably over 10 stone,5ft5! i have huuge legs! im really conscious about my thunder thighs and they wont go away! i exercise.eat healthy,drink water,i hardly ever have sugar or fattening things.im overweight and i don't understand why!im at raking point and thinking ... (78 words)

We lived together for 1 year and now I'm moving back home and I don't want to lose him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - This is so typical, so why am i so scared. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 1 year and 8 months. he is 23, and i am 20. we are in love and care about each other so much. when we first met i lived at home with my parents and was taking college courses whil... (449 words)

What are good exercises to get my flat belly back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm 18 and I've always been pretty thin, and able to eat what I like, without watching my diet. But recently since leaving school, I feel like I've put on a little weight and am developing a belly.. I'm trying to diet by giving up the things I eat most like skittles s... (85 words)

His hand curled into a fist..is this a sign that he may be abusive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 34 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend has been pretty good overall I guess. He asked me to be his gf on the second date, but I waited until 2 mos later to say yes.Before I said yes he would alway ask if I was talking to other dudes and he checked my phone once. But now he has been more jealous bec... (356 words)

It's Painful During Sex..Why? Please Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Im in a relationship with a 50 year old man. I am 22. My Parents do not approve of the relationship, but his family are lovely towards me. We have been together for 5 years now and lived together for 3 years. The first year we lived together we were very close and the sex was ... (288 words)

Caught my preteen sister masturbating with a sex toy.. should I inform my parents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Well.. recently, actually about 2 hours ago I walked in on my younger sister masturbating. And the thing that got me, it was with sex toy. She didn't see me at first, but then I yelled her name and she quickly covered up. She is only 12 years old, and I know masturbation is c... (150 words)

Follow up:Break up pain

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

- This is a follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-afraid-he-will-be-gone-by-the-time-i-get-home-today.html Your Open QuestionShow me another » Broke up with my partner not sure how to feel? I wrote in a couple of times last week about my boyfriend. He was living... (187 words)

I don't understand what I'm meant to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't understand what I'm meant to do. I was with my boyfriend 8 months and I was convinced I was in love with him. I split up with him because i couldn't handle how he treated me; he punched me, pressured me into sex, made me feel generally shit about myself and every... (114 words)

I was more independent when in a relationship than I feel now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Please someone help me shed some light on why I feel the way I do. I'm 21 and broke up with my bf of five and half years about five months ago. I felt we'd grown apart and also I liked another guy who is my best friend. He promised a lot, and let me down but we are still ... (138 words)

My b/f keeps lying to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - im so confused, me and my bf have been together 9months, through out our relationship iv caught him out many times lying, he lied about his job, he didn't tell me he had a daughter until after we slept together (he nos that i wud have never got involved with anyone with a chil... (253 words)

I don't think I love my husband anymore

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't think I love my husband anymore. My husband and I have been married for 5 years now, we have a 2 year old son. I was married at the age of 23. At the moment we have a lot going on, I've been telling him that I feel lost and that I don't feel we are trying hard enough ... (804 words)

Tests showed positive, but I do not feel pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Yesterday i took two pregnancy test's and they both came out positive. I haven't come on my period since the middle to the end off February. I have poly cystic ovaries but for the last few months i have been coming on roughly at the same time and i have been having proper pe... (204 words)

How do I make her mine and win her heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi!! I need help on a difficult situation i find myself in once again. It all started when a female friend of mine hooked me up with her best friend. I was instantly attracted to her the very moment i was introduced to her, she was atracted to me too so her friend says. The pr... (181 words)

How do I become good friends like before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - too early and she didn't see me that way. I must note that i was kind of being pressured into it which is another thing but i have never told her this. From then to few months = akwardness, couldn't even look at her or talk to her but during christmas hols we slowly started t... (526 words)

Can I ever have a real relationship without sex? How?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Am in my twenties and i ve never had a fulfilled relationship because i decided to wait till marriage b4 havin sex.the last guy was really my first love and made me feel cherished and wanted but i found out recently he was pretending,hoping that i ll change my mind and have ... (74 words)

He says one thing one day, something totally different the next! CONFUSED!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 22 and I've been hanging out with a 34 year-old guy recently. He is nice to me, always talks to me online, and we hang out a couple times every week.(I posted a similar question yesterday but this one is different) He tried to kiss me last week but I told him that I won't ... (299 words)

We were drunk, skinny dipping and my lady grabbed my friend's package!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, Ive been seeing my girl for about 1 year and a bit and generally things are sweet and our relationship is mostly healthy on all levels. A small issue for me is her flirting when we go out drinking. Typically it doesnt bother me as im quite the same, but she is younger ... (593 words)

Do women like to view porn?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - it is an old new quistion, please girls answer me i need more answers please GENERALY does women love to view porn?? because most of the girls that i know deny, while i am sure they do... (41 words)

How do I know that this is real love and not lust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am married and have a son, he is 6. My husband is probably "the perfect husband " I have completely fallen in love with someone else. I don't actually know what to do, i cant bear the thought of taking my sons father away from him. How do i get over this other man that... (92 words)

I don't know how I will move on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know how I will move on. Its quite long now, 2 months, since my married man left me. He left me as our relationship went to his wife, however from the time he left we do not stop keeping each other until one day his wife came to know our hidden calls, emails and SMS. ... (162 words)

Should I confront him or just leave it and hope it all works out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - ive been going out with my bf for about 7 months now and i thought things were going really well. Ive met his family, hes met mine and we all get on really well etc. The only thing is we haven't had sex yet. we tried once but i was nervous as it was my first time and after fumb... (329 words)

How can u tell if a man still loves you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Id like to ask all the men out there a question. I'm a woman confused about men, so who better to ask :) right! The question is, how can u tell if a man still loves you? My ex broke my heart, i let him go because that is what he wanted and that's what you do when you love... (88 words)

My partner is tight with his money, even for our own daughter! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - hi. me and my partner are living apart we have a daughter he has always been tight with his money. we split up for a while because he was controlling and seems to have very little interest in our daughter he will spend time with her but it usually is when shes at her grans wh... (365 words)

Should I give her a second chance or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I have been going out with this girl for about 6yrs. About three years ago, I had to move to another country having got a good job. We have remained in touch almost every single day. We have met a couple of times but had intended to possibly settle down later this year. She... (370 words)

Why does he do these things to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - ok, i have been together with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, and i am only 18 we have a WONDERFUL relationship for the most part, when we're together were so happy and are inseparable, until he's with his friends. ill call him and he'll be extremely rude and hangup on m... (236 words)

How do I set up another date with a girl I barely know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - First, let me explain the situation. A little over a month ago I was introduced to a girl by a friend of mine at a monthly street festival. 4 of us spent the evening together and had an overall great time. As the night progressed this girl became more and more attractive to m... (312 words)

Is this good or bad? I'm not quite sure.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi a randomly odd question but i just want to know. i was hanging out with my friends and my friends brother just turned to me and said "i can't read you at times" not in a nasty way just stating that i am a difficult person to read. Is this a bad thing? i not... (141 words)

What is OK after 9 dates?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - its ok to let a guy grab my boobs, after 9 dates? i dont want him to think im a slut... (21 words)

Do I wait and hope she comes back, if it's meant to be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Looking for some help. My friends wife (which became my best friend)and I fell in love. Her marriage is falling apart and she doesn't think it will last. Me and him are no longer friends because he is selfish, cronic liar, etc... Anyway, we have been seeing each other romantic... (191 words)

I'm best friends with my ex's family. This is making it hard for me :-(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i need help with the ex factor. My ex and i split a year ago. We were together for 6yrs and we had a butiful son together. The break up tore me to pieces bcoz i love this man dearly but it wasn't working as he seemed to want something else so i let him go. It was the ... (261 words)

Just curious about pet names :-)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - This isn't serious. Its a serious question but like, not something I'm worried about. Just something I'm curious about. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. We got together the same day we met and since day one, he calls me Beautiful or Gorgeous. I love it when ... (128 words)

I hate cheaters! But OMG, I could be one of them! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have always despised cheaters, I never could really understand how a person could stay in a relationship yet be with another. And then, I found myself in a situation where I could see myself cheating. I am not in an official relationship with this man, but we have been ... (240 words)

I am attracted to my b/f's stepdad. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi i need some advice. I'm a young girl and currently in a relationship with a boy my age and have been with him for 10 months. I really like him but recently I've been starting to get on really well with his step dad who is much older than me but i find him really fun and sens... (166 words)

I have no idea why my husband doesn't want sex anymore

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - im 20, my husbands 25. we have been married for a year and have a 9 months year old son. he seems like he has lost interest in having sex with me. sex never use to be a problem, and all of a sudden he makes up excuses..its driving me insane. i have no idea why he doesn't want... (68 words)

I want to be able to tell my teacher that I love him again, but I can't,

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (?) age 26-29 - My teacher and i have become insanely close, it's even gotten to the point where we are saying i love you. over my whole spring break we spent every day together. every time he would drop me off at my house i would kiss him on the cheek, hug him, and tell him that i loved him.... (543 words)

How do I deal wit his careless & selfish actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for 7yrs off and on, I've been thru hell and hot water with him. He has just recently found out that he has a baby by a 3 month fling!!! I love this man with all my heart. I'm Extremely hurt by his careless and selfish actions but if I want 2 be... (75 words)

What should I do? I like my [married] boss

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i like my boss a lot and i think she likes me. i have a fear that if i make a pass at her, i may have been wrong that she likes me and from then on my days here are numbered. she is married though but i know for a fact that they hate each other and she wants out but does... (156 words)

13 yo and in love with my chat friend in the US - and he is 7 years older!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - ok so basically i go in2 a chat room but simply to talk to my cousin who lives in US. i have recently met a guy in there with is 7yrs older than me. he is sweet and caring and i feel like i can talk 2 him bout everything. i have fallen in love with him and he has told me he has ... (122 words)

LDR advice needed!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a two part question. I've been seeing a guy who lives two hours away. We've exchanged great conversation, text messages, and emails during the time I'm not there visiting. It wasn't until this week I noticed him leaving out "sweetie" and "babe" in his text mess... (122 words)

Men and Mood Swings

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I live with my boyfriend and boy does he have bad mood swings. He's always snapping and the relationship has to follow his flow. If he wants to be alone, then ill have to go sit in the bedroom so he can have the living room to himself. And he wont talk to me or even look at m... (133 words)

Scared and Numb

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I am 23 and have been married for 2 years and have a beautiful baby boy who is 18 months old. My situation in indeed tough and stressful. I am married to a woman who is from South America and I live here her and my son live down there. For the 2 years we... (259 words)

Are we headed downhill to destruction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I live with my boyfriend and we both have each others passwords for everything including Faceook and email. We both look through each others phones too. I looked through his face book inbox and i found that there was innocent messages like, "Hi sweetie thanks for the add" and ... (171 words)

Selfish one night stand. Could I get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok the other night I decided to go to out with my sister and ended up finding a cute guy.So anyways took him back home was drunk and horny and slept with him using no protection and I am not on any type of bc,I told him that. He never came in me at all I know that for sure... (112 words)

My b/f loves tap dancing, and I love a Man's man. What do I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been dating my boyfriend for four years. We are both in our early thirties and hope to have a long future together. My problem is this, though I love my boyfriend very much, I am having issues with his masculinity. I am very attracted to a Mans man, garage l... (324 words)

Why can't boys ever be nice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Why can't boys ever be nice? Well some are but most of the guys in our world our JERKS! So here's the story........there is this boy in my fade that I really like and somehow he had found out! I'm guessing one of my friends asked him out for me behind my back or something, but ... (237 words)

Does he still like me or do I just want him to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know if all is lost in this situation or not. I met a "boy" and we became friends. I was pretty sure he liked me as more than a friend(due to flirtatious behavior and such) so I brought up the inevitable, "are you interested in me?" conversation. He said he was ... (528 words)

I want it but I don't really...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay so I am a healthy adult (19) who wants sex... I'm still a virgin and yes I want to wait for a guy I love and trust with my special gift. I always thought I would wait for marriage but lately I've sorta changed my mind. Again as long as I am in a healthy long-term ... (153 words)

What should I do? I realized my fling is my true love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 217 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I have been with this guy for about 1.5 year, and I thought he was my soulmate, everything I ever wanted. Then, 5 months ago I got very close with one of my male friends.. and with time we even had a thing going on (me and my boyfriend were on-off), and thi... (358 words)

How can I improve our marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and my husband have not been married for not quite a year but since we have been married it seems we arn't as close as we use to be it feels like im just abit on the side when he wants sex he gets it but we don't have much family time together or even just time to talk abo... (196 words)

I don't think he wants me to meet his family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been dating my guy for about a year and we have had are ups and downs, but now it seems that he want's to keep info. from me. He is going home for christmas this year and he already asked for the time off now that's fine but the thing that gets me is that he never... (171 words)

My man doesn't want to hang out with me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 218 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - im going through alot of stress. I got angry over something really dumb and told my man "i do so much for u and u cant be here for me when i need u!?" he got mad and felt i was throwing what i do for him in his face. I apologized and he said it was okay. He still talks to me ... (78 words)

What can I do different to make my husband say wow!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am blank in my marriage it is like i am doing but it is not enough or good enough what can i do to spice up my marriage not only sex wise. And what can i do different to make my husband say wow.''''' what else can i do to make him smile. the only thing he is holding ... (77 words)

Why is he asking how many boys have I've slept with??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey ive been kinda of seeing this boy..i met him a few weeks ago but we get on so well. Anyway was with him tonight just chilling and he started asking questions about my past and how many boys ive slept with etc and was wondering why it concerns him. I have only slept with 1 ... (89 words)

Shy guy. Should I ask him or should I just let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My classmate who works a club got us in. At school he seems to be shy and keeps to himself, but at work he seem to be more relaxed. He had been complimenting me all night and told my friend that he was a shy guy. Then next thing I know we are making out, and that was it. My ... (261 words)

HELP! Such a confusing situation!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - gawd, i went down the country with my girlfriends and i happened to meet this wonderful guy!together the whole night,(didnt sleep with one another, he tried ofcourse typical man! but im not like that!) any way, he found my number on face book (he added me) and we started t... (209 words)

My partner is verbally abussive and unsupportive but I love him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My BF and I have been together for just over 5 years. In that time we have had a lot of ups and downs, partly due to him still sorting out the legal side of his divorce with his ex wife and worrying about what he would lose in the divorce. During our time together he... (329 words)

She goes with guys for attention...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hey all i'm wondering what i should do...i'm in love with this girl...but she went with another guy and did some sex related stuff. I can't stop thinking about her, not sure if its anger, heart break or something else. I've tried talking to her about it...but she does not want ... (118 words)

I love her...Her family hates me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I love this woman im am in a relationship with, we have been together for 6 months now and well heres the story behind it all so that you guys can help me..... We fell in love last november and her family doesnt like me at all because im not a quite guy, meaning i dont take ... (281 words)

Am I going crazy or is he giving me mixed signals?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay so when i went home for spring break I was introduced to this cute guy that I really like. I asked him out later that week and we have been going on dates every weekend I come home. I realise we have just started dating and I shouldn't be confused but let me explain... O... (217 words)

My ex cheated on me with two of my friends should I go back with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My problem is that if madly in love with my ex boyfriend. We seemed like the perfect couple we were always happy.. We were together for 3 years 8 months and after 2 years of dating i found out he was cheating on me with my bestfriend in the whole world ( those were my thoughts ... (187 words)

I'm in love with my 2nd cousin...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my 2nd cousin.i dont know what to do i dont see him much at all and i know he feels the same we both want to have sex is it wrong i am scared the family would findout... (40 words)

I'm 15...He's 26. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I need help very badly, so please stay with me. About more than a year ago i just turned 14 before i went away to israel for vacation. i met a guy who worked there who worked at the pool deck who was 11 years older than me. i did not know this though until later because ... (928 words)

I love my boyfriend, but I'm tired of his friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I apologize for the long winded question. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now, and our relationship is great, nearly perfect. We plan on moving in together soon. We rarely fight, and I am very much in love with him. When we do fight, it's usually the ... (447 words)

Caught him " looking for an intimate encounter"../

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend has been recently caught with a profile on adultfriendfinder.com. His profile listed he was looking for an intimate encounter. He described himself as easygoing , that location didnt matter, he would travel or move to be with the right person. His profile had no ... (272 words)

My partner refuses to see me after my daughter sent him an insulting email

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I posted here before and found it really helpful so I thought to post again with an issue I have that is causing me a lot of distress. I have been with my partner for 6 yrs but the last year was on/off - mostly due to him being bitter about his divorce from his ex and... (649 words)

I am so lost and scared to be hurt further...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help with a confusing relationship....? I have been dating this guy for the past year. We had the whole commitment talk like 3 months in. At about 6 months he became confused and we took like a week off, still talking the whole time. He ended up telling me he wanted t... (793 words)

Cant I do something where I will start thinking normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Its getting ridiculous.Im tired of looking at every girl and just seeing there brests and curves.I try not to even look at girls any more but its always a struggle.Im sick and tired of even going around girls any more.I can't even carry on a conversation with a good looking ... (118 words)

Possible to forgive AND forget?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Do you think people can forgive and forget. Do you think a relationship can continue and grow after someone has betrayed you... My boyfriend was the definition of a loyal, kind, caring man that would do anything for someone in need. He had kind and loving parents who I re... (955 words)

Too much masturbation a problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - i masterbate like twice a day and im wondering, is there any side effects for doing it too much?... (19 words)

I'm unsure of his feelings towards me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 22 and I've had 2-3 bfs since I was 18. Now there is a new guy I like and I am confused. He was my instructor for a class last year but we rarely talked to each other. This semester he saw me on campus, we talked a little bit, and he asked for my phone number. I am sure he ... (493 words)

In love with my female teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I think I might be in love with my female teacher. It's not that I want to date her or anything it's kinda like a mother/daughter thing. I don't know how it started but I've been reading her husband's blog and I know a lot about her. There's just something about her. Her ... (125 words)

He is rude towards me after we broke up

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

- Hoping someone can help. My ex broke up with me before Christmas. I was hurt but since he asked for no contact, I complied. I saw him tonight when we happened to be at a table of mutual friends in the restaurant. I ignored him, just acted like he did not exist. I noted th... (176 words)

I don't want to go on this huge family vacation

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband mentioned that next year his entire family (i.e. parents, siblings, brother in law, kids) might be going on vacation together. I really do not want to go on a family vacation with all of them because it's not exactly my idea of a "vacation", especially since I don't ... (96 words)

She rebounded with a married man! Any hope?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - The short story: We've been friends since she was a young kid (she was 11 when we met up online, younger sister of one of my other friends) and I've always been a role model/big brother/etc. whatever to her. someone to look up to. We share some challenges in common and I was ... (732 words)

Do guys really care about breast size?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - How much does breast size matter to guys? I've always wondered this - I'm Asian (maybe that has something to do with it?), 5'3", and barely 90 pounds (fluctuates from 88-90 pounds)...so I pretty much haven't grown in any way, shape, or form since like 6th grade...lately I... (216 words)

I didn't want to reciprocate as I'm not ready and he thinks I'm selfish

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

7 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - ok i've been talking to this dude for a week and he wants to have sex with me but im not ready, he performed oral sex to me but i didnt return it to him, he said that im selfish and i was so wrong for not doing him, was i?????... (51 words)

Should I let him back into my life?

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7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ummm....hey all cupiders! Instead of givin u the whole boring run down here's how it is....okay I had a friend some of u know him cause of what I've told u....but first of all he was my best friend, then I fell in love with him yadda yadda, then he told me he felt the same way ... (103 words)

His dad won't let us date

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7 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Earlier this year i asked this guy out. He said yes and we dated for a total of two days. Early in the morning on day three he texted me saying that we can't go out anymore because his dad won't let him. He said we could still be friends but I like him so much more than ... (80 words)

We don't have a thousand years...How would this gesture be preceived?

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7 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - If i put a box of chocolates on her desk, saying " We dont have a thousand years, we don't have a hundred years, its time to be friends please." Do you think after a break up that was over 15 months ago where i found she was seeing someone else and i walked away. During thi... (178 words)

I cant stop feeling so enormously jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

7 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Well its like this.I've been with this new girlfriend for a few weeks and because she has been through hell in life and i mean really HELL,she also made some bad decisions boyfriend-wise.She isnt from my home town(she originaly stayed at the country side , now she is in my home ... (345 words)

Are there really guys that like petite girls?

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7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been wondering this for the longest time - are there really guys that like petite girls??? I'm Asian (maybe that has something to do with it?), 5'3, and barely 90 pounds. I've had boyfriends (so I guess people must find something attractive) but they've all expressed ... (95 words)

Is she sincere or just clearing her conscience?

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7 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey Guys, I met up with my ex after a painful break-up (on both sides). She cheated on me whilst overseas, and left me for that person. Anyway we had a nice night together catching up and sharing a laugh. At the end of the night she though she started into this big heart f... (124 words)

I feel like a single mother in a bad relationship.

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7 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't even know where to begin with this situation. I am 26 and have an 8 month old son with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. My son was not planned and took us both by complete surprise. My bf has another child from a previous relationship that he has absolutely nothing to do ... (311 words)

What can I do to get together with her...?

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7 April 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - I am in love with a girl, and she is in love with me, it's been this way for quite a while now, but her mom found a dirty conversation between us and hates my name, she has never met me before but I don't want to go into the relationhip with lies of who I am or what I did, ... (137 words)

I miss him when I don't get to talk to him, I really don't know what to do.

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7 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, About 1 year ago.. I met this guy on a game.. He is 1 year and 3 months older then me.. I had a bf at that time.. and some months later he got a gf. When I heard that he had gotten one at first I felt happy for him, but after a while I felt jealous (my first time ever)I ... (569 words)