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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My "friendly" hot water bottle!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I recently posted a question about wanting to masturbate but not having a sex toy. Well I found a solution in a massaging hot water bottle, I used the massaging part where you put the batteries, it looks and works like a vibrator. Well I used this on my clit and in my vagin... (77 words)

How do you give a lap dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you give a lap dance? What makes it feel really awesome and what is the best way to end it before the sex? Should the sex come after oral sex or no oral at all? and I need details please I have no clue what I'm doing?!?!... (49 words)

Does he still love his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - this is a long one.... okay! when i first meet my current boyfreind we were both dating other people. All 4 of us were mutual friends and hung out a few times. As time went on my relation ship with the old boyfriend ended and a few months later my current partners realtio... (373 words)

I saw my grandma in a dream...

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My grandma passed away last week (Tuesday) from cancer. I was somewhat prepared for this, but not really cuz she seemed alright even though she was very weak. Last night I had a dream that I was in Florida, which is where my grandma and auntie live, in their house that they ... (518 words)

Why does he not like giving me oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy I've been seeing is completely uninterested in giving me oral sex!! I give it to him every single time we're together but when I ask him if he'll reciprocate, he says he does a good enough job with his hand and no thanks. What is up with this? He says I don't sme... (136 words)

I am so very lonely and living in a dead town doesn't help with nobody to talk to...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very lonely, I have no friends, no boyfriend, there is nowhere to go in town, its living here. Nobody understands my loneliness and my sadness. I cry because I am so lonely and upset. There is nothing I can do about it. I go nowhere, I spend 365 days a year at home, I ... (200 words)

Do you think he'll come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have just broken up, he has been seeing another woman for a month, I found this out yesterday. We've been together for a year and a half and I feel as though my whole life has come tumbling down. I know who the woman is and it's someone he works with, she ... (200 words)

26 and never had a boyfriend, it's really getting me down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, my name is Jo and I need some help/advice, I am 26 and have never had a boyfriend (I am a virgin), the thing is I am never really attracted to anyone and the one time I was when we kissed it just I don't now, I ended up pulling away and apologising, I kind of feel like I ... (148 words)

My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me. I don't know why, I know he's not cheating because it's usually at his house with his grandma there and she would never allow that to go on. And when they do go out several of my friends (I don't put them up to it) ... (141 words)

My head says I cannot trust him... that's not a good basis for a marriage/family.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'd appreciate some advice on the head verses heart question. My ex and I had been together for 8 years. We broke up 12 months ago - we were living together, and he moved out. We had been having lots of silly arguments, he was always tired and never seemed to have ... (369 words)

Is it worth continuing with him, in the hope of things ever getting better? Do people change or at forty is he set in his ways?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years, he has cheated on me once in the past (during our first year together), as far as I know he has not since. In the three years we have been together, I have never met any of his family or close friends. I know he has m... (1231 words)

Hubby and I argue all the time, I'm at the end of my rope. Help!

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my hubby have been together for 11 years now and married for 5 years, we have 4 lovely chilren. We argue all the time about things that don't matter, so much now to breaking point, it's depressing me... when I try to tell him this he says it's my fault, I bring it on ... (190 words)

I want to give a "special treat" to my boyfriend.. Suggestions please??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is amazing and I was wanting to do something a little extra special, something to wow him, whether it's with my body or a good position that feels amazing to guys. I thought about starting with a massage but once it gets to the sex I'm out of ideas. Don't say roleplay or ... (102 words)

How can I get my husband to initiate sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I get my husband to initiate sex? What can I do so that he can't stop himself and come pouncing at me (hee hee) that's what I desire. Can anyone tell which points in men's body initiate that feeling or any food that increases sexual desire?... (48 words)

My ex said he loved me up until 3 months ago. Has he moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex boyfriend for 5 years after a 14 year marriage. We had a lot of outside pressure and split very often!! We have a 3 year old daughter together whom he doesn't see. I still love him but we have been seperated now about a year, he has been saying he loves me ... (70 words)

I thought I'd feel relieved that he's found someone else. Why do I find it so hard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm a thirty year old woman with a seven year old son. Me and his father split up because we were arguing all the time - he didn't want to end the relationship and was quite possessive but I couldn't handle it any more. I felt really bad about ending the relationship ... (127 words)

Mom's house has a picture of his other woman and lost daughter.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my man had a daughter with another woman and now they are divorced and the girl is in foster care. It's been 10 years the little girl was being abused but not by her mom. Her mom gave her up for drugs, the woman that was abusing her was her step mom, the father didn't want to ... (222 words)

Its always me contacting him to meet up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid i have been seeing a guy for about a month, i like him and we get along well. it started out as a one night stand but we got along great the next day and decided to meet again. the problem is that its always me that contacts him to meet up. i dont know is this bec... (84 words)

She broke up with me because of something my mom said!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my girl friend just broke up wit me cus my mom said somthing to her but i love her she is my world nd now i just wnt to die cause i cnt haver her i hate my life now wat should i do ... (46 words)

Hysterectomy..will my sex life be the same?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 1947 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age - Can someone please tell me if having a Hysterectomy will change my sex life. My husband and I have a wonderful, active sex life. I have been told by my doctor that I need to have a Hystrectomy due to enlarged Fibriods. This will be a partial Hysterectomy. My doctor will ... (101 words)

Am I wrong for wanting to spend time with my g/f without my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I’m happily married for 27 years with 2 grown up children. My husband and I spent lot of time together, and we go on vacation at least once every year. About three years ago, I went on a little vacation with my girl friend and stayed at my girl friend’s friend place. I became a ... (489 words)

How do I know if its true love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - WHat do i do my Boyfriend always tells me how much he loves me and people always says he means it but how exactelly do i know its TRUE love i mean he does spent alot of time with me and is really protective and treats me like his girlfriend but i dont now how he really feels ... (71 words)

How do I prove that I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay Now me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and i told him i love him but he wants me to prove it to him how do i do that??? i mean i do love him cuz i broke up with my Exboyfriend and went out with him but HOW do i prove that i love him ... (60 words)

Ladies: Turn ons & turn offs

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

17 April 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Ladies let's help our DC brothers out! We sometimes have sincere and genuine questions about what women think. Post here your number one turn-on and number one turn-off you have about a man. If yours is already mentioned, go to your next one. Thanks a lot for participating! ... (72 words)

Is he trying to give me hints? Or just being friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy, that I have known for approximately 4 months now. He is a year older than me and is in the same undergraduate program as I am. I met him in an extracurricular club Im a member of and we started out just as friends. He was always really nice and welcoming ... (212 words)

Pregnant by my cousin!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - oh God we and my cousin are in love with each other and have been for about a year we started having sex 3 months back he is older than me he is so nice he takes care of me protects me we love each other so much but i just found out i am pregnant i don't know... (82 words)

We didn't break up because we didn't love each other, I want to get her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

17 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - just over a month ago my girlfriend of 15 months almost completely out of the blue dumped me. often she'd say how she wanted to be with me forever and never wanted me to leave her which i happily said i wouldn't. then she took part in our uni play and went on a few nights out... (218 words)

Think I'm pregnant..he has comittment issues..what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now. We never use protection when we have sex. now i think im pregnant. i am afraid to tell him because he has comittment issues. i don't want him to think im trapping him. what should i do?... (54 words)

14, pregnant and he may be moving to Spain!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello anyone there i need help i have broken up we my bf about 3 weeks ago now heis thinking of moving to spain to be with his cousins we were together for 2 years we have only ever had sex 3 times this last week i missed my period so i waited a bit to see if it would c... (140 words)

Married man..do I hang around to see if he'll leave his wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age - I have been dating this married man for over a year, He and his wife have been seperated but living under the same roof because of their young children. Sam wants to move in together and start a life together. I see him every day of the week. My question is I know he loves me ... (187 words)

Should I ask the 12th grader out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm in high school i'm 17 years old . i like this guy at my school who is in 12 grade i'm in 11 grade do you think i should as him out ? and i have been with a guy or two and everyone is mad that i keep talking to their man but if i don't talk to them they are mad what ... (84 words)

How can I have more luck with meeting women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. Having asked a question recently, it's comforting to know that people feel the same as I do, in that there are others out there who simply hate single life. That's left me to ask, what might people like us be doing wrong? I wish I knew what, if anything, I'm doing wrong ... (241 words)

I just want to feel beautiful and I don't!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Please don't call me shallow or vain. I feel very ugly and unattractive. The problem is I was never told I was beautiful, I was even teased because I was ugly! One guy eve told me to get plastic surgery once! This was back when I was in school. I was never asked on dates. I was ... (723 words)

I'm in an abusive relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a abusive relationship. My boyfriend is a possesive and jelous maniac. He does not let me go out with my friends, he doesnt let me talk to any male friends, he does not let me work in places that any guy will be, he doesnt let me wear alot of makeup, he doesnt let me ... (581 words)

Giving good head..suggestions please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to know how to give good head... and since this is a place where lots of people share their advice and expierience i would like to know what certain actions make this the most memorable expierience? ... (39 words)

How can I help my negative partner....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a relationship with someone for two years and am seriously wondering how much longer I can continue or even if I should. The issue here is that my partner is VERY negative and judgmental of most things from sun-up to sun-down. If she is in the car she has problems... (346 words)

Am I a trophy to my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well you know there are times when you want your boyfriend to like you for what you are and not for who you are.. the same with me I am 20 and my boyfriend is 21 and we were really attracted to each other from day 1 and we still are.. so basically it was the physical attracti... (198 words)

Has something similar to this ever happened to anyone you know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just moved house a few days ago to a town twenty odd miles away from my boyfriend and I hadn't yet told him where I'm living, as we had a physical fight a couple of weeks ago and I'm thinking of leaving him. Anyway, last night he rang me and was perfectly friendly, then ... (452 words)

I have my whole life ahead of me but don't know if I could kill my child... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. My name is Anna and I am 17 years of age. I have just found out that I am pregnant after being fourced to sleep with my boyfriend. I have not told anyone as I know they will be judgemental. I am only 17 and have got my whole life ahead of me but don't know if I could ... (73 words)

Why am I only now getting mad at my jailbird husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband has been in jail for almost a year. I love him and I know he's my soul mate but I'm starting to get confused. I haven't cheated nor thought about it. I'm starting to get mad towards him. Why? What to do?... (44 words)

Emotionally immature and sexually confused!

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It’s been a couple of years, but the same issues are popping up again. I guess I would just like to know if anyone else is a emotionally immature/sexually confused 23 year old? The last girl I dated I broke up because she wanted more than ‘friends with benefits’ the la... (388 words)

Do I continue speaking with this guy and risk jeapordising my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I'm a married woman, I love my husband so much and I don't wanna lose him, but I think I'm in love with someone else, I met this boy on facebook and we talk so much to each other, but I never met him in person, only speak on the phone and I'm going crazy over him, but don't ... (79 words)

How do I make him come running back to me?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically a guy I've been sort of seeing in an offical way, we never see each other enough though we just speak online and texting. I sent him a text telling him we either start something or leave it and he didn't reply. So he obviously isn't that into me. But normally w... (200 words)

My scars look really ugly and I'm dreading the summer.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really just wanted a male perspective on scars, but girlies if you have any words of wisdom that would be fab too. I have an ongoing knee instability that has required quite a bit of surgery and has left me with lots of long ugly scars, I really hate them, I used to be really ... (126 words)

He keeps calling me his ex wife's name by mistake... and it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and have been dating for 11 months now. He has been sweet and all those things good and bad, yet it's all good. A few times he has called me by his ex-wife's name. He done it once or twice... The problem came in when this afternoon we were playing around like we ... (148 words)

My partner's children say they never want to meet me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - 6 years ago I met my partner in work and he was married for over 15 years with 2 children. Wrong I know! We fell in love and 5 months later he left his family and moved in with me. 5 months later he went back, but left again after 2 weeks. She divorced him after 3 years ... (303 words)

I want to ask him out but afraid he'd say no. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i think this lad may like me, we have known each other for about 2 years, he was always trying to sit next to me, hes always smirking at me, i get some dirty texts but he says its his mates, we can stay on the phone for 3 hours when i go to bed talking about random stuff, ... (138 words)

How do we know I'm pregnant? My periods have been irregular due to previous implant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i just wondered if anybody can help me, ive been on the implant -implanon- for nearly 2 years, but recently had it taken out. Ive not had a period the whole time i was on the implant and i haven't had one since ive had it taken out, but me and my partner have been tryi... (158 words)

My marriage is in trouble. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with the same woman for over three years. We have a little girl and we have been married for over a year. I'm sick of it. She has literally sucked the life right of me. It has been over a year since I have played golf, been fishing, or been hunting. Those used to b... (147 words)

Had my period...can I still be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with a guy. We used protection, im not on the pill but i think i might be pregnant. We had sex about 2 years ago and i fell pregnant then. That was protected too but still. I had what i thought was my period last week but it was lighter than usual and i feel like i co... (83 words)

I fell for my best friend, but how do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I fell for this girl and she is my best, most-trusted friend and i want to tell her but don't want to ruin the friendship. it gets more complicated because we are going to be joining the army together and she'll be in the same unit as me. my other friends think she feels the ... (67 words)

I think my partner's parents have some peculiar habits. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner has divulged that his mother sat topless at the dinner table once in front of him and his brothers (he was about 12 or 13 and is the eldest). Apparently she said she had wanted to see their reaction but her husband told her not to be so stupid and to cover up. I f... (147 words)

We make out then he ignores me afterwards...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The other night me and my boyfriend got pretty intimate, not sex or anything, but we came close. The thing is, he hasn't contacted me or answered my calls since. I think he's avoiding me and I'm upset because that's the most I've ever done with a guy. I don't know what to do. ... (57 words)

My husband likes to watch me sleeping. Is this odd?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok its a little weird but i have been married 7 and 1/2 years and ever since i got married when i go to bed at night after i am asleep my husband will mess with me in my sleep and i will wake up and not say anything but just pretend like i am still asleep and move around ... (209 words)

Did I offend him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really really like this boy, and have done for years. He recently confessed he liked me too. We aren't going out with each other just yet but he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him, and i want to but i don't know if i should. I told him i didn't know if i should and ... (108 words)

Does he feel the same or is he just using me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a guy that i have know for years. We are not bf and gf but we have had sex on many occasions. He was my first (as in i lost my virginity to him) and he has been my first for many things. (First guy to cook me dinner, first guy i went to the cinema with, first ... (315 words)

Does she still likes me and ignores me just to try and make it easier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

17 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - A while back two of my good friends split up. He felt she was too close to me, and was jealous, and she couldn't stand it, which brought all kinds of things up between them. I tried to be there for them both, but he blamed me and wouldn't talk to me, and so I ended up just ... (381 words)

Should I believe him? He said he didn't post profile and messages on online dating sites.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey there i need advice as im soo confused me n my bf hav bin 2gtha a yr, i had my doubts about him cheating as hes told me a few lies in the past, so i decided to do some hunting. i went on to google n typed in the user name he uses the most, to my surprise it came up with ... (446 words)

Should I ask him to marry me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, I've been thinking about asking my bf of 5 months to marry me... I'm very confused, i am 24 and have been with my new (29 yr old) boyfriend for 5 months. We are very close and very much in love and moved in with each other very shortly after getting together, ... (286 words)

Should I let my feelings for her remain a secret, at least for now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have had a best friend for 10 years, and known his girlfriend for around 6 years. I have always been incredibly attracted to his girlfriend but have never done anything to make a move or compromise their relationship. For example, if I feel I am feeling too much towards... (599 words)

My boyfriend is confusing the hell out of me about sex and I don't know what to do...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I need some serious advice from the guys out there, how would you want your gf/wife to handle this situation with you?? My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now, and up until recently he's had a drinking problem and the only time we would have sex is when... (291 words)

Am I cold hearted?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

17 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm starting to think im cold hearted or something. Two people have died recently my form tutor that i had for 4 years and now my grandad. But yet.... tears do not flood my eyes, nor to strong emotions... Whats wrong with me? :(... (56 words)

My husband lies and gambles our money away. Where do we go from here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 22 and have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years.We have a 2 year old son and we live together,but my boyfriend has a gambling problem. He lies to me all the time and gambles behind my back,he also thinks that its alright and makes me feel bad for arguing with him when... (163 words)

Are orgasms really like many describe or is it exaggeration?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is about female orgasms. :p I've been masturbating since I was about 16, and it's always felt really good. But most women seen to describe it differently (on the net, in books/writing).. I simply don't feel the same way. They describe it as heavenly, like an expl... (126 words)

Out of my league....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone i like this girl but i think that she is out of my league. We hooked-up(kissed) at a party about 3 months ago and some of her friends gave her shit for doing it. We talk like once a week texting each other, but i need to know what to do.... how do i get a girl who... (65 words)

Rules seem to be different at my age and I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age - I am 53 years old, very active and vibrant 53 year old, have been divorced for 4 years, have not had a sexual relationship since then. I have met a very nice man and we have only had one date. We hit it off so great! and we did kiss passionately. I am going to his home ... (128 words)

How do I tell my mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 15, i leave school in 5 weeks, i do use tampons but i dont know how to tell my mum. helppp ?! what shall i say ? ... (29 words)

I think my sister is up to no good. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey a quick question im 19 and my sister is 23 and never had a proper boyfriend, she's had internet r/ships but in a yr n a half she only seen him twice.. me and her dont get on! we haven't spoke in 5yrs (even tho we share a house) she used to beat me up so we ignore each othe... (275 words)

Should I be a self sacrificing dumb a*s or a self preserving b***h?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have a problem. i have never been in a real relation ship, so i do not know how to handle this. There is a guy i have know since i was eight and he was twelve. i loved him from that moment on. im twenty now and he is mine and my brothers best friend. He is very swee... (255 words)

I think I'm pregnant yet we're not supposed to be around each other.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Now i'm 16 and his 20. I have no clue what to do i think i'm pregnant by him which cause a problem cuz we're not suppose to be around each other. that's my mother's doing.... (36 words)

Too perfect... what to do???

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello dear cupid, my problem may sound really weird but it matters to me a lot. My boyfriend is a very perfect guy, he knows everything, really calculative about everything. He is mature, understanding, loving and caring. We both love each other a lot. Can't imagine ou... (145 words)

Guys and scars

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm pointing this question mostly at the guys (and ladies, if u had something similar going on).. i've been through a surgery in the past year, which left about 2cm scars all over my chest and back - i had to remove about 30-40 tiny skin tumors. i did it because the tumo... (159 words)

Will he come back to me?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've made out with a guy who is 11 years older than me. He was my graduate student instructor last year but we started hanging out this year in March. in Fed, he met me again and talked to me and also asked for my #. One week later, he asked me if I wanted to grab coffee w... (1101 words)

His comment to the porn and DVDs I found: "My private life is my private life". Is there hope in this marriage?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 33, and my husband's 35. I was off work yesterday and cleaning the house to make it look nice, since we have guests coming over at the weekend. Our house looked sparkling, and still does now. I was shocked however to discover DVDs hidden behind the bookcase, in the ... (338 words)

I've suspected that I'm bi since I'm 14. Could I be bi?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, since i've been about 14 ive had my suspicions that i'm bisexual. because when i masturbate the thought of boobs really turn me on. but then when i sleep with my boy i really enjoy that as well. its strange. when i'm drunk i tease that i am a bi,and boys say that i... (129 words)

I can't make any sense of a relationship.

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17 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I took a job in Dubai. I met an Asian girl during my 1st month there. We had a date, but then lost contact, then bumped into each other again. I have a problem with girls, I often get like anxious. I talk to lots of girls and take lots of numbers, but then I would ki... (1579 words)

I want to love him but I'm scared!

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem but at the moment I don't know what to do. I'm a 21 year old female and I'm depressed, I was born with a rare craniofacial disease called cruzouns syndrome, I excel at most things in life work, friends etc, but when it comes to relationships I feel inadequate, ... (104 words)

Lost in space...

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17 April 2009 (M)

age - Background: Our relationship was born out of a triangle and sadly had a turbulent birth. There were months of tension and passion. She is a professional and this last year and a half I believe we have had it good. We don't live together, we are a weekend couple. However back ... (169 words)

He's losing interest in me because of my lies!

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm involved in a relationship where at first I used to tell lies but at the moment the guy is realizing that I'm full of lies and I was never honest with him at the beginning of the relationship. At the beginning I took it as a joke but now when he found out I lie to him he ... (119 words)

Why would he say he had Gulf War Syndrome if he'd never been in the military?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband came home from work yesterday and told me he has got Gulf War Syndrome. This doesn't make sense to me, as he's an office worker in a local distribution firm, and has never served in the military at all. Why would you say you had Gulf War Syndrome if you've never ... (163 words)

Can someone console me please? Why do guys not seem to fancy me?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl and so far I have never been in a relationship with a guy. My (girl) friends say that I'm pretty and sometimes I believe them, sometimes I disagree. No guys have said that to me though. It does hurt a little that guys don't seem to find me attracti... (148 words)

Is she just joking or are these strong hints from her?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Agh, im so confused. basically, me and my best friend, who are both bi, have had feelings for each other for god knows how long. however, she is not out, and we are scare it will effect our friendship so we have decided not to do anything about it. unfortunately, i still real... (238 words)

My boyfriend kissed two girls. Is he at fault?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right i have a question guys. If you have a boyfriend who likes to make friends with any one. Would you class this as he's fault. We been together over 2 and half years. And two times he has made friends with two different girls and they both kissed him. But he did pull away... (92 words)

Baby Mama is causing serious strain on us financially

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband had an affair, and as a result now has a nine month old son from it. We are still together. We have been giving her money ($200/month)from the start (not the full amount that the court will make us pay but what we can afford for now.) I recently found out that on ... (215 words)

Loveless...split family

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear readers, To cut a long story short, and without going into personal detail or circumstance. Is there anybody whom has lived apart from their partners for years on end and only get together may be 8 days a year... A phone call once a day to discuss the children. No att... (300 words)

Caught my daughter using a vibrator.

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17 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - im a dad and i cauht my dauther using a vibrater in her room shes 12 and what should i do... (21 words)

It's all so confusing for me

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17 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have posted on here before about a friendship I have had with this girl and we were friends for almost a year and had some good times together. She has had a permanent partner since I have known her but she has cheated on him more than once and our friendship has always been... (472 words)

Is that a sign of interest?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, im 20 years young and i've not had a boyfriend in a long time!!! i've like guys don't get me wrong but things never pan out and i don't deserve that to be honest i'm a nice enough girl but i always meet the wrong guys!! so anyways i been talking to this guy rece... (209 words)

Is this fixable? Should I give it another try? Should I let it go?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old with a 10 month old son. Abit of a long story//sorry! Please Help ME!! I met this guy who was 13 yrs older than me when I was 17 years old. He convinced me to go out with him, keeping it secret from both our families, until I was 20 and told him this... (1665 words)

How can you tell when a guy is interested in you?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How can you tell when a guy is interested in you? I know this all might sound high schoolish, but its always like we are doing that stare and then quickly stare away thing when the other catches you looking...then sometimes it seems like he's popping up everywhere but i... (319 words)

How can I reign in my emotions after being lied to?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted a question on here recently dealing with trust issues I have been having with my boyfriend of four years. I've gone back and forth thinking that it would be easier to just end it, but have decided to just give it time and try with all my might to forgive him... but I ... (241 words)

She says she loves me, but has no time for us?

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17 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been facing a peculiar problem. She is my office colleague. We started dating about 10 months back. However, during this period, we could not spend more than 20 hours so far. Every time I ask her out she seems to have an engagement. I told her that this relationsh... (205 words)

I believe some teachers are, intentionally or not, flirty.

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I believe some teachers are, intentionally or not, flirty. In their mannerisms, their choice of words and the way they say those words. I completely understand that a lot of teachers are just like that in nature; friendly, funny and outgoing. And I understand they get along ... (180 words)

Is my roommate gay and has feelings for me? He claims he's straight.

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17 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - (I'd like to apologize for the wall-of-text you're about to get.) Basically the story boils down to the fact that I could swear a roommate of mine is gay and has feelings for me, but he claims he's straight. I would like to state that I have never assumed anything about h... (561 words)

Am I being selfish wanting my cake and to eat it to?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and he's 27. I will be graduating from college next month and my boyfriend revealed to me that he wanted to take me on a special trip to celebrate my graduation the day after my graduation. However, I told him that I would love to go but that my college friend grad... (384 words)

Why do I still love him and want him?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys.Here's my question:I lived next door to this one girl and she had a boyfriend who used to talk to me.Then the girl moved and I never saw them again. Well,I was 9 at the time.It's been 5-6 years later and I finally found her boyfriend again.I became really close to him ... (587 words)

Go with the flow or time to talk about it now?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been casually dating this guy for about eight months. We have not been exclusive. I'm going thru a divorce and he had just broken up with his girlfriend when we first started hanging out. We have talked almost everyday since the beginning, though there were periods of time ... (278 words)

Can anyone please tell me is he flirting or taking advantage of me

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, this guy and i have been friends for three years now.from the beginning all our mutual friends pulled us together and the guy blushes and i cant just stop laughing when people put us together. now i want to know if he is flirting or does he like me .some signs are: 1.... (270 words)

My best friend tried to finger me!

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I went on a trip with my school and I sat next to my best guy friend on the bus. It had been a long day and we were both tired so we decided to go to sleep. He layed down on my lap and I put my head on his back. I fell asleep until I felt a hand stroking my thigh. I ... (197 words)

My head says no but my heart says yes, should I give him another chance?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - 5 months ago i discovered my boyfriend of 4 years was cheating on me, found a text saying 'come over so we can finally be alone' and believed that they did have sexual relations but merely emotional cheating at that time. Inevitably it was over then and there with the nex... (512 words)

How can I make my Mom trust my boyfriend/best friend?

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17 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello! My mom doesn't like my boyfriend at all. She doesn't trust him. He broke up with me once for a day and I was shattered, but even before that, my mom never liked him, back when he was just my best friend. Any tips on how I can make her see that he's really a great g... (98 words)

Is This a Casual or not so Casual relationship?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been sing this man for 5 months and he has been wonderful to me and we are very sexually active with each other. He wants to stay casual, but I know he really cares about me because I have been going through personal issures such as a divorce proceedings and had to move... (190 words)

I lost her, Please help

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17 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well first thing we had what you would call an ideal relationship. We were talking about getting married and having kids. It was perfect. But one day she broke up with me because she said "Do you think we were better as friends" I said no i don't i think we are a really good... (953 words)

How do I keep my mind off him?

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17 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Stupid question--please don't call me dramatic, I know, I am: My boyfriend will be leaving the country tomorrow for a while, and I'm going to miss him quite a lot. Usually we talk hours every day. Now that he's leaving, it seems as though I'll have no opportunity to say good... (105 words)

Is my man just using me for sex?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am dating a guy much older then me for 7 months now, but it s not a normal relationship, he lets me see him once maybe twice a month...and it s mostly sex, he is divorced, lives alone, and i believe doesn t want anything serious, but i feel he cares about me, he just keeps ... (78 words)

Is it wrong for me to fake my own death to see if she still loves me?

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17 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well basically my ex havn't been going out for ages, but I'm going out for her best mate (2 months) and she's always trying to get her to dump me but the girl i'm with doesn't want to dump me so i'm thinking. Is it wrong to fake my own death to prove that my ex still loves me (... (65 words)

35 weeks pregnant and feel so alone.

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 35 weeks pregnant and I feel so isolated. I feel like my friends don't wanna deal with me or talk to me. You know when you call or text someone and they don't answer or they just don't seem interested in what you have to say or how you feel. I mean my boyfriend and I live ... (87 words)

I'm uncomfortable with my own body

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey Im hoping someone can help me. I have two n very unhappy with my body. The parts Im having the most trouble with r my inner thighs n my jelly belly. If someone out there has a solution (preferably a fast n easy one) pls help me. Anything would be appreciated. Thanks... (53 words)

His family likes me, but I don't get why he doesn't (like me)

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm fifteen. and i lost my virginity to this amazing guy. we were together a few months after i actually had sex with him for the first time. we didn't do it all the time. we've probably only done it 10-15 times. but about a month ago, he dumped me. and days later he has a new ... (269 words)

Family problems and how to tell teacher she is my "mother figure"

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I;m 15 and my family is going through a rough time. Always fighting now. one of our close family friends died last month and our best friends got divorced. My parents are always fighting. Alot of it gets pinned on me. I really want to reach out and talk to someone abou... (235 words)

Should or or should I not, travel with him this summer?

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17 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, I know I may sound superficial, but in my culture, IMAGE is all that matters for a woman; the way she dresses, she talks, her actions and who she goes out with. I would like you to bare this in mind. My reputation is very important for so that in a near future a man wou... (218 words)

In Love and Uncertain

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My question: I'm single mom of 8 year old boy. He is also a fulltime single parent of a 14yr old daughter, and he picks his 9 year old boy (of another relationship) every weekend from out of state. It's been over a year. Most everything between him and I has only gott... (241 words)

My life is full of bad stuff. What can I do to make it better?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 13 (account age is wrong) and I just started high school. I think my life is just crashing down on me and I think I really need help. Well basically, life at home is no better either. I'm embarrassed to say that my sister is possibly mad and she sometimes goes a... (360 words)

I'm a bisexual girl but don't know how to flirt with girls yet. Help!

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well i'm bisexual but pretty inexperienced when it comes to meeting, reading and dating girls still, i've only had 1 girlfriend which didn't turn out so well since there was no real connection in the end and i wasn't really attracted to her just thought she was pretty. plus it ... (164 words)

Paranoid but want openness too

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17 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and i have been married fifteen years. Twelve years ago there was a guy at my house and when i ask her to explain it she says she does not remember. I was not to be home and he knocked at the door and i answered i was late for an appointment so i left her to deal with ... (197 words)

Give him a class ring?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend (14) and I (17) have been together for about two weeks short of six months. Despite our age difference, we have a GREAT relationship. We never fight, and we're always totally there for each other. The half-year mark is obviously a pretty big miles... (127 words)

Married but in love with my cousin and now he's going to marry to have kids!

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my story is going to sound very confusing but I need help please I'm 35 years old married very young at the age of 14,it was my parents choice to marry my husband so he can sponsor me to the US and then I'll sponsor my brothers to establish their future.anyway,we got married ... (284 words)

Want to spend the night with boyfriend, what will happen if I leave my car in a parking lot..will it be towed?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to spend the night with my bf, but I don't want any of my family members seeing my car at his house. Would wal-mart or another place of business such as walgreens tow my car if I leave it parked overnight? And I am using protection, 2 types to be exact ... (69 words)

Why does he use Porn to get off...and ignores me??I am more than willing!

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi... i feel kinda embarassed to asked this but i have to since i cant get answers from my bf.. We've been together for almost 7 months now, out of all that time he has been watching porn for like 1 1/2 almost EVERY DAY.. He didnt tell me he was doing it and i asked him several ... (267 words)

Pregnant or not??

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17 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i have weird symptoms like unusual light period,tender breast and drops every now and then of brown blood what do these symptoms indicates. can i be pregnant?... (28 words)

Will a guy be offended if a girl wants to try something new?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm in a solely sexual relationship with a guy the same age as me. I do have feelings for him, but have been trying to get over them and it's working. Lately I've been thinking that I want to end our sexual relationship, but I'm afraid because I LOVE the sexual attention... (109 words)

My vagina hurts and I don't know why

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My Vagina hurts. And i just can't figure out why. It hurts when i pee and when i sit down. The only thing that helps is pouring water on it while i pee. Can someone tell me what's the problem ?... (49 words)

Approaching him about something new for sex?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm in an intimate relationship with a 17 year old guy. We aren't going out, we just have a mutual agreement to be what you would call "friends with benefits". It's an exclusive agreement, meaning we only sleep with each other and I know he's ... (164 words)

After our breakup she tells me she was cheating on me for a year?? I still care!

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17 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody, basicallly had a 2 yr relationship with a girl, I love her to bits still do, she broke it off over commitment issues, during the 2yrs i treated her like a queen (in hindsight not the best way to go). We have remained best friends over the last 6 months or so, as ... (182 words)

In love with my good friend

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey.. i'm lying in my bed trying to clear my mind up and i simply feel hopeless. i'm in love with my good guy-friend, for the past 2 years. i'm 25, female, virgin, and i never had anything close to relationship, not to mention a damn kiss :( This friend of mine is like a ... (173 words)

Should I have done this? What are your views?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've fallen in love with this guy, A. We were seeing each other for two months and then broke up but we hadn't talked through it properly or cleared the air between us, he just seemed like he didn't want to know although he did say he still loved me to bits but still didn't ... (289 words)

I feel like something out of the Jeremy Kyle show, help!

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I am on the verge of a massive break down and everything is compouding onto my chest. I was sexually assaulted 3 years ago by someone who I thought was a mate, 2 months later my badminton coach and close mate of my dads started perving upon me. When I finally got ... (307 words)

How do I fulfil my needs without getting in a mess?

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, when I'm on my period I can sometimes still get really horny! How do I fulfil my needs without getting in a mess? ... (24 words)

Where are the guys my own age???

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17 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm mentally mature for my age. I'm not conceited, yet I do know that I'm very attractive physically and my personality is a good one. Lately though it seems that I can't attract or meet any new guys, one's that are my age. However, I seem to ... (129 words)