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My crush!

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - I have had an on again, off again crush on a girl who has also been my friend since, Elementary school. I remember that in elementary onward i had a HUGE crush on her, and for 2 years she moved and came back and I remember i was sad and missed her that entire time, because i ... (315 words

What does female ejaculate look like?

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27 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hey there, I had a question about female ejaculation. At this point I'm convinced it is real, despite what some say. But I've seen it look different for different women. I mean, most porn videos of "squirters" it is very clear, and fluid, much like urine or water. I have se... (97 words

Really weird love quadrangle...??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a really weird love quadrangle... I really, really like this guy who is one of my best friends; we've known each other for about a year, and we get on really well. But he's gay. It's common knowledge that he has a major crush on another one of my male friends, who is ... (108 words

I don't want my fiance to have a stripper!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm engaged to my partner (we have been together several years), and he said the only reason he won't be having a stripper on his stag night is because i'm really paranoid (I have a mental illness). So, I said that I thought he was doing it to be nice and I couldn't underst... (212 words

When I want to discuss my feelings my g/f is the rudest person on the earth!

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hello guys. I have been using this site alot lately, thanks everyone for answering my questions. Ive got one more though. My girlfriend met a guy on facebook, and she is arranging to see him in real life. She claims they are; 'Just friends'. So we talked about this,... (223 words

Too shy? Or just not into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Ok so I really like this guy and I see him everyday in the cafeteria, he always sits with a group of friends and i'm usually sitting alone, just so that I'm available if he comes and talks to me.. So today we both just exchanged stares all day, and I was giving him lots ... (184 words

Anniversary in 5 days and I'm lost!

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Helppp! Me and my boyfriend's anniversary is in 5 days! I really don't know what to do and I don't know... It makes me feel guilty that I haven't bought him anything "expensive" yet. I know they say, it's the thought that matters but he spent a lot of me already. Plus, I n... (117 words

He was my everything and I can't get over him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - what do you do when you are in love and just split up with the guy you new was you everything. He was kind,romantic knew what to say, knew what to do and you will never find a guy like this he was just amazing he used to tell me everything I wanted to hear. He used to do e... (193 words

Excess skin "down there"..normal?

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27 April 2009 (F - Hi, quick question...apologise if it seems strange to some people. I was self pleasuring this morning and noticed a bud of excess skin between my vagina and anal hole. Is this normal? Ive tried to google it but havent found any information. Im really conscience of it as Im ... (114 words

Had sex missed alot of b/c pills and now I'm scared

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had sex on Saturday (4/25/09)... i have been on birth control 4 a month...but ive been missing aloooot of pills, i know i missed a whole week one time! sound crazy? He didnt use a condom and we went all the way...i'm terrified now of course and freaking out ... (114 words

More than a friend but less than a boyfriend?

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27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hello friends. OK this one is weird. I fell for my best friend about 6 months ago, and told him so 2 months ago. He's an incredibly shy inexperienced guy with some problems with depression, but I feel I know him well and these things make him him. He says he loves me ... (169 words

Boyfriend has jealousy issues

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27 April 2009 (? age 30-35 - Hello, everybody! Most of my friends are guys, ages 14-17 (I'm 15) and my bf (14) seems to dislike it. I don't think it's that he doesn't trust me--he doesn't trust THEM. My ex and I are very close, and I know of a few of my friends that just broke up with their gfs and seem... (106 words

Every time we have an argument he throws the past at me...

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps bring up the past, what should I do?? Well I cheated on him one time and I know it was wrong but he told me he forgave me and he made me promise I wouldn't do it any more but it's making me mad beacuse every time we get into a argument he brings it up and... (75 words

How do I ask her to marry me?

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27 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - I'm in love with this girl--we're worlds apart (I'm more sheltered and grew up in a caring environment, she was abused as a kid and used to cut her wrists....) but I love her and she has admitted to loving me back. We've been taking a break, but we got back together and now I ... (96 words

I think I'm in love with my 10 year old step-sister

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

27 April 2009 (M age - Lately, I have been having really troubling thoughts. I have come to terms with the fact that I have fallen in love with my 10 year old step sister (I'm 18). I just don't know what to do anymore. Before anyone asks or starts accusing, I am not a pedophile. I am not attracted... (277 words

My little sister has just had her first period and my parents are out of town. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - My sister, she is 11 and I think she just got her first ever period today because when she woke up she scared shit then I went to her room and I saw blood on the bed and on her pjs she was wearing, she won't talk to me and my parents are out of town, they're in Portugal on a ... (74 words

Every time I meet with him it's magic... but then he blocks me and deletes my emails... why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age - We met last week after not seeing each other for 1 1/2 years. We met on line 3 years ago. It took us 3 months to meet for the first time. After that we chatted on line all the time, not getting together again for another 6 months and then 10 months after that and then just ... (126 words

Is he really in love with me or is he just wanting to be friends with benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - About a week ago, me and my boyfriend of almost eleven months, broke up. He gave me the "it's for good" speech when he broke up with me. Yet, on Friday he called me for the first time it happened. He told me he loves me and that he cares so much for me. Yet right now, he do... (141 words

Will he finally make a move after my final?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok, well there is a long story behind all of this, but I wont get into it all on here. I just finished my first year of college and had a teacher last year, my senior year of high school that, well I guess you can say-we didnt like each other-then kind of grew on one another ... (414 words

Boyfriend posts pictures from your joint vacation and leaves you OUT of the pictures?

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27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Ok, I'm embarrassed to even have to write this -- because it sounds so juvenille, and I am 31 years old, but I want a sounding board, so please respond honestly. I just got back from a week in Italy with my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years. He was sent for work, and I went to vi... (420 words

What can I do to make sex more enjoyable for both of us?

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27 April 2009 (F - I have been having sex but for only a few months now. My boyfriend is pretty inexperienced as well only being with two other girls. Anyways he really likes doggy style, but I can't cum like that... is that normal or are we doing something wrong. He feels so bad about it ... (116 words

She cheated, and I left but now she will not leave me alone!!

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27 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - I just recently broke up with my girfriend of 5 years. She had an affair with a co-worker last year, and I almost left her then. But I confronted her about it, and she begged me not to leave her. Well we worked things out, and I thought things were better, but last week I left ... (278 words

My wife's ex is moving in next door!

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27 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together for eight years - since she was 19 and I was 20 - and we've been married three of those years. We have a beautiful son whom is five months old and my wife is pregnant again. We also have our respective and stable careers up and running and could ... (381 words

My girlfriend's best guy friend trouble

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm new at this sort of thing and I'm not used to talking about my relationship issues but I have been having a lot of trouble lately and I need advice. My primary issue in my relationship is trustworthiness. I know I am an easy going guy and I can let things go and I ... (267 words

Why Doesn't he ask me out?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - There is this guy that I think likes me. He stares at me a lot and when I catch him he looks away really fast. He can't talk to me. His friends even ones I don't know are always whispering and pointing at me when I walk by. And some other things. We have had the same class ... (141 words

He mentally abused me, how can someone do that?

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27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Crying my eyes out as i write this. Ive just found out my boyfriend of 3yrs has slept with 10 women behind my back! We dont live in the same town and i always new deep down something was wrong! Nights out with the lads getting drunk not knowing how he got home! But he would ... (373 words

Abusive partner, what should I do?

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27 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with this man for 12 yrs. and it's been off and on. He's been cheating, lying and he's even gotten the women he cheats with pregnant, he doesn't respect me, doesn't appreciates me, and when me and him get into an argument he always has a way of ... (202 words

My husband is not putting enough effort into job seeking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - my partner lost his job about 5 months ago but he still isnt applying for enough jobs. he seems to think that 1-2 applications a week (if that) is enough and hes being so fussy with what jobs he applies for. How can i get it through to him that what with todays climate and job ... (126 words

Am I in the wrong for believing that we can spend the rest of our lives together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and we haven't fought at all and we're always happy when we're together and we see each other every weekend. Since about 2 months into dating, He's always talking about us being together for the rest of our lives and having ... (155 words

Going out of my mind with worry!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - Hello dear cupid Family, I have a lot to ask and to talk about. I am a 42 yrsr old going through a divorce have been living apart for more then a year with my hubby but met this man I fell madly in Love with, there is only a zillion things that are happening. This m... (447 words

How do I get my Mum's permission to let my boyfriend stay at her house?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am going to be 18 in 3 months and my bf 23 and my mum and little sister are going on holiday this weekend and i did ask if my boyfriend could stay over and the answer was no which i got quite angry about as she has meet him lots of times, i've been with him a year and she is ... (190 words

I'm the other girl in my Cousins relationship.

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27 April 2009 (? age 30-35 - okay im 16 and so is my cousin and we have a been very close friends since i was like 5 yrs old. and now for like two years we have been having realtions and we consider ourselfs as boyfriend, girlfriend now but the twist is he has a girlfriend and they have a baby together he ... (182 words

24 yr old fiance in love with a teen? Follow up

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - This is a repost, I'm looking for all the answers I can get. Back in Nov. My fiance and I had some issues. We play an online game. The game is mostly populated by young teens. Well he started to spend alot of time in game with a girl who I found out was 15. He was spending ... (984 words

Should I tell my straight best friend I'm in love with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I know this is a bit of a cliche but I could really use some advice. Here goes. I'm an 18 year old female. I met my best friend at school when we were in y7. I first realised I had feelings for her when we were about 13. I've tried to ignore my feelings, I actually hav... (223 words

School friends pressuring me to have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Just began a relationship with my boyfriend to weeks ago. We were mucking around and he lay on top of me. I was fine with it when it happened. Afterwards, I started thinking that he might get the wrong idea. :S Everyone at school is trying to find out about our relation... (176 words

My girlfriend says she is looking to date other men but I am having trouble with this

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27 April 2009 (M age - my girlfriend says she is looking to date other men but i am having trouble with this what should i do?... (21 words

We're both married, how do I get him to leave his wife for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - i have been seeing this guy for about 1 year and the thing is hes married and before you start to judge me please just hear me out! i really love him. and he loves me too! anyways i am just the type of person that believes that if you want something then nothing should stop you ... (265 words

Her ex is suddenly back on the scene and in my house. I'm not happy.

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27 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - My wife and I are happily married. Going to be 9 years this summer. Everything is great. We love each other, love our wonderful children, and are each others best friends. My wife never dated a real lot before we met, but she did date this one guy "Jim" for almost 2 years a... (387 words

I want to have a baby with him but he's just been sent to prison.

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27 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - Is 40+ too old to have your first child?? I am in love with a man who I recently got together with and we both would love to have a child but he suddenly got sent to prison and won't be out until I am in my forties!! I am so sad as I love him and would love to give him this gi... (108 words

Should I tell my best friend that I've developed strong feelings for her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Ok a real good friend of mine has recently split up with her bf and since then we've been getting really close but because we have been friends for a long time im scared of telling her how i feel and wondered should i tell her that i love her?... (50 words

I gave him oral sex but he doesn't know I love him...

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - O.K. I no this is sad but I think I’m in love with this guy We have had oral sex but he thinks were just friends with privileges I haven’t seen him in two and a half years I see him again and we have oral sex and when he left I felt depressed and have been feeling this way... (75 words

How can I make my boyfriend cum faster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi =) Been having sex with my boyfriend (This isn't a pregnancy question, we have been using protection), but he can last for AGESSS and usually i wouldnt mind but he has way to much stamina for him to enjoy it and he gets really frustrated about it. Is there anyway to DECREASE... (55 words

Can you get pregnant from a dirty towel?

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27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - i was wondering ,, i was using the toilet and then i wipped my unders with a towel,, i then knew that this towel is my brother's and ther is aprobability he have wiped some sperms with.. so i am so worried of being pregnant,,can the sperms live in the towel. p.s. my period is ... (61 words

My son was suspended for sniffing glue. Why would he do that?

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27 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - My 14-year-old son was suspended from school today for glue-sniffing. He came home at 11:30 this morning, and I was surprised to see him. I asked him "What are you doing home so early?" He admitted he'd been suspended from school for a week, and said it was for glue-s... (180 words

We're planning the kids names and the wedding but everyone says it won't last.

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok, im 16 and me and my long term boyfriend are already discussing out future, like how many kids we're gonna have, and we're gonna get married at 20 and everything. and its filling me with every kind of hope imaginable. i want it to come true, and he tells me it will. but ... (73 words

He asked for my number, I said no, but I like him.

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27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - yo i have a boy who asked for my number and i like him and he jokes alot so i dont know if he is joking or being serious so i said no and then went away what shuld i do?? MOD NOTE. I VERY MUCH DOUBT THIS PERSON IS REALLY 35.... (55 words

Told him I loved him, he cut contact, now he's back but just as a friend. What can I do?

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27 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - OK I posted a question a while ago about having a fall out with one of my closest friends because I loved them. Unconditionaly and irrevocably. (thanks for the replys) He wants us to be friends again and this is all I've ever wanted after months of depression. He knows I... (189 words

What's going on in his mind? And who is to blame, him or her?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - if a guy flirted with a girl non verbally. But she does not give in, after some weeks. they become friends. But he does not talk to her... only looks at her. So the girl ignores him. After a weeks he comes back all nonverbal. but she ignores him ... he goes away. BUT after ... (198 words

Gay or not? 14 with a crush on a boy AND a girl.

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27 April 2009 (M age 26-29 - the thing is i think i may be gay right i get turned on when i think about it and i admit watching some male porn but something happened at school when a boy kissed me as a dare and i really like him but now i also like a girl i know i am young and that so i still have a long ... (107 words

I don't want to get depressed again..pregnant and can't take certain medicines..help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey I sort of have a problem I think. I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. Apparently you can't have a personality disorder without being bipolar, but you can be bipolar without a personality disorder. I was on medication for a... (279 words

5 months going out with him and now he says he doesn't like to be touched??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Alright, so here's my story. I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about five months now and he claims he doesn't like being touched by other people, sexually of course. I think he finds it uncomfortable. He likes it when I grind against him, and will give me all t... (86 words

I feel rejected and am getting really depressed about it

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - This probably sounds really stupid. But, I feel really rejected. I feel like nobody evr wants me around, and that everyone is always plotting against me, and giving me bad school marks on purpose, because they don't like me. I don't really get on with my parents that well, an... (174 words

Shunned by flat mates! How to make things better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I've been at university since September, where I moved into a student hall. I live with 5 other people, and are usually in the company of our neighbors. Over the course of the past several months, I feel like the connection I had with everyone has declined signifi... (244 words

Don't wish to get hopes up, but could he like me?

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27 April 2009 (? age 30-35 - hello, ok this is going to be long! well, i would love to know wether this lad likes me or not? thanks in advance for all your comments :) ok so to but a long story short... i really liked him, he found out, my friends asked him out for me, he hesitated but said no he's no... (199 words

I'm getting sick of his games

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid, robert and i were best friends for two and a half years. i decided i wanted to be more he had been wanting that for a while but didn't what he wanted right now(there was another girl) i waited for four months said i couldn't do this he begged me to stay we dated for ... (222 words

How do guys feel when a woman acts like she isn't interested anymore?

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27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have a thing for this guy, and as far as what i'm getting from him, i think he had good intentions in the beginning, i missed a few signs, like him inviting me to party with his friends, him telling me personal info, just things like that, we texted mostly, neither of us are ... (187 words

He's my best friend but he never talks to me about my depression

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so at the moment I'm just about to finish counselling for depression. Personally I don't think I'm ready to be through with it, but my counsellor knows best. I suppose. I've been having a hard time at the moment coping, naturally my close friends are aware of that. ... (462 words

A YEAR and I'm still not over him. Please help me on new ways to try?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi, i need help. I am so love sick. I pine for the man that i love. We were together for 6 years. My heart was his the moment i 1st saw him. For me i could never love another the way that i love him. It consumes me. He does love me but not in the same way anymore. It kills me, ... (197 words

Please help me save my marriage and show my wife I love her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - I need some advice...I have been married for 9 years and have 2 kids. I love my family, but recently my wife and I have not been communicating well and I admit that I have not done what it takes on an emotional and loving (I am not talking about sex) level to be a good ... (230 words

She Walks out on our relationship I can't get her off my mind, help!!

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27 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - I met this girl back in August 2008, we were flirting for a little while until January, when I finally got her to go out with me, (I never really asked her before then). She said she wanted a relationship and I did too, for the past couple of years she was messing with this guy ... (210 words

My married girlfriend (my friend's wife!) says one of their children could be mine!

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - i m 20yrs. i m in physical relation wid a married woman who has three chidren. hers husband is very good pal of mine. she says that the second child is mine. i had used the contraceptive that time during sex with her, what should i do now.... (48 words

I really like him, I haven't seen him in a month, but might in a week. What do I do to get him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - Right, this is going to be a long one, so be careful! The boy I liked, I've realised that he may have liked me before because of several signs (physical contact like putting his hands on my waist, leg against mine, smiling etc) and since January, I've tried to get over him ... (330 words

Why do I let him treat me like such a doormat?

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27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Gonna ask a stupid question and your gonna think im silly. My ex and me have been on/off 3yrs! Weve never lived together. Gone on on hol together! He has on two lads hols! Never seen each other more than 4 days wk! And yet he tells me he loves me and im the only one he loves. ... (357 words

How do I tell my boyfriend I don't want to get pregnant at 15?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am 15 and my boyfriend wants me 2 get pregnet and I'm not ready what do i do???... (19 words

Is he taking it slow, or messing me about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - i've been on a couple of dates with a guy - i really like him. we're both in our 30's. i met him online and after some wonderful correspondence we started going on dates. he's everything i'm looking for and we have a lot in common. when we're together the chemistry is ... (240 words

How do I get this boy to like me?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm 19 and have been attracted to a 20 year old guy who is in one of my classes at college since the third week in. I've known we are pretty compatible since the fifth week in. I learned that we went to the same high school together for two years (he's obviously a year older ... (491 words

He quit drinking, and now he doesn't talk to me.

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I am a 24 year old that has a live in boyfriend that is 33 years old and about 102 days ago quit drinking. He was an alcoholic since he was 19. He doesn't want sex and when I talk to him about our sex life and our relationship and how all this makes me feel, he just says he ... (152 words

Did he do this on the rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend just broke up. We had a rocky relationship which involved cheating for the first 8 months or so. After all of this, we sat down and came clean about everything we had done to be unfaithful, and decided to start fresh. Unfortunately, this did not go over ... (780 words

Pregnant, keeping the baby, and want to stay in school

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm 17 and pregnant (due to failure of the pill) and i've decided to keep the baby. However, I really REALLY want to continue with my education, i'm predicted 3 A's and a B this year at AS level and so I really want to do my A2's. Apparently at my school there's a girl who was ... (126 words

Is 14 really the average age people lose their virginity ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - I went to see this topic and i saw this answer on its site http://www.dearcupid.org/question/15-year-old-virgin.html Is 14 really the average age people lose their virginity ? Is what he said true ? ... (44 words

Was supposed to be moving right after surgery, but it's been four days ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - i know i should be checking with my doctor but i just wanted to see if i could get any advice here first, make sure i'm not panicking too much, and you guys and gals seem to be fabulous at common sense and life experience...i had an operation on my ankle a couple of days ago ... (118 words

Suggestions for a school project?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm 15 and part of my school work i was given a £10 note and am told to build a business by this, well me and my mate have paired up so we have £20's, i need a small but very good idea which will sell. Any suggestions will be good thanks. ... (52 words

Could I be pregnant and how do I find my nearest family planning clinic?

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27 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - i am 13 year old and the other night i was messing around with this lad cutting a long story short i sucked him off and he never spermed in my mouth but he wiped it away a short while after he fingered me and then he tried to have sex with me but i pulled away about two mins ... (111 words

How do I get close to the one I love the most?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - well, the title says it all... can you please, please, please, give me some helpful tips on how to get along with the one i love? i am asking this question because i'm getting so nervous and tensed when i see him. and that makes me go crazy in front of him. so, what do ... (78 words

How do I pluck up the confidence to talk to him?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - How do you pluck up the confidence to talk to a guy in the first place, because it really really scares me. I have to say something soon or it'll be too late but i find it so difficult to start up a conversation with him because im so nervous. I don't know how he feels abo... (108 words

Fear of the rain. Anyone heard of this?

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27 April 2009 (? age 36-40 - I was wondering if anyone has ever heard of a fear of the rain before? It started a year ago, when I was walking to work. I had just walked down the road from my home when it poured down with rain. I was soaked in 5 seconds flat. The sky was black, and when I looked around, t... (185 words

Help on leaving my useless husband and starting from scratch.

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - okay, so my question is should i stay with my husband or not? i ask because he is younger than me and is very selfish and oblivious to alot that goes on around him especially my feelings. when we got married we got pregnant and i paid for the abortion. it hurt me more than i c... (193 words

How do you get a girl to open up and get closer to you?

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27 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - How do you get a girl to open up and get closer to you? I have been seeing this girl for a couple of months. I really like her and when i ask her in private she says the same but im getting frustrated because she never seems to show that to me. She is slightly younger... (361 words

DID I MARRY A SERIAL CHEATER ?

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27 April 2009 (F age - Dear Aunts My husband who is 49 had been having an affair with a younger women(28 years old)he said he was going though a mid life crises i belived him and gave him another chance,he is no longer seeing this women but i have found out that this was not the first time he has c... (198 words

Emotionally Hurt......should I send the letter?

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27 April 2009 (F age - My man and I had an nasty breakup for reasons unbeknow to me. He just stated that I was very disrespectful towards his feelings. We are both adults, and I wanted to talk but I was blamed for something I never did, he went through a terrible event two family members died in the ... (404 words

How can I get my boyfriend to last longer in bed?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend used to last quite long during sex when we first started out (around up to an hour) but now he cant last more than a minute. is there any way to resolve this? anything i can do to make it better?... (43 words

Would a pregnancy test come back inaccurate at this time of my cycle?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - my period is late. usually my cycle is about every 42 days. after taking the morning after pill twice, my period came faster and i had it within 28 days. it's been more than 7 weeks now since i have had my period. my boyfriend and i had sex about a month ago, but we had used a ... (134 words

How can I achieve orgasm through penetration?

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - i love havin sex and i would like to achieve an orgasim through oenetration....i want it to be special and i dont know wat to do coz i am relaxed and i really enjoy it so could u please help me achieve an orgasim... (44 words

I've been out of the game for a while. Is she into me? What to do next

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Alright. Just a little background. I go to this gym frequently for the past year and a half. There is this pretty girl that works there, and I have had a huge crush on her since I saw her awhile back. Well, I finally decided to at least send her a message online, and said... (178 words

I love him, I can't forget him..what am I supposed to do?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - i need help because i had a problem with my x boyfriend and we broke up.but still i was writting to him all the time so that he can forgive me and came back to me again.the reason why i broke up with him was that i was so jealous and people were saying he was a bad man he is ... (197 words

Going out for a year..cheating on me with porn

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend n ive been going out for the last year and a few months. despite our young age, we really do have a fantastic sex life, or so i thought. few days ago i found a folder in his computer that was created a month after we started going out, and it was filled with porn. ... (496 words

WTF is wrong with this dude?

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - A guy and I have been talking for about 7 months (I'm 21, he's 24 if that makes a difference.) We used to work together and flirted a lot. A few months after he left (we kept in contact) he tells me he's always been attracted to me and I reciprocated. We decided to "hang out" - ... (351 words

I feel sick about what I did in the past..how do I get over it?

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27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I used to strap on dildos and give me ex anal sex.This is going back some time, he wanted to be with a tranny this made me feel sick. I'm bysexual and love to strap on for chics but I can't believe I did this for a man. It looked so ugly to me seeing a guy with a dildo in his ... (115 words

Wife's past sexual escapes are still haunting me

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27 April 2009 (M age 51-59 - I don’t know if you can still remember me that about a year ago i sought for your advice on what to do over my wife narrating to me as her husband about her past sexcapades with various men differently. She practically even demonstrated how they shared her from one city hotel ... (106 words

Do you think counselling will get us through this?

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27 April 2009 (F age - My Husband of 15 years and 3 children has told me 6 months ago he had a short fling with a very good friend of mine who has since left to live many miles away and has never been in touch with either of us and now I know why? He is been treated for depression and he feels bad ... (168 words

My partner fancies someone else and is constantly texting her!

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi, Right, my problem that I am struggling with at the moment is that my partner of 1 year who I love so much fancies another woman and yes I know this is normal for people to fancy others as long as nothing comes of it but my partner is constantly texting this other woman and ... (182 words

Worried about my girlfriend after breaking up with her...

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27 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We got along great but I wasn’t in love with her. I broke the news without warning and she is devastated. She doesn’t have many friends locally and her family lives a state away. She feels she doesn’t have anyone to talk to and she ... (225 words

I don't want to let her go...

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27 April 2009 (M age - Background: Our relationship was born out of a triangle and sadly had a turbulent birth. She needed space then, but still had issues so she tried counselling but even after counselling there was still an unresolved bug that nether she nor her councillor could resolve. There ... (274 words

Pregnancy after a vasectomy?

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27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - What are the chances of pregnancy after a vasectomy after 18 years?... (12 words

I have very strong feelings for my son's teacher.

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27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my partner for nearly 3 years and I do love him very much but he won't commit, but now I have really strong feelings for my son's teacher. I asked him for a drink he said no but every time I see him he gives me a certain smile and people say he's always looking ... (66 words

Advice please to stop me feeling like crap!

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27 April 2009 (F - I was living with my partner for 2 years and going out for 4 years. We broke up 4 weeks ago. The first week he stayed living in the house and the 2nd week I asked him to leave because I was so upset. We haven't had any contact since he has left and I feel heartbroken. It feels ... (177 words

How can I add some excitement to our conversations?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been together for a little over a year. At first everything was fine. We always talked and got along great but now he doesn't really talk anymore. He says there's not much to talk about since we are always together. We're together pretty much 24/7, but never ... (421 words

My bf says he never masturbates...

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27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend says he never masturbates. Said he's tried it before when he was younger and it doesn't give him pleasure. But I'm very skeptical about that. We're both 27 and in a long distance relationship. I have to masturbate when I'm feeling horny, how is it possible that... (71 words

Stopping this vicious cycle!

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27 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - Hello, happy to know you exist,here i go...well once upon a time i met a handsome man that was very responsible and a hardworker and some...he was divorced w/3 kids and i never married but did have 2 of my own, so we decided to make a big happy family, well yeah right, its been ... (673 words

Boyfriend chooses porn over me

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - iam 22 with a boyfriend who would rather look at porn then have any fun with me. iam so unhappy that he does that. i wish i knew what to do. i need advice on how to tell him how i feel .... (43 words

Cheating on fiance, feeling I don't want to get married anymore

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been dating my now fiance for three and a half years, we have been engaged for almost 9 months, and have a wedding date set for August 1, 2009. We currently live about 1 hour apart. I am a full time student and he works. I will be graduating college in a few weeks. Lately... (233 words

He believes I deserve better

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey. Sorry this appears long if your reading this. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and I couldn't ask for more.. I love him dearly. But, recentely 'I' had terrible mood swings because, I was on my period. I felt really horrible because, I hurt his feel... (323 words

Broken love

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27 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend were happy, she suffers with deep depression and i help her through a day at a time, some days worse than others but rare. This Friday we were happy and eating at a restaurant and had a wonderful time. We had a right laugh, holding hands ect... i was really ... (179 words

Gay teen confused by sexually confused best friend

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - I've been best friends with this guy for about 9 months now. When we first met at work, he flirted with me constantly, touched my butt after giving hugs, made sexual references every day, and a few days in; he actually told me that he has had sex with another guy before. Our ... (371 words

I've been told I'm too shy

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Heya everyone, I sorta have a problem. I find it hard (understatement) to find a special someone. Either I ignore the odd girl that has liked me or I fall for someone I get rejected by. I have plenty of friends (that are girls) and most of them say that I'm too shy, I'm ni... (135 words

Will she ever be more than a friend ?

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27 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - I wonder if there is any hope, or is that shred of hope I am holding onto just me fooling myself. A friend I have known for ten years recently filed for divorce. About five years ago, our relationship became intimate, then I had to move for work, she went back to her ex-boyfr... (273 words

Getting even to match up on sex partners

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27 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi all, I know I might get bashed for this, but I still want to know how you all cope with the following scenario: Let's say you have met somebody whom you really love and loves you in return, but he/she has had more sex partners than you. Have you ever thought of 'gettin... (104 words

Worried he won't enjoy oral sex

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I recently tried performing oral sex on a new guy I'm seeing. Having never been with a guy that takes TOO LONG to orgasm, I'm worried that he's not enjoying it. Eventually he ends up climaxing, but it seems to me like he's forcing it. I know this may seem li... (80 words

I want to leave him for another guy, but I'm afraid of what he'll do

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for a year. He was nice at first but he had gotten meaner over the months. He makes fun of me, says negative things about me and make me feel bad all the time. I have tried breaking up with him several times. I even did the week break thing and ... (246 words

Is fighting a sort of cancer in a relationship?

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Does fighting cause a sort of cancer in a relationship? I mean i know that ever relationship has its fighting but if it happens enough than can it ruin everything? Me n my gf have had 4 fights this week n it seems we cant go an entire week without tears happening on her part. ... (65 words

I'm not sure I still love the father of my children

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am married; we seperated for about 4 months and I went back with him because I wanted my kids to be with there father. I am 19 yrs old with 2 lil girls I mean my husband isn’t a bad person he just is very jealous. He don’t want me to have any friends and he doesnt trust me. ... (127 words

He's torn between two lovers -- should I trust him?

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - hi. i have this problem. recently, i became addicted to some kind of online game here, i met many different people out there. until then, i fell in love with someone who's also playing that online game. he's the first one to say his feelings for me, we became a couple since ... (111 words

My husband is having an affair and ignoring my problems

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27 April 2009 (F age - I am 51yrs my husband is 45yrs, I have a son from my prev marriage. My husband is a Christian, I am a free thinker. My husband is having a affair with a Malay girl age 26 yrs, I found out, he says sorry to me and swear not to see her again. One month pass he see her and I fo... (333 words

She's really independent -- should I worry that she doesn't want to hang with me everyday?

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27 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - When dating a girl who is really independant and likes doing her own thing how do you go about dating her? She likes to hang with her friends and do things on her own. She is a freshman in college I'm a junior in college. Is this just what young girls do. Do they grow out of ... (87 words

Insecure over the casual sex she had before me.

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27 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and have a great relationship, a month or two into our relationship, we were walking down the street and this guy grabbed her from behind in a friendly sort of way. When he left, she casually told me, "Oh we fooled around in ... (177 words

How often is there help on here?

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - How often is there help on here?... (7 words

15 year old virgin

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I've never had sex. I wanna know how to seduce a girl.. I also wanna know how it feels. Helpp!... (24 words

Am I old enough for passionate kissing?

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27 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - I am 12 and I'm madly in love with my boyfriend- we'll call him Steve (not his real name!!). I am going to a dance with him and he said he was going to kiss me. I want him to, I want him to hold me tight and French kiss me all through the dance. I want to feel and touch him ... (102 words

Does the guy always have to make date plans?

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27 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - Should the guy always be making the move to make plans when dating someone or is it the girls responsibility too? I feel like sometimes I'm always the one asking if she wants to hang out and I don't want to come across as needing her. ... (46 words

If the father marries someone other than the kid's mother, will the kid eventually understand?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - We were hanging out the other day drinking and just talking and maybe sex. He said the reason why he's not married to that b* is because she's not fun anymore and he doesn't love her. Is this wrong? I want to provide a better life for him and I kinda hinted around that, but he ... (167 words

I'm in love with one boy, but starting to like another.

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27 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hi, i have a guy friend i've known for 4 years. I hang out with him almost every day. Lately i haven't been able to stop thinking about him. Is it possible that i'm starting to like him? But i'm desperately in love with other boy, could it still be possible that i'm starting to ... (57 words

She doesn't call, won't meet. I'm thinking of ending it.

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27 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I met a girl, divorced and 8 years older than me. Our relationship is about a year. Occasionally, we have agitated conversation but we are doing fine. She still keep in touch with her x husband because she has a daughter who is living with her. I am perf... (278 words

We fight for stupid reasons and she hit me

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27 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi there my girlfriend hit me one night. We had an argue about a blanket she didn’t want to share that with me and I told her why and keep asking her she hit me. Before that me and her we had some drinks. What happened is she punch me in my chest I didn’t care a lot about she ... (113 words

Help! Why do I feel so guilty?

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - So, there's this guy (we'll call him Sean), and his brother (we'll call him Aaron) and I have been very good friends for years (over a decade). "Sean" had been flirting with me for almost a year, and then one bad night of drunken tomfoolery led to another, and we were kind of ... (513 words

When he fingers me I feel like I want to pee?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - okay, this is a very embarrasing question,i dont have a very good relationship with either one of my parents and am embarresed to ask but ...im 16 and me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year.we have done some things ,sexually.when he fingers ... (71 words

The guy I've been crushing on has a g/f at another school!

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27 April 2009 (F age - Hey I really need some advice (I am 15 by the way), I am really upset cause I just found out that the guy I have been crushing on FOREVER has a girlfriend at another school, like a serious one and their MySpace’s are all devoted to each other and stuff. We have been on a break ... (125 words

She Didn't Take My Virginiy But Was Heartbroken When I Lost It

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27 April 2009 (? age 41-50 - Ok about 6 years ago, there is this girl... She's sorta a party girl but we shared like a month of exclusive time before our jobs separated us. I was ALSO, sort of a party person. So it was weird. Like a crash collision course that stopped both our normal behaviors. Usua... (641 words

He's angry because I want to keep the baby!

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27 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I met a guy a few months ago, from the get go I knew he had a girlfriend of four months at the time. We got involved and had a intimate relationship. I recently found out I was pregnant and i told him and he flipped and told me to get rid of the baby. When I asked him why I ... (198 words

Is it wrong to be clingy?

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi, Im 16 and my gf is 14. This past weekend, over a kinda lame misunderstanding, she almost broke up with me and after that was cleared up, the next day, out of impulse, she was messin with me about leavin me. After i cried and over reacted both times, we were all good. My ... (105 words

Do I really love him? Should we be together?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok so I have a problem. I'm a straight female who I think has feelings for her male straight best friend. I think about pete* him all the time and we talk everyday, he's always been there for me and just recently I think i've realised that I may have feelings for him; more than ... (410 words

Help me figure this guy out!

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - What the heck is this guy doing and what does he want from me?? Is he just playing games? Does he miss me? What is his deal? A quick bit of background info: I was seeing this guy from October last year to middle of January this year. Then we kind of just stopped talking.... (164 words

She's playing the pregnancy card on me...!

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - I found love, I really did but it didnt work so i pulled the plug. She is playing the pregnancy card on me. She claims she went to the doctor and got tested. She said the doctor is saying since she is on the pill she might have a miscarrage. Whats the chances of this? I ... (158 words

What are the odds of pregnancy?

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - what are the odds of getting a girl pregnant ? her period was at easter it is now april 26. i'm only 16 an rreally dont know what to do advice please?... (35 words

I am tearing my hair out trying to understand him!

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27 April 2009 (F age - Help please I'm in a relationship with a guy but he is so hard to read when it comes to his feelings that i am always tearing my hair out trying to understand him. He always txts me in the morning but today he was late so i sent him a txt that said did you forget me. he sent ... (88 words

Why couldn't I just fall for a decent guy?

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - My ex was the only guy i've ever loved. But he cheated and is a liar. We spoke recently after not talking since it ended (when i found his lies). he told me he misses me and wants to see me more. I'm never going back to him after he treated me! but i'm just feeling so sad and ... (98 words

He told me everyone is different and he had his own way of being nice to me.

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27 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I had another discussion about our relationship with my new bf and now I am frustrated. I am not feeling too bad because I expected this to happen. I like my bf. He was really nice when he was flirting with me a couple months ago and he wrote me emails everyday. That was why ... (830 words

Are these signs that he likes me?

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27 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - There is this guy in one of my classes. Every time look up he is staring at me. When he sees me he looks away really fast or he pretends to look up at the clock or something. I was talking to his friend and he was going to come over to talk to his friend. When he saw me he ... (250 words

Does she still like me after I broke her heart?

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27 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - well here's the story last night was prom and i went cause i was on prom court and i went with my friend Hali and i really have strong feelings for her. but before she told me she really liked me but i didn't reciprocate those feelings because i had a girlfriend that i was very ... (136 words

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