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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm just about to get out of my 25 year long marriage and I need some help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I'm just about to get out of my 25 year long marriage. And I need some help. I feel, maybe I'm making the most horrible mistake in my life, or the best choice, I have I ever made. I really don't know.. I'm in so much pain. I really didn't want this to happen. I thought I wa... (275 words)

How much to spend on his birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Honestly, say that you've been dating this person for about (4) months now.. You're both planning to get away for the weekend. And his birthday is the following week. How much would you think of spending on his Big Day? Oh, and by the way, he's paying for most of the trip... (61 words)

Friend's girlfriend is getting close with another boy. What does he do about his jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - My friend has a girfriend (lets say Amy), Amy's on the phone a lot with (let's say Ben) talking for hours on end and stuff and tonight Amy and Ben have gone walking in a park. So my friend is getting really worried... she's reassured my friend that she has no feelings for Ben ... (98 words)

Hormonal changes in women during their period... quick poll!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Quick poll: when a gal goes on her period: -Guys: does it happen that she can become difficult to deal with? As in, she's much shorter tempered and you can agitate her more easily? -Gals: do you tend to get short with people including your own boyfriend? I know the answ... (108 words)

I know in my heart that I don't belong in North Carolina...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Good afternoon, This question might not seem like a relationship question but I'll explain why it's relevant, I promise. My heart is set on moving abroad, but I've been told by so many people that it's impossible, and to forget it (not EVERYONE, but many people, tell ... (619 words)

How can I get in touch with him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend is in the navy and is currently away at sea! The only form on contact we have is through emails, and he only gets a chance to check his emails once a day. He doesn't have a phone with him. Does anyone have any idea how I would be able to get in contact with h... (82 words)

I get turned on by boy's FEET!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I am 13 years old. I am turning 14 on july 11. I am scared that I am gay. I do not get turned on by anything from girls but I do get turned on by (BOY'S) Feet, but that is the only thing I get turned on from, not there private parts. Do you guys think I am gay?... (65 words)

Advice needed... I don't know what to do, should I stay or get out of this stressful relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - My girlfriend of almost 11 months now treats me like shit. She's controlling, demanding and takes me for granted... did I mention disrespectful... she insults me all the time and smacks me in the face or butt when she get's angry. Now I love her and I thought she loved me ... (227 words)

I want to have sex in crazy places!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend both lost our virginity together. We have been very experimental, and have been trying new things in the bed. But - now I want to try things OUTSIDE the bed. Like something outragious... like... a car, outside, in a parking lot, clean public bathroom, d... (108 words)

I have no friends any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - On Facebook I wrote a status about a person I knew... but one of my friends saw it and thought it was about her and got really offended. Now she won't listen when I tell her it wasn't about her, she is convinced it is and she is calling me for all kinds. Thing is she has now ... (142 words)

He says he really likes me but when we meet he's really quiet. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My friend introduced me to this guy and we got talking and we've been talking every day since. So we've met up a couple of times, but not alone. When I talk to him online, he tells me how much he likes me etc, but then when I see him in real life, he's really shy and doesn't ... (93 words)

Teacher situation is a mess, please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I haven't spoken to my teacher for a year and then today I went up to him and spoke to him and I really don't know why, I needed to ask him for these sheets I did and then I asked him how he was as obviously I haven't spoken to him since June last year and well yeah, he said he ... (334 words)

Circumcision issues.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I love my penis in every way, except that I wish that I still had a foreskin.. Unfortunately I was circumcised at a young age (4), partly because of cultural reasons and partly because I had a tight foreskin which made it difficult to retract all the way. This wasn't really an ... (205 words)

I feel so boring...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year, and in all we've been pretty good together, up until recently I've been feeling that we've lost something between us, I love him so much and I don't know what I'd honastyly do without him, yet my own thoughts and feelings seem to ... (389 words)

What do you do about a crush that you don't want at all??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm a teenager and I have this... I guess you could call it crush on someone that I don't want have a crush on! My brain and my emotions are telling me two completely different things and I hate it. I know that he's a jerk and I know that he's the type of guy that I would never ... (258 words)

Do we need to use protection and should I ask him to be tested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Do we need to use protection? Me and my boyfriend fool around, lately naked. We don't actually have intercourse, he just insterts his penis in the opening not inside, he doesn't ehh cum or anything, he has been sexually active before with at least 3 women, I haven't. I know ... (82 words)

Taken girl with a lot of male friends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I used to be friends with a ton of girls, but there was a bunch of stupid drama so I became friends with mostly males by the end of high school. I'd hang around them and just chill and play video games or eat or something. When I got to college, got a boyfriend who I've been ... (196 words)

Is swinging booming in real life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - is swinging booming in real life or does it only sounds like that in the web but in real life it is not that much?? and is it true that most swinger couples practice interracial sex??? i mean the wife or th GF especially??... (47 words)

I need to get it sorted but I've never been so scared to go to the doctor

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My foreskin is really tight and it hurts when it's pulled back. had this problem all my life. yeah i know, see a doctor right? well it's bloody hard to do that for a few reasons: 1/ I'm embarrassed. 2/ I can't bring myself to say what the problem is to anyone's face. 3/ I'm sca... (136 words)

UPDATE Lost my girlfriend, lost my whole world... what am I to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello again , i am posting an update to a question i listed 6 weeks ago ,i have attached it on the bottom if you would like to read first .it has been a very rough 6 weeks ,we seem to be getting along much better and she seems to be slowly letting what happened in the past go.... (1233 words)

Do these things take time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm seventeen years old and have a boyfriend of 2 months who's a year older than me. We get along really well and I have strong feelings for him, but I'm one of these people who aren't really familiar with the sexual side of relationships, I've had boyfriends before but I've ... (161 words)

Follow up: I'm so confused and I'm just getting more and more upset about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - help is really needed here :( ummm well i havent spoken to my teacher for a year and then today i went up to him and spoke to him and i really dont know why :( i needed to ask him for these sheets to i did and then i asked him how he was as obviously i havent spoken to him si... (352 words)

I worry that I am going to end up so lonely if I don't sort this problem

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please someone help me. I going insane. I was with my ex 4 two years bnd hes mentally scarred me. He put my down made me lose my confidence. I have no self esteem always think what special bout me! He always made me feel so low in myself and lonely as he never could make an ... (442 words)

Am I too weak for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - ive been going out with this guy for about 3 years,who is 8 years older than me,we have different worlds,which at first i was undenial of...) diff religion..diff culture diff family background and different social environment most of all diff lifestyle ,,most of all im still... (236 words)

I don't want hook ups. I want a relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - im 16 and i do get quite a lot of attention from guys - that's not really the issue. I am not exactly confident but i know quite a few guys think im hot. The issue is yeah i will go to a party - get with someone but the thing is i pick the players so to speak but i dont know ... (92 words)

Can a marriage be worked on while one partner is still having an affair?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been married for 22 years, and found out my husband had an affair over a year ago. We have had a lot of good counselling and are due to go back to see her tomorrow. We are now separated and it is a relief to me not to have him around; I’m enjoying my own space. H... (465 words)

Important and interesting job question for all of the readers!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - After being unemployed for quite some time, I decided to take a job a little while ago and the pay wasnt so good but I took it because I couldnt afford to not be unemployed anymore and I actually liked the job - the role itself is almost like a dream job for me. After bei... (475 words)

Follow up: I'm interested in knowing what you think about me spilling the beans

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had asked a question a couple of months ago and wow you all had it sooooooooo right! I'd been with a man (married w/sick wife) for over 8 years who swore up and down he was gona be with me....... Well, I found out through his "friend" that not only was he still very ... (252 words)

I'm lost. Should I be happy I found someone who has an unconditional love for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright. I have been with my fiance for a year now. He asked me to marry him about 3 months ago and I said yes. I wasn't really initially attracted to him but he became a rock. My father passed away about two months after we started dating and he was amazing through that peri... (261 words)

Do I continue flirting with him? Do I make my feelings obvious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

- through a production im in, ive got to know this boy really well (he plays my partner in the play) and have begun to think that perhaps there's a possibility of our friendship developing into something more. when im around him, i just feel so happy and unlike i have with any... (170 words)

I want to send him a text wishing him all the best from a good friend who cares for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hey!! ok there is this guy i have been talking to lately,we r not dating or anything as yet but we talk everyday..its been a year now he is a model and now an actor..and he was worked really hard for this..tomorrow is his final performance i mean he is already selected but the ... (96 words)

Seems like were already going out, but should I go for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - so there's this girl... and shes really sweet and just perfect in my eyes and we've both started talking last year and now we talk alot but the problem is i have feelings for her and not sure about her... we talk about our love lives and who likes who blah blah and she brin... (179 words)

I think I might be in love with my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Where to start... well I think I might be in love with my best friend. lol how terrible isn't being so close to her mooning over her from so close. I feel almost shameful because where so close. I don't want to ruin our friendship. I've always had a thing for her and normally ... (486 words)

She used to be a HE! UPDATE

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - This is an UPDATE to my question yesterday, "She used to be a HE!" I read your responses. All of you, that replied to me, were right. I love her. She is everything I ever wanted, regardless of her past. I marched round there last night and told her how I felt. She was overjoye... (86 words)

B/f bored with me in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Lately I've had this feeling that my boyfriend is bored with me in bed, he only likes to get intimate once a week and it's always on a saturday night, always at the same time and I want it more, even twice a week would be a good start. I'm open to trying new things but I've ... (98 words)

How to seduce my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I need some help (especially from any guys here!) about how to seduce my bf. We've been together for 4yrs. He usually initiates sex, always in the bedroom, and I'd like to make a change. He used to take me to the bedroom at least once a day, but now it hardly ever ... (188 words)

I'm 16, dating a 20 year old with a baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - hi my name is brian and i am 16 going on 17 i have a 20 year old girlfriend and my question is .. should i be dating her if she's 20 and has a baby boy?... and yet i still love her and her son?... so i am asking for your opinions so please send me your replies thank you ... (61 words)

Motivation tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Dear all cupids out there, This is less of a love and relationship question and more of a question about life so i would be really grateful is anyone could answer it; thank you! So at the moment im finding it hard to become motivated. Especially in the work side of t... (144 words)

Just wish we could be a normal couple!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 49 year old woman and I have know the man I am with for 45 years. We were 4 years old when we met. We started dating when I was about 17 years old. We have 3 children. Boy 30, girls 23 and 18. We started living together in 1986. We are still together today but our ... (252 words)

Waiting patiently

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We have known eachother for more than 4. He is 29 and I am 25. We live together, we raise his 2 children from a previous relationship and I also have a daughter who is 2 that he raises as his own and has since her birth. We run ... (228 words)

Is he like this for a reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi,ok im a kind of girl who generally is quite quiet(yea i have my moments of not being lol) I'm not exactlly shy as in painfully shy but yea i suppose i'm shyer than others. The thing is right i've known this lad for nearly two years we used to be good friends when we first st... (499 words)

What heightens the mood during sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Guys while having sex what hightens the mood, personally wat gets me going is when my girl grabs my ass and i dont me squeeze i mean she is about to rip it off. And i guess girls can answer this question too i like hearing from both... (48 words)

My feelings for my boyfriend aren't as strong any more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend who is 25, and me, 21, have been dating for 3 and a half months. After a while, we started arguing about small things, but it would escalate to him losing his temper and threatening to break up with me. I would always be the one coming back begging for ... (368 words)

Making out on the first date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - do u think its appropriate to make out with a guy on the first date? would he think of the girl as a someone who gives in easily?... (28 words)

In a foreign country with a cheating husband. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - couple of years ago when we first got our computer came down in the middle of the night to get a glass of water.My husband had not x'd out of the screen so when I did so there was a letter to someone on line.He gave a false name and said to this person the things he would like ... (281 words)

Young, Alone and Desperately in need of support...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Depressed, cant sleep, cant concentrate and mind racing in constant circles. I recently moved out of my fathers, due to his alcohol consumption and violent actions whilst drunk. Have now got no fixed address, am moving between boyfrds mum and dads houses. Got houses to look a... (295 words)

What's he waiting for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok so i've liked this guy for a while and i think he likes me. We flirt alot, he asked me who i would prefer to go out with out of 3 other guys and him i said him and he said that out of all my friends he would probably choose me. He asked me what ide say if he asked me out and ... (93 words)

Sex isn't good..will it get better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Soo i met this guy a few months ago and eventually really started to like him. Then a few nights ago we had sex and then we did again last night but the thing is hes not that big 'down there' and the people i been with before were bigger so when he put it in i didnt even really ... (114 words)

Mother in law always shouting at me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i got married 8 yrs back and have got 1 kid, my problem is in the beginning of my married life my mother in law shouted at me for even small things now too but she keeps on telling my mistakes even now from the beginning. after my marriage she shouted at me and i was scared and ... (142 words)

Change fortnight of a guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a question. Recently not long a guy join in the company where i'm working and is siting opposite me. But don't know why the guy had grew interest in me. Maybe we see each other everyday, and he is new i help him alot on his work. I never think that i will fall in love ... (366 words)

Just found out my husband used to cheat... I'm pregnant what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 3 years and am pregnant with my 2nd child.Recently found out from my husbands x room mate that while we were engaged he was bringing girls back to the house and sleeping with them.Help what should I do.I heard a girl at a bar come over to him and want to ... (89 words)

Husband flirting with all other women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - recently went to a party with my husband he spent the whole night ignoring me and flirting obviously with another married woman there.The minute she left he came straight back to me(after aprox 3 hours)and couldn't understand why I was mad.Was I being unreasonable?... (44 words)

I think he's now using me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been in this relationship for a year now, I really love this guys problem is he doesn't know what he want's in life. On the other side his ex is busy abusing my rights and it also affecting our relationshit. Should I move on with the guy or what?? I really love him... (54 words)

Can't stop watching porn.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi there, i really need some help. Ever since the age of 12 i have been download porn off the internet, its been 6 years now and i still keep doing it.. It is a complete waste of money! I really dont want to watch at all, it does not even do much for me... How can i stop ... (79 words)

Tenn girl needs to know if a boy likes her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - so there's this guy that i've liked for a while, and my friend says that he likes me ...but he's pretty shy. when we're around friends he doesnt seem as keen on me, but when we're alone he's more likely to talk and seem interested in me and what i have to say. i like him, but... (116 words)

I like him but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age - so theres this guy at my school, hes one year older than me so hes not in any of my classes but we always talk at recess and lunch and i asm totally crushing over him. everyhting is pefect except for the fact that he has a grilfriend who doesnt go to this school! one of my ... (160 words)

How to boost her self esteem so we can get the passion in the bedroom back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Sex with my girlfriend used to be great but recently we seem to have hit a bit of a lull. She is younger than me and less experienced and expects me to take the lead in the bedroom. I didn’t mind this at first but after 7 months it is a bit frustrating when i have to d... (145 words)

She goes away all the time. I don't trust her enough to leave her so I don't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend is not scared to plan weekends away with her mates or go out for Thursday nights out on in different towns but I don’t feel like I can. She is 20 and I appreciate that she is younger than me but I at the moment cant seem to afford to go away anywhere and als... (328 words)

Any advice I can give my friend about her stupid man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my mates fella realy gets up my nose. It sounds realy silly but her fella talks to her like poo if she forgets the potatoes or forgets his mouth wash when shes been shopping. he once never spoke to her for four weeks because she forgot the potatoes for his tea. he does it ... (81 words)

I dumped him but want him back... any thoughts on how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - here goes, I was going out with guy not too long ago and due to numerous different reasons we didn't tell anyone, he said that he loved me and I was special to him and meant alot, he also sent me lots of nice texts ect, and I really really liked him, and I think given a little ... (406 words)

What did he mean by "You think you love me"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - After my bf left to go to his place, I couldn't sleep at all... because, when I said "I love you," he responded, "You think you do." What does this mean? That he thinks I really don't, that I am self deceiving, or that if I really knew him, I wouldn't? It's so cryptic... O... (72 words)

Stay at home mom depressed, no motivation! What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help! Im stuck in a rut and dont no wot to do. Im an at home mum of a 9 month old. I feel really depressed, one min im happy, nxt im down and i get really snappy at my boyfriend. I love him and my daughter very much, and hate takin it out on them. I have had post natel ... (111 words)

22 and NOT horny!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 22 and have been with my partner for 5years. He is 50. When the relationship started the sex was amazing. Now, i dont feel horny towards him anymore. Dont feel horny towards any male really. is there something wrong with me? what can i do to change this?... (50 words)

Is he still physically attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ex broke up with me about 6 months ago when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him because thats the type of gal i am but after stuff that he told my best mate i decided i had enough of making an effort with him so i decided to keep my ... (489 words)

He's had affairs, hit me, said horrible things..is this love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband had been caught out having affairs since then we have been trying to talk things through but always end up rowing with him lashing out he throws things somethimes he hits me threatens to kill me,he gets into such a rage i dont think he knows what he doing or what he ... (353 words)

Could I still have sex if on my period? And what could happen to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - well my boyfriends birthday is coming up and his gift i want it to be a night alone. and well been a night alone with your boyfriend things might happedn. the thing is that for that day i might be on the last days of my period. or maybe even a day of it stopped. but if i am on ... (89 words)

This texting lark is doing my head in. Should I dump her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - need advice girlfriend is texting 3 married men and its driving me mad sometimes its just conversation other times it has sexual references we have been going out over a year and are just about to build a house thing is she goes mad if other i even talk to other girls i love... (69 words)

A long story, and I need some advice on this love thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

1 April 2009 (?) age 22-25 - So here goes, Basically I met this girl whom I had a long distance relationship with. It was everything I ever dreamed of and we were gonna make our lives together.We talked for many hours a day, sometimes 5hours, sometimes 10hrs. We made it work for many months but I guess af... (560 words)

Am I fat?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi i just wanted to know , im 5"4 tall and i weigh 165 pounds !! am i fat ?!!!!!!!... (22 words)

I have 2 problems here, but I just want my sister back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 217 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - ok i got 2 problems here. problem #1. ok i just got with this new guy iv been with him for about a week and 3days now... his totally sweet and all but i hear rumours his dating me for a dare by random kids at school.... i spoke to him bout it he said his not but the rumours ... (610 words)

How do I put my family back together after all the heartache this girl has caused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi this is going to be an essay sorry. My son met a girl in Aug 2007 just before he joined the army, then in March 2008 she said she was pregnant,twins they got engaged and we had a family celibration party all was well baby due Nov 28, she was meant to move in with us and we ... (407 words)

Hes sleeping on the couch..leaving at the end of the week, and I don't want him to go!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

1 April 2009 (F)

- Your Open QuestionShow me another » Serious boyfriend troubles? I need some help please. I've been with my partner for 4 years and at the weekend we had a big row and now he is moving out of the house. He is currently sleeping on the couch and will be there for another week... (138 words)

Why is she doing this?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi i am 20 years old and in my life i've gone through ALOT of stuff starting from when i was 12, anyways i've gone through alot of stuff since then. but my main concern is my sister! we used to be so close when she went to University this was away so she wasn't home as o... (616 words)

Do younger guys like older girls?

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1 April 2009 (F) age 26-29 - is wrong to fancy a guy of 27 yaers old and i am 29 years old.its just a question.do younger guys like older girls.2 years is probably a huge age gap. i suppose younger guys don,t like older girls.... (40 words)

Is it true that 45% of women hate having sex?

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1 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - is it true that some woman dont have any sexual feelings?? as some men off course my wife doesn't like sex she is sexually dead. i am afraid i couldn't find a better word. the problem is that i love her, i am not naif and i know how to turn on a lady i mean most of the lad... (334 words)

I'm mixed up! Am I just afraid of change or do I really want to stay?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, this is gonna be a long one! i have a choice to make and i'm going insane trying to figure out which is the best way to go. i have had depression for all my adult life (i'm 33) and i've always had trouble with self esteem. as a result i have gone from varying degrees ... (812 words)

At 27, I like girls but I'm also scared of them

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1 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i am 27 and i am a virgin, this is not a religon thing its a scared thing, in fact i have never even kissed a girl. i dont know why i like girls alot but im afraid of the reaction im gonna get. i have good looks and a great job and have probably upset a lot of girls by not ... (99 words)

Why is this man playing games with me?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to know why is this man playing games with me. We suppose to be in a relationship together we started off knowing each other very well . We even went out to eat on a date he us to give me money . We would go riding at night go to the club together or meet one another ... (331 words)

What does "you are so sweet" mean?

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1 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Can someone please give some input into this scenario? Especially can someone please advisie on what is meant by "sweet" I am from continental Europe and wondered what definition was meant by this? I've been chatting to this girl at the gym for a few months. She is a ... (220 words)

I feel out of the crowd because I can never say sex feels good. What do I do?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - so Is it just me or is it the guy. I've had sex alot of times but It never feels good to me. Idk maybe I'm doing something wrong or focusing more on his needs then mine? but never once has sex with a guy felt good to me. all my girlies tell me how good it feels and I feel out... (80 words)

What are the chances I would end up with this girl again?

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1 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - First off, I broke up with her like almost 3 1/2 weeks ago. I forced her into a position to get the divorce, but things came out that I didn't know about. At first I was upset about the whole situation, but then I realized that I have alot of growing to do right now, even ... (682 words)

What should I do? Stay away from guys for a little bit, or continue this one?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hey people. so... I'm just barly getting over this guy after 2 and a half years of crying over him. I know pretty pathetic right? but he was my first love so I guess I have a good reason. or maybe not. anyways. I've been through ALOT in the past two years. but I finally want to ... (261 words)

Can I play sports with this condition? Does anyone have this?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi i have recently been diagnosed with vasovagal syncope its basically low blood pressure...before i began 2 faint with this alot sports was my world i played all the time..but now after 8 months of waiting for an answer as to weather i can play again, it was revealed to me ... (122 words)

Is it ok to be selfish in a relationship every once in a while?

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1 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi guys just need some feedback to this question. Is it ok to be selfish in a relationship every once in a while?. Meaning that is it ok and normal to think about my needs and not just my partner's needs all the time.... (44 words)

How do you know if they really like you, or just want to sleep with you?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - How do you know if a guy really likes you, or just wants some action? I refuse to be used. I need some advice, preferrably from males. Do you act a certain way, what goes on in your mind? Any signs to look out for.. Ladies, any past experiences?... (57 words)

I'm not IN love with my boyfriend anymore & Not fully over my ex either...

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I and 22 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. However I have been confused about my feelings for him. I feel that I love him, but im not IN love any more. I have wanted to break up many times but have never found the courage to do it. I've been afraid of bein... (372 words)

Help! I'm in love with my teacher! Please don't try to talk me out of telling him

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi everyone! I'm fourteen years old and in eighth grade and I am totally in love with my math/advisory teacher (At my school, advisory is a class you go to for fifteen minutes at the beginning of the day and do activities and stuff). I've had a crush on him since the midd... (254 words)

Anyone's been in my situation??

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1 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok usually i dont ask for help but I guess we could always use some good advice, so heres what i got, I guess you could call it a love triangle, thers this girl that's friends with my ex girl friend and I was friends with her ex, we dont really talk to much any more but we are ... (151 words)

I told him that I do like him but that doesn't mean anything is going to happen

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.I am happily married but am feeling very confused as i am concerned that a married man who i am friendly with may like me a little more than he should. He has done things that make me think this such as being quite shy with me at times, and at other times when we are alon... (190 words)

I need advice please. She is the one that I need!

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1 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Alright, my name is "D". Me and this girl used to date a long time ago back when we first started talking everything seemed to be going fine and it was. After maybe a month of getting to know each other we started dating and i thought that she would be the one for me. Well a co... (233 words)

Ridding myself of a girl that loves me

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1 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - hello everyone ...i broke up with my girlfriend yesterday who really cared for me like her own child ...she was a very responsible, sensible and loving girl with a genuine and pure heart. to be frank, i have always liked her only as a friend and was there with her because... (377 words)

What should I do when we first meet?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - My boyfriend And I have been together for About 5 months now and we're in a long distance relationship. He's coming down this summer And I'm so excited And nervous. How do you think I should be when we meet? ... (40 words)

My parents are religious anti-lifestyle nuts who looked down on my deceased beloved sister

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My best friend committed suicide two days ago and in her note, she said it's because she was in love with me but she knew I came from a Christian family and she didn't want to create a rift between my parents and I. So she kept quiet about even being a lesbian. I'm thoroughly ... (268 words)

Should I go see a doctor about this itchniness?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I lost my virginity just over a month ago and we never used protection. I know it was a stupid mistake. I have had my period but i have had excess of clear fluid and it can be itchy at times. Is this normal or should I go and see a doctor? ... (53 words)

We used to romp the bed every night. Now it's only once a week!

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been dating this guy for a year and a half now, we are very happy together but he still hasn't told me that he loves me and we live together. That's not my only concern. We use to have sex almost every night and now it's only once a week. Am I doing something wrong?... (57 words)

He left. Should I move on too?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - So me and my boyfriend broke up about two weeks ago. We were living together and he told me he didn't want me to leave cuz I was the only girl he wanted to be with. The reason we broke up was because he kinda has been taking care of me. I've been having a hard time finding ... (164 words)

I love both guys

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a dilemma, my aunts and uncles. All help is GREATLY appreciated, because I am truly stuck and I feel so lost, I have about 32 different emotions running through my system and I always end up like grabbing my face and telling myself to cut it out! My ex boyfriend and I ... (336 words)

An explosive geyser or a dribble?

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1 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Men and Women: What is the most you have ever ejaculated in one sex session? What do you think contributed to the amount of ejaculate you had?... (27 words)

Why do I feel weird when he touches me?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hayy!!! I'm kinda confused right now!:( I have this really good friend and he always makes me laugh and he hugs me and sometimes kisses my cheek and just stuff like that.......and I really like him and stuff and he's really REALLY hot!! Everyone thinks so too.....but it's just ... (83 words)

I like them both..they're friends..what a mess!

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - There's 2 guys: Roy and Eddy. Roy is my ex boyfriend. He's really funny and I can always have a good time with him. He is also really nice and I'm pretty sure he would never screw me over. However, there's a couple of bad things about him too. One, he is my brother's best f... (233 words)

When do you stop while having oral sex?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i would like to know some more about oral sex. when giving a blowjob, do you stop when he cums? after he blows his load, and i swallow. is it done ? like, am i suppose to stop? ive never known, and it just feels weird. someone help !... (49 words)

We're dating but I'm really wondering if she's over her ex?

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1 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm currently in a bit of a complicated situation. I've been seeing a girl for the last few months who finished her 4 yr relationship about a year ago. When things started to get couply between us i could tell something was up and she told me that she was confused, and wasn... (248 words)

My sister betrayed me!

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm going to try keep this as short as possible. Basically i've liked this guy (i'll call him james)for a while now. I've not told anyone apart from my sister as we're very close. Last week we all went out (me, james my sister and a few other friends) for some drinks. It was ... (422 words)

He walked out on me, 3 kids, home and bills!

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a single mother of three children My youngest is 22mnths old and her father walked out on me on his birthday. I do admit I went overboard with the breakup but now I having problems because I want him back. My question is I have not called him since sunday afternoon... (215 words)

Broke up but he still responds to me

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - does anyone know what are the signs that a partner that has just broken up with you still has feeling for you? My partner has just broken up with me and says wants to be friends and is not going walk away, but, still calls me babe on the odd occasion and beautiful in messages... (69 words)

What do I do about porn in the workplace?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok...i have had heaps of issues with my hubby and porn over the past 8 years. He has finally dealt with it through counselling talking etc... Everything is great with us now. Now my problem is at work. See my boss has been visiting porn sites, dating sites etc. (he is marrie... (231 words)

Protection always used but could she be pregnant?

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1 April 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - I am 16 I have had sex with my girl a lot of times with protection I never go without protection.None of the condoms broke each time I did it I just wanna kno could she be pregnant?... (38 words)

I cheated on him and he took me back but I wonder if hes trying to get back at me by his actions

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - this is a long distant realtionship i have with my bf he lives 3hrs away frm me we have been going out for 5 months n some times i feel like he doesnt love me as much as he says he does idk if this matters but i feel like i tell him i love you more than he tells me like the ... (204 words)

How long should you wait to go on a vacation with your boyfriend?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - How long do you wait to go on a (4) day vacation with your current boyfriend? Is there a time limit or just as long as you're comfortable with that person? ... (35 words)

How long does sperm stay alive?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, I need to know the real answer to my question.. I keep hearing different things and I'm unsure. If a couple uses the pull-out method (cum in your belly and around the vajina). You go to the restroom and wipe but it goes in and around your vajina. Is there still a high ris... (76 words)

What is wrong with me? I've been single forever

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Why can't I find a boyfriend? I am almost 21 and I have actually never been in a real relationship. I feel like a loser because everyone else I know has been. The closest thing I got to one was with a guy who I was starting to see but slept with another girl behind my back. I ... (146 words)

I know I'm "ready" but I'm scared his penis won't fit in me...

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my bf have been dating for about 4 months and I'm still a virgin but he's obviously not. I really want him to be the one because I trust him fully and even if we do break up - I just know that he's the one. I'm only 14 but I know I'm ready. I mean I've been on birth co... (124 words)

Should I meet up with my mother again after all this time?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 27 years old and have not spoken to my mother since I was 16. She married my step father when I was 10 and he began molesting me shortly there after. After 6 years of molestation and rape I finally found the nerve to tell my mother what was happening. When I told her she ... (191 words)

Is it ever a good idea to let the husband of a married woman know that she is cheating on him?

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1 April 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Is it ever a good idea to let the husband of a married woman know that she is cheating on him? These are my neighbors and friends but not super great friends. They've been married for 19 years. I've seen her leave a bar late one night with a strange man - her husband was ... (142 words)

Can we even be friends? I don't know what to think!

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - This guy and I were friends for about a year and we always got along, we flirted on and off with eachother, but nothing ever really came about. As time went on, I noticed that he started doing little things that seemed like he liked me--but he never made a move. I KNOW that I ... (533 words)

Any other ways to avoid pregnancy besides plan b?

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1 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - my boyfriend decided to presure me into unprotect sex, which i wasnt to happy about. but right now i dont care about that, i just care about being pregnate. it was my frist time having sex, and he didnt cum inside of me, but im still very woried. and i heared about plan b, but ... (79 words)