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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It's Just Lunch???

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21 April 2009 (?) age 51-59 - So if you are used to your boyfriend reporting what he eats for lunch, and then one day you are both talking about what you ate, and instead of him saying what he ate, he rolls out a huge long story of how he gave his bank card to someone else to pick up food and repeats the ... (91 words)

She runs to her ex whenever we argue

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for two and a half years now. She will not stop talking to her ex-husband, via text, phone calls, him popping in at my house. I have told her its understandable because they have children that they communicate, but I have seen the texts to him. ... (93 words)

What exactly is an orgy?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Whats an orgy?? Im just curious, ive heard it in movies and stuff, but i just dont know what it is!... (21 words)

Will there ever be someone for me?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, well im 16 at the moment, i'm 17 in just over a week and basicaly ive never had a boyfriend. I've never really been interested in relationships, obviously I've fancied guyss and stuff, but I've only kissed 3 boys, once each. One of them i met through a friend and only ever ... (163 words)

Is he interested more because I turned him down?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this guy and we kissed a couple times. He wanted to have sex but I said no. Three months later and I am seeing one of his best friends and he constantly lingers around us when we are together. My friend tells me that he constantly stares at me and I have actually caught ... (91 words)

I really need to move on from this relationship -- how can I do it?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I cant get over my ex. I met him when i was 17. We moved in together we i was 19 he was 20. The 1st couple of years were great. Then he started going out with lads not coming home on a weekend making me feel worthless lying to me about where he'd been. Kept his phone on him a... (300 words)

In love with my brother-in-law -- should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I am in love with my brother in law, I can't wait to see him, talk to him, dream about sex and relationships with him, but I don't think he feels same way about me although we do get on very well. I just don't know what to do, or to mention it to him?... (57 words)

Boyfriend told lies in email

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i have just read an email in my out box by my boyfriend to a woman he works with. In it he says that he was very much in love with a woman who was married, she left her husband to be with him only to leave him weeks later saying she was needed at home. He goes on to sa... (242 words)

I don't know how to fix all the bad things I've said to him and now he's dying...

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really about relationship, dating, love, or sex but I need help anyways. Well, actually I guess it could count as a relationship because I have a daughter/dad relationship with my dad. Well I'm fifteen. My dad has been out of my life a lot... in prison, selling ... (255 words)

One year anniversary

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's almost me and my boyfriend's one year anniversary... Can you guys give me some help on present ideas? Or like anything we can do that's special? Thanks! ... (29 words)

Fancy dress ideas.

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was just wondering if anyone had any fancy dress costume ideas, they're having a fancy dress day at college on Friday and I have no idea what to dress up as. All comments wellcome, thanx x... (41 words)

She seems to have time for friends and other strangers, but not for me...

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I not sure about a thing here; Am I being too jealous? My girlfriend seems to have less interest in me. She didn't call, or send me a message on facebook for 2 days. Usually we talk every day, But she messages this other guy; Finishing her messages with; Lots of love ... (134 words)

I feel sick now at the thought that we both slept with other people. Why can I not get this out of my head?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a really lovely guy and dated him for about 4 months but he never showed me any signs of commitment so I eventually ended the relationship and slept with an very old old ex boyfriend from years back and we had a one night stand and we ended up back together as he said he ... (109 words)

How to make a move at the end of a date?

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a hard time making a move on a girl. I can go out on dates and have a wonderful time but when the date is getting over i don't know how to close the deal. I guess what I'm tryin to say is that i don't know if she is interested or not and if she is what do i do about it?... (65 words)

Help! Is this the beginning of the end for us?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months now and when we started going out things were great, but now she does not want to spend as much time with me any more. I understand that we need to spend time apart, but do this mean it's the beginning of the end?... (55 words)

Should I meet my on-line friend for exercise?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone! Thanks for showing interest in my question! Here's my situation: I've been talking to this guy who I've become really interested in. He definitely has dating potential because he's handsome, intellectual and I can grow to like him but right now we're talking to ... (210 words)

My teacher has a crush on me!

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do?! My Maths teacher has a crush on me since about 2 years ago. And it is bothering me. I can't concentrate in class , while she stares at me occasionally. She even thinks i like her as well! But I don't! She's annoying me sooo much! And the worst thing is s... (74 words)

We get on great most of the time but I can't take the verbal abuse from him much longer.

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months now, I'm 24 and he's 21. Lately we have been arguing about everything, he gets mad if I don't call him when I leave or get somewhere but then he does the same thing sometimes and I don't get angry, he would say something ... (303 words)

Mood swings are driving me crazy

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, Please help me... So, Im going through this age when Im all hormonal and my emotions are all over the place. One minute I am really happy and the next i just want to cry for no reason! I have great friends... and everyday at school is great! I think If i talk to my mo... (193 words)

How to make the first move with my bi friend?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can we date when we're both too shy to ask each other out? I'm 15 and basically, me and my best mate, (both of us are bi) have feeling for each other and more than anything we both want to get together. I know she likes me because its obv in the way she behaves and our best ... (153 words)

How could my best friend's dad stoop so low as to offend his own daughter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend had her "wedding" this weekend, well, it was a wedding but she couldn't go through with it. It wasn't because of her groom - he's an absolutely lovely guy. It wasn't because of worries about the wedding - she was so happy to get married to him. It was becau... (370 words)

Boyfriend's ex flirting with him -- in front of me!

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. So, I was wondering if you could give me some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for four months now and have been very strong together. I know I'm young but don't worry I am not doing anything illegal or anything I will regret, not anytime soon either! An... (180 words)

Normal for a straight girl to fantasize about gay sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes when I masturbate I think of lesbians. But I'm a straight girl. Is this normal?... (18 words)

Unprotected sex, partner got a STD -- I'm scared!

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21 April 2009 (F) - I'm 21 years old. I've had 9 parteners in my life. I used protection with only half of them. I heard my ex recently got tested for gonorrhea and got positive. I'm going to get tested and treated this week and i'm soooo scared!!!!! I'm so scared I got AIDS. Please calm me down. ... (110 words)

Sleeping with twin brothers -- what should I do?

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21 April 2009 (F)

- Im seeing this guy, its a strict just sex thing, then i met his brother, they are twins but not identical. Tom* doesn't mind that i like Brian*, he knows i like him, and brian knows im sleeping with tom. I always use protection, i really really do like Brian, he is lovely, ... (342 words)

Bleeding when you come off the pill?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - do you get breakthrough bleeding as soon as you come off birth control/mini pill, i was on this pill for 5 months... (22 words)

Didn't take the morning-after pill; could I be pregnant?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex on Monday of last week and I didn't take the morning after pill i had some bleeding for four days starting on thursday of last week and ending on sunday the 19th of april. i did some research and found out that the bleeding might not be my period and i have a great ... (171 words)

Should I end it with my b/f?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so, i have been with my bf for nearly 6 months, an we've started arguing, a lot. It's mostly about how clingy he is and how he cant take a joke without having a temper tantrum like a small child. But i don't know what to do, apart from anything there's this guy i really ... (125 words)

He has this attitude like, I’m lucky that he is even here.

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - About 7 years ago I was married to my husband; everything seemed to be ok up until about 4 years ago our 3 children and I moved out of state expecting for him to follow shortly. It took him a year to come get here. Then after being here for a month because he couldn’t find a ... (657 words)

I get really mad at guys who go after younger girls

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This is not really a relationship question but is it wrong for to want to kick the asses of men who go after younger women? Not like a 50 year old and 40 year old, I mean a 40 year old and a 17 year old. I used to work at a place and a disgusting 45 year old male manager was... (346 words)

My husband found out he was molested

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i need help. My husband found out he had been molested as a child, but he doesn't know who or even when. He says he knows it happened. He has not wanted to have sex with me at all. He used to ask for it every day and he used to get off to porn when i said no, but now, he has ... (88 words)

Am I a bad mom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm wondering if I'm a bad mother? My kids are 4 and 20 months. Both boys. My oldest is very hyper and we actually had him screened for ADHD and he isn't. But I swear he is! he bounces off walls. It doesn't matter what we do he's all over the place, hooting and hollaring and ... (296 words)

I have absolutely no clue how you can get STI's

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When you give someone a hand job, can u get an STI?? I don't understand why you can't? Also, what infections can you get from kissing loads of people at a party, when everyone is getting off with one another? HELP!... (41 words)

What are first signs of pregnancy?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think i'm pregnant. So i just want to know when should i expect pregnancy signs and what are the first signs?... (22 words)

Is she just winding me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Evening all. I was hoping to get some advice. we are a very close knit team at work and often go out for meals and clubbing etc...now lately 1 girl (who im closest to)over the past few month has organized nights out without inviting me...i haven't spoken to her about it a... (190 words)

Cheated on the love of my life

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I Cheated on my boyfriend. I am wracked with guilt. I have been with my boyfriend for five months and already know hes the guy I'm going to marry. There is no doubt in my mind hes the one for me. Yet I cheated. Not any excuse for this. He lives in another province, I ... (334 words)

He has been hurt badly and told me to move on

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I separated from my husband four years ago and recently went out on my first real date, I met the guy online and he turned out to be a wonderful person, from the first time I saw him I felt a connection. He invited me to a nice dinner, drinks, very attentive. We went out on... (479 words)

Why would they wait until 24 weeks to deliver?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am pregnant, due on July 25th. About a month ago my sister lashed out on me [she has a drug problem, something I'm trying to help her with]. She punched me hard in the back and sides. After that I couldn't stand up and I began to have contractions. I rushed to the ER and they ... (279 words)

My family situation is stressing me out

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, in year 11 and in 3 weeks I will be doing my GCSE exams. Last year I found out my dad was cheating on my mum, she already knew about it and it had been going on for 3 years. My family (me, mum, dad and brother) all talked about it and wanted to know the inside story. I ... (661 words)

How long will it take the b/c to become active again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started taking birth control, I started the bith control pills a week ago. Well, two days after starting birth control, I ended up getting sick with a sore throat and I was put on antibiotics from being sick and the doctor told me that the birth control would be ... (95 words)

Any special rules on DC?

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21 April 2009 (M)

age - Are there any rules on this site for answering quesions as an AA? Any rules of etiquette? taboo subjects? good form? Or if this site like a knife fight? (Aint no rules in a knife fight.) I have looked around the site and have not found any. Just want to know before I po... (67 words)

I broke up with her but now I miss her and watch her every move

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have just got out of a LDR which lasted 6 years, at first it felt the right thing to do as the distance between us became too much of a strain, only seeing each other 3 or 4 times a year. We decided to break up in March, everything seemed ok at first but now i miss her s... (200 words)

Can I be in trouble with the law for kissing his wife?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - After I kiss a married woman and she left to home the husband come to me with many questions he can do something by the law againt me? ... (28 words)

Why so jealous of other people's relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1976 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - why do i get so easily jealous of other peoples relationships? ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and are moving in together next month, we have never had an argument and never bicker or fight, we love each other so much, are really happy and have a very open and honest ... (215 words)

Why do I love the manwhores?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - lets see im sage and i 18 and for the past 4 years i have been dating manwhores. i dont know what it is i attract them and i can never seem to get them out of my system as hard as i try i always run in to them and then take them back. i used to know how to handle myself in ... (188 words)

I don't want us to break up..help!

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend broke up with me when she was on holiday. I told her i was fine with this and i went away myself skiing for a week. Whilst there i had an accident that meant i should be dead but i have survived with considerably minor injuries. Upon my return there was a party ... (564 words)

He couldn't get it up help!

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - so i've been friends with this guy for about 4 months now, we've hung out and we're cool with each other. we get along really well and decided that neither of us wanted a relationship but that we wanted to have sex with each other. sort of a friends with benefits kind of thing. ... (100 words)

B/f wants to hang out with new girl and I don't feel good about it

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so lost. I'm not sure if I'm happy or if I'm deluding myself from what the truth really is. Well, here we go. I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly three years. We live together, spend a lot of time together, and don't have too many fights. We get along, are quite... (656 words)

Bleeding after shaving private areas

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like to keep my private parts completely shaved but every time I shave them I bleed a lot, it's not that I cut myself I think it's just because it's such a sensitive area. It then looks all spotty and nasty and I often get ingrown hairs. What can I do to keep the area ... (63 words)

LDR--Am I being a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i have been in a LDR for almost a year and a half, i usually see my boyfriend about two days each fortnight. He had a job up my way this thursday and said that after he had done that we could go out for a few hours afterwards. I spoke with him on the phone today and said... (202 words)

How can I be single and travel safely in another country?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really would love some advice about a real dilemna I'm facing. What do you do if you're single, and you're a woman and you have made up your mind to travel to another country? (In my case, Spain) I've made up my mind to go, but I don't have anyone to go with me and I'm ... (316 words)

Help I thought I was with her but it was all a lie,

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so Here's a long story cut short, I've been mates with this girl for 8 years, she was with her ex and engaged to get married for 4 years, she said she didn't wanna be with him no more, she wants to be with me so she dumped him and said can I be your girl. A few weeks ha... (164 words)

How to deal with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to a guy since the past five months. He's a wonderful person and extremely decent. We both met through common friends and my friend gave my number to him since I am single and he’s also single so we both exchanged numbers. Till now we both are friends. ... (439 words)

How can I motivate myself to become more organised?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and have been having a lot of stress. Here are things that stress me out. -Overload of school work -Courswork -Exams -Exam Revision -Having time to myself -Not doing any piece of homework stresses me out and I worry a lot What I need help on is how to org... (231 words)

I get visions of my girlfriend cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

21 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I get visions of my girlfriend cheating on me. I don't know if it's the paranoia that I have created in my mind or she is truly cheating on me. In the past, she hasn't shown any traits of doing so, in fact she has always been very loyal and trustful. But, her parents don... (282 words)

Please can you help me make sense of him here.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I just wanted to ask you all a question: I told a guy I liked him, but he said it's not possible because of the age difference and the fact that he has a girlfriend. Although we are very close still, as friends and have talked about it. He has a personal obligati... (211 words)

I'm not jealous but why do I still feel this nagging feeling after all this time?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. I go with him to take his kids back to his ex-wife from visits. I know that he loves me but when the exchange is being made I always feel as if they still should be togehter. His ex-wife is remarried but just looking ... (84 words)

I hate what he did to me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need more advice please especially from people who have actually been there done that type of thing.... ok so is been about 2 weeks now my bf and I broke up, I went to the club this weekend and found him there with another girl, of course I fought her and ended up fighting ... (228 words)

Do you think this guy deserves a second chance? I am very hurt, I don't need him in my life any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in this realationship for the past 4 years. I have given my all to this guy, I had to change my ways just so we could be happy. He has been everything I ever wanted in a man. Last year I caught him cheating with a girl from outside our town. I felt like a piece ... (160 words)

My husband has said if I don't partake in his sick fantasy he will leave me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been married for last 5 years and am madly in love with my husband. Since last year he has been fantasizing for a threesome. He is forcing me go for it with him, at the same time he does not want to commit that this is his fantasy and he wants to do it rather he ... (266 words)

We are on a break now, but am I wasting my time on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, i am a 38 year old female and after a two year relationship with a guy that i really care for a lot we have decided to take a break as we have no sex life, in fact the last time we had sex was May 08. He tended to go missing for periods of time and then turn up with not ... (367 words)

I'm torn between two men and its so confusing!

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im a torn between two men and its so confusing! My ex wants me back and a new man does to but hes wiv someone. I was with my ex 3 yrs on/off but bascially we keep spilting up cos i want more in the relationship. Hes always going off doing things by himself with his mates we d... (228 words)

Do women get more turned on by men taking the lead in the bedroom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I think the title says it all really, but is it true? Provided us men do the right thing and ask what the woman wants obviously, is it hotter and more of a turn on for women when men take control and lead when it comes to sex?... (55 words)

How many white guys find Indian women a turn on?

This question has 69 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an Indian Girl. I have always been attracted to White Guys. This is kind of a poll question. How many white guys find Indian women a turn on? Is the dark skin a turn off?... (41 words)

Inquisitive .. exploring my sexual preference

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been in a relationship with my man since i was 17, im now 22. Hes the only person i have had a relationship with or been intimate with. However, im starting to become slightly attracted and turned on by the female form, and want to know are the feelings normal or is it a si... (101 words)

Why do I end up liking guys who are unattainable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello there, I noticed that when I like someone, I usually lose interest when the attention is reciprocated. Therefore I end up liking guys who are unattainable. What is wrong with me and is there a cure? I'm already nearing 40 and I wish I could like someone permanently!... (52 words)

Do all women like the taste of semen or are there women out there like me that don't like the taste of it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my partner for 5 years now (he is the only person I have ever been with) but there's one problem... I don't like the taste of his semen!! But watching porn movies women seem to love the taste of their mens semen?! Do all women like the taste of semen or are ther... (101 words)

Help! I feel I'm really struggling with life...

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21 April 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I'm a 22 year old female, and I'm really struggling with life. Everything seems to be going wrong, one after another. Just when I think things are starting to improve, something else happens. It's just general stuff really, health problems, neighbour problems, family... (134 words)

Am I reading to much into this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 yrs. He was going through a divorce when we met but that was finalized over 2 yrs. ago. The problem that I have is that he is still on his ex wife's cell phone plan so when he calls me, her name shows up. We do not live toge... (394 words)

I had tubal ligation, but could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I would really love some feedback about this, it is important. 7 years ago I had a tubal ligation done, but last month I found out I was pregnant only it was in my tubes. Now it's the following month and I am experiencing some of the same symptoms except for I'm not havi... (266 words)

How do I get the courage to make that call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old college student, and this question is about a woman. "S" has been after me for a while. Nothing too overt, but none the less I understood what was going on pretty quickly. I wrote it off a bit as the freshman girl's (which she is) need to find a guy in co... (542 words)

I'm lost for sex turn ons and ready to give up... Advice Please!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I dated my wife for four years. She believed in no sex before marriage so we didn't have sex even though she wasn't a virgin. On our wedding night we had sex and she seemed to enjoy it. In the following months we had sex once or twice but she just laid their most of the time... (352 words)

I'm not on birth control. Can I get pregnant?

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21 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I'm not on birth control but when I have sex with my boyfriend he doesn't ejaculate inside my vagina. He normally ejaculates on my stomach but last weekend he was a bit slow pulling out and some of his sperm went in me. It was mostly outside but I could feel some got in. He... (128 words)

This guy just hurt my feelings. I'm going to move on but I don't know how to stop texting him.

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy just hurt my feelings. I'm going to move on but I don't know how to stop texting him. Do you have any advice on how I can forget him and move on? I told him that he hurt my feelings and he didn't really care to much. Well if he doesn't care about me why should I talk ... (82 words)

Should I try and pursue this relationship through University?

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been in a relationship for almost a year and a half with my girlfriend. We Were/are both in love with each other but a couple months ago we broke up briefly when she was questioning our relationship and kissed another guy due to this. During this period she confesse... (294 words)

I can't live with my husband but I can't live without him either.

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I'm not sure if I'm "RIGHT or WRONG" I'm a married women and have a child 4 years old. My problem is my husband thinks that he is the boss in our marriage, whatever he says he thinks it should go, ok like when it was his birthday, I got up in the morning and went ... (255 words)

How do I resolve this situation with my boyfriend of 9 months?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am madly in love with my boyfriend of 9 months. For half of the relationship he was nothing but an asshole because he was depressed. I've been under some stress lately and I have been acting pretty stupid, bitching at him all the time, flipping out, etc. We think we are p... (85 words)

When I don't see her it's as if I just don't exist...

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a gay girl in a relationship! I have been with my girl for 3 months, but I liked her for 5 months before we got together, but didn't think she was interested so I started seeing someone else, then my girl tells me she is jealous that I'm seeing this other girl and so we got ... (248 words)

Is this normal after a break up or am I avoiding the whole thing?

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21 April 2009 (F)

- Myself and partner broke up about 3 weeks ago. He moved out of my house. I was pretty upset the first week. We had been doing a fair bit of arguing during the lead up to the break up. This is his third week being gone and I haven't seen him around. I was a bit upset at the week... (141 words)

I don't know how she feels for me as she blows hot and cold. I'm so confused.

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was dating my ex for the last 2 years and everything was amazing, but the other night she came around and I was very tired from assignments and tests and she was too from national sports. In the end we had a stupid argument over pretty much nothing and we broke up, she said... (282 words)

Shall I ask to be friends with my ex?

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am still very fond of an ex who cheated on me, It was sometime ago and I know things haven’t worked out for her with him and they never would. She has played games with me and I have I guess played games with her. I know now we can never be together and to be honest I d... (256 words)

How should I act so he won't dislike me?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started my new relationship with a guy who is 11 years older than me 3 days ago. I am 22 and he is 34. I like him but I think I am also paranoid. The days after we got together, he text me to ask me how I was doing. He didn't come to see me during the day because he went ... (293 words)

I'm so tired of chasing him, how can I get him to chase me for once?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for the past few months although we never actually established what we officially were. He had to go to the hospital a while back and have some surgery, which was scary, but he has been out for around three weeks now and is pretty much back to ... (551 words)

Could you give me any ideas what I could do to put a stop to this?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i need some sound advice pls. i have been in a relationship for 13 years the first year i ended it twice but the second time i found out i was pregnant so we gave it another go he asked me to marry him and i said yes. for the first 4 years i put everything i could into mak... (403 words)

Engaged but thinking of the other guy. What should I do?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my name is "Sh" i've been in a long lasting crush over a guy i know since i was 15 years old. for the last 3 years we were talking and he was flirting all the time but never said anything serious. recently i met another guy he was serious from the start and i agreed to ge... (209 words)

What should I do if I bump into my ex again?

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - in febraury, my (ex)girlfriend broke up with me although sayin everything would be the same except no sex. she wasnt normal (i guess cuz she missed me) and we havnt spoke to each other since then. as time went by, typical things have happened such as she tryin to get me jealous ... (291 words)

We think I might be pregnant

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm New and Well... I'm sorta worried. I've know my friend for a WHILE~ and We just hooked up. We are SO~ much A like! Clones maybe. Ha! Well, one day we hung out and just enjoyed our selfs. and when we came back we watched tv and well... I guess we got close. We had s... (717 words)

Question for men: Does porn get you off or is it a fantasy that you would like to act out for real?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd like to ask any men out there,if you get off on something on porn movies does this mean it is a fantasy that you would like to act out for real??? My partner of 7 years has been watching porn ,but 95% of it was anal sex!I decided to ask him if this is something he want... (131 words)

Wife fantasized about her friend and our sex was great!

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Im a 28 yearold man married for 4years and to put it nicely, my sex life has not been what u would call active. i recently found out that my attraction for her has not been returned as much as i would want. i guess im not all that attractive a little overweight. she saw an ... (115 words)

Falling for a friend; leave my husband?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My situation is that I am a married woman with a child, my husband and I have not been on the same communication level for about a year. He and I both work all the time and I am also a full time student---never have time for each other. I have tried talking to him even on the ... (339 words)

Not had sex for a while and am I little bit scared of going there again...

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21 April 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I've been single for a while (9 months), and by saying I've been single, I also mean celibate. I haven't even dated anyone until now, so am feeling socially challenged to my list of concerns. I am all kinds of nervous about sex with someone new, self-conscious, mostly. ... (171 words)

He's too gentle during love making. How can I ask him to be a little rougher?

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21 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I just realized that I am unsatisfied during sex with my b/f of 2 years and I know why.... I'm not sure if he tries to be so gentle with me because I was in an abusive relationship or if this is just the WAY HE has sex. He is always so GENTLE. I want to be touched a little r... (351 words)

Follow up: Starting a relationship when one is in jail

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay i Know i just asked a question but i don't think i was clear and it was confusing.. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/starting-a-new-relationship-while-one-is-in.html Here it goes... ************************************************** I have a male really good friend ... (225 words)

How do we overcome our weight insecurities?

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21 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hiya everybody! My boyfriend and I both struggle with our weight and have insecurities about it. I think he's drop-dead gorgeous, but whenever I say so he thinks I'm kidding or mocking him. Any way to get him to believe me? (were both working on our weights, it's not like we... (66 words)

What are some basic but definite ways to turn a guy on during foreplay?

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21 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - What are some basic but definite ways to turn a guy on during foreplay? My boyfriend and I are both virgins, and we're going slow. But we recently started messing around, and I really wanna turn him on! We're both inexperienced (and he knows that), I don't want him to be ab... (79 words)

He says he is not sure if he wants a relationship. Is there anything I can do to change his mind?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been "dating" this guy for two months now. He says that he really likes me but doesn't see the need to label our relationship, at least not yet because he is not ready to be my boyfriend and he hasnt had a girlfriend in 2 years. My friends say we act like a real coup... (140 words)

Any tips on asking if she is interested in continuing the relationship?

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21 April 2009 (F) age 36-40 - My situation involves my old high school sweetheart. In jr. high school I met her and thought she was cute. We became friends and had a lot fun. In high school we dated. I went to the high school prom with her and we had a fun time. We wanted to take our relationship furt... (320 words)

How can we be sure that sex helps in establish closeness and intimacy?

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21 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have a nice boyfriend. I want our relationship to become closer and establish intimacy. Is kissing and sex a good way of becoming closer in a relationship? Is kissing and sex a good way of establishing intimacy? How can be used as a way of establishing intimacy? How can we b... (64 words)

What are we doing?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age - Ok this is going to take a real open minded person or professional cuz this is a very different kind of relationship with a very different kind of man. Ok I met and married who I believed was the love of my life. Life and love was great for 6months. Things were going down hil... (392 words)

Please help ASAP! Should I stay or should I go?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay- so i've been seeing this guy for about 4 months on and off. I've been taking things very slow because I really like him and I wasn't sure at the begining but my feelings have grown more and more lately. BUT- at the begin. when he was very into me- I wasn't sure and now ... (143 words)

How can an inexperienced virgin, fearful of relationships, learn to be a great sexual lover?

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - ...I M a 38 year Caucasian old heterosexual male completely inexperienced with relationships. Not only a virgin, I have never been been in a relationship or even DATE depending on the definition of 'date'? Significantly introverted, in fact I was born with autistic tendenc... (542 words)

Ideas on spicing up a relationship while remaining "pure"?

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21 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I'm 15 and I wear a purity promise ring. The vow my ring symbolizes is that I will not have sex until marriage, but oral sex and feeling up of any "private" area is also included in what I've sworn not to do. I have no problem with this promise. I feel ... (147 words)

Starting a new relationship while one is in jail: Good or bad idea?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a really good friend that was arrested in december of '08...we aren't sure how much time he will be spending locked up. but the thing is i have always been there for him even when he was in a bad bike accident and i was there through the whole 9 yards with him.. He jus... (139 words)

Question about scheduling the pill

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When you are on birthcontrol is it bad to cut your period short? so instead of it being the full week you would start taking the active pills again after 5 days. would it leave you at a higher risk for pregnancy?... (42 words)

I want to wear the saree just like my wife does

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am male , 49 yers old. I am wearing sareea since last 15 years, without knowing to my wife. She caught me some time but did not express anything . What shall I do .hall I start openly wearing saree?... (41 words)

Who do I choose? My husband or the other guy?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm on a fence. Still. But I think I'm falling for this guy who is not my husband. Why can't I leave my husband then??? Every time I see my guy or see a photo of him I think, I need him, I want him. He wants me, he says thats all he wants is me. And he wants me to be hap... (269 words)

What can I do to keep him? I really do love this man but I'm scared!!

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i got to be honest so I am kinds worried about my relationship. I have been so mean to my boyfriend for awhile know. I'm not too sure why buy I get so mad at him and sometimes its not his fault. I love him with everything I can! We are both under a lot of stress we are in the p... (182 words)

I want to play hard to get..just don't know what to do . . .

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy but he has a girlfriend BUT i know he has to be a bit into me. we hang out and when we do he puts his arm around me and gets sad if i move and touches me etc. but we havent kissed. i want him to want me more but i dont want to seem like a hoe for being all over... (173 words)

Is it okay to date a guy that's younger than me?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy at school, we're both in college and he is a bit younger than me, I don't know if its okay to date a younger guy? What do you think? and I'm not sure what he would think of it?... (43 words)

Wants to be friends -- is there hope for a relationship?

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello guys, and thanks for reading my question. I recently broke up with my handsome about a month back, and he felt that it was better to be friends and was not ready for a relationship. I was hurt and upset and a bit emotional for a while, however, I have taken a positive... (524 words)

I'm dying inside

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I am dieing inside. My marriage of 13 years has come to an end. I never seen it coming, we were the perfect couple (almost). Things just slowly declined to the point of no return. The pain is so bad I can't eat, I cry all the time I just don't know what to do. Has anyone ... (73 words)

Why do I stay with him?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Tonight I wanted to have sex w my boyfriend and we were kissing and I was giving him oral sex and asked him to kiss me down there and when he went down on me he told me that I was too dry and he didn't want to have sex. I was disappointed because I really wanted to but said ... (389 words)

Can I get pregnant on the pill?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get pregnant if im on the pill and just barely stopped taking it. How long will it take for me to know. How do I know if I can even get pregnant or if mY boyfriend can even get me pregnant.... (44 words)

A time of the month where I'm more at risk?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am on birthcontrol and take it regularly but I was wondering if even on birthcontrol there is a time of the month that you are more at risk to get pregnant. I ask because my period will finish on friday and I am seeing my long distance boyfriend on saturday.... (51 words)

He's not attracted to me anymore??

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My man is 23 we have three kids and we are trying to find advice on a problem. Sometimes during sex he won't get off or he goes limp. I am starting to think he may not be attracted to me anymore although he says different. I may just be way too insecure but I hate feeling this ... (79 words)

Who do I choose -- boring & dependable or dynamic with a temper?

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21 April 2009 (F)

- I need direction: Man #1 Sweet, polite, compassionate, treats me like gold. A real gentleman BUT I am not attracted to him, there is no sexual chemistry and we have nothing in common. In fact I sometimes find him to be a bit boring, but I know he'd take care of me and love me ... (163 words)

He's sick and he's pushing me away

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is pushing me away because he is sick. He was there for me and saw me almost die last year when i was sick. He is going through a nasty divorce and his kids have already chosen the other side. He says he can't choose me over them because he can handle not being ... (186 words)

What kind of sign is this?

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hey i would like some advice! i saw this girl on myspace and she had the same hobbies i had so i decided to send her a friend request! so we emailed back and forth for a couple of days and it seemed good. after a few emails i sent her one asking if "she would maybe want to meet ... (357 words)

He wants to be FWB

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21 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I am a teen girl and this guy I had a crush on wanted to be friends with benefits. We had never really spoken before and I was confused. I said yes at first, but then I changed my mind before we actually did anything. He was nice about it and promied not to tell anyone any of ... (83 words)

I can't make my g/f cum

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a lesbian, and i have pleasured many women in the past and made them all come..but recently i have a new girlfriend, and she has never managed to come with guys before because she fancied women, but now she is with me.. i still cannot make her come. Anybody got any tips? ... (57 words)

How do you make a man feel appreciated?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband always says you don't appreciate me. He is a hard worker and I always tell him what a good man he is. Our sex life is awesome. I just don't know what more he want. Does anyone have any suggestions?... (42 words)

How do I tell him I have herpes?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age - I have been dating a man a very short time and I want to tell him I am HSV2 (herpes) positive. I just do not know how. Please help.... (29 words)

Is my age really that big of a deal? What happened to mental maturity?

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone.. i sort of started with this girl. Well not formally saying we like each other we we both know how we feel about each other. But last few weeks she was so cold and i started to worry and two nites ago she said stupid hugger, what does that exactly mean?? ... (117 words)

We're no longer as lovey dovey

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months. Everything was going great, we were loving to each other during school and we spent some time together on the weekends. But, things have been going downhill since a month ago. Her father is very protective with her and does ... (225 words)

I don't want to lose a good friend, but she has girlfriend potential!

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I dated a girl i really liked. She liked me for a long time but I was in a relationship so when I split up with my girlfriend I hooked up with her. This is when I realized I found someone who was perfect for me, she had a bubbly personality that brought her loads of attenti... (483 words)

Would you forgive him and take him back?

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21 April 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I have a live-in boyfriend of three years. Here's my problem: I want to know if I can trust him today to be what he claims he is. But I don't trust him and wonder if I should give it a shot or walk. In the first 1.5 years, he hated my three children, hid them from hi... (780 words)

How can you make a woman feel sexy?

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Simply put, I'd like some ideas on what can you do/say to make a woman feel really sexy...... (20 words)

Why do I get excited when I hear from him? What does this all mean?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, something really weird is happening to me. I am 25 years old. I had my very first sexual encounter at 19 years old. It was with my high school boyfriend. We went our separate ways after this and now 6 years later we are in contact again. During these years of separation he ... (194 words)

If two virgins have sex, (and no protection is used), does that mean that neither will get a sexually tramsmitted disease?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If you are a virgin, you can't have a sti, as you have never has sex, right?? So, In theory, if two virgins have sex, (and no protection is used), does that mean that neither will get a sexually tramsmitted disease? Please answer!!! I need to know!!... (53 words)

How can I pursue things emotionally and sexually with her without losing it? I love this woman to bits!

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known this one amazing, beautiful, funny, intelligent woman for four years now and have never been able to stop thinking about her. We actually dated for four months back when we first met at the end of sophomore year but the timing and other factors just weren't right. ... (477 words)

Should I wait a month and contact him?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm really confused. Heres the situation: Me and my ex-boyfriend dated for a little over a year. Then he said it was best we separated because he thought I may feel like I'm trapped and that I could find a man who is more deserrving. He also has major psychological problems ... (371 words)

Respecting my privacy.

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I get some privacy? I was masturbating the other night with the comforter over me, just in case someone came in and I was completely naked and my mom walked in flipped the light on, and sat on my bed and started talking to me about church last week. How can I explain to ... (76 words)

Getting the man you want and keeping him!

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21 April 2009 (M)

age - How does a woman show a man she really likes him and knows that she has found the ideal partner from the point of view of having recently met him, and knowing a few of his interests. How does she move the situation forward without making it look as though she is being too kee... (72 words)

Is it stupid to think I'm pregnant?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone please help me is it stupid to think I'm pregnant? I was rubbing on my bf's penis with my vagina. It was stupid to do that cause I was jerking him off with my hand too this was 3 weeks ago. I know it was stupid so please don't lecture me. I had a light 3 day period ... (73 words)

Am I bi? or am I gay and in denial?

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21 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year-old male who has always identified as straight, but have now realised that I am definitely not an normal straight guy... I think it's important that I never had any sexual experiences apart from kissing a few girls, and the usual horseplay with mates. Over t... (473 words)

Do I have the right to know who else has been flaunting with my boyfriend?

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21 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Tonight my boyfriend says that another female has been flaunting herself to him and he "could" be interested. We have not been getting on that well recently and he says he loves me but things have changed. I wanted to know who it is but he said he would not tell me until I ... (157 words)