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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Early childhood experiments

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This might seem a little strange but what is the earliest age you remember experimenting sexually with girls and or boys (this is directed at both men and women, gay bi or straight.) I am trying to figure if I started at a 'norm' age you know what I mean. I don't remember most ... (177 words)

We're getting married in 3 weeks time! Is he always going to be a liar?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - OK... I have been dating the same guy for 4 years. He use to always look at porn, I asked him to stop because it hurts me and he promised he would. I caught him doing it again! He then put a ring on my fingure and promised again he would not look at it. We are supposed to get ... (97 words)

He seems to be less and less interested in having sex with me because I am so hard to please...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having a problem with my sex life. I'm in a long distance relationship with a man I adore. I've been with him almost a year now and he means the world to me. We see each other half a year, I'm at Uni. The problem is when we are together I want to have sex with him a lot ... (489 words)

Am I already on the shelf at 30?

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20 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, where do I start? I'm 30 now and my life is coming together nicely. I have had a lot of crap to deal with in my life over the last 7 years after my Dad passing away unexpectedly, looking after my Nan (his mum) who has been suffering from senile dementure, being made ... (503 words)

Is my boyfriend cheating/losing interest/ or generally just busy with work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know, I have quite a weird feeling that things are not going well with my boyfriend. We've been together just over four months. Firstly, he's always at work and is always so tired when he gets back that we can't really do anything (he is a doctor so his hours are very ... (398 words)

Is my boyfriend normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over 5 months. He gets really annoyed if I text or email any of my friends that are boys. I have promised and reassured him many times that I would never ever cheat on him but he always answers with 'I never talk to girls so why ... (264 words)

Is understanding necessary for forgiveness?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is understanding necessary for forgiveness? In order to completely forgive someone for something they have done or said (which may have hurt us), must we understand the person first, how the person thinks, feels, what might have lead the person to such words.... actions.... or ... (88 words)

How can I make him understand that being this unfair with me won't lead us anywhere?

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20 April 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I hate the Internet, I hate this! But I love him... Turns out me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years. Sadly, we live in a small town so everybody knows everybody. The thing is, before I met him, I had a blog, I had a crush on this guy that he knows, I hook... (794 words)

Opinions! Is there such a thing as love at first sight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Do you believe it is possible to fall for someone at first sight? Or love at first sight whatever?... (22 words)

I'm in love with my step brother.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my stepbrother but the only thing is my stepdad has kids with my mom so he is my little brother and I don't know what to do. I mean we really feel for each other no we haven't dared to have intercourse but we are so crazy for each other and can't stop thinking ... (94 words)

My boyfriends stares at other women constantly.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend stares at other woment constantly. He makes sure they know he is looking my making obvious suggestive eye contact with them. I am hurt and embarrased by his behavior. I have told him how I feel and he promised to do better. That didn't last long however. He is ... (159 words)

My friends don't like me because of my penis size!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years old and some of the people at school hate me because of my penis size. My dad told me I was a early bloomer. I didn't get why they don't like me, someone told me that I was stealing their girlfriends. I try to tell them that I have a girlfriend and we haven't had ... (72 words)

Should I compromise? My boyfriend is still friends with his ex girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. My boyfriend, Aaron, and I have been friends for many many years and finally fell in love and moved in together in September. Things are great. My problem is his ex, Cynthia: he was with her for 5 months and left her because he was NOT in love. She came to him after the ... (373 words)

Please help me! Is he gay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for a few years and we're supposed to get married later this year. The problem is I found out that he's been looking at gay porn on the internet. He does watch some straight porn but I seen a lot of gay. I asked him and he swears he's not gay that ... (178 words)

Recently my wife has been very cold with me and I'm paranoid she may be cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, I need some advice as I feel paranoid and depressed at the moment. I am in a LDR with my wife of 5.5 years... we've been living apart for the past 2.5 years. She's been recently very cold to me... never says anything nice or writes nice emails. She used to end her email... (134 words)

I find it difficult to make conversation with my boyfriend of 3 months. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months are great, there's just one problem, I have a problem with talking to him. It's not that I'm scared to talk, it's just that I find it hard. I can see it's starting to annoy him now and I just don't know what to do. What can I do to resolve this ... (61 words)

Dating a younger guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mother with 2 kids. I haven’t dated in 3 years just because I don’t make time for myself. Now there is this sweet and caring guy who likes me and is very nice to me, but he is 10 years younger then me. Should I date him? ... (51 words)

Because we live 50 miles apart I only see him weekends but he never seems to want sex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HELP!! I'm a 31 year old woman driving myself MAD!! I've been with my fella for 8 months now and we live 50 miles apart so see each other most weekends... my sex drive is way high and all I want to do is *well-you know* when we get time together, problem is he never asks for ... (114 words)

How can I open up to my mum more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not a very open person about anything really, I like to keep things to myself and that's the way I've always been. I'm close with my family, but not "close-close" I can't tell my mum anything, and I don't feel right talking about a lot with her; even though I know she ... (364 words)

How do I let him know that he really hurts me by not letting past go...?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband have been married for year and a half now. I'm 5 months pregnant. His exwife passed away 6 years ago and he has a six year old boy - who's I am a Mom now. I am not sure how to talk to my husband about giving some of ex wife's things away. I know that we need ... (195 words)

I care for her way too much to lose her completely.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so here is the deal... I've been friends with this girl for a long time (9+ years). We were really close, then just kinda friends, and now really close again... I've matured (I'm 25) and am comming to realize I really like this girl. I would often consider her way out of my ... (390 words)

Deperessed boyfriend, any advise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

- Last year was amazing. I had such a positive outlook and great things happened to me. My relationship was solid but I was aware that my boyfriend's life wasn't going as well but he was proud of me and we were happy together. However in october he took a knock-back and it hit ... (443 words)

Paranoid, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have lost a lot of people in my life and got back from the army a few years ago. I met the love of my life a few months later. I will admit a little paranoia and a little insecurity.I am trying to work on myself because I know she won't cheat on me and shes not the type but ... (148 words)

Missed period for two months

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I missed my period two months ago and had it twice last month. I still have not had it this month. I am getting really worried and want answers. (Mod Note to OP: that's four sentences without periods. Please use proper punctuation next time or your comments... (56 words)

She'll only respond in text

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this girl for the past year. everything was great till something happened with her family. for a month i've tried to talk to her but she'll only respond in text. she's depressed about her family life and shut herself off from me. idk what to do or how to help ... (54 words)

I'm having troublem working things out with her, because of her ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Here is my problem, there is this girl i was seeing and really care about and want to be with, because it is the happiest i have been in my life. She has told me the same thing about her life. She recently broke up with her boyfriend about 2 months ago and we would have bee... (240 words)

How do I ask without making him angry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age - me and my husband have been together 8 years and i need to talk to him about our relationship but every time i do, he always thinks that he is in trouble. i want to ask him if there is something going on with someone else. how do i ask without making him angry?... (54 words)

Should I work things out with my "Old ex" or "New ex"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really confused. I am a single mom of 3 beautiful children, their father refuses to be in their lives, and I feel bad about dating because they do not need to see their mom go in and out of relationships. I dated a guy almost a year ago, we will call him "old ex". I b... (403 words)

What do I do and am I being taken advantage of?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a female who is currently in a lesbian relationship for over a year. My partner and I reunited after a 7 year departure, excluding any form of communication/contact. Now that she and I are back together… we have mutual understandings, that not only are we meant to be ... (357 words)

Should I trust that he was just curious or is it more than that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i need help. I went through my husbands phone, i know it was wrong, but i looked in his history of his internet on there and found that he had an account with ashley madison ( for those of you who don't know what it is it is an online community were married people go to ... (200 words)

I cant get over that he cheated on me with the ex

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys i recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex girlfriend 2 months into our relationship.. i didnt find out for 5 months and then out of the blue his ex girlfriend phoned me after obtaining my number from a mutal friend... the funny thing is they ... (254 words)

Side effects from the pill? Pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i came off the mini pill (femulen)on th 15th of april and then started bleeding 2 days after, very very light and brown with a line of pink. i am still getting it now so 4 days, but its so light i only need a panty liner. my concern is that i had sex 4 weeks ago so could this ... (94 words)

Bad girl, dating, tatoos and navel rings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I know this cute girl from work. We have flirted some. She is that bad girl type. When she puts things in upper places in the office I have noticed that she has a navel ring. When she bent over I have seen a glimpse of a tattoo on her right breast. To tell the truth I would ... (163 words)

What does hubba bubba and mounting mean?

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20 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - What does "huba huba" refer to? What do the term mounting refer to? How is it done? ... (25 words)

Woman on top during sex..advantages?

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20 April 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I have a question about the woman on top sex position. What are some of the advantages or benefits of it? What things about it may a woman enjoy? Is it considered a favorite sex position for many women?What is the purpose of a woman's hair during sex? Does it add to her ... (69 words)

Touching breasts during sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) age 30-35 - question about women touching their breasts during sexual intercourse. What is the purpose of it? Does it add to her enjoyment? Are there certain times during sex when she may do this? Is it more common during intercourse, foreplay, or both? If a woman is touching ... (147 words)

Crying after sex? Common?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I have heard that women sometime cry during intercourse or after sex. Is this common? What does it mean? (Edited: for improper line-breaking)... (26 words)

Breaking in the living room!

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20 April 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I am in a great relationship. I just bought a new home. My boyfriend and I are in the process of breaking it in. We are going to have sex in every room of the house. We are looking to make an evening of it in every room. We will be moving to the living room. What ... (117 words)

I'm shy! Should I text him about going out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked something about this earlier, but it was before I had an account. So here's the thing. I met someone about a month ago, but didn't think I would ever see him again. Then, last week I bumped into him. We hung out for a while, as friends, but then it lead to us kissing. ... (162 words)

I don't want to be just a booty call!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some urgent advice. This is quite long and I appreciate you taking the time to read. I am a 24 year old female and there is a guy I work with whom we have always flirted with each other, he is always very suggestive, we have kissed once, quite full on for a first ... (314 words)

How do I know if he REALLY means what he says this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for about 5 years, I thought something was wrong with him but since he was going to Iraq for the 2nd time I thought he was stressing over that. Well he left for about 6 months and when he came back he was making a lot of excuses to be with me. So I ... (212 words)

What does it mean when the ex says things like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When an ex-boyfriend says things like:- your beautiful, times when you spent together and times of a sexual nature and he has a girlfriend, he got with after you. What do these mean? that he misses you, wants to do naughty things with you or that he wants to be with you now ... (54 words)

Too much discharge!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Looking for advice from fellow girls here. Since starting my period, every day I get a lot of discharge. I realise that it's normal to get a certain amount as it's the bodys way of "cleaning", but I get quite a bit and it's embarrassing, and has meant I feel uncomfortable to ... (97 words)

Has anyone ever had a contraceptive implant???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old girl and ever since starting my period they've lasted about 8 or 9 days and have been very heavy and painful for the entirity. I made an appointment with my GP to talk about it, and she suggested 2 drugs, one was specifically designed for the periods and the ... (228 words)

It bothers me that my husband chats on the phone with a single woman.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has a job that is very boring and he is allowed to chat on his cell phone. A month ago he complained that I don't talk to him enough so he has to talk to "Rebecca". At the time, a month ago, we established the fact that he and Rebecca do chat, it's totally ... (458 words)

Am I over reacting and have I a right to set those boundaries?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 36 year old mother of three, that has been divorced for almost 2 years. I have been in a relationship with a 28 year old for the past 10 months. I was married for 12 years so it has been very challeging to going back into the dating scene. My boyfriend has never really ... (293 words)

What should I do to motivate a proposal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I'm 29 years old and my partner is 50, we have been shacking up for 2.5 years outside of the few times I kicked him out. We are both attractive and it is not a sugar daddy realtionship I love him deeply and do not want another relationship. We recently miscarried what ... (122 words)

Is she a total slut? Or just desperate for attention?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been seeing this girl recently who I really like and who really like me back. We are in a semi-serious relationship in which we are pretty devoted to eachother but not entirely yet. I'm finding out increasingly that we may not be the best fit; we have very little in ... (319 words)

Bereavement and relationship problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age - Hi Agony Aunts, Has anybody out there had any experience with psychotherapists dealing with bereavement and relationship problems? I have been advised to see one. Look forward to a feed back.... (33 words)

Why does he always prefer porn to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age - I have been married to my 2nd husband now going on 18 years. In the beginning of the relationship we had a great sexual yearning for each other. We lived together for 2 years prior to marrying so 20 years altogether. This started about the year of 1998 when he would tell me he ... (374 words)

I'm head over heels about this guy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy that I have fallen head over heals for since high school, but I never had the courage to tell him how I feel about him. I kept in touch with him after we both graduated, I have sent him numerous Brithday and christmas gifts. It's been six years since we have know ... (128 words)

How do I know when he is ready to kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been seeing a guy for about 2 months now, he is 23 im 18 and he has recently came out of a long term relationship, we are both fully interested but how do i get about knowing if he is ready to kiss me?... (45 words)

Made the mistake of idolizing my gf

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in my first real relationship. I met a woman who I thought was out of my league and being the first woman who I think ever loved me, I created in my head a perfect vision of her. I put her on a pedastal even though she felt like slapping me upside the head a few times ... (244 words)

What do you like best about oral sex?

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20 April 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Woman please reply… What do you like best about oral sex? What are your favorite oral sex activities? In general, how much oral sex do you like before moving on to intercourse?... (35 words)

I make him miserable and he says after 9 months he's sick of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone please help me. I'm afraid of losing him. I love him more than anything in the world, but I make him miserable. He says he is getting tired of it after 9 months. Not me, but the way act sometimes. I flip out when he doesnt text back immediately and i bitch all... (129 words)

Do on again off again relationships ever work in the end?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I am in a kind of weird situation and was hoping for some feedback. The big question I am dealing with is the issue of "on again off again" relationships. For the past several months I have been seeing a neighbor, but he recently started behaving as a p... (222 words)

Backoff..I'm in a relationship

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you get someone you had an affair with to backoff because you are in a relationship??... (18 words)

Problems with g/f's past, concern about our future

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have an issue with my girlfriend's sexual past. Before you all tell me it's my problem (which i acknowledge) or that it shouldn't matter if I truly love her, hear me out. My situation might be different than some. The root of this is that i was friends for three years with... (570 words)

Husband wants a threesome with me acting as a lesbian..I don't want it1

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My Husband wants to experience threesome..... My husband is been forcing me or convincing me to go for threesome with him. His fantasy is to see with with a girl. He wants me to be lesbian and make out with a any girl. I am not just not comfortable with this idea and ... (116 words)

Third time the charm? Should I try to find her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all hmm where to start. 24 years ago, aged 23, I fell madly in love with the most beautiful person. We were together for 5 years, got engaged, but were young and we split which at the time was devastating for me. She hurt me and my trust was betrayed. Time heals all wounds... (302 words)

Too much? Or am I not understanding men properly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - (Figured out how to ask questions finally) Ok situation goes: I'm in a realtionship with a really great guy. Very work focused mind, but i understand him and why. But we posed a problem the other day, where i was telling him i loved him, and i asked him where my reply of th... (288 words)

How do I convince my mother that I need to be on birth control pills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there, I'm fourteen, turning fifteen in about two weeks. Just a few days ago, I sorta got into a relationship with a boy who's very close to my age and in my grade (so age isn't a problem). I say sorta because nothing's official, but we both know we are interested in ea... (482 words)

There is a light at the end of the tunnel and you can move on

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20 April 2009 (F)

age - Dear all, For those who think there is no light at the end of the tunnel read this. A year and a half ago i found out my husband of 21 years had been cheating on me not once but several times thoughout our marriage,i found out lots of things i would never of dreamed he was c... (684 words)

Signs are pointing toward him breaking up with me but he deniesit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i was told that my boyfriend stoped caring about me 4 months ago by a guy that works with my boyfriend and he is going to breack up with me and move away in aug and he is going to let me know a month ahead and i ask him and he says no. then 3 weeks later i looked through his ... (158 words)

In a relationship but with feelings for another

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Obviously this isn't a strange situation. I bet it's a common situation, but it feels strange for me. I've only ever been in 3 relationships, all of which got close to exceed the two year mark. I generally avoid flings, one-night stands, and the like. I feel like a loyal ... (485 words)

So in love why do I feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey people short and quick i am in love wit my boyfriend who we havent been going out for that long but we were talkin for a long time. ive had plenty or girlfriends and boyfriends in the past but none of them made me feel as good as he does... but i am so worried about him ... (143 words)

Sex drive has flatlined wedding coming up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m getting married in a few months, and my sex drive has flat-lined. I always thought I had a very high sex drive, but now I’m starting to worry. I’ve been with my girl for about a year and a half now. Things have been going great, we used to make love pretty much twic... (308 words)

Loving a cheater

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid im pregnant and love my boyfriend very much but the thing is he is cheating on me, when i ask him about it he always want to put the blame on other people, for instance he would blame me accusing me of listening to my brother's girlfriend. i just wish he would ju... (97 words)

He goes to porn sites to see skinny women,anal sex, squirting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello,i am a 26 year old female with what i always thought was quite a lot of confidence about my body!Recently i have discovered that my partner of almost 7 years has been using porn frequently-now i don't mind the porn,its the skinny size 0 girls he seems to enjoy watching ... (329 words)

Sex not like it used to be!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all. my bf was my first he has a huge penis so sex in the begining was very painful,howeva i managed to acomodate it and got used to it and even enjoyed it. two years later i now find that my vagina doesnt grip him anymore. i just feel his penis sliding in and out no ... (82 words)

I lost my baby two weeks ago, and I have to go for a post-miscarriage check up at my doctors.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my baby two weeks ago, and I have to go for a post-miscarriage check up at my doctors. I'm just wondering what I should be prepared for? I don't really know much about this, and I'm quite scared as I'm not too fond of doctors anyway. Anybody know what happens?... (52 words)

I know she doesn't deserve me but I can't get her out of my head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I fell in love with a woman abt 6yrs back - never even thinking whe knew I existed - she was already in a relationship. We became friends and shortly after we'd been out as a group of friends when she just kissed me out of the blue. I eventually told her one night a while after ... (311 words)

What will I do without her in my life?

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20 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old boy and I was in love of a girl. She proposed to me last year she told me that she loves me, I liked her too so I accepted her proposal. After 2 years of close relationship she is telling me that she doesn't want it any more. I love her more than my life ... (164 words)

Do I have to accept that this is my life?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So it comes to this - nearly six years in a relationship and I am online looking for answers to the questions I have created for myself. It's simple really, I am in a relationship that I want to get out of. I am in need of a miracle that can kick me up the backside. I need... (405 words)

I still love my ex and do not want to hurt him again but I love his fried too.

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am almost done with my ex, but now his friend is asking me out, what should I do? I still love my ex and do not want to hurt him again but I love his fried too.... (38 words)

I live with my boyfriend and every single day I cry!

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I live with my boyfriend who I have been with for a year now and every single day I cry. He makes me feel so lonely and unwanted. He never wants to spend any time with me at all, he's always busy on the computer or with his mates and he reckons spending time with me is going to ... (131 words)

Stupid hugger!

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20 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I've recently sort of expressed my feeling to this girl(while she initiated cuz she kept on pushing me to tell her my feeling to her). Before I told her I was always the one that dominated the relationship (so called friendship back then). After that she all of a ... (232 words)

Secret relationship with previous instructor?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my new bf (I suppose) for about a month. I am the only person he is seeing so I think we are in an relationship. He is nice to my friends and he doesn't mind my housemates knowing that we are together. He has a good friend who just broke up with his gf and is h... (334 words)

Engagement, marriage, or split up?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Been with my boyfriend for three and a half years, we live together and I have felt for a while now that we are ready to get engaged. It took a long time for him to come around to my way of thinking but he seems to be planning an engagement (what I have deduced from slip-ups ... (269 words)

Very interested in casual sex...what to do?

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20 April 2009 (M)

age - Iam in love with a woman who seems to be interested in. Since Iam much interested in casual sex, not sure what to do ? every time I touched she didnot say anything nor objected but still Iam afraid to express my feelings Iam in confusion is there anyway out to know whethter she ... (74 words)

I "need" a second lover!

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20 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi! I've got a family and I like sex very much. I don't know how to do. I would really like a second love. My wife is really fat and things are so difficuclt that I can't enjoy having sex with her any more. I don't want to dump her because we've got two daughters. I would ... (102 words)

I told my crush how I felt and now he distanced himself from me.

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a crush on a guy friend for about 2 years.. at first we only hang out to study. However, during the very last semester, we hang out quite often along with few other friends. Then i discovered that he likes another friend of mine but then that friend of mine likes anot... (144 words)

I love him so much but what if he's holding me back. Need help!

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20 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are 17. I go to a private college and he is in state education. We are absolutely crazy about each other, love one another deeply and can't see how we would break up, not in the near future at least! I've always had big ideas for my future and have alway... (212 words)

One and a half year, and he still has not proposed to marry me!

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, i been in relationship wd my bf for one year an a half but he hasnt proposed to marry me yet... he says he loves me and serious about me but he hasnt proposed yet...i tried opening the subject to him...he said to keep things goin like they are now an... (98 words)

I need help with a friends with benefits situation.

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - we see each other once a week, have a great time, laugh, talk and carry on, occasionally go to dinner or a party together, and then we have sex. i don't hear much from him when we aren't together which is fine, whatever. he tells me in bed that i'm incredible, strokes me hair ... (177 words)

Concerned about my partners nephews feelings towards me

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - In the last couple of years I have noticed my partners nephew has been showing me more attention when we get together as a family. We all live in different towns so we do not see each other often. As a family we quickly hug each other and give each other a fake peck on the... (325 words)

Mistakes were made when I was drunk. Now I am confused. Help!

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - at a party around christmas time last year i hooked up with this guy who is in the group of people that go to the same parties as i do and during that summer we were together and all was well. one night he was having a boys night and my friend had a party. i got very drunk that... (317 words)

I have never had an orgasm, now he won't touch me.

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 8 years now. I never have had an orgasm through intercourse. I always faked it. Well, I felt that maybe if I came clean he would work on this with me, but now he doesnt even want to touch me, he says I pretty much said HE cant please me. ... (123 words)

Taking my own innocence

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been toying with the idea recently that I may take my own virginity. I hate the fact that someone could give themselves rights to "taking away my innocence" so I thought to do away with it myself. I am completely ready, I have been in situations before where I could have... (93 words)

Herpes trauma, please help

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20 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I just found out I have herpes and I wonder what resources are out there to deal with the depression I am going through. Please help. Thank you. Fred... (34 words)

Why is my husband stingy with me?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married in about a year already. I am in a totaly new place and have known only a couple of friends. I had a job before but I quit when I got married and relocate to my husbands place. I had no jog for almost 8 mos, and now I just started a par-time job which only pays me ... (755 words)

If she is engaged, why did she initiate the date?

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20 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey there, yesterday i was busted more than ever... i had a date with the woman whom i have known for a month....we had a nice talk, i found that she almost makes up my dream girl,our interests almost match, i told her she is amazing and she also said that she also like me,... (246 words)

Is his "number" too high?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently told me that he has been with 7 girls and he lost his virginity at 17. He is 23 and I am almost 20 and have only been with 2 people in my life. I know he is telling the truth because I overheard him telling his guy friends, who have each been with 20+ to 4... (96 words)

Should I try to go back with her? Or just move on?

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20 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This is going to be really difficult to explain to me, but hopefully people will get something out of it. So I was in a great relationship, my first serious girlfriend. We met in my college sophomore year, were together for several months, and kept a long distance relatio... (378 words)

Advice on prenup agreement please!

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyriend and I have been dating for 1 year, I am only 19 and he is nearly turning 20 and we currently have been living together for 4 months. Today he began telling me that he was getting a big pay out from an insurance claim he has from being in an accident a few years ago ... (140 words)

I touched myself, does that mean I lost my virginity?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello,I'm very ashamed to speak about this but I've no choice,I knew that my critical period must start that night but I couldn't stop,I pressed a pillow down there and touched myself.Suddenly I felt a little pain and after 10 minutes my critical period began and I started ... (69 words)

I am attracted to my ex's Mom!

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20 April 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I am 18. My relationship with my girlfriend ended with her leaving me. She said that we could remain friends. This happened over a month ago. My ex-girlfriend and I have remained friends. She has a new boyfriend and she seems happy. I am happy for her. We still see each... (346 words)

4 months into marriage and already unhappy in SoCal

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - UNHAPPY IN SO CAL:~( I have been married for 4 months now and I think that there is somthing wrong with me because I just hate having sex with my husband. I have never been attracted to him but I thought I would still want to make love to/with him because he is a wonderfu... (95 words)

How to tell if someone is interested or if just as FWB?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a separated female, went on a few dates over 5 months with a man that is separated. Slept with him 2nd date. How to tell if interested or if just interested in friends with benefits?... (36 words)

Was I wrong for being mad at him?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well me and him have been together for 2 weeks. i reallllllllllllly like him. everything was perfect. but he started talking to my ex best friend i trusted him so didnt say anything. but she asked him "am i hot" and he said yes but dont tell jasna [me] i got VERY mad at ... (241 words)

Sex 7 times in 3 days. Could I be pregnant?

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20 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - okay so me and my boyfriend had sex 7times in 3days and he cumed inside of me 7times but i had my period 6days later could i be prego or not.... (31 words)

Sex 5 days after period. Could I be pregnant?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend had sex 5 days after my period and most of his cum went in me before he pulled out what are my chances of being pregnant... (30 words)

I don't understand him!

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im so confused! im getting mixed signals here. ok so heres the story. i started talking to this kid who im going to call jake this year. he was extremely sweet. every night he'd say goodnight beautifull and he told me he liked me once too. i started crushing on him and then... (348 words)

Confused because I was slapped

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - About 6 weeks ago, my boyfriend and I were out at a party and we both got very intoxicated and ended up fighting. I decided to leave the party because I was really embarrassed about this, and went back to my apartment building, which my boyfriend also lives in. I went to my ... (331 words)

Can I get a sneak preview of what sex would be like with her?

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20 April 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I have a good relationship with this woman. We started off as acquaintances and have become friends. I want our relationship to develop into something more. I want sex. She has not said that she does not but we have not done it yet. While I wait for her and sex in our ... (108 words)

Is it normal to want a ring after 5 years and a child together?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice. I'm kinda in a state of confusion, I already no what I should do, I just need to hear from someone else. In May my boyfriend and I will be together for 5 years, we have a 3 1/2 year old little boy. I don't want to get maried right away but I want an enga... (146 words)

We fight a lot lately, so how do we get this resolved?

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20 April 2009 (F)

- My bf and I are in a long distance relationship; and I am planning to move in by the middle of May. The problem is that we've been fighting for a lot of time now. We fight, we reconcile, then we fight again. Our fight is about anything, we seem not to agree on a lot of ... (251 words)

Why did my guy I met on online dating site drastically lower the communication?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy from an online dating site. We talked for one month through email and kind of went on dates for a month. They went really well and things seemed promising until I met his best friend and sister and I didn't get along with the best friend. I suggested I get to know ... (239 words)

Sometimes comments on our age difference weighs me down, so how should I overcome this?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a great relationship with a guy 20 years older. We are both legal adults. Most people around when we are on a date treat us like they would anyone else. Usually once or twice per date we get a rude stare or worse. Once when we were together a man pointed us out to his ... (233 words)

I want him to not use b/c but he won't

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want my new boyfriend to cum in me. I'm not back on birth control, but the way i feel is if we have a baby, then htat's God's plan. If we don't that's even better! I just don't know how to get him to loosen up since he already has a kid and isn't quite ready for ... (64 words)

How can I have a borderline superficial conversation to get a woman's interest?

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20 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a question that probably doesn't have any simple answer but I just was wondering what people might have to say. I tend to be able to have good long conversations about significant things or even things that aren't necessarily too important but with people i'm frie... (284 words)

Why won't he sleep with me more often?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We have a 2 yr daughter together. After the first year, he and I gained some weight. As the weight started adding on, the sex became less and less. I love having sex, and he loves having sex....but he never seems to be in ... (290 words)

I like my ex girlfriend's friend!

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20 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi well I'm 15 and i had a girlfriend and she was the love of my life but i guess we found to many things to fight about and it ended after 3 years. long time huh? well my friends are a really big help cause they know that i loved her with everything and she broke up with me ... (216 words)

I know he doesn't like me but I want him to

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so heres the deal.. i really really like this one dude.. and i know he doesnt like me.. so my question is how do i get him to like me? and i am too nervous and scared to go up to him and talk to him.. so wat should i do?? ..... (53 words)

I don't often feel fireworks

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend so much but i dont feel anything when we kiss that much. its only when he like touches me, like my sholder my hand etc. that i am like i love you :-] only a few times i felt something like fireworks when we kissed, is this normalS?... (52 words)

How do you get over someone cheating on you?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help how do you get over someone cheating on you. My huusband and I have been married 10years and we have one son. He has always been someone that needs alot of time alone and gets grumpy if he feels over crowded. Latley he has been even worse very distant and ... (539 words)

Am I considered a virgin?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My now ex-boyfriend and I were fooling around while still dating. I was a virgin, and whilst wearing a condom, he tried to actually penetrate me. He might have gotten in between a centimeter to an inch or so; enough for it to hurt, but not enough to break my hymen or have his ... (182 words)

Help! Would you say we are together again?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half years and for the past year and a half I've felt that we were ready to get engaged and begin the next step in our lives together. He however, wasn't so sure. Fast forward to now and we moved in together three months ago ... (389 words)

Would you say we are together again?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want some opinions on my current situation. I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months. We hit it off instantly. About a month ago, he breaks up with me because he wanted to focus on himself and his work. He was very stressed and overwhelmed about things. He couldn't ... (258 words)

Any ideas? I don't know what else to do to get pregnant!

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 year old, I am married and have no children. My husband and I have been planning to have a child for about 2 years now. I checked myself with the Dr. and said I was fine, also my husband. I am not taking care of myself against pregnancy, nor my husband is using condoms. ... (72 words)

I have bruises from where he thumped me!

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few days ago I threw my boyfriend his phone and I haven't got a really good aim and it sort of hit him in the side of the face, not hard, and I apologised and said something like 'eek sorry you know I'm crap at aiming' and he grabbed me and punched me really hard in my side. ... (189 words)

Do I go ahead and risk friendships and be dishonest to my family because of this guy, who I honestly can't get enough of?

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20 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Where to begin? Basically, I'm 16, a virgin and would consider myself Bisexual. I think that at this moment in time, I am equally attracted to both men and women. I've been in an on and off open relationship with another guy, let's call him J, for around 2 years and he was... (459 words)

Drama between me, him and her!!! What do I do?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I am in love with and I think that he likes me... We have went out, in fact he said he loved me and stuff, I don't know if he does like me or anything.... well his gf found out we were talking (cuz we're friends me and him) and she started calling me a lot of ... (93 words)

Should I feel sparks at the beginning?

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20 April 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I met this man a week ago. He is definitely a gentleman, the kind of man I'm not used to. I always fell for the bad boys which has always been disasters. I enjoy being with him, but I find myself wishing I was with the last man I was seeing(definitely bad boy!). I can't get him ... (95 words)

Do I wait for him to contact me or do I call him to arrange something?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I went out with this guy on Friday night and we got along really well, the date went on for 5 hours (no kiss at the end, just a hug - I wasn't too comfortable just yet). At the end he asked me on a second date for Saturday night but I already had plans with a friend so told ... (234 words)

Help! Three is a crowd!

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to stay all night with my bf and I know he wants it too but his cousin lives with him, how can I get him to tell him to leave and stay with a friend? He is also afraid that my family will catch us but I know that they won't.... (60 words)

How can I help my new husband become a better lover?

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, I only had one sexual partner before my husband. Anyways, when I was seventeen, I lost my virginity to a guy I dated for two years. Four months after he and I broke up, I met the man I am now married to (we started dating within a month of our meeting). He didn't ... (179 words)

I just need some honest opinions on age differences.

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just need some honest opinions on age differences. What would you think of a 17 year old girl going out with a 29 year old guy? Right/wrong/doesn't matter? I need some insight to this, thank you.... (37 words)

I have kept pure for my wife, but many girls do not.

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20 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi readers, I am such a boy that I never touched any girl romantically in my life though I have a desire to have sex from my teenage. Because, I will respect culture still in this fast culture. So, I am expecting such a girl she should be perfect as me. So that I love her in s... (232 words)

I am pregnant and received a phone call saying my husband is cheating on me... with my NEPHEW!

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my husband for 7 years now and am pregnant; a few weeks ago I got a phone call saying that he was having an affair with my nephew. My nephew's 18 years old, my husband's 35. I also found out that my husband was spending way too much time with him, and that he... (219 words)

Help me with this love adventure...

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex.... well I loved him soooo much and he said he loved me but this girl came in the picture.... okay I thought she was my best friend... well she told him that she loved him soooo he dumped me and he said it was because I flirted with other guys and I never did at all, I ... (107 words)

I think he only wants to meet me for sex... but I'm NOT ready!

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I need help asap. A guy I have known for about 6 years now, we are very good friends has asked me to meet him, I am really scared because I think he wants to have sex and I'm not ready, specially not with him, he's told me he just wants to talk and I said I'd meet him, ... (82 words)

Broken up with disrespectful boyfriend, don't know where to go from here...

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20 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi again everyone, this is an update to a situation I brought up on here a few weeks ago. My boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years and I had gone "on a break" because he is 26 years old but acts like he is 5 (does baby-talk, has hissy fits) and is very disrespectful (calls me names, ... (570 words)