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*olahova
writes:Hello,Lately I been going crazy about this boy named JK his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16.Today I saw him when I was walking to school he kept looking behind to see me and at the end he crossed the road and then looked at me and I smiled and he waved to say Hello and I waved to this person, He does Skunk his addicted to it but his a very nice lad. My parents know him and JK is my brothers good mate, But there’s something about JK I like and when he speaks to my brother he keeps looking at me and makes me laugh so much that I just cant stop I don’t want to tell him I fancy him encase I’m getting all the signs wrong.Signs he gave me:1.He makes me laugh a lot never touched me but I always make sure that he says Hello to me first because to see if he gets the idea that I’m interested.2. Whenever we see each other we just stare into each others eyes and I just cant let it go I really like him a lot.Thanks? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): Don't go out with him if he's taking any drugs - unless they're medication prescribed by a doctor - as you could put yourself at risk.
Keep him as a friend, and try and get him some support, and be kind/supportive to him, then when he's clean maybe you can date him.
Hope this advice helps!
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reader, Rajesh Nair  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 Hi friend, it's better not to make any assumptions before its very obvious that he likes you a lot. He may just be a charming, friendly guy. Are you sure, he doesn't behave in this manner with everyone around him? Knowing this, would give you a fair idea of whether he feels something special for you or not.
I would suggest you to just wait and watch. Continue with the great chemistry and friendship that you two share. Keep giving him subtle hints about how much you like his company.
A time will surely come, where you would perfectly understand whether he too feels the same or not. That would be the right time to let him know about everything you feel. Don't force it now. Let it happen in a gradual, beautiful manner. Enjoy the moments. Cherish them in any case.. :)
I sincerely hope everything works!!!
All the best. Cheers :)
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reader, iolahova +, writes (8 April 2009):
iolahova is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks alot
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (7 April 2009):
Well you know what your getting yourself into and its your choice to do so, from what youve said his signs do seem to add up to the same why you are feeling. However neither of you are going to make the first move, he is maybe less likely to due to your brother... and you are less likely to as you dont know if he feels the same unless one of you does something its never going to progress and yes eye contact and conversation is all good i know you want more than that and from what youve said i think he possibly does too! One less thing to worry about is that hes accepted by your family and their judge of character should be equally as right. You have a good relationship with JK but if you want anything more its up to you to do so, hes more likely to react to you if he knows your just as interested.You mention that hes addicted to skunk, why did you mention this? He may be a lovely person but it changes everyone in different ways so prepare yourself for this, its a long ride with this guy. Id really keep your guard up until you are 100%, you dont know him all that well so dont rush too quickly. Hope everything works out,
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