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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it wrong of me to want her ex gone from our lives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so..I have run out of options and need advice. This might be long so sorry ahead of time. My gf and i have been together for a year and 4 months. Now the problem is that my gf is moving to a new place and her ex is her friend that is moving in with my gf, mainly becau... (386 words)

Where can I take her on a first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, I recently asked out a girl, who to my surprise said yes. It feels a bit stupid to ask her where she wants to go on a first date...so I want to take the initiative and want to make it something good and memorable. Any ideas...? Thanks!... (65 words)

I want his friends to like me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. He knows i'm very shy, and tomorrow we're going out with his best friend and his best friends girlfriend. I've met them before but i haven't talked to them much. I don't know how to start a conversation, and i want them to ... (71 words)

About to have my period, but still want to make HIM happy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound weird. But im supposed to be going to my boyfriends tomorrow for the weekend. And i was not expecting my period until the 11th...So i was wonderin.. 1. What ways can i please my boyfriend, while im on my period? 2. (for guys) Can guys still get alot o... (89 words)

Should I stay in contact with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing a guy i really really liked. But it ended when i found out he was a player. I cut off all contact. Which was hard to do, as i missed him so much, (even though he didn't treat me right). Then after a month i got a call from him out of the blue. I then saw him out... (213 words)

I wonder what's causing this ?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Last week,my period was really heavy for the first couple of days,then for the last three days there was a little bit of blood,then it stopped abit,then there was just abit of blood again.And during the first couple of days,i noticed blood on the toilet paper when i wiped ... (154 words)

I took the morning after pill

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I took the morning after pill on the third day of my period. Is it normal for a heavy period that usually lasts for around 5 days to completely disappear after taking the morning after on the third day?... (39 words)

My heart is broken, how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in complete love with my ex boyfriend. He is my everything. But he hates me and I have no idea why. I no what your thinking ask him why. I have he shrugs and says I dunno I dont. I have two really really close friends one is pissed becuz I talk about him alot. The others in ... (104 words)

I am not high on his priority list

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is good man,gives me lots of affection. yet i can't help but feel that i'm one of the lower priorites in his life.whenever i wanna do something,go somwhere,ask him to do somthing,it's always wait,i'm tired or i have plans with my daughter. on the other hand when ... (296 words)

Vacation troubles

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I just let him go on his own or join him for half of the trip? My boyfriend and I had talked about taking a trip together. The problem is I only get a week paid on vacation leave. He gets (2) weeks..since he didn't use his week last year, he's planning on just saving i... (281 words)

What do I do about a best friend, who no longer wants to be in contact with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If your best friend wasn't very good at keeping in contact before she left for uni and now she is even worse. When I text her she says she has to have space and she'll text you when she's ready. Which she never text first before anyways. What does this mean? Bear in mind we ... (71 words)

I really like her, but she gets on my nerves! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this one girl named "Emily" but I just cant stand her. I mean that I am in love with her but sometimes she can get on my nerves. I dont think that she likes me though. I have had a crush on her for about a month. She is a straight as a line and that is my problem. And ... (77 words)

I feel like I"m one one his lower priorities

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

My best friend likes me..I feel weird

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel weird around my best friend because he likes me he was my BFF since kindergarden but now where not best friends cause he is jealous of every boy I like a boy whose girlfriend is her cousin so what should I do?... (44 words)

Could I be pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old female.I jus want to kno if my boyfriend cum on my belly...and i use the same cloth that he uses and wipe the cum,and i accidently wipe my vagina with the same cloth right after,would i get pregnant? ... (46 words)

I'm not pretty, will anyone ever love me?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am going to be 100% honest and realistic about my situation however sad it sounds! Recently i fell in love with a guy. The first time i have ever fell in love. I don't think he felt the same way but he gave me a taste of how amazing it is to feel love! I was heartbroken ... (191 words)

Waiting for marriage for intercourse.. already done everything else will I be disappointed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years, and it has always been important to us to wait for marriage to have sex. After being together for a little over a year, we started to be sexual. After a while, it got to the point where we just decided that, "okay, it's ... (219 words)

How can you know if a guy indeed likes you or just wanted to make fun of you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how can you know if a guy indeed likes you or just wanted to make fun of you from the first time he started talking to you? if he showed almost all the possible signs he's into you,let you insult him and kinda put him down in front of his best friend and other people more than ... (76 words)

I'm still attracted to him I just have no sex drive, and now there is a Sailor involved!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Q1, ok so heres the thing my husband and i have been together 2 years and my sex drive has gone down a lot.... he is lucky if i want to have sex once a month. when we first got together it was like 2 or 3 times a day i dont know what happend i give him oral but still not as ... (421 words)

My girlfriend won't let me take her to climax

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

30 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I can't get my current girlfriend to cum. i dont think my method is to blame as she says she has never climaxed with anyone and i have never had this problem with other girls. i always make sure to spend alot of time on foreplay alot of kissing, touching etc i ... (173 words)

What can I do. Any mantras I can repeat or something. Maybe garlic and a holy cross?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (M)

- Things didn't work out after I dated a girl in my class. She says she's crazy about me but chose to go out with another dude. As if she expected me to believe that messed up logic. Forget friendship, I'm not wasting my time siting on her back burner. Problem is my ... (162 words)

I have Social Phobia and am paranoid about my boyfriend cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, I have Social Phobia - i'm scared of people, I can't leave my house alone. Now, my partner's aunt's anniversary is coming up soon and they're having a big party for it, mainly punk music, you know. All his family and some of their friends are going. I can'... (274 words)

Is there any hope here or am I just waiting (alone) and wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - First let me say, thank you all for reading this and helping me out the best you can. Here is the situation I am facing: My ex fiancee and I were together for almost 4 years. We have a child in common. He has lied and cheated on me quite a bit. I have lied to him, I am no... (571 words)

Why doesn't he ever learn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When my boyfriend's plans change, he never ever tells me, and always waits until I ask him. The other week, we were supposed to see each other on the saturday, but he went to stay with his Dad on friday at the last minute, but didn't tell me until I asked him the next day at ... (224 words)

He provides everything for me, apartment, money and everything I ask him for, I do not work. He thinks I depend on him too much, is this true?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

30 April 2009 (?) age 36-40 - My bofriend thinks i depend on him too much, i don't think so. he provide everything for me, apartment, money and every thing i ask him for, i do not work, when we just started out he said he wants to spoil me, and he is doing just that. i don't know what i'm doing wrong.i am ... (111 words)

When should I see him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently spent 4 solid days with a guy i met off the net. he is 18 yrs my senior ...no comments on age difference please as it is really not relevant to either of us ...we are very aware of how we could eb perceived etc and our interests span the difference anyway. we got ... (273 words)

Mind playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had unprotected sex 3 times in one day (april 13, 2009) with my partner. im am on the pill, however i missed my pill for that day. ive noticed sum symptoms but it could jus be my mind playing into the situation. it has been 17 days since the sex? is it too soon 2 take a ... (60 words)

Another chance? OR forget it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

30 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i know this girl likes me very much but before i talked to her and things went ok then i sent her message on holiday and she said that i have a boyfriend and i dont want you as a friend and she hasnt any boyfriend so i said ok it was my fault that i gave you respect and ... (186 words)

Stay at home mom..I need help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im a 20 year old stay at home mom for my boyfriend of 2 years daughter. i have been raising her for a year and a half. pretty much by myself. i dropped out of school and do not have a permanent job. to top it all off we have moved to the country last summer away from all my ... (166 words)

Like me? View me as a good friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hullo... I'm single and im just curious if this girl likes me... I only recently (3-4 months ago) broke up with my first girlfriend of a year and have no idea who i like yet. A very nice friend of mine gave me her number at a BBQ because although we 'd known eachother f... (249 words)

Help.....Why???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age - Hi...after 3 years of dating, I feel lost. I don't exactly know what I want from my ex who broke up with me a month ago. This was so sudden that I am so hurt. We have had problems, but I have been the one trying to cater to his ego. He is a very closed person, and when he ... (1094 words)

Too much wetness ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I produce way too much discharge my mum thinks that my system is working too fast, it smelled for a bit but then the smell went away .. what could it be HELP PLEASE x... (38 words)

Said no, but now feel guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys i still talk 2 my ex but the other day he said he may need 2 borrow my car 2 take him,his gf, and his child out for the day and i said no But now i feel really guilty that i said no, i dont really have a problam with it its just that i feel a bit strange that she... (91 words)

New Colleague keeps inviting herself along to everything we do!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice with how to deal with a new work collegaue. She has only joined the team for 3 weeks and already she is making everyones business hers...she is very cocky,and nosey and the worst thing is that she keeps inviting herself along to things we planned. For exam... (215 words)

He's angry because I have a boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a bit of a problem with a mate. I was with my new boyf and i was holding hands with him walking down a road. In one of the passing cars one of my friends who saw me. He hasnt talked to me since and storms past me whenever he sees me. I've asked him what was bothering him ... (155 words)

I know I can't trust him now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We share a computer, and whilst looking through chat logs to find a phone number, I stumbled across some rather shocking information. I found a conversation between him and a guy, 7 months ago, showing me that they had... (226 words)

He never spends time with me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age - My mate stays gone all day but sleep home everynight. He doesnt have much time for me if any time. I feel he is seeing someone else but he says he isnt. Am i being foolish or is he trying to let me know he is cheating? (but doesnt know which one he wants to be with) Or is he ... (79 words)

Tempted by another man...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my Boyfriend have been together 4 years off and on, im sure i love him i know he loves me, but ive been talking to another guy and met up with once, im 23 and im not sure if its being with him from such a young age....now im tempted to experiment, but if i loved my ... (73 words)

Please help me I feel so torn

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 2 months ago I met a man online that lived a few hours from me. We ended up talking on the phone every day. He told me was single at first but a few weeks later I found out he had a baby girl and I asked him if he was married but he told me he was seperated. He came to m... (268 words)

I think he is crossing the line by talking to these other women but he just tells me I am sick!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a problem my husband e-mails his ex and visa versa, always wanting to help her either fix her apt. or anything else its ridiculis the way he goes about it, he tells her if there is anything you need done let me know. I am a jelous person we've been married for seven ... (170 words)

Does he want to give up on us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been hanging out with this guy off and on for 5 months. I text him and ask,Can we try and have a relationship? He says,i will have to think about the whole relationship thing. A day went by and i still had not heard anything from him. I decided to text him and say,If you ... (153 words)

We have liked each other for 5 years but now after telling me he loves me he is being off with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been in love with a guy for about 5 years,(lets call him x) we didnt go out but confessed that we liked each other 5 years ago, i had work things going on and my friend liked him aswell so nothing came of it. As that was happening i met another boy who i started to ... (202 words)

Was he telling the truth when he was drunk or was he not thinking stright?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused. Last week a guy at my work who I have liked for a long time bumped into me on a night out, he bought me a couple of drinks and invited me and my friends to come along with him for the rest of the night. While I am at the toilets he confides in my friend t... (266 words)

She lied about having cancer but I feel like I want to be back on speaking terms with her again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I was wondering if you could help me as I am at the end of my tether and tearing up inside. I had a massive fall out with a friend 3 years ago, and have heard nothing from her in all the years then out of the blue I get a text message from her last week saying that s... (292 words)

We only have sex about once a month but I want more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,iv been with my bf for nearly four years now and living together for 2. I love being with him cos we have loads in commen and everything but he just doesnt get intimate with me much at all anymore,it hurts when we go to bed at night and he wont even touch me. we have sex ... (98 words)

I think we are still in love but he is getting married! Help please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a question that I really need help answering. I have been in love with this man for almost 4 years, we dated for about 2 years and then we broke it off and decided to remain best friends. Trouble is I am still in love with him and I think he is in love with me to ... (355 words)

I feel he is cheating but I need to be sure before I confront him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age - my mate leaves real early every morning and stays gone for 10 to 12 hours a day he is retired when he comes home he goes to sleep and he phone is ringing for awhile but he wont answer it he shower shaves and smell good but dont pay me any attention hardly speaks to me he also ... (105 words)

Is he just using me to get back at his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend didn't talk to me for about a year, when he was having trouble with his relationship he started talking to me again. then he broke up with his girlfriend, 2 weeks later we slept together, and have been ever since, but not in a relationship way. He has always known ... (84 words)

I think I am a little slow on the up-take...does this guy like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am 24 and have only had two boyfriends and those i met through school and college. Now i have gone one step further and met a guy at work. Now i am feeling a little rusty, since it has been 2 years since my last relationship broke up and i have been single ever since. ... (361 words)

I am unsure of how to come to terms with my good friend being gay

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just met up with a very close friend who I havent seen in many years. I found out the reason we fell out is because she is gay and she could not tell me as we were so close she didnt want me to feel like she fancied me. We had seen each other naked, slept in the same bed ... (121 words)

My husband's new hobby is taking over his life leaving no time for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband has started becoming obsessed with eating and drinking to the exclusion of everything else (excluding personal hygiene matters). He's spending time with a new group of friends who like to go round the city and eat at all the restaurants being "restuarant crit... (174 words)

Why is the man I was with for 16 years trying to make my life a living hell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Just a vent more than a question. I HATE MY EX. He left me and his 2 toddlers for a 22 year old. Gt to love it. I got over him leaving, we weren't happy. However, I am angry that he tried to proof I was unfit in court to get full custody which was thrown out. The judge even ... (550 words)

Can another person make you anxious or be the cause of irrational behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my question is, can someone make u anxious or be the cause of irrational behavour. My boyfriend is a good person but i hav noticed that i change when i am around him. Wen we were together i had problems with anxiety then after we split it seemed 2 subside. Recently we ... (183 words)

What would happen if I went on a water-only diet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all. i hear that starving yourself makes u only lose water so what i want to know is what happens if i go on a water-only-diet? wil i lose the kilos? im 90kgs and i wud like to be 50 by the end of may. please help... (48 words)

My daughter is taking drugs how can I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age - Hi i dont know if any of you will be able to help me with a problem i have with my daughter here goes. A few weeks ago my daughter went away for the week end and she was not back in time for the baby sitter to go to her exam they spoke on the phone and my daughter told th... (388 words)

This is not some two-bit affair.....but I'm wondering if he actually loves me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age - Some advice please,I am in a relationship with a man who is married and I have been on and off for 30yrs,and i know a lot of you out there are going to be critical of me.but maybe some of you will understand.This man has been married for over 40yrs I a'm not asking him to leave ... (185 words)

I'm not anyone's girlfriend but all these guys keep getting mad at me!

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - fucking men give me a head ache. i have always had my fair share of men. all kinds of guys. i havent been single for a very long time it used to be days before i had found me a new one. and now since i moved to the boonies of up state new york i have pretty much been single. ... (331 words)

I told my crush how I felt but I still don't know how he feels!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I finally decided to tell my crush how I feel. Didn't work out well. I tried speaking in our native tongue, but I ended up stuttering so I decided to speak in English. I actually planned everything I was going to say, but they all slipped out of my mind. In fact,... (667 words)

I'm terrible at reading women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My problem is, I am terrible at reading females. Unless it is very obvious, I can't always tell if a female is interested in me or not. There is this one female that I am interested in; the first time I asked her out she told me she wasn't single, but at the end of a troubled ... (170 words)

I feel cheated in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time now. we have struggled with his impotence problem from the very start of our relationship. i want us to have that bond sexually. 95% of the time the sex is not very good. i do what i can to excite him in bed. i have ... (116 words)

I never climax!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - since i been having sex with my boyfriend and i have never climaxed during or after the intercourse. i only climax or have an orgasm during the foreplay. im a bit worried coz he always reaches his climax and i have to always fake it. is it normal or is he or i doing something ... (56 words)

Why do some girls not let go completely after a break-up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

30 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - why do some girls not let go completely ?? pardon me if i sound rude but i am depressed because my girlfriend has become panicky after i broke up with her and wants to stay my close friend ...where as i dont believe in friendship after breakup and wont accept it come what may ... (117 words)

She wont let go of her past, should I let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm in this relationship with this girl she's 26, extremely pretty and sweet. I believe her main problem is that I've noticed she can't let go of her past, an ex-boyfriend to be specific. She says she is not in love with him, but she's constantly bringing him up into our ... (165 words)

Self conscious about sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 and still virgin. i've had offers from a few guys but never taken them. i am anxious about my first time as i am self consious about my stomach and how i will preform. what should i do????? x... (44 words)

My friends are always coming to me with their problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, everyone who I know is used to tell me everytime about their problems. I meet my friend and he/she only complains. Well , I don't mind it. I even like to listen to them and help them to feel better. But the problem is if I have a problem and begin to complain they usu... (174 words)

I kissed my cousin 3 time.....and I liked it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right.. ermm restly i went back to zimbabwe to stay with some family who i hadn't seen in over 3yrs, and i wasn't really looking forward to going cos my counsin who i sow last and he didn' talk to me. well this time he did talk and we got really close and one time we was just... (271 words)

Is he being my friend or playing mind games with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A guy I work with is married and we are friends. I gave him the cold shoulder to adjust my self after an hurtful 'emotional affair', we did nothing wrong as he would stress to me. during a abreif make up session he said we are cut from the same cloth etc and stressed that ... (440 words)

Looking for the best female gyneacologist!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to see a female gyneancologist. but i dont where can i get one. im living in johannesburg,gauteng. i found one at lenmed clinic at lenesia but i dont know if shes the best!... (36 words)

Thinking of having a three-some!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend are thinking of having a three-some. he of course is the 1 with the idea and im half there for it. i do want to experience it but of course there are reasons that put me off it a bit. i know we need to set boundaries, but does anyone have any hints that wou... (93 words)

I'm scared I will end up ruining this relationship too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Hope someone can give me some advice. I'm in a really great relationship with a guy I really care about, but I seem to be in danger of ruining it in the same way that I have several of my previous relationships. The other night my boyfriend said to me: ... (214 words)

My boyfriend complains I don't tell him enough how I feel about him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've only been with him for 4 months but he's complaining that he doesn't know if I like him or not and that I don't compliment him or tell him how much I like him. I just got out of a long term relationship and started this one shortly after. I like him but I can't say yet ... (160 words)

Our relationship is all one-sided but I'm having trouble letting go!

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I really dont know what to do. I have been in a relationship with this guy 9 years my junior, usual story it was great at first, we have had lots of problems to be honest a lot he has caused, i could list a few incidences and in isolation, it doesnt look good; 1, most arguem... (427 words)

I'm not gay but I like the idea of it!

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi ppl, im straight and have a gf, but i like this show i watch and its kinda guy on guy relationship show aimed at teenage girls. i like it cuz its funny and interesting, but when this 1 scene in the first episode where the 2 guys kiss, i just wish i was him. I thought it was ... (110 words)

Would-be 2 year anniversary coming up with my ex and I'm not coping!

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30 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - What would have been my two year anniversary with my ex is this sunday and Ive been so upset all week. We broke up for good in February after going back and forth for a while. We cut all contact four days after my birthday and I havent spoken to him since. He called me a month ... (380 words)

Its still early days but I'm worried I'm being used!

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for about a month now. We have a lot in common, and we have a great time when we're together, which has generally been at weekends. This weekend a friend of his in in town and naturally he's arranging to meet up with an old group of friends he ha... (212 words)

She rejected me before but I still get the feeling she likes me more than a friend!

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked this girl out for a meal when I started to think of the possibility of something other than frienship. She never replied to my email asking her. Anyway, we have still met a few times since, and the strange thing is I still get the impression from her that there might... (187 words)

Even though her ex has moved out I am still her secret lover and I want more!

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married twice and have four children two from each marrage, I see my children every weekend and share holidays. Seven months ago through the internet I met up with a girl that I had not seen in 23 years. She was in a form of relationship i.e living with a guy but as ... (720 words)

Gay man married to a woman....now I want her to sleep with someone else!

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i am a gay man married to my wife for 8 years, we have two kids. I am not very active in sex with my wife, for the past 4 years i had hardly had sex for 5 times. She keeps on insisting me, but i just jerk off when she is asleep on our bed. I want her to have sex with some ... (162 words)

His bit on the side is returning to work in the summer....how do I stop these doubts?

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30 April 2009 (F)

age - Need a bit of advice to cut a long story short my h/b had an affair with a married girl at work i found out he finished it straight away he was off work himself for 6 months we spent all these months together 24/7 she stayed with her husband and fell pregnant 5 months later,it ... (342 words)

It always hurts when he penetrates me.

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is that when it's time for my partner to penetrate me it’s very painful and I do not know the cause of this but after trying it finally goes in but it's still hurts. What can we use so stop the pain and easy penetration.... (47 words)

I'm starting to develop feelings for him...

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this guy friend we have been talking to each other every day online and the conversations usually last for hours without either one of us breaking it. I usually have to tell him good night because it would be 3 in the morning and he would say "awww :(" then ask me when ... (208 words)

Should I just come clean and suffer the consequences rather than wait for him to do it?

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - right here goes, ive had a relationship with a none blood relative, to be honest he was my nephew for 7 years until my brother and his mum split up we are both in our thirties and should probably of known better, now the problem is ive got feelings for him i know its wrong but ... (298 words)

Experiencing an abnormal amount of discharge and pain during sex!

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im a 19 year old student. im dating a 20 year old student. im having this problem...im having an abnormal disharge at the moment and i experience pain during sexual intercourse. after sexual intercourse i feel pain inside my vagina and its burning inside my vagina and hot. ... (51 words)

My boyfriend is not affectionate...

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. So my bf and I have been together for almost 4 weeks and he seems to not be very affectionate. In the beginning before we met he said he wanted to kiss me and hold me, but every night we sleep together he is not affectionate and doesn't want to be bothered. He also ... (172 words)

Why doesn't she leave me if the fault is in me that I am not able to be even her genuine friend??

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i broke up all contacs with my ex girlfriend... I deleted my facebook and changed my mobile number, I'm trying my level best to avoid her and that too gently and politely taking atmost care not to hurt her too much... before we departed she said she will always wait for me to ... (328 words)

Is something wrong in my marriage or is it me?

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30 April 2009 (F)

age - I found out my hubby had a FWB and this had been going on for around 8 years. I asked for a divorce and he begged me to stay so that we could try again. He went to counselling with me and for the last 18 months things have been okay. But.... I feel like something has changed ... (133 words)

We fight all the time because she doesn't understand me, how can I avoid a break up?

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I have been going out with my girl for 1 and a half years already. we have had a lot of problems in the past because of me. In the beginning i did not care about her and did not pay much attention to her. She used to go crazy about me. after she found out that i had chea... (253 words)

What am I doing??

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so long story short i cheated on my Boyfriend of 6 years for a year and a half with the same person no he was not the other guy just a "buddy" if you get me ... the truth about me and him only came out because i got pregnant with his baby now me and my boyfriend are pretty ... (126 words)

Could it be that he is jealous and still has feelings for me??

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey thanks for reading. I recently brokw up with my ex 5 weeks ago, and we have remained good friends.... However a good friend came down from interstate last week. I spoke with with my ex and told him that a good friend was coming down, and sent me a text back saying to have... (197 words)

Loving two women

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30 April 2009 (M)

age - Is it possible to truly love two women at the same time? If so,what suggestions do you have if intimacy with both is involved? Is there a way to work out trust between the two women? They know each other. This may not apply,however one is 40 and the other 67. Thank you.... (56 words)

My bf says he doesn't get jealous--almost ever.

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30 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Heyo! My bf says he doesn't get jealous--almost ever. Is that possible? I know I get jealous pretty easily, so what he said is pretty much incomprehensible to me. Thanks! -GG... (35 words)

Should I keep trying to hold this relationship together?

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well me and my fiancee have been together for 3 years now.But he has changed alot towards me he hardly says he loves me he is not that caring anymore he hardly tries to make conversation but we always seem to argue over ridicuolous stuff.He gets mad when i ask him anything.He ... (344 words)

My bf called two other girls tried to hook up with them. Does he want to be single?

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently found out that my bf had called two other girls in the past month and had tried to hook up with them. Nothing became of either of the situations but I was still devastated that he would even think of being with another woman. We have been together for a little over a ... (250 words)

He isnt being straightforward with me

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a women who is liked by many men around me, but suddenly fall head over heels in crush with this new friend of mine, since am very frank women I just approached and told him that I like him and want to get to know him more ! At first he told me that he is surprised ... (304 words)

Is he cheating? please let me know what you think?

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he cheating? pls tell me what you think..thanks..? Hey guys..I need an objective opinion asap. I have been going out for a guy for 10 months. For the last 2-3 months we were on and off and every time we had a fight he would dump on me. I guess he just freaked. Sex was... (721 words)

He wont tell anyone we are dating!

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am going out with a guy that doesn't want anyone to know we are dating. He says its because of his ex-girlfriend- she gets mad a lot and I'm friends with her. I think it's true but does he really like me?? ps- i love him... (48 words)

Should I call or let it be?

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy for a few months. He knows that I wont do anything with him unless I get some kind of commitment but he still can't call himself my b/f because he isn't ready and doesn't want to make promises he can't keep. He did, however, ask for oral sex because ... (231 words)

Is light bleeding normal while on the pill?

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm on birth control and just started taking it two weeks ago. Is it normal to have light bleeding throughout the month(not on your period.) But just bleeding through the month when you're on birth control? Like I said, I just started it two weeks ago.... (46 words)

Did he just lose interest?

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy two weeks ago. Our first date went on for 5 hours, the second for more than 10, the third date we went for a drive and hung out, and the fourth we had dinner at his place and watched movies. We gradually got closer physically and the most it ever went to was kissing ... (272 words)

I'm falling for my FWB; how should I let him know?

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am unsure on how to approach my fwb about making our relationship more committed. We have been seeing each other for almost a year now and things are great but he says he does not want a gf. We spend so much time together and always have fun. We have only been in one argument ... (236 words)

We want to try oral sex, but we're nervous about the consequences

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, My boyfriend and I have been talking about having oral sex lately. We've been going out for almost six months. The desire to have oral sex isn't one sided, we both want to. We're both still reluctant because of the consequences. Should we wait till we are both ready or ... (60 words)

Did she try to kill her feelings for me to justify starting a new relationship?

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok heres the breakdown. My ex gf of a year broke up with in Dec, and from what I hear started hanging out with this new guy almost within 2 weeks of breaking up with me. However we continued to talk casually throughout this time, with her even saying I "had a place in her ... (206 words)

Is she just the rebound girl?

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay here's the story. my girlfriend and i went out for about 2 years. were both 15. and we broke up 2 or 3 weeks ago idk because she has to many bad habits smoking,drinkin, and always flirting with her ex. yeah she may seem like a bad girlfriend but we had our moments a lot. ... (118 words)

My married friend is getting very friendly with me.

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30 April 2009 (M)

- One of my european friends makes me uncomfortable and I don't know what to do about it. When we hang out with her husband she always tell me how handsome I am and how lucky any woman would be to go out with me. She really plays it up and I feel uncomfortable when she does so... (289 words)

need help on moving too fast!

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, So I have been with this guy for about 6 months, well we have been talking and we liked eachother. We went out once and it just didn't work and my parents made me break it off. Then we connected again and we were together but not going out officially, we only kissed once. ... (154 words)

We broke up... why did she come to me for help? Is this karma at work?

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay this is my dilemma. Me and my girlfriend of 3 months have recently broke up. The reason why we broke up is because she had feelings for another guy and he has feelings for her. I was devastated and heart broken. We didnt talk anymore for a couple days and I have always ... (129 words)

Is he acting like a mate or a potential?

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30 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I like this guy, both at uni. I am friends with a lot of guys and usually don't fancy them but this guy caught my attention. it started in one of our workshops he made a sarci comment and i outwitted him he replied 'are you always this physco' i said yes. he was said i think... (620 words)

Going to a wedding, his bitchy ex will be there, how do I get through it?

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 4 months has asked me to go to his friends wedding in May. Not a problem really, until you take into accoiunt that his very maliscious, nasty and bitchy ex will be there - who has a real thing against me (she had my boyfriend wrapped around her little finge... (144 words)

I finally dumped my cheating abusive boyfriend...Now I want him back

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I finally got the courage and strength to bring up the subject of breaking up/going on a break with my boyfriend of two years. After countless times of cheating, and abuse, I let him go... Thing is I thought I'd feel better, but instead I find myself wanting him back already... (70 words)

Starting to wonder if I fancy women, not men...

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm starting to wonder if I might be gay. I've never fancied women, or wanted relationships with them. But I've always found them more of a turn on than men - ie if I was watching porn with a boyfriend, it would be lesbian porn that I would chose. Lately, I have found... (107 words)

I set him free thinking he would come back, but he hasn't

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30 April 2009 (F)

age - This is a long one. I met a guy who was still married but separated, long distance to boot, but we fell very much in love. We were together for two years, but I believed he would need to have some alone time since I was the first person he dated after the split, and sure ... (623 words)

My first ever crush hates me

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and in need of help. I've liked this girl for over a year, she was the first girl I ever crushed on this hard. And I found out by signs and her best friend that she hates me. She actually is rather mean to me. I'm trying to get over her, I tried to force myself t... (253 words)

I'm still in love with my ex 3 months on

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im stil in love with my ex even after 3months of break-up. Iv tried contactin her but she hates me. Iv become this stalkish figure. Im really depressed. What makes matters worse is the fact that we study the same major at university. Shes havin a fling with another guy now even ... (243 words)

I need ideas for a unique birthday present for my boyfriend

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend 3 months, and his birthday is coming up in a few weeks. I want to do something special for him, but I'm on quite a strict budget at the moment, so I'm not going to be spending hundreds. Does anyone have any ideas of somehting personal and ... (104 words)

He says he likes me but he won't move it along

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have this buddy who I've know for two years and we've continually have gotten closer. Well I'm bi and I have a crush on him so I told him I like him and he tells me he has a thing for me too. Now the thing is when I try to take it to another level it seems as if he doesn't ... (129 words)

My life seems so boring compared to everyone elses

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like my life is so boring and inadequate. I've got good friends, but not a circle of friends. Whenever I go out, it will be with, say, one of my girlfriends and her boyfriend... It just seems everyone around me has huge groups of friends, who they hang out with ... (107 words)

I have feelings for my male best friend

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have a problem. I'm a straight female who I think has feelings for her male straight best friend. I think about pete* him all the time and we talk everyday, he's always been there for me and just recently I think i've realised that I may have feelings for him; more than ... (418 words)

I was raped by my sisters husband

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi am 18 yrs old and just over a year ago I was raped by my sisters husband. One night I was at a party and got drunk (yes I know I am under age and stuff but it happens). Most of my friends were drinking so I called him ( my sisters husband) to pick me up. They are both 28 ... (318 words)

How can I be a great boyfriend?

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey. This amazing girl is going out with me now. I want to give her everything she deserves. My question is basically "How do I become a great boyfriend?" Any tips, or even your 'ideal' bf would be quite helpful. thanks!... (41 words)

I prefer to be their aquaintance rather than a friend.

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30 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - We live in a small community and our children go to a small school. There is a couple whom we have kids in the same grade with. This couple has always been very cliquish with another couple. (They were really good friends, and they were almost inseperable.) Well, their ... (269 words)

How can I make my ex choose me over my friend?

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30 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I dated a girl for a few years before she broke up with me a few weeks ago. Although we were not in a long distance relationship, we could not always see each other due to a number of reasons, and it has gotten worse lately. I became too preoccupied with my own personal ... (505 words)