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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm afraid she thinks our relationship is moving to slow.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey again. This isn't much of a question. More like a thank you. I'm the one who asked what to do next with my girlfriend. The few replies I got actually worked! But I had a problem. We got caught and I got detention. They don't allow PDA ( Public Display of Affection ) at my ... (230 words)

Could she actually be pregnant and telling the truth??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex girlfriend and I had a rather rocky relationship, there was continual suspicion by her as previous post will explain. When our relationship seemed it was going great over night she called it all off and stopped all contact with me. Telling me she had some issues she ... (346 words)

I really hope you can help me. I'm in such a mess.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really hope you can help me. I'm in such a mess. You see, there's a guy who i've liked from the very moment i saw him. It was certainly an instant attraction, me and him soon became friends and all went well until i drunkenly told him that i loved him (baring in mind ... (819 words)

How do you tell if your bi or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you tell if your bi or not? i have a weirddd fixation with breasts like i cant help looking and i wouldnt mind kissing a girl.... but the thought of BEING with a girl is too weird... and i dont think i could ever openly go out with one but i read this article about pl... (110 words)

What's wrong with me?! Is this NORMAL for a teenager?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a teenager that just can't date like others do. People my age date because they have a small crush on each other, because that's what you're supposed to do at my age, right? But for some reason I can only go with a girl for love, not just for infatuation, or adoratio... (244 words)

I don't understand why guys won't be seen out with me, it's always ok if no-one else is around.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice, as I don't know where I am going wrong. I am 24 (Female) and I can't ever seem to get a boyfriend, I work with a mix of males and females, mostly males, and a lot of them comment on my looks, but no one ever asks me out. Anyway, there is a guy who I h... (349 words)

Should I confront him and ask him what he wants from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a little confused about a current situation, I have read some pages on here and some people have the same issues, but can anyone comment on mine. There is a guy I work with he blows hot and cold with me all the time, we have kissed a couple of times and he says I turn h... (277 words)

How did this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I messed around with my bf and genitals were touching after that I went on birth control because I was afraid. My period came about 3 weeks ago but it was short and light. I started feeling pregnant and took a test just to ease my mind. It was postitive!!! I took another one... (86 words)

Some sex questions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few questions. First of all, my boyfriend has never been able to bring me to orgasm, either through masturbation, oral sex, or penetration, although I frequently bring myself to orgasm by masturbating. It's not like he isn't trying or doesn't want to - recently, he's b... (385 words)

I just don't know any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this boy I have really liked for about 6 months now ad my mate keeps saying he likes me too but I really don't know if he does or not. Every time I see him he is looking at me an he smiles at me a couple of times but when i add him on bebo he declines me or on msn he i... (200 words)

We got on so well together... now he's telling me he's getting back with his ex...

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a similar problem and was wondering if you guys had any advice for me. I have known this guy for 2 years and have kept in contact off and on during that time. Around then end of January we started dating. It was great, we talked every day because I was really sick ... (364 words)

Should I forgive him for what he did or just get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy Mark* for 7 months. He's soooo sweet, really nice and caring. I'd being putting these notes in his locker and signing them off 'your secret admirer' and my friend gave him my no. so he could text me but he only knew me as his secret admirer. Then he started ... (298 words)

Why won't he tell my brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Couple of days me and my brother's mate kept giving each other signs. We honestly fancy each other because we both stare. He hasn’t told my brother that he fancies me, why is that?... (34 words)

She says she is still very much in love with me and misses me but can't continue our relationship. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with another woman for nearly 2 years. She is married but her husband knows about me. She told him she was leaving him for me but when she sorted a place for us to live etc.. she changed her mind and ended our relationship. She says she is still very ... (94 words)

Love like this can't disappear in a few days can it?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had been going out for a year and 2 months but yesterday he broke up with me because he said he's fallen out of love and that I've changed . Only Sunday did we go out and everything was perfect and he said I was his one true love and that he will love me ... (124 words)

Stuck with my BFF problem!! Help!

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi!im 15 n i my bff 'a' is a little bit confused so i wanna ask u for her. She loves a boy n he loves her too n im sure about that cause he's my lab mate n we're pretty close n he told me that he can imagine her in his futur n he truly deeply loves her he asked her out n she ... (153 words)

He said he doesn't come to see me often because of the distance... could this be true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age - We live more than an hour away. We met online 3 years ago. It took a while for us to meet in person. We hit it off immediately. The first kiss was amazing. We parted our ways and spoke online more always intending to have another date. Six months later we met again at my ... (196 words)

We flirted before, but now he's blanking me. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I don't know what to do or what to think now, because of this one guy. We met about a month ago, on a residential school trip. We hung around together, a lot. People even noticed that we were getting 'cosy'. He treated me very well there, and was a complete sweethe... (186 words)

We both like one another, so should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay - so basically... I have this really cute guy friend and he is amazing. He's funny, kind, we share alot of things in common and generally have a laugh together. I really like him and he's told my friend that he really likes me too, and wants to "give it some time." I... (95 words)

Is he serious when he says he fancies me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how do u no if a boy is joking wen they say they fancy you?... (16 words)

If I don't see her again I'll go crazy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I seem to have alot of problems recently anyways... I just came back from a absolutely fabulous trip to Paris and I met the most amazing person on my travels. I gave her my email but im a tad worried that Ill never hear from her and theres an even larger chance Ill never se... (200 words)

In (probably) unrequited love with my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very good friend, let's call him John. I've known John for many years now, I met him through his sister (let's call her Kate) who I was my roommate in college. Over the past few years, he and I have gotten very close. He tells me nearly everything, and I feel very ... (606 words)

Does he love me? I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very in love with my ex-bf. Six months ago he broke up with me because he wasn't sure it was really love and wanted to remain friends. After two months of our break out he started to be an asshole to me. Three months after, we had no more contact at all, due to his part. ... (423 words)

Does my friend have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - okay welll my problem is that i have this friend, and he has a girlfriend...but i think he likes me...okay so we were in PE runnin laps n he comes from behind nd starts poking my sides and patting my head n he just starts gettin annoyin but me friend thinks he was flirtin...and ... (254 words)

Where is his G spot???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i need help with helping my boyfriend to find that all elusive g-spot - i dont think its that elusive but there we go. We've been together about 2 months and the sex is great apart from i havent cum yet. I have absolutely no troubles by myself but i cant explain to him w... (152 words)

It feels like a spring rain in the desert, for someone to come into your life and install some believe there is happiness out there.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a bit of a dilemma! I am from a well disciplined upbringing, very close to my mother... and with a firm believe instilled in me that i should treat others with the respect i would expect myself. at the start of this month, on a social networking site, i had a random ... (272 words)

I've found out that my boyfriend of 1 year has been texting and ringing another girl and telling her he's totally single.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, I've found out that my boyfriend of 1 year has been texting and ringing another girl and telling her he's totally single. he met her over the internet and its been going on about 2 months. he's planning to go meet her in 2 weeks time. to make things worse now i am 2 months... (178 words)

He's ruining every single relationship I have, just because he wants to be with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I have a problem with a boy (let's call his Ed) that has been in love with me for about 3 years. I used to be flattered, but now he is turning obsessive. When I had a boyfriend a few months ago, he spent his every waking hours trying to split us up, saying to my boyfrien... (207 words)

What's he playing at, is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this is about my ex, ok i admit i still have feelings for him,and we split up in november last year,but carried on sleeping with each other, then hes now got this new gf he says she could be the one, But hes also said 2 my mate that he really wants 2 cheat on her and he t... (254 words)

I'm a bit jealous that my girlfriend hangs out with guy friends too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I am together with my girlfriend for 10 months now, but today she told me she hangs out with guy-friends too. Like one on one, I never knew this before so it came as a surprise. I don't know, I am kind of jealous, she did cheat on me once, I don't know what to say... (81 words)

Isn't it ironic?

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25 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This really isn't much of a question just really sharing my experience and what I have become out of it. I have been on this site daily just reading other posts and I figured if someone comes into the situation I was in I hope they can use this as a guide. A little over 4 m... (710 words)

I can't win! What do I do with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, what do I do with him, he said I was too slim and that he doesn't like me that way, so I should add some weight, now I am a little bit fat and he complains I am too fat. What do I do with him?... (47 words)

I love girls... but I think I'm attracted to guys too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a fourteen year old boy and I have a problem. I'm very attracted to girls, I love them, but I'm kinda scared because I think I may be bi-curious.. I think I may be attracted to guys too. I don't know what's wrong with me... I mean I have no problems with gay people but ... (100 words)

I like her, she's with someone else..how do I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, im in secondary school and really like this girl. But, she has been with this guy since the middle of February. Some of her friends hate him, and they knew i liked her before he asked her out (she never knew that i liked her). But I've been spending alot of time with her ... (125 words)

Have I done a stupid thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi my boyfriend has cheated on me once in the past,and another time it was emotional cheating. we stayed together but i was constantly checking his emails and wondering who he was with on the nights we wernt together, which was alot as we only saw each other 2 times a week m... (383 words)

She did with exs but won't do it with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel resentful towards my girlfriend because I perform oral sex on her before we have sex. I genuinely enjoy doing it and would prefer to carry on. However, I don't know if me doing this act is the reason she feels she does not need to give me oral sex and whether she ... (196 words)

Discharge problems for about 3 years..help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is a health question, I do not know where else to ask. I have a discharge problem. It's been there for about three years now and is becoming very stressful. My discharge is extremely pasty and white. I know it is not normal. It doesn't have an oder. Over th... (291 words)

She goes out and leaves me when she hears her ex is around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it right for a man to be quiet when his wife leave him alone in the kitchen to go outside when she heard her ex-boyfriend was around ?and is it right for her to tell the husband that this is her house she can bring in anybody she likes or talk to anybody she likes just ... (92 words)

I found out she's sexually active..it gutted me..I want to be with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, Well I'm 16 years old. I havent had a girlfriend for about 3 years. In that time ive kissed about 8 girls passionately, but about 6 of them have come in the last 3 months, and 5 of them when either i was drunk or the other girl was drunk. I know i probably shouldn't drink, ... (246 words)

He's talking about marriage to me but he's checking out guys!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i think my fella is bi,,he has never been in a poper relationship with a girl before me and he is in his thirtys,but he has had many one night stands with females, when on a night out i see him checking guys out all the time,,he always coments on how fit certain male clebs ... (216 words)

Just got dumped and want to get over him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently got dumped and I was really in love with this person and I still am. I do not know how to get over him and I wanted to know wat I can do to get over this?... (40 words)

Husband now asking when I will be home ect...pornography involved

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i really do need some advice on this matter as i am driving myself mad, I have found out that my husband is looking at porn on the internet and that he had subscribed to a few sites that girls get back to you on, he is doing this when i am at work or if i go to bed early as ... (199 words)

Confused in relationship..need help!

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25 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi people, sorry if this question is quite long but there is a lot to it. Me and my girlfriend have been together (on and off) for 3 years. We met when we were in our teens (she is 3years younger than me) We lost our virginitys together and this is my first really serious r... (505 words)

FWB situation I need help with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i decided after four months of being in a friends with benefits relationship to end it because i was getting attached and he wasn't. we had a great time but i couldn't continue on. so i told him over text that i got the feeling he didn't care anymore and sorry it had to end ... (133 words)

Am I an easy target because I am messed with so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What is it with most men. Ive been messed around by my ex 4 two years dont know if he want me or not! Stupidly ive hung around cos i was in love. And yet hes been sleeping with other and me in between making his mind up! Ive not been with anyone! Then i meet someone who really ... (200 words)

Do I need to go to the doctor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am/was pregnant for about 3-4 weeks. I began heavily bleeding and I had a miscarriage. Do I have to go to the doctor, cause I haven't been yet? I really don't want to. And how do i tell my bf?... (41 words)

Should I show him my desires or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help to solve my hesitation please. So this is the case : I am 23, student , about to graduate. About 5 months ago, i met a guy who is 29. He volunteered to teach at my university. He and i had feelings for each other , but we did not let anyone else know this . W... (338 words)

She borrowed money took forever to pay and now wants help again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, The issue is that I have friend. We are just friends. She comes to me to help her in her course work. I give her some help. One day, She then told me that she was ill and asked if I could lend her some money. Naturally, I lent her the money. I waited for about a ... (328 words)

Can you be in love with someone and lust for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together and passionately in love for 3 and a half years now. It seems as it has been getting more serious and his love became more ardent because of all the love texts and expensive gifts he has lavished on me lately and he has mentioned that he ... (265 words)

Do I still have a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, id rather not give my details out but worst has come to worse and i have resorted to asking strangers for adivce. but im 15, and thers a girl who iv liked for a couple of years on and off, but we have never been out. About 2 months ago i found out she likes me though... (439 words)

Help me out of a very weird situation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here is the deal i meet this guy when i was 10 through my dads friend i have now known him nine years im 19 and he is now 46 he is right now in prison for a drug deal that went wrong i see him every week he is getting out in 3 months we just recently got more involved and ... (137 words)

It okay to date a different guy every week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age - dear cupid, i wrote you before, my boyfriend(ex now) was the one that said he loved me but wasn't in love with me. i ended up breaking up with him. he quit calling as much. basically avoiding me. but still called enough to string me along. he said he wanted to stay friends ... (107 words)

Why doesn't he treat me like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been talking to this guy for over two months now just msn and phone we are close we know alot about eachother and i do love him tbh he is like a good friend to but he doesn't want a relationship or anything.. hes 28 im 18 hes nearly going to get married arranged and say... (294 words)

This is my life. is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - aye where do i start? ok my current cituation is shit. im in love, I feel like a hopeless puppy, I've screwed up many relationships. k so when I was young my family was extremely poor. I barely had lunch money. I never had anything new. but I have a good heart and I've been ... (768 words)

Is this guy genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya well im 18 and i got to know a guy via the internet.he was on my msn contact list for months but i never talked to him just hi and bye. then last saturday we started talking and i said we could just be mates. Ever since he calls me every day for about 3/4 hours. no... (287 words)

Does this sound true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - A girl at school told that her first experience was painful and took several minutes to get going but afer a few minutes all pain was gone and they were enjoying when suddenly heard her mother on the stairs calling her name and he had to stop suddenly and as he withdrew the ... (67 words)

My husband of 32 years is having an emotional affair

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25 April 2009 (F)

age - My husband of 32 years is having an emotional affair with his admin. We have 3 kids who all grown. We married when we were very young. The oldest is 32. We stayed together and raised our kids and have a good life. He is a shop supervisor and I am a teacher. His affair ... (464 words)

What to do about this girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and the girl is almost a year younger. i have known this girl since i started secondary school, for about 5 years now, we're friends nd we talk quite a bit. recently myself nd one of the boys went to the cinema with her and one of her friends. it opened my eyes, all my ... (496 words)

Help me realize this disrepectful man is not going to change?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so tired of this selfish, heartless man ive been messing with him for two years and i just lost a baby i feel hes been cheating on me the whole time now he comes in my house at 5am and claim been over nephews im so tired of this man liein, using me and abusing me ... (129 words)

He left me, will he ever come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, My boyfriend/fiancé moved out and left me a week ago. He's at home with family now. We met when I was on vacation abroad, he was not. It was love at first sight. After a month of dating, I had to go back home. Surprisingly, our "fling" didn't end there. After ... (505 words)

Does this boy like like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi theres this boy he lives down the road from me, he sometimes jokes around and is mean but he says its a joke, i no its a joke but when i cry about things hes always there and asks whats the matter and always helps me people walk past in school sometimes and say he fan... (100 words)

Wounded by a heartless man

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25 April 2009 (F)

Should I marry

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in engaged to be married in 8 weeks and my fiance parents has a house that will be passed on to him. We are planning for our wedding and also trying to buy a house that will accommodate 7 total of our children from previous relationships. Every time his parents are mainly ... (247 words)

I'm very confused and scared

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi I'm a pakistani and i had an arranged marriage with my cousin. I didn't like him then and i don't like him now. But still i got married to him out of fear of living alone. Now the problem is he doesn't talk to me like a husband should talk to his wife like in a romantic way ... (259 words)

I'm scared that I ruined any chance of us ever being together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so i met this girl in school about a month ago and we really hit a off quick. We became very tight very fast and within 5 days we had already had a very romantic hookup and we're thinking about becoming a couple. But two days after this, she decided she just wanted to be ... (229 words)

Does he play with me or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have loved this boy the same age as me, he lives next door and i have loved him from the day i met him. quite recently on msn after playing in my garden with him a my sister he asked me to come outside again. where he asked me if i would ever get off with him! i didnt sa... (429 words)

Am I wrong for getting upset with my g/f in this situation? What do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - (my gf and I are both about 20, have been together almost 3 years, and living together about a year) Okay, first off, my girlfriend has a bit of an... anger problem. She gets angry at things very easily, and her anger quickly goes over the top, especially if I don't immediat... (1064 words)

My b/f is only nice in bed. I need more of his attention, help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel my bf is liking me with a reserve. We haven't been with each other for very long. I feel distant because he doesn't show enough affection. For example, he won't hold my hand in public or call me before he goes to sleep. On weekends, he always does some extra work during ... (541 words)

My daughter drinks too much and is angry with me, what can be done? She dislikes counselling.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F)

age - My daughter is 31 years-old with three children (all of them have different fathers, not sure if that matters) she is still with the father of the youngest one. The father of the other two were both physically and emotionally abusive. I am really scared for her because she is ... (310 words)

She always says she doesn't know what she is feeling. Do we have a future together?

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25 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years now, and we both claim to love each other, but I'm not sure she understands love. Whenever I ask her to come to mine she is always a bit reluctant but would eventually come to mine after I sulked a bit, and sometimes wh... (174 words)

I masturbate much less often since I turned 20, is this weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - why is it that when i was in my teens, i would masturbate at least once a day and now at 20 years of age, i don't as much? now i do it at least once a week instead of once a day? what is up with that? i just don't get that feeling to do it ever since i turned 20. Nothing really ... (87 words)

She seems keener on her ex's than me?

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25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, thanks for your time. Me and my girl have been together 8 months, we are doin great have our problems just like any other couple. I seem to be feeling jealousy at the fact that she is chronically texting to and talking to two of her ex's, significantly more ... (253 words)

I think I should make the first move, but what to say?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy a while ago, but didn't think I'd ever see him again. The other night I bumped into him, and he invited me into his house. We ended up kissing after a couple of hours, and exchanged numbers. He said things like 'when are we going to go out, on a date?' and other ... (142 words)

We have a baby; he keeps doing drugs. Help!

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my man keeps doing drugs he says he will stop. Than 3 months later he dose it again we have a baby together i really want to make this work. What can i do to try and help him i love him. And i hate him. He breaks my heart. I dont know. Should i move on and kick him out? ... (94 words)

In Love with 15 year old guy and I'm 13

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I really like this guy, he's a gentleman to every girl and he knows who i am the only thing is that he's 2 years older than me!, and i believe that age doesn't matter but he's in my sisters grade see, I'm 13 and he's 15. I've tried to talk to him and I've tried to... (113 words)

In a foreign country; the only person I can lean on is drifting away from me!

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm in a really bad place right now. I'm 24, and when I left university, I taught English abroad to make money and met a Canadian guy who I really fell in love with. Long story short we stuck together from then on and I eventually came to Canada to be with him. We strugg... (475 words)

Touching the thing?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm 14; someone told me that if I play with the oval bump on my vagina I would cum. The only thing I did was pee. Was I doing it right? Any other tips for great mastuerbating?... (38 words)

Met a guy at work, felt the chemistry -- could there be something here?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy (let's call him Harry)... a co-worker who is located in another state. We have to work fairly closely - and have done so for about 3 years. We always had a very strong working relationship - but not flirty at all. I now have intense feelings for this ... (722 words)

Does my teacher have feelings for me?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I know I've asked this question before but now with a few more leads. I think he has caught onto me used to liking him so he has been giving out the same signs aswell lately. I can't bare to look at him during class anymore because maybe it's just be being shy. I'... (369 words)

Raped -- what can I do?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a rather strange question. I am pretty sure I was raped. I question it becasue I don't think I can do much about it. I knew this guy since forever..he gave me a ride home, and next I know we are out in the woods and he parks the truck. Next, he starts trying to make out ... (125 words)

He flirts with me, and I wanted to ask him out, but now I think he knows! Help!

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy in my social studies class who sits next to me.... We sit in the very last row and talk to each other alot..... He sort of flirts with me and my friend who sits infront of me told me to ask him out cause she says he is tottally flirting with me... My socail ... (94 words)

Is this just a budding friendship or something more?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He just came up to me and gave me a hug. He's been looking at me since before we started talking. He initiated the talking and we talked for the whole spring break online. He gave me his number and when I didn't text him he asked why and texted me. He came and visited me at ... (166 words)

I'm in love with my ex's best friend! What should I do?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well me and my ex broke up last week [i broke up with him] were just friends but i met his best friend and the guy is great hes evrything that my ex was not. he really looks like he knows how to treat a lady. i even dreamt about him. and i never dreamt about my ex before im ... (145 words)

We want to make our first time special and romantic. Any suggestions?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend want to make our first time special and as romantic as possible but we need some advice on what to do and what to wear. Any advice?... (31 words)

Is there a correct way to flirt with guys?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im keeping this short and simple is there a correct way to flirt with guys?... (18 words)

I feel so lost, and it feels like my life is a mess. Help!

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey to the person reading this, i need some advice and hope you can help once i get this off my chest as this place has been helpful in the past.. okay, so up until last year i was a happy, confident girl. yes i had things i didnt like about myself and such but i never felt... (362 words)

What will happen when I go to get tested for STDs?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i'm now sexually active i want to go to a sexual health clinic and get a check up to see if i have any sexually transmitted diseases. but i havn't yet as i am worried about what they do! I am a female. What do they do? is it like a vaginal swab or something? A fr... (78 words)

My girlfriend isn't going to me for her problems

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25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, i've been with my girlfriend for almost 5 months now and everything has been pretty much smooth sailing. a little rough patch here or there but everything else has been great! the only problem i have though is that whenever something happens to her like if... (207 words)

Strange period?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For the past week or so I have been experiencing mild cramping in my abdomen. I also feel twinges / pulling sensations in my pelvic area. While walking down the stairs one night I felt something pulling on the right side of my pelvis for just a couple steps. Just now I felt a ... (181 words)

I have a massive crush on one of my friends!

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advise. I Have had a HUGE crush on one of my friends since the beginning of last year. I still like him. He doesn't know though. But now i have a crush on someone i met about a week ago. He's amazing! He knows i like him. He said he likes me too. But when we're ... (240 words)

A fictional coincidence turned real

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25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - when we write a story, we usually write about modern times and have a character reflect upon us which is usually the main character. we write about what we want in life. Romance, wishes, memories, passion we could or can't get real life. i just want to know, if you write about ... (97 words)

I can't forget about her and it's driving me insane!

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25 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - It’s abt a girl from my work, we shared a kind of relationship at one time but broke up and now its been 6 months since we last had a word but she is still on my head all the time 24 x 7... She used to have a bf but she wasn’t happy with her relationship, according to her... (424 words)

My baby's father won't let me go out with my friends

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my baby's father will not let me hang out with friends guys or girls and if i do he threatens to break up with me when been together 5 years what can i do please help i m tired of going through this ... (45 words)

Why is his family so mean to us?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so me and my fiance split up about a month ago and now we are back together but his family has a huge problem with it.They are so mean to me and have been since day one! We broke up because they felt that I was not good enough for him and he could do better... and in the ... (777 words)

Has anyone heard of andropause?

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25 April 2009 (M) age - Does everybody heard of andropause?That man over 40 gets like a male menopause? Or is this just a mYth? I heard many doctors don't believe it. DO any of you have any experince with this? That man stop having sex drive, have hot flushes. How come not everybody has it what do ... (93 words)

Is it normal for clitoral stimulation to hurt?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for clitoral stimulation to hurt? It might sound weird, but I'll be totally turned on, and when my boyfriend starts messing with my clit it hurts to the point where I have to tell him to stop. ... (40 words)

He seems to want me only for sex

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in a relationship with a guy who is 16yrs older than me, he is really loving and always wants to be around me except when i am seeing my period, i am beginnig to think that he only wants me for sex, i am not sure, cause he always say to me that sex is not the issue between ... (67 words)

I'm poor at parenting and let my kids do whatever they want, fearing they dislike me

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25 April 2009 (F) age - I feel so terrible about my children's dissfunction My children are grown ups no, but they are all of them totally unhappy. seroius drug problems, not finding love, not finding anything good about life.And they are suffering very much from that. My heart is broken. Als... (165 words)

He jumps around like a flea

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hellppp me please!! Well i really dont no what to do about my boyfriend. All my mates think i should dump him. well i better tell you whats happend. He broke up with his ex girl friend because she did'nt treat him well and he said he liked me, so a few days after he broke u... (683 words)

She's cold towards me in school

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25 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend says she loves me, but when we're in school she acts like if she doesnt...she says shes shy with other people but i know shes not shy... whats wrong with her??? why does she act like this???... (62 words)

Does my girl friend like me?

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25 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend of three years confessed to me about a month ago that she thinks she is bisexual. i have no problem with gays, bisexuals or lesbians, but i'm straight. i told her that because we're so young, she might just be going through a phase. but if she's positive she's ... (280 words)