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male
age
36-40,
*berman11
writes:I love this woman im am in a relationship with, we have been together for 6 months now and well heres the story behind it all so that you guys can help me..... We fell in love last november and her family doesnt like me at all because im not a quite guy, meaning i dont take crap from anyone and when they made her cry one day in front of me i made them pay dearly, anyway they broke us up from may until October then we decided we wanted each other and we got back together..... im not a bad guy or at least i dont think that i am, i protect her from the bad in this world.... meaning i help her with dishes, problems at work, people that bother her.... her family my family since her sister just looked at me and told me to my face she dont want me for her sister, after that my family stepped in and fought her family for me.... so me and my little woman argue about this sometimes..... and it bothers me cause because of me, she crys.... i dont like her in pain but we have been through everything, she loves me with everything she is, i know she does, im her first in every way, what do i do, should i stick with her knowing her family is fighting her to get rid of me or should i be strong and fight for her till the end cause i dont want to hurt her in any way but being with her is hurting her, because of her family and not being with her would kill us both
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): Well i don't know if it is of much help? But, I was married to a very sweet & nice
girl from a "Born Again" Christian family (I am a non practicing Catholic) The family
wanted me to accompany them to their Church every Sunday's & even more convert
myself to a "Born Again"... When i refused... That's when All "Hell Broke Loose" & i
was considered a Heathen... They began putting Pressure on Her to leave & divorce
me... Which she finally did (Introduced the papers for a Divorce) But the most pain-
full part is? That we have a 3 Years old son... To whom i'm very attached & miss so
very much... I'm still trying to come to terms with this Situation...
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reader, Mrs Sampson  +, writes (7 April 2009):
does she love u thats the question if she does the same way u love her dont worry about the family live for u and her and what u want to build together...
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reader, HPC11 +, writes (7 April 2009):
 well she misses them a lot even though she loves you and wants you. You might have to either let her have some time alone with her family (as long as they aren't mean to her) or just bite your toungue a little bit and just stick it out with her... This is a hard problem to fix. But she still loves her family and even though they are being total a-holes she needs to have some time to be with them.
I hope it works out man... :)
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