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How can I improve our marriage?

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Question - (7 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2009)
A female New Zealand age 36-40, *2confused writes:

Me and my husband have not been married for not quite a year but since we have been married it seems we arn't as close as we use to be it feels like im just abit on the side when he wants sex he gets it but we don't have much family time together or even just time to talk about things.

When i do try it feels like he doesn't listen to me i feel like a single parent everytime i leave our daughter with him as soon as she sees me shes wants me to take her back.We don't even really have a sex life. He use to like looking a porn alot i don't even know if he has stopped.

I am not a small person as he his i feel embrassed in front of him.

My question is how can i make us better, how do i get him to listen to me? be more of a dad? how do i get to be more relaxed around him? and how can i spice up our sex life?

thank you

22 confused

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A female reader, 22confused New Zealand +, writes (8 April 2009):

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Hi what i ment by having a child to concider now i have a 9 month old she loves her dad so much i don't want to walk away from him without trying to regain what we have i want my kids to have the same father you know?

I love my marrige i love my husband ok not the way i use to but i want to get back there with him.

If i was pretending i was emailing him there is alot i could say to him how you are responding to me that is how i want him to respond to me.

Tell him what he wants from me?

You answer me everytime i email you thats how i want him to be how can i get that from him?

Are you married?

Please email me back i am getting alot from emailing you

you can even email me at [email address blocked]

thankyou for talking to me.

help please

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A female reader, 22confused New Zealand +, writes (7 April 2009):

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To be honest I do love my husband and I kinda agree it would be better but I have a child now to consider and i would want to work on this first before i gave it up.

why do you ask that are you keen or something?lol

I feel i did marry to early but it hasn't been a year yet since we married I am kinda happy with my life we just having a few ups and downs at the moment to be honest i don't know what to really to or i don't know what to say or how to reply to your question what do you think I should do?

please reply back.

thank you

22confused

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