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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is he thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I asked this question earlier but didnt get the response I needed. I left out some information. I have been dating this guy for 4 mths. Everything was going great. About 2 weeks ago he started talking about falling in love and things were headed that way fast, about us dating ... (166 words)

What can I do about it if anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and things have generally been quite up and down. Its been quite a passionate relationship i would say - the good times really good and the bad times really bad. But things always worked out. More recently, he has been ... (402 words)

How do I bring this up to my mom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, well I bet half of the people answering this are going to be prep. I don't mean to be mean seems how I am half one. I am not a tom boy but Im not a real girly girl either. I have been talking to my best friend about going goth/emo. She wants to to, but she can never go ... (197 words)

Will she get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiance isn't on any birth control, but I have been pulling out before ejaculating.. How likely is it that she could get pregnant?... (24 words)

How do we get him out of the group?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi in our group of friends we have a fat nerd, an athletic and im the one who loves music and stays up till 4am wathing films like fargo, reservoir dogs and apocalypse now. but one of us doesnt fit in with us. i now i sound horrorble but how do we disown him?... (55 words)

Thinking about plastic surgery

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hello, Sorry to bring a common and depressing post, but I feel very negative right now, and I don't have close friends and I can't talk about this with my boyfriend because he gets annoyed. Well I feel ugly. Everyone around me is prettier. I feel unfeminine - I have broa... (468 words)

I love her but she makes me jealous - How do I fix it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was walking with my girlfriend of 4 months now and we have gotten pretty serious. We love each other and I tell her that as much as i possibly can (not in a... creepy way). So she is beautiful and has tons of guy friends... I am not that jealous but... what does she mean when ... (113 words)

He seemed so perfect but I can't be with him. I can't stop crying after all this time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So, heres the deal. Over summer last year in 08 I met this guy from a friend of mine. He is I think the same age as me or a little older. We talked for about a week. He lives up north. We hit it off, and I really liked him. We had so much in common, and flirted 24/7. I stayed ... (178 words)

I'm shy, but how do I get him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy in my class looks at me.buut never taks to me everytime i pass by him he looks at me and the other day i saw him looking at me and he looked away he never even says hello to me i am very shy person what shod i do?... (56 words)

How to move from friendship into more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend is very flertive and touchy naturally, I'd like to know how I can get confirmation if she does like me or not in a special manner. I've been thinking of dating her for approximately 2 months now. I am afraid asking her out while she thinks of me only as a friend ... (76 words)

My friend gave a blow job and now I can't help but be disgusted by her!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so here's the deal. Recently one of my friends gave her bf oral sex. I asked her over text and she ignored it. Then, rumors went around school so everyone knew basically. Then I found out it was true because she admited it. Shes only 12 and im 13 soon turning 14. I don't ... (94 words)

Why does the guy I'm dating have problems in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid. I am a 23 year old women who is dating a 31 year man. We have a great relationship. We bond really well. The problem is, there are time when we have sex and he orgasims. However, let's say we have sex the next day in the morning or sometimes later at noon, and can't ... (102 words)

I want a handsome younger boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how to get a younger handsome boyfreind when fat,ugly and short and in yours 30s+. is it hard to get a handsome younger boyfreind... (25 words)

Found a great new guy... who turned out to be my ex husband's cousin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I married my high school sweetheart, he comes from a huge family and they are not very close. On our wedding day I met his cousin "Adam", We would see "Adam" at family gatherings,weddings, funerals etc. My husband was very close with Adams gandmother and mother. They adored ... (175 words)

How do I get a boyfriend? I'm nearly 14 and want one!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok well, Im 13 turning 14. Im in 7th grade, when I really should be in 8th but I went in school late. I have never had a real boyfriend. And when I do tell guys I like them, they don't like me back. My mom says its just because guys arent into girls yet. Yeah right... I want ... (131 words)

He'd rather masturbate than use condoms with me. I feel so unwanted!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I walked in on my boyfriend masturbating the other day, and while I know that masturbating is completely normal, and I have nothing against it at all, it really hurt me for some reason. I think it hurt me because we rarely have sex, and he claims that he tries to have sex with ... (279 words)

If you see a goodlooking guy do you assume he has a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - do people automatic think a good looking guy has a girlfreind... (11 words)

Husband needs more sex from his wife...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my partner have been together 13 years , but we have now got 4 children 5years apart, and our sex life is rubbish. we almost plan and predict when its going to happen( not very often). the problem is i have a high sex drive my partner doesn't and we have sex when my wife ... (108 words)

How do you give a handjob?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im about to give my first handjob, my boyfriend really wants one. But i dont know how?!?! please help me!!!!... (23 words)

I don't think my parents will want me to marry till I'm 24 but what if I lose him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im a muslim girl and have a boyfriend of 4 years, which is a very big "sin" as we arent even supposed to shake hands with a member of the opposite sex. My parents arent exactly as strict as other muslim parents, who force there kids at home, and force them to wear ful... (178 words)

How do I tell him I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I asked him to the dance. He said yes. He seemed excited, I was excited. We had a lot tons of fun. He is my friend. I just know that nothing is going to come from it, even though we both have fun, and we might feel the same way. I tried to make the first move but i know ... (93 words)

I keep trying to leave him but he convinces me to stay so I do....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in my current relationship for almost 6 years. Like every relationship, we have are up's and downs. Today i thought it was all going to end because i told my boyfriend that i no longer loved him and felt as though he was the right one for me. For alot of the time... (253 words)

Both married but falling hard for eachother... what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age - Hi, I am looking for someone to offer me some advice. I am a 47 year old man and have been married for 29 years with two sons 21 and 23 years old. I love my wife and kids to bits. I was promoted to a senior position in my organisation 2 years ago. There is a woman who does... (314 words)

I asked her to meet me in an email so that I could ask her out...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, im 17 and in sixth form and i've waned to ask this girl out for a while now and when i finally got up the courage to she wasnt at college and it was the day before a 2 week break so i wouldnt see her for 2 weeks. so i sent her a email asking her if she would meet me so... (135 words)

He seems to hate everything about me - am I not good enough to be with someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now .. have ups and downs .. the usual the thing is he seems to not like lots about me , we usally play this what u like and hate thing and im not saying he is perfect but there is like nothing that makes me tick but he , he ... (249 words)

What can I do to find out if he's cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What should a woman do if she suspects her husband is cheating on her but there is no solid proof that he is?Also, if she can not afford a private detective and there is noone that can help keep an eye on him. A brief history into my scenario: -Married for 9 yrs and... (226 words)

Am I just clutching at straws? or does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age - Am a 55yr old widow who has feeling for a single man at work we have been work mates for 4yrs .invited him to my home and told him that i would like us to be more just mates.He explaines that he had not had a relationship for 4yrs as he is the main carer for his family and ... (151 words)

I feel like I'm not exciting enough for my boyfriend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We are both in college and have been seeing each other for a month now but I feel like he thinks I am boring because I don't really party and smoke like he does. I like to party once in a while but not every weekend like he does. He has a lot of friends and I am sorta by myse... (162 words)

My heartache...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 16 soon to be 17 and my gf left me for someone else, I have handled it well so far but over the last 2 weeks I keep feeling strange, I moved on and found someone else who I really like and we are now dating, unfortunately she is one of my ex's best friends so she is ... (142 words)

Advice needed!!! Is he leading me on or does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy (I'll call him Frank) who's been one of my best guy friends since the start of the school year. He's always had a joking somewhat corny personality but the last couple of weeks he's been definitely doing a lot more joking around/flirting and seems awkward ... (188 words)

What impact do you think that your answers have had on someone? Is it possible that an answer on this site has changed someone's life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fellow aunts, I would like to know if you all ever wonder about this. What impact do you think that your answers have had on someone? Is it possible that an answer on this site has changed someone's life? I'm asking out of curiosity. I often wonder how I've made a ... (107 words)

I get super self conscious whenever we do anything and I end up ruining it for myself

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is really experienced and I'm not. I get super self conscious whenever we do anything and I end up ruining it for myself which is what I'm trying not to do. But whenever he fingers me or eats me out it feel sooooo good and I don't know what sounds to make. I know ... (105 words)

Do you think she likes me more than a friend and could this go further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I've been reading many questions about situations like mine. Loving your best friend who is in fact a girl, and I am one as well. I just wanted a little advice since I can't seem to build up the courage to tell anyone else. So a couple of days ago, I told my best ... (244 words)

I lost a testicle in an accident and now I can't find a partner...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 25 years old and I lost my testicles in an accident, because of that I am not able to find a partner. Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!! ... (28 words)

I want to work everything out but don't know how

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend (age 20) a lot. We have been together for 8 months now. However, I feel like hes hiding something from me. it bothers me so much. For example, he never told me that he has a daughter until I confronted him about it. I had to find this out from his ex girlf... (255 words)

I think he's to good looking to even contemplate going out with me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I would really appreciate advice. I lack severely in confidence, especially when it comes to men I like. They's a guy who works across from me who I like the look of but I'm to shy to let him know or even smile at him! Every time he looks over I turn away and to make matt... (127 words)

Me, my married man affair, his affair, and his wife. How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have known this married man for 4 years. we have been physical the whole four years. But he had an affair with another person in the office. and his wife found out about 2 months ago. she filed for divorce and he moved out. we were spending alot of time together. now his ... (102 words)

Married only for a year and already having problems. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married a year and a half been with my husband for 5 years. I am 25years old. When we got married i moved to a differnet part of the city and found it hard to make new friends, my old firends and i have grown apart as they see me diffrently now, im the only marr... (188 words)

I had my heart set on a handsome Latino, but I feel like I missed the boat.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry this is long... I tried to keep it concise but I wanted it to be complete. I've been feeling blue about a guy for a long time, a friend from college. I'm confused because my love for him has faded, and I know I need to move on, but... it's hard. I'm a white North Am... (995 words)

Is he just shy or afraid in case he is rejected?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I’ve been friends with a guy I work with for over a year (although I worked with him previously in another organization about 8 years ago). I’m in my early 40’s, he’s in his early 30’s. We are both single, although he knows I’m divorced with two teenage kids. We have always... (701 words)

Am I being a terrible bitch on both of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my ex a few months ago but i just cant move on i dated someone for a while but told them i didn't want to get into anything serious as they were looking for something long term i still talk to my ex all the time and he still is my best friend i was with him for ... (222 words)

My wife watches porn when I am away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 32 and married. In some occasions I watched porn with my wife. Afterwords she said it was not a good idea and rejected it so I stopped. Lately I have seen she is watching porn while I am away. She is now in another country and when I called her she apparently picked the ... (85 words)

Please help! What is wrong with my brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Granted, I live several states away so have not seen him; just going by what I've heard from my parents: I was home for Christmas; saw him New Year's Eve and left back to my city on New Year's Day....all this started just a week or two after this. Just out of the clear blue a... (421 words)

I cant drive...does this make me a loser?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,i just need some honest advice. Im 26 year old female and i dont drive. I did lessons a few years ago but just couldn't get my head round them so i quit. Also i suffer with anxiety -on and off and for the past few years i've been on antidepressants to help me. Lately a ... (212 words)

How do I get over my ex and find another boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm nineteen and my ex is eighteen. Four months ago, he and I broke up after a terrible two-year relationship. He physically and mentally abused me and then decided to cheat on me (with a chick he has become friends with benefits with). Anyway, just about every other Frid... (241 words)

How can improve my chances for getting a job?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've never felt so low. i cant get a thing right with my girlfriend, i cant get a job, The only place I can see my life going is living on the streets. I just want to be happy but I can't see it happening. I Just want to know how to make things better for myself and for my ... (71 words)

What would YOU do here? My friend is playing mind games with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What would YOU do here? My friend is playing mind games with me and a guy I really like, and I don't know what I should do in this situation? I am in love with a male pal for the past 1-2 years and he knows this since I had told him at Christmas via a text. But he doesn't seem... (655 words)

My huge crush is dating my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i have a huge crush that is dating my best friend, there pretty serious but my best friend never has long relationships. his girlfriend is also my best friend thats a girl. im afraid we have developed to much of a close friendship that she'll like me.i really need help. i real... (77 words)

My boyfriend denies having a girlfriend to other girls. But always tells me he loves me. why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. This is our first ever serious relationship and didn't expect to turn out to be one either! We told each other we loved each other a couple of months ago and have recently just moved in together temporarily until I find a new flat. I was a ... (599 words)

Out of town students put down my home town

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 20 years old,i was put to this very prestigious school where everywhere comes from a different city and i was the only local,and since its a small town the students used to put this city down and i wasn't ready to accept that i am from here and i lied saying i come from a ... (94 words)

Should I break up with him, give him space or try to talk it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Aunts! I'm in desperate need of help, I don't know what to do and I'm making myself sick about it. I got in a huuuuuuge fight with my boyfriend last night. We were out at a club watching a friends band play, and he was acting like an asshole to me. So, when we went home, I conf... (233 words)

Does he want to break up with me but doesn't know how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok...so im 17 about to turn 18 and i have been seeing this same guy on and off for two years. the thing is we have never met. i met him in a chat room and we instantly hit it off. we haven't broken up in over a year so im thinking things are going fine, but just within this... (153 words)

What is he after? This dating game is hard.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi would really appreciate opinions..i met this boy like a week ago and hes text and rang me like everyday since. I saw him out and he didnt speak to me all night other than when i said hi. He rang me that night and said it was because he was scard he woiuld look like a mug. ... (281 words)

Problems when he's drunk and my mum will be devastated...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 yr old Catholic girl. My boyfriend is 41. He is divorced and has 2 children and we are very much in love. We are waiting for a house offer to go through and are very excited. We plan to marry and have kids. the problem is: when he has a drink he gets very jealous... (211 words)

Teen girl need help picking between 3 guys she likes....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help I am torn between 3 guys guy number one: I did have a relationship with him, but things just didn't feel the same as they used to, so we both decided to end it. However I still feel something for him. guy number two: we have admitted we like each other, but we ... (206 words)

He likes me, I like him, but I feel he's too childish. Do I wait a couple of years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy I like just revealed that he loves me. I have had a crush on him for seven years but he is so immature and I want a solid relationship. I don't want a relationship with someone who is so childish. Would I be stupid to wait until he matures to date him?... (55 words)

We found a camera recording herself at her dad's house. Should I be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are staying at his dads on weekends, tonight him and I were flicking through tv channels when we pressed the wrong button and found that AV3 had a camera connected and was facing the floor, where we are sleeping. I realise its his house and he is entitled to ... (124 words)

I think he just wants me for sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - basically... i left my ex to go out with this boy from my high school. he kept telling me how much he wanted to be with me and how much he liked me.he had been trying to get with me for months and persuaded me to leave my then boyfriend for him. when we got together within the ... (229 words)

How can I get my classmate to be my girlfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i like my classmate very much..she is usually want to talk to me,whenever i start any talk to her..but i dont usually talk to her...sometimes she she looks at me with very innocent eyes ...so please help me , how can i start talk with her everyday and how i can continue with ... (54 words)

Can't get over my ex who sends mixed signals...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey... Theres this guy(my Ex) im still so in love with him and every time i see him i start to cry cus i know he has moved on n i just love him so much and it brings back all the memories i had with him [the fun times and the sad times] but i want him back soo much. i just... (119 words)

He's perfect on paper but is this going anywhere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am 42, he is 47. He is divorced and has residency of his child aged 15. I have residency of my 2 children aged 6 and 8. We say that we are made for each other and that we are soulmates. We have a very intense ... (563 words)

Slept with mate's boyfriend and then HIS best mate... can I have either?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, this is quite a long story, but around 3 months ago I started sleeping with my mates boyfriend. Yes, I know this is wrong but I craved the attention I got from him. Obviously, my mate (and none of our mutual friends know about it). However, through this, I started hangin... (284 words)

Said yes to a boy for prom, now I wonder if I could do better...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's my prom in June or July... either way it's still quite far off. My problem is a boy asked me to the prom and i automatically said 'yeh sure, id love to' i didn't really think about it, i wanted to seem laid back and casual about it but now im not so sure. He isn't the most ... (148 words)

He asked me to suggest one thing that the two of us must do. What do you think I should suggest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex told me he is with some one else but it was just after two weeks of breaking up. though he heard rumours that i was cheating on him with his cousin along time ago he had not reacted for so long.. but am now wondering about how he got this chick, i do not know whe... (185 words)

I want to stop his memories interference in my current relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my ex very much that i can not even give my attention to the current guy. what should i do to forget him? i keep dreaming about him all night and when ever i make love to my current guy i always wish it was him am making love to. please help i want to stop his memo... (69 words)

I'm a virgin! Could I be pregnant by accident?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - can i be pregnant?? i was giving my bf a handjob last week and i didnt wash my hands and touch my vagina but from above my underwear i'm a fraid that a sperm might got inside me by acciendent ..and my period is late few days and i'm feeling dizzy and my temp is high and i ha... (78 words)

Am I wrong for asking her to stop talking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year. We recently broke up for like 3 weeks and then got back together. During the 3 weeks, she was seeing another guy quite frequently, hooking up with him several times. And now that we're back together, I've asked her to s... (108 words)

I think my start in puberty is messed up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (?) age 22-25 - hi im 13 yrs old and i think my start in pubity is really messed up! i have hardly any pubic hair and what i do have is very close to the start of my penis i have armpit hair but not very much only about 3 or 4 hairs on each armpit and i was told that you dont get armpit h... (123 words)

I think I need more than just love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is love enough? Or do I need more than just love? I'm dating a guy right now who is very loving towards me, both physically and emotionally. We are both in college. I will be graduating in May and will be moving to another state, and he will be in school for another year. T... (247 words)

I cant stop thinking about her. How do I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, How can I begin, there is this girl who goes to school with me, she really really shy, pretty, smart, and athletic. I mean she is so shy that she only like talks to like 3 people, ok. I created a myspace like 2 months ago, and stummbled across her name. I added her and i ... (270 words)

Am I in any way tied to her after wearing that chain/necklace?

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4 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my gf recently ...we were committed for a year and were planning about convincing our parents for our marriage... but being only 17 always used to talk about our marriage and kids and was super excited which made me feel awkward ... she was kinda extremely poss... (237 words)

I know right from wrong, but I choose to do wrong anyway. WHY?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We started dating 2 years ago, as co-workers (and his uncle owns the company so we hid our relationship for the first 6 months). I looked and found another job about a year into our relationship so that our relationship could work. Six months later, we had a bad fight and ... (213 words)

Battling the temptation and the right.

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is the follow up to the Co-Worker question. I've kissed my co-worker the past 3 times we've worked together. My boyfriend found out about the first time and almost left. I wish he would have. I don't want to hurt him, but I really want to be with my co-worker. He's super ... (122 words)

Should I just let it be and hope it passes or have I done enough?

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4 April 2009 (M)

- I've been seeing this girl for about 4 months. We used to text message each other all the time during the day and well into the night sometimes till 3 in the morning. We were really close, cuddled all the time, and spent a lot of time together. However two weeks ago it... (181 words)

How do you know if your man has cheated on you?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - [This is a follow up question to a previous posting: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-who-to-believe.html) How do you no if your man has cheated on you, if u havent seen any signs,or never have thought he ever would cheat. u just hear ppl talk about him and her ... (48 words)

Is he playing me or am I over reacting?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this dude that i talk to, he just a friend but he stop calling me, when he got back together with his girlfriend. I make a myspace for him just to communicate with him cause his girlfriend calls all the time n he barely talks to me, Should i get upset or should i leav... (96 words)

If a man cheats on his wife, does he tell her the truth or deny it?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If a man cheats on his wife does he tell her the truth. or does he deny it, and act like nothing ever happened to keep from loosing his family.... (30 words)

She wants to feel loved but we get bored after only 4 hours alone together

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4 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been in a serious relationship with my gf for almost 3 years now, out of which 1 year we had a long distance relationship as i was studying out of the country. Ever since i got back i haven't been able to find anything the 2 of us can do alone. I constantly find that we'r... (144 words)

I keep hearing rumors at work that my fiance is cheating

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I keep hearing rumors at work that my fiance is cheating. i confronted him about it he said it didn't happen. but i found a letter from her. and one he had given her. she even sent me pics that he had even taken of his dick. i need help. we have kids... (54 words)

Questions on porn and sex... Guys? What am I doing wrong?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - GUYS! I have a question... or two. I am a very attractive girl, I'm thin, tall, awesome legs and a great body, I'm in shape, but not crazy gym rat style. I think that the only down side I have is I'm small chested, but it fits my frame. My boyfriend of almost 2 years and I li... (532 words)

When should we start being romantic at all?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 year old female and a sophomore in high school. I've always been very careful with how I interact with males, and have never dated any guy, although I've been asked out once. According to my friends, guys may just think I might say no to them if they were to ask me o... (342 words)

Should I talk to her when she's drunk like this?

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4 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this girl I met online for about a month now. She lives in the area, we've exchanged numbers but never talked over the phone. Only texted and IMed. She went to a party and started texting me saying she wants to talk to me, and kept calling me (she was drunk ... (80 words)

My g/f told me I was her first. Should I believe her?

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4 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend told me she couldn't really feel something when i was inside her, but she told me i am her first time but before me there was a boy who just fingered her for a bit but didn't have proper sex, so she told me she never really have sex with someone else except from ... (61 words)

HE keeps reminding me that I said we were just friends!

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been dating this guy for about 4 months; during that time things were ok, but never really felt he cared that much. so one day he had to leave to another state so we stopped talking. After a while he came back to stay here, so for sum reason i juss couldnt help it nd g... (560 words)

I don't know who to believe

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A woman me and my fiance work with, txt me one day and said they had been having sex 4 several months. we have 2 lil kids together, and i dont no who 2 believe. he says it aint true, and he loves me and are kids dearly.... (48 words)

Why do we have to take a break after the breakup?

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4 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - why do we have to take a break after the breakup? if at all we have decided to remain friends after the breakup so what purpose does taking a break fulfill? i think it kills the affection addiction closeness and all the qualities for which we love that person... so whats the ... (90 words)

After 3 years together, he started treating me differently. Why?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my x bf were together almost 3 years an he started treating me diffrent then one day about 3 weeks before Christmas I called his phone and a girl answered an I have not talked to him since an I can't stop thinking bout him an still love him unconditionally so here are ... (98 words)

What is the normal sex range in a month?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so me and my husband have been married foer 4 yrs. He acts like he loves me he takes care of and our 3yrd.old son. He always tell me he loves me and our son but he don't show it he always too Bussy to spend time with us. he either to sleepy r to tired to have sex with me. ... (317 words)

I am worried that when I actually meet up with my chat friend, he wont like me.

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy on msn and hes done some bad things to me but ive done some bad things to him as well. i really really really like him [kinda sorta love] he loves me too, but we have never met. i cant imagine life without him to be very honest, but i am worried that when we ... (98 words)

Is swallowing a sign of acceptance?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. My husband loves it when I swallow his semen. Why does this appeal so much to men? Any views, ladies?... (21 words)

Did I make the right choice?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this guy dated for 2 months. Then he broke up with me because we were never really allowed to see each other bc of my parents. Then after about a month he asked me out again and I said yes. But things just felt kinds different and I don't know if it was normal or not ... (290 words)

My son's father won't cooperate and I don't trust him with our son

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a 4 year old son and his dad has just been trouble for the last 4 years. In and out of jail and abusive. Now he moved in with a couple and doesn't want to tell me where or give me the address so I can take our son to see his dad, and now I don't know what to do beca... (178 words)

We're both 15 yo and in love. Need advice on trust and affection issues.

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4 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey-- My boyfriend and I have been together about 3 months. We were best friends before we got together, and I've liked him for 2 years. We fell in love faster than I could ever imagine--I didn't believe in love in high school, but now I'm a believer, hahaha! So, about a mo... (275 words)

I miss my Mom terribly!

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4 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a relationship question, but, It's not a regular one. My mother passed away last year and her birth day is on Sunday, April 5th. She would have been 52 years old. I am having the worst time this weekend! I miss her soooo bad, and now, with her birthday approach... (112 words)

I think my math teacher hates me!

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, here's my problem.... I think my social studies teachers wife who is a math teacher hates me! She glares at me when I talk to her husband.... No matter what it's about! Once i saw her waiting by her car for her husband to come out and I smiled at her and she gave me this... (126 words)

Why does he ignore me for days?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy recently. He is sixteen, I am fourteen, turning fifteen in about a week. We instantley connected on many levels. Since he is moving on April 20th, started talking in Feb. We decided not to take things any further, and just remain friends.. well that didn't... (353 words)

I'm tired of a sexless marriage and a woman who doesn't love me at all.

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4 April 2009 (M)

age - My marriage has been falling apart for years now. The biggest cause is that I caught my wife having an affair 8 years ago and still have trust issues because I feel she didn't do what it takes to regain my trust. Although she said she has no other man, I really don't beli... (334 words)

She claims that I confuse her and she doesn't know how much or how little she likes me

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4 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, just looking for some ideas and feedback on a situation I am in. First things first, met this girl about a month ago through some friends, got talking and soon after we met up on own... Didn't do much the first time just hung out. Got on well of course. A while later we s... (356 words)

How do I blow my new man's mind in bed?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm starting a new relationship, and I want to know how to blow my mans mind in bed. He is always on top, and I want to go on top and show him a good time. Any tips?... (41 words)

How do I avoid tempting my ex to cheat on his current g/f?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so im 15[[sophomore]] and my ex is 18[[senior]];;he has a girlfriend, which is also my friend[[were fake with each other]]. well today during 3rd period i went to visit him. i knew we would at least kiss but i didnt know that we'd do more..he told me he never stopped loving me ... (112 words)

I am liberally sexual and want to experiment, does that make me gay?

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4 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I want to have a full sexual contact threesome with a man woman couple and I want to experience everything there is to do does that make me gay?... (29 words)

I can't stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend of two years. He broke up with me almost a month ago, telling me that he did not love me anymore, absolutely breaking my heart -- a week later admitting that he had actually cheated on me while we were together, too. He was my first ... (343 words)

Set her free or influence her choices?

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4 April 2009 (?) age 41-50 - This may sound strange to some people, but I'm the type of person that does not like to cage someone's freedom or tell her what to do or what not to do. Instead, I prefer to let her choose what she wants to do and then accept the consequences as they happen. I rather be ... (360 words)

I think I trust him, but I am not sure

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i hope some one can help me through this. i got with my boyfriend aug just gone- we were together for 6 months. Just after valentines day - we split up. He finished with me and it really hurt me - but i didnt go chasing after him. I just left it to see how i felt. ... (526 words)

We broke up because we ran out of things to say

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I recently broke it off with my boyfriend but i cry so much of the day when i think bout him, we broke up cuz we were beginning to run out of things to say to each other cuz we hadnt much in common, but still i really miss him a lot n keep thinking i could just have him... (87 words)

Should I give up on him?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - a year ago i kissed one of my best friends after a night out, it was all just a bit of fun after a few too many, we remained really close and he often stayed with me, although we were always affectionate to one another we never slept together. It seemed in our friendship group ... (335 words)

I have huge gigantic crush on my 30yr old teacher

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in 6th grade and I have huge gigantic crush on my 30yr old teacher. I'm actually not sure if it's a crush, maybe it's just a huge admiration. Whatever it is, it's kind of annoying. I love this man so much. Too much. He is such a sweet wonderful person. I'm an A student and ... (242 words)

I don't know if moving on is what I'm ready to do

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - *Sigh* So I'm a sophomore is high school and i started liking this guy who is a senior. So i got a friend to tell him and his response was basically *wow i don't know what to say* then he started ignoring me and I'm not sure whether or not it was on purpose. Recently i tex... (142 words)

I want to suck on her feet

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4 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok. I'll be very blunt here. I have a foot fetish. I've told my girlfriend about it and she was honest and said 'I don't get it but I don't think you're weird.' (Because when i told her, i told her i was worried she'd think i'm weird lol.) we were talking about things later on ... (161 words)

Does seeing my friends bother my boyfriend?

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is my enthusiasm for seeing my friends bothering my boyfriend? When we plan to spend time with our friends..separately I say things we're doing blah, blah and add an exclamation point! But that's just who I am..a positive gal! And he knows this, I think.:) His response is... (76 words)

Porn considered cheating?

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4 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Is watching porn or looking at naked women considered cheating?... (10 words)

I'm loose. Will my future husband be put off by this?

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4 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Dear Angony Aunt, I am a 17 year-old high school senior. Last summer I lost my technical virginity. Since then I have had sex with six guys.I start college in the fall and I expect to bed a different guy every Friday and Saturday night.Do you think it will bother my future... (70 words)

Awkward now since he told me how he feels

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4 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, i really like this guy at college.. he said to 2 of my friends a few weeks ago that he doesn't like me in that way or something, and he said some pretty harsh things because someone has been saying a load of shit to him about me and it kind of turned him against me.. ... (181 words)