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reader, niki20  +, writes (4 June 2009):
niki20 is verified as being by the original poster of the question since i have wrote this our sex life is productive, b/c he stoped working on te farm. he literally worked over 80 hours a week and 7days so i finally have him to myself, well kinda thank u guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Unless he works seven days a week I don't see how that can be the issue all the time. To me that sounds like a "I better think up some reason to tell her" excuse. Maybe that is all it is, or maybe there is more to it.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (7 April 2009):
niki20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo i figured it out, he finally cracked! I asked himn if he wouldn't have sex with me bc of me. He said no and that it was because when he has a bad day at work it sets off all of the sex drive he has had for that day. He said that he didn't want to talk about the bad days because it would put both of us in a bad mood and that is why he didn't want to talk about it. Thank you!!!
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reader, mariaxx  +, writes (7 April 2009):
sorry to raise this - might he be having an afair? is there any possibility?
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reader, niki20 +, writes (7 April 2009):
niki20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalright so after i wrote the article i spoke with my husband as seriously as i could and i was upset. I tried a differant approach to asking him if it was me or not. Surprisingly i got him to talk but it didn't lead to much. thank you guys so much for taking the time to answer my question you guys have no idea how much that helped me! Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): Guys don't lose interest in sex. He's probably just really busy or too tired to have sex.
If he has a job he might just be really tired.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (7 April 2009):
niki20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni also wanted to add that i have tried to talk to him. hes not the talking type i guess you can say.
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