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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel our relationship isn't healthy at the moment. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Someone please offer me some advice... I'm feeling a little confused at the moment. I'm 25 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and have lived together for the past year. We have a series of rough patches where all we seem to do is argue and bicker but have always w... (187 words)

I'm sexually challenged!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm 15 years old and I've been dating this hottie and he wants to have sex. I'm definitely ready to do it. I have questions though. Where can I buy condoms and where do you think we can do it without anyone knowing?... (46 words)

Do you think that my boyfriend being another race would affect us...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I am just here and confused and I really need help from you my cupid friends. :) Well my question is - I am Hispanic (Dominican republic) but my boyfriend is white. Do you think that effects our relationship because we're baptist and do you think that our kids would c... (94 words)

I need ideas to spice up our sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi! I want to continue to spice up our sex life. We've tried sex outdoors, using whipped cream, vibrators, anal sex. . . anyone got any other ideas? I'm sure there must be plenty of things to try but I've just run out of ideas.... (49 words)

My gut says that my ex is an ex for a reason, but my heart melts every time I see him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going to start with the fact that I am very responsible and level headed. All of my friends joke that I am the voice of reason. However, I have an issue that I can seem to sort out on my own. I need some different opinions. I am currently engaged to a great guy. He is a ... (367 words)

At the end of the day, does age really decide whether you will be "together forever"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I always see people making comments such as "you're too young, it will never last" and "it won't last forever because you're too young". But I was wondering, is that actually a general belief? Does everyone think that, just because you are in your teens, whether that's 13 or ... (136 words)

How can a man tell if a woman has put him in the friend zone or whether he is in with a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. I was just wondering if there really is such a thing as the 'friendzone', after all, if you hang around long enough in the friendzone you've got a good chance of moving into the 'leg-over' zone, haven't you? Hmmmm - I really don't know. Along a similar vein, I've been ... (312 words)

Is this karma getting me back because I flirted with another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - To get the to the point, we were dating for 4 years and 11 months she left me for another man (she's done this twice, I took her back the first time) and she won't come back to me no matter how much I say I love her or say I can do this. I'll admit I'm a pretty slow goin... (1362 words)

My wife and my mum keep flirting with one another!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've become concerned about my mum and wife recently, as whenever me and my wife go down to my parents some weekends, my wife starts flirting with her and doing faux-lesbian behaviour, much to me and my father's disgust. Me and my wife have an 11-year-old son who's doing well... (251 words)

15 yo and pregnant. Who decides on giving the baby up for adoption: me or my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. Im 15 years old and i think i might be pregnant. I live in Georgia, and i was wondering if i am pregnant can my parents make me put in up for adoption or is it my choice? Just need some advice, Thanks.... (47 words)

My boyfriend died 8 months ago and I can't move on...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey dear cupid, I was dating this wonderful guy for 2 years, everything was perfect we never fought, never argued, it was a perfect relationship. He was my prince charming.. he asked me out on prom and since then we have been inseperable... but he died 8 months ago and after ... (121 words)

Sex tips for 2 females wanting to get randy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a female who is going to be "going down" on another girl soon, but I'm really worried I won't do it right, does anyone have any tips (from males and females is cool).... (34 words)

Her past FWB, it's killing me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I'll cut right to the chase. I am falling in love with this girl i've been dating for 5 months. She told me she is falling for me. She is everything I'm looking for in a woman...elegant, smart, driven, charming, sexy, successful. One night over drinks she volu... (257 words)

Troubled teenager with a young baby and one on the way

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello, i'm sorry to bother use with such a embarrassing question but i really need to know, i am a really sexually active teenager and i already have a 3 month old baby, i went through a rough past and turned to men ive had 30 bed partners or maybe more in my past and i have ... (138 words)

We're trying to have a relationship but he keeps moving back and forth making it very difficult!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy but we have a very complicated relationship. Right now it is long distance but only like two hours. It's just that he keeps moving here and dating me, but it never works out and he always needs to move back home. He has moved here twice and this has ... (218 words)

Can you fall in love after only 4 days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey ok heres the situation...the 2 days ago me and my best frend went round to her cousins house.as soon as i saw her 19yr old cousin i was speechless!! ever sice that day me and her cousin have been in contact all the time and we have met up a couple of time to! we ge... (116 words)

Should I trust my g/f? She got drunk and stayed in a hotel with another guy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend won't come anywhere near me.She treats me like some sort of idiot. We have been together for some 8 months now and haven't slept together. She has had quite a few previous sexual partners, myself having had only 1. Recently she got drunk and stayed in a hotel room... (94 words)

My bf is suddenly taking a disinterest in his appearance. Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - B/f of 3 yrs suddenly taken a disinterest in his appearance. I don't want to hurt his feelings but it's getting frustrated. He doesn't seem to be depressed, is behaving normal in all other areas, but doesn't shower and wash his hair as often and it looks greasy and gros... (186 words)

I'm going to meet my internet guy over the weekend. Is it safe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have successfully in getting a partner, thanx dear cupid so much for helping me achieve that,but i still have a big problems as you can see in my country gay people does not allowed and base on that they always hide their sexuality from other individual. ok this is my probl... (247 words)

Can you take the morning pill 2X in one cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i was told that u can get pregnant by pre come so wen i had a 1 nite stand i thought i ought to take the morning after pill,evern though tthe bloke didnt come.two days after i took it i slept with some 1 else and he did come inside me,i didnt take the morning after pill as i ... (96 words)

I'd do anything to feel safe in his arms

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dont know what to do been friends with a guy for 3yrs met online and have never met in person - theres a 9yr age gap for the last yrs its been totally on a just friends basis u kno nothing romantic or sexual but we've obviously cared alot about each other suppose there's ... (249 words)

Does he still care? Or trying to let me down easy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What do I do my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and he all of sudden wants space. I asked him what was wrong and he said he isn't in the write state of mind. So the next day we got back together and then his phone calls and texts are far and few between. Is he ... (79 words)

What could I do to show him that I'm the one for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be with this guy and we were really into each other he loved me and I loved him. Now he says that he doesn't love me anymore but he likes me and really cares for me and that I'm important to him. We're just friends right now because we have history and decided to keep... (214 words)

Am I being that bad to my ex GF?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age - I posted on here before and came back to get some more advice. I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost weight she is a size 14-16 but good looking i must say, I prefer size 12. She lost one a... (566 words)

Too soon to get engaged?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it too soon to get engaged after dating for less than a year.... like 6 or 7 months? I know that she is the one. I feel it with every fiber of my being, and she feels the same way. We have deep conversations about our future together. It would be a long engagement. Not rush... (61 words)

Do you think my boyfriend's mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

- I was at work and started talking to a customer on the phone. He was very nice and we had a great conversation and laugh with something totally not related to work. I told my boyfriend about it after the fact as he was asking me how my day at work went. As I enth... (135 words)

My boyfriend is away for Easter break with his Mom. I miss him already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this is my story. See my boyfriend promised his mom last year that he will take her away on holiday when he has time off. He has his own business so it does not always happen that he has time off, anyway, that was before i was in the picture so they decided they will go a... (164 words)

Question on safe sex during pregnancy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I have a question for all! When you suspect you're a few weeks pregnant it's still safe to have sex, right? But even rough sex? The thing is..I'm waiting for my blood test results. I won't find out for a week or so. I haven't told my boyfriend I took this test..I do... (95 words)

Is it harmful for me to masturbate 2X a day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi....i am masturbating daily.....morning i ll masturbate till my sperm gets over and again in night i do so.is this ll be injurious to ma marriage life,,,,i m not married yet and ma age is 21. plz help me out... (41 words)

Would we be ok to have sex with protection and me on the pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

9 April 2009 (?) age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend are both 15 years old and virgins, we have been best mates when little and actually got together 3 years ago next month. We've talked about sex, we have condoms, and we have only kissed and hugged alot, i have given him a hand job a few times and he has fing... (83 words)

There must be a way to get him to like me! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help. I'm in seventh grade, and I've liked this boy since 3rd grade! We've been best friends for ever, but thats all. Tons of people say that I should just try to ask him out, but the thing is, I know he'll either say no, or walk away. Last year, I tried asking h... (236 words)

Why do I need to respect their circumstances - if they themselves don't show it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Peoples, After I broke up with my girlfriend who cheated on me, I've found I have only been with girls that have been in relationships. Either they have cheated or broken up with their boyfriends to be with me. This has been the case now for about 5 years. I real... (366 words)

He was too fast for me then. Will he take it slow this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in an awkward situation at the moment. I started going out with the guy, it didn't work out. I've known him years (from school) but weren't all that close, and then i agreed to go out with him but realised that he wasnt my type and he told me he was already involved... (194 words)

Sexually abused by my brother... what do I do for the best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm Heli and I'm 13. I was sexually abused when I was younger, by my brother who is 3 to four years my senior. I have told a few people about what happened, but I've never told them who it was who did it to me, because I still live with my brother and I think it would sp... (699 words)

Any suggestion on how to say "No" to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need a couple of suggestions and please don't judge me or tell me not to do this.. here's the situation. i started talking to this young man about six months ago. and right off the bat fell for him. i've always considered myself mature and sure of handling any situation that... (217 words)

Cute vs Sexy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question. I know, I have a lot of questions, but I also have a lot of answers, so I think it balances out =] I've noticed that a lot of guys I know have, over the past few years, said that I am so hot and sexy. They say they want to have sex with me and talk about m... (246 words)

My parents don't trust me with my girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - my parents dont trust me... me and my girlfriend have been goin gout for a year she's 15 and im 14.,, and yes we're a very mature couple for our age//...but we wont do anything we are not ready for....whenever were alone watching tv in the basement, my mom alwasy comes alo... (149 words)

My little brother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My brother is two years younger than me and has just started dating girls. I find it so sweet but he has just started dating this ugly cow and who doesn't treat him right. Me and my best friend have been talking and have found out that my best friends little sister likes my b... (69 words)

Do feelings really change for someone who was so close to you?

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so my girlfriend has broken our one year old relationship ... she said she has started life practically and seriously and she sees me more of a friend now because her feelings have changed for me past couple of weeks... i don't mind her breaking off with me but is her sent... (85 words)

Prince Charming must have died

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and I've been with my Bf for 7 months (mind you this is my first bf) So the problem is I'm bored. We don't go anywhere And we only see each other at least once a week. When we do see each other we just watch TV and movies (and are intimate). He doesn't ta... (192 words)

Is it worth saving my marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is cheating on me and wants a divorce. He actually hasn't admitted to the cheating, he just said he wanted a divorce because he doesn't love me. I found out he was spending a lot of time with a woman at work, going out with her, talking on the phone, etc. He was ... (174 words)

Why is he always nice, if he doesn't want to hang out with me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy i like, who i speak to online like everyday (we text too). We speak for hours sometimes, and we obviously enjoy speaking to each other. We've been to the cinema before and he came to my house party last week, we ended up kissing and he fingered me and we was cuddl... (262 words)

How can I move on and like another guy?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me because of complicated reasons. I miss him loads and still love him but I really want to move on. I have tried liking new people, but I can't like anyone seriously like I did my ex. This new guy has been texting me constantly and saying r... (134 words)

Any ideas to keep my foreign friend entertained? Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well,tomorrow arrives my friend from another country.at first,we'll stay at my house and i have no idea what to do to have fun and keep us both entertained.what do you thing we should do?any suggestions?i'm 13... (36 words)

What do you think is going on? Please answer all the questions.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i know he liked me a lot since the last year, it was so obvious, but at one point i started ignoring him. a few months ago he tried several times to greet me, but i didn't hear him and sometimes i didn't answer on purpose. last week when i was with my best friend i saw him in f... (330 words)

Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and sex. So why is it that some... (305 words)

How do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, Just a general question in case my boyfriend wants to touch me up or anything, how do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not? I don't think we'll be doing anything yet as I'm not ready to have sex but it would be nice to think that if anything did happen unex... (77 words)

He's asked me out. Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and like this boy name him A so i liked him for a while since primary school but he gave me the cold shoulder always taking the piss out of me etc... Now i'm in secondary and i do still like him but as i've gone through the years alot of people have liked him, and i... (517 words)

Keep the cheater? Keep the ex? Confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok. Well.... Here is my problem. I've been stuck in between two girls for about... a month now. See, I dated one girl for 3 months and then she got into drugs and I left her because it was stressing me out so much. Later that month I met another girl and it was almost an ... (428 words)

Is this just a natural phase in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating someone for two months now, everything was going really well, until I left town for a week. After that he stopped calling and texting me as much. He's really busy with work and is really over stressed; however, I wonder if he is over me. I spoke to him abou... (110 words)

My husband just wants his children's affection but they shower so much of it toward their mother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age - My husband has three grown children from a previous marriage. Their mother left him and them when the kids were teenagers. He finished raising them with no help from her and she had a good job; was fully able to contribute financially. My husband never took her to court, he ... (236 words)

Is is worth the risk to try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Guys and Gals I really need your opinions of whether this a good or bad idea!! Just a quick profile. I recently went through a mutual break up with my long distance girlfriend, it's been 7 week. We'd been dating for close to 5 years and next year had planned to attend the sa... (352 words)

His comments make me think. Or shouldn't I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now. recently we had an argument over several issues in our relationship. he told me that he had no intention on marrying me anytime soon. i now know where i stand but still he will make comments about a baby, when we ... (88 words)

I'm soo turned on, but I'm a virgin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im a 17 year girl. and im still a virgin. But recently all my mind is on is SEX. I cant even talk to man without thinking what it would be like to have sex with him. I get turned on by the smallest things. i'm also having dreams about me having sex. I'm Sooo turned on i... (115 words)

How do I do "open mouth" kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiyy,im 13 I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 months. all we've done is hug and kissed a few times in a game and he slept over at my house but that's it i don't know HOW to pash (open mouth kiss) and he kissed me but I'm scared to kiss him. he wants to open mouth kiss ... (191 words)

Pregnant, unemployed, no government benefits. I'm worried about my baby's health. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently discovered that I'm pregnant. I have been doing my research and i have a lot of course for concern. I don't have a job, I'm not entitled to receive job seekers allowance, I can't get a penny from anyone because i live with my boyfriend who works full... (229 words)

Vasectomy and ED .. are they related?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my man had a vasectomy about a year ago here recently he has a problem of keeping it up we have tried a lot of different things like foreplay or him doing the deed before we have sex and a ot of other things nothing works and after he gets off it will not get hard again fo... (74 words)

Is my illness due to sex or pregnancy or a miscarriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I had sex around 7 weeks ago for the first time, we used a condom but it split. He then entered once more (lets just say i wasn't willing him to) and then I pushed him off and everything was fine. That was until I became really ill. I was vomitting, I had a slight ... (177 words)

I've never met him before and he wants me to move in with him but I don't feel ready...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm 18 nearly 19 and I am in love with a man who is 30 and I've know for about 7 months. I've never met him but speak to him every day but I am also an addict to heroin or was, I've been clean for about 4 months (but he thinks it's been a lot longer.) I weigh very little ... (163 words)

Did he lie to me all that time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi cupid readers, here's the story! I was in a long distance relationship and I was so in love with him and he loved me. Then one day he told me a girl asked him out for a meal and he told me they were just friends and I was trying to tell him he had accepted a date ... (537 words)

Can love and happiness really exist after being apart for years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Say you have someone close to you who you love with all your heart. Fate intervenes and you both go your separate ways. Just as unexpectedly as you part, years later you unexpectedly find yourself with that special someone again. I hear about this type of sto... (120 words)

He dumped me but we still act like we're together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years btw (don't know if that matters to anyone) I love my "boyfriend" so much and will do anything for him, he is my home, my heart and my other half..but.. we're together for one year, and this has been my 1st very serious relationship. But on are one year he broke up... (503 words)

My friends don't seem to appreciate me... what am I doing wrong???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I would be grateful if you could give me some advice. Here is my situation: I am a reasonably quiet, but kind and (sometimes) funny. Don't get me wrong, I have a lot of friends, but I am beginning to feel that they are taking advantage of me. They tend to talk to me when ... (260 words)

How do I tell my guy that I'm having my period today, without totally ruining the mood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been out with a man about 6 times over the course of about a month. The first 2 or 3 dates I thought he was strange and weird looking (sorry, just being honest here) but for whatever reason, kept wanting to see him again. The last few times he seems less nervous and is e... (306 words)

My girlfriend's friend is a total user but she can't see it at all.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Okay my girlfriend has this ignorant ass best friend who I don't like, she has this problem with speaking to people. She also tried to shit on my mom who helped her ass out when she was out of a job buying her pampers and baby food when she had no money that’s not cool in my ... (226 words)

On the pill, on my period, test negative. But could I still be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm taking birth control pills and I take them everyday on time.. never missed 1 in 2 months. Me and my boyfriend had sex, and the condom broke. I took a pregnancy test and it was negitave and I'm on my period right now. However, my friend told me that she was 6weeks p... (99 words)

Bad text message!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I let someone write a text to my girl. The words they wrote were hurtful but they were not mines and I do not want to lose her because of the the words written by the other person. I love her more than life itself an that's no lie. I just don't know what to do to mend the bro... (66 words)

Age and appearance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do guys like girls with fat round faces and who are short and heavy because I am short, fat round face and heavy. Up on my 30s and I never had boyfriend, I wouldn't know how to get one. I am sick of liking guys who don't like me. A guy of nice looks and nice personalty ... (93 words)

Teenage sex problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going round my boyfriends tonight and I think he's going to "finger" me. I'm concerned as I generally only use one finger and if he tries two I'm afraid it was hurt. Is this normal? ... (36 words)

How can I make my parents trust him again and how can my boyfriend prove he has changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years now, everything was going fine until last october... my 18th birthday. I really wanted to go away on holiday with friends for my birthday and to cut a long story short my boyfriend's family are good ... (373 words)

She has a really pretty face but she's fat!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

9 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I kind of like this girl in school. The thing is she's the nicest girl I've met and she's got a stunningly pretty face but she is a bit on the big side. She is pretty but fat. I feel I shouldn't go out with her beausde I'm one of the best footballers in the school and this ... (238 words)

Why can I not get her out of my head?

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9 April 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Alright here's the thing, I broke up with he ex two years ago and to be honest, it pretty much fell apart, came vey close to the edge but then thanks to family and friends I got myself back. Moved abroad for a while made friends, travelled found myself and actually enjoyed ... (165 words)

How can I get her sister to see I have no ulterior motive?

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and I'm dating a 14 year old, now I know it looks like im probably just trying to get in her pants coz of the age but I'm not really, we both really like each other but the problem is her older sister, though she has never met me, she thinks I am lying and trying to just ... (143 words)

I think my fiance is cheating - but I need evidence so he cant deny it!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I have been in a 5 year relationship with my fiance. We have a home and children together. I am concerned about his behaviour and am 90% sure he is cheating on me. Here are the reasons: 1.He has a gym in his garage around the corner from our house which he uses 4 t... (904 words)

I want to marry two women and they both know about it, is there any way this can be legal?

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - If I marry two women and they both know and they approve of it is it legal if they both agree? And if not, is there a way that if they both sign legal documents through the courts through the laws can they both marry me then?... (47 words)

My boyfriend has no sex drive but I've caught him watching porn!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - im in a relationship with a man that never wants sex. I am starting to feel very lonely all the time and find myself crying myself to sleep at night wondering what i have done wrong. Yet i have caught him watching porn and relieving himself to it yet he says he has no sex ... (262 words)

How do I know when it is the right time to introduce my new man to my children?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am divorced and have been seeing a guy for over 6 months (known him almost a yr). I am so in love with him and feel like I finally found the guy that was meant for me. I have 2 children, aged 4 and 2 1/2, and although he has met them, time with them has been very limited ... (261 words)

He got hard talking to me via webcam....does this mean he still likes me?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi so there is this guy he used to fancy me a while ago and i him but then he went away for a few months and we never spoke as it would cost far too much to text and ring anyways he came back but he had changed towards me he then said he didn't like me anymore. so i thought o... (202 words)

Rumours at work

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I work at a big place and haven't been here long and many rumors have started to spread about me that are untrue and hurtful. I have turned down many men here already and I feel they get angry and spread rumors to get me in trouble or make me look bad or maybe its jealous ... (121 words)

How do I tell my ex I don't want him back without losing him as a friend?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i dated this guy for 3yrs, we broke up 2yrs ago but we were still friends. we've both moved on and are dating other people but yesterday he calls me to tell me he still loves me. he was my first love so i'll always love him but i cant go back. all we ever did was hurt each ... (104 words)

Chances of her being pregnant?

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I had sex last night, we normally pull out but she was on top and we couldn't coordinate fast enough when I came so the first couple shots ended up getting inside her. It wasn't much and she went to the bathroom and washed out. Could she get pregnant? She just ... (76 words)

Shadow of my former self....

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help, I know I post on here a lot, but it's kind of theraputic. I just completely don't feel myself, I feel like a weak person, after ending a five year relationship, five months later I'm a mess. I was fine when I did it, but I genuinely feel like I'm having some sort of ... (123 words)

I sent a fake picture to my boyfriend and now he has cancelled his flights to come and see me!

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9 April 2009 (M) age 30-35 - my boy friend has cancelled his flight today!!! simply because i told him that the picture i sent to him was not of me but belong to someone else,since he wants to meet in person by the weekend, and i have to tell him the truth. he was upset with me crying all day refused t... (148 words)

Fiance kissed another woman! Is this my fault?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance 9 months and its not been easy. We have had a few rows but have always worked through them. However things have taken a turn for the worse. My fiance kissed another woman. It happened when he was on a nite out with friends and i was not there. he ... (114 words)

My husband is stuck in his bachelor ways!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married a year this month. I learned about 5 months ago that my husband is addicted to porn. He would rather get himself off then have me particpate and enjoy myself. Our doctor who I have taken the oppurtunity to discuss this with has told me that being his is o... (120 words)

I'm utterly confused about my feelings towards my teacher and his feelings for me! Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I'm going to graduate at the end of the year. Today, I felt this strange sensation in my stomach today, nothing I've ever felt before. There were actual butterflies in my stomach today when I saw my teacher, and I just said, "wow" to myself. It's such a weird feeling ... (204 words)

Do I still stay interested? Or move on?

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - right here we go again. there is a girl whom i like at college, 2 years younger than me and we get on well. we danced at a Christmas party where i thought she looked beautiful and i felt she was interested, we spoke every now and then over the next couple of months but have ... (204 words)

My ex g/f stole my friends away from me!

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my gf a couple of months ago (well...she broke up with me to be exact) but I was still in love with her, even though I found out that she didn't love me for the last three or so months of our relationship. A few months before that, I introduced her t... (329 words)

I feel like I am the only one trying to make our relationship work!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I wrote a couple of weeks ago about me and my boyfriend because we were having problems. We decided to go on a break type thing but still see each other. Recently, we've been getting on fine. We haven't argued or had any real disagreements. I really thought we had sorted ou... (228 words)

Is he keeping others around just in case he gets bored with me?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Ive been in a relationship with a guy for quite a short time, but at the moment am feeling unsettled and insecure about the relationship. As we've only been together a short time i'm not asking for a large amount of commitment but he does not show me any! When we're in... (195 words)

I found a picture of my dad in his underwear on my husband's phone but he says it has nothing to do with me!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was tidying the house earlier this week, and was surprised to find my hubby's mobile phone had fell down the back of the sofa. It wasn't the phone that shocked me, but what was on it that did - a picture of my dad in his undies flashed up on the phone screen. When ... (159 words)

Being too harsh on my ex girlfriend?

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9 April 2009 (M)

age - I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost weight she is a size 14-16 but good looking i must say, I prefer size 12. I just dumped her again recently and she's angry with me because of the way I ... (334 words)

I think my ex wanted me back to show his friend he can't have me!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i have been dating for a year and a few months we broke up for a month and got back together.the reason we broke up was because he constantly blames me for every fight we have and he cheated(more than once) on me and made it seem like its my fault.i don't know why i ... (177 words)

Should I call it quits now before his feelings for me get stronger or should I work at trying to like him more!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been hanging out with a guy i met at college for about 3 months and we just started kissing and cuddling and getting comfortable. He likes me but hes still kinda hard to read on how much he does and what exactly he wants but he has said he wants to take it slow but he ... (413 words)

I think my husband is in denial about his sexuality!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age - i am having problems with my husband of 7 years. i believe that he is bisexual, but in denial what do i do?... (23 words)

Domestic bliss has turned into domestic hell!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just recently had a back injury which means i needed more help around the house. Boyfriend hasn't shown much concern and resented the fact that i said the other day how cheeky it was of him to continue to ask me to do things for him. So, he has now taken the stance that ... (147 words)

How do I inititiate a hand job?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i'm 19, and my boyfriend is also. He has fingered me a couple of times, and now i want to give him a hand job. Trouble is i don't know how to initiate it, im quite shy and get embarassed easily. How should i start it off?... (51 words)

No gift on my 40th birthday.....do I get him a birthday present?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I’d appreciate a few views on this. Ive been with my boyfriend a year and a half. We broke up for two weeks around valentines and my 40th birthday and I cant help feeling miffed that he didn’t get me anything for my birthday. He did send flowers and take me out for the day ... (314 words)

10 years of verbal abusive and now he wants a real relationship!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age - What I do not understand is this guy and I had a relationship for over 10 year. I officially ended the relationship last year. We still try to communicate, with one another. But it only leaves me frustrated, because he couldn't communicate then and definitely can't now. He a... (265 words)

Why does he mess me about like this?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right ok so i'm 20 years old i'm single but there is this guy he knows my best friend (whose also a guy) and i met him through him anyways we chatted got to know eachother so on and so forth but nothing ever happend with us he always told me he liked me and said i was beautiful ... (598 words)

I'm really angry, my ex and my best friend are going out 2 days after we broke up!!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i brokeup with my boyfriend lastthursdy after goin out for 4 weeks but yesterday i found out that only 2 days after splittingup him and mybest friend were goin out, i got really angry. what should i do ?... (40 words)

Court injunction out on my ex husband?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How do i get a court injunction out on my ex husband? I was beaten for ten years and he has not seen his daughter now for 4 years. He wants to but my daughter does not wish to see him.... (42 words)

Straight, & watching lesbian porn??

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Kay so heres the deal guys. I'm straight.. but when it comes to watching porn.. I like lesbian porn more than straight porn! Now, what's up with that?? Just curious, thanks :)... (32 words)

Does he still love his ex?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years. I love him very much, and I can tell that he loves me. Unfortunately I think he is still in love with his ex. During our first 2 years she was never mentioned, although i knew he had dated her for little over a year. I knew s... (378 words)

Though the feelings are geniune, we seem to lack the mental connection

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for just under a year now and am just wondering if I am staying in this for the wrong reasons. Two years ago I dated a guy for a month (he went back to his ex) who was insanely passionate. He would sms me all the time and call me two-three times... (370 words)

I had sex today without protection, could I get pregnant?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had sex today just about, maybe 11 hours ago. We didn't use protection(I thought he had a condom on but he didn't so please no rude comments) anyway, We started it "doggy style" but while we were doing it doggy style, He didn't go in my butt, he actually got ... (195 words)

Why won't he tell me the truth that he cheated?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out that my boyfriend cheated. i confronted him about it, but he denies everything that was said. the sad part is we have kids. why wont he tell me the truth? what is he hidding?... (37 words)

Is a girl desperate or slutty if she calls a guy?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a long distance friend who I like very much. He's very nice to me and we generally keep in touch by email. More like once a week or so. It's been 2 yrs since we met in a meeting and we haven't cut communication ever. He says he enjoys our friendship and communica... (142 words)

If I am pregnant, I have no idea who the father would be!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I'm 15 and I have a 15 year old boyfriend that is about to turn 16. We have been together for 9 months and We have had PROTECTED sex a few times and had no worries about it. But lately I have been getting pregnancy signs and I missed my period. I can't tell my parents or ... (321 words)

What could happen and what should I look out for?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was really dumb last night completly out of my mind. I was visiting my boyfriend see, to cut all the extra, we had sex although it happened to be the first day or rather first evening of my period. I only noticed that it started after he pulled out, both of us were covered in ... (111 words)

I can't perform and she's starting to think I'm not attracted to her!

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I currently just tried having sex with my girl friend and was not able to maintain an erection. She able to make me have an orgasm by performing oral sex. I'm very much in love with her and I care about her a lot. She is the first girl I have tried to have sex with. We tried ... (160 words)

My parents don't trust me!

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - OMG I AHTE MY LIFE...i hate my rents they are so oo over protective, they get on my nerves and are always on my back!!! it's soo frustratting.....i hate my life, im a freekin 14 year old guy, i can take acare of my self.... i have no frreeedom wht so ever, and they t... (123 words)

Why is he so inconsiderate?

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9 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - my boyfriend and I moved together 3 months ago.I started getting very stressed because he wouldn't clean at all. I told him, we had an argument he got a bit better,but later he keept neglecting everyhting.We had around 3-4 arguments about this, until he started doing dishes ... (235 words)

Cant get my boyfriend to come...what am I doing wrong?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - No matter what I do it takes my boyfriend ages to come or he doesn't come at all. We do every position known to man, heaps of foreplay (at least half an hour of mutual kissing, touching masturbation), I give him oral sex for ages but I just cannot make him come. Its wor... (224 words)

Funny pains...

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when my bf and i are having sex, air usually is trapped and it usually comes out cause of the funny farting noises but for the pass two days, it isnt coming out and i'm getting alot of,what feels like gas pains. is that normal? will the air comes out? or is it really air? was ... (64 words)

Is there a way to tighten up "down there"?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you make your vagina tighter? My boyfriend has a massive penis and im worried that he is stretching me and if we break up ill be ruined for other guys?... (32 words)

Wild mood swings

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I have very weird mood swings but its after i had my period.So can you help im depressed a lot.... (22 words)

I'm worried about him and my best friend!

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - question 1. hi guys. i'm worried. well.. i'm 12 and theres a boy i really like. hes also 12 but a day younger than me. i met him in year 4 or 5 and now i'm in 7. i hav been out with him about 3 times now. i would love to go out with him again and just stay with him for... (297 words)

Is he interested or afraid of a relationship

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I work with great guy thats a single father. I'll call him steve. I have been in a bad marriage for several years. Me and my husband seperated around Christmas time. My company had a Christmas party and my and Steve ended up making out (neither one of us was drunk). After that ... (155 words)

The more we hang out the more it hurts

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so theres this guy and he is my best friend, hes there for me though thick and thin. he treats my brother like gold (spoils him rotton)and my family loves him. we've gotten really close lately and i have fallen in love with him. but he doesnt like me that way and im ok with ... (104 words)

I want to go back but I'm scared

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, First I want to apologize for this being so long but I wanted it to be clear. I have been with a guy for 7 years. He was my high school sweetheart and my first love. Our love for each other seemed to slack off a bit but I thought it was natural after 7 years of... (181 words)

Will she ever come back?

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so let me explain the situation. My first love, girlfriend of 2 years has been great to me and to be honest she has put up with a lot of my bull. We were great together. In the first week of the relationship i cheated on her with another girl. I had never told her ... (255 words)

I'm 15 And 80% sure that I'm PREGNANT

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi , i am 15 years old and i am very confused , and in need of advice of a few things , im sorry that this is long.. , my ex bf keeps on asking me out , nd i keep on saying i cant go out with him , like i like him alot , its just the night i broke up with him i met up with an ... (301 words)

Changing condoms could have gotten her pregnant?

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had sex today, used a condom. Surprising, I came quite fast but I pulled out. Knowing that she hadn't came yet, I put on a new condom. My concern is, when I switched out, my hand was wet and I wasn't sure if it was from hers or mines and I touched the new condom with it. ... (114 words)

Am I kidding myself?

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Living in Miami, I was in a 3 year relationship and lived with the girl for 2 years, and got engaged. Everything was pretty good until we got engaged - her idea. She broke it off and while I had been under other pressures and things weren't great at the time, I was shocked ... (323 words)

A good friend or a potential girlfriend?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So there is this girl and I think she is amazing. Shes smart, helpful, pretty, and nice and I really like her. There are two problems here though, I am a girl and so is she. She knows that I am a lesbian but has no idea or at least I think she has no idea that I like her. We've ... (237 words)

Is it okay for my boyfriend to act like he owns me?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my boyfriend and i have only been together 3 weeks and i've always known he was sort of the possessive type but i think its getting a bit over the top. I used to kind of like it but lately he's just been going to far i think. Like today he hit some guy he accused of ... (147 words)

All the drama of new and old bestfriends

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i made a new best friend. And my other "old" best friend seems kinda jealous like if i tell my new friend something that i don't tell my old one she gets mad. and the reason im not telling my old friend is that she blurts out everything i say if i don't want it said.. also my ... (181 words)

He probably will never like me

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I have really liked for about 7 months. He stares at me a lot and his friends that I don't even know look at me and whisper as I walk by them. We are both really shy. He never really spoke to me. I know he listens when I talk because I was talking to his ... (306 words)

How do I deal with the fallout of this friendship?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm at uni and a popular girl with lots of friends. I've fallen out with a guy friend of mine and we fell out badly so that he decided to end the friendship due to a misunderstanding. He was mad as hell. He decided to believe lies spread by 2 bitchy mean girls who were j... (596 words)

Why is she still talking to me and trying to make me jealous

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Why does my ex try to make me jealous. I have been dating a girl for 4 years. She broke up with me cuz she said need space and in wasnt ready to commit to me long term right now. Well its been about 4 months. After the break i pleaded for her back which prolly pushed her ... (176 words)

He cheated on me. Should I stay?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known my boyfriend since2005... apparently he had a girl den and i knew and den he said they broke up. We started dating and i found out 2yrs later while we were still 2gether that he got back wit her while still wit me. Wen i found out we broke up somehow we got back ... (113 words)

How can I get over my ex?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-masturbated-on-webcam-to-my-friend.html back in august i found out what my boyfriend really got up to whilest i wasnt there! ^ read theres the question i asked bath then, and i know i should have dumped him there and then! im a... (827 words)

Ladies, what is it with this "let's still be friends" line?

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9 April 2009 (M)

- When I like girl and she plays me for an ego boost I really don't want to talk to her ever again. It's happened before and I simply don't care. In one case it's been 3 years and she still randomly emails me out of the blue in the face of my dead silence. With the most recent ... (219 words)

Do you think I sould have sex ?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am Only 13 and my boyfriend wants me to have sex i think i am ready for sex i have kissed some one an messed around on the bed but i am still a vigen i nee answers please x... (41 words)

Most nights, I can't fall asleep until 5AM

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Can anyone explain why i dont sleep? its 1:03 here and i cant sleep i just dont so i end up just watching a film (currently reservoir dogs) i normaly fall to sleep at 5ish any help?... (38 words)

Do men really know when they're are about to ejaculate?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - do men really know when thier sperm comes out while having sex. even with/withot a condom?... (16 words)

My boyfriend Is mean and acts like he doesn't care but I wana be with him.

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and im super sorry this is so long! So I've been with this guy for like 11 months now. Its been really really hard.. For a while he is really sweet and stuff and other times he's just rude and doesn't respect me. He's really stubborn and doesn't like to talk abo... (179 words)

Can anyone explain these weird dreams I'm having?

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9 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well hi, i know this is nothing to do with relationships but i cant think of another way to find out.! basicly, ive been gettin really strange dreams, its now half past midnight and ive tried to sleep twice and i just cant! when i lay down and turn the lights out, i wo... (488 words)

I have a hard time being intimate and asking girls out

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a pretty big problem with intimacy. I'm 24 and have been in 2 relationships - one lasting almost a year and the other 2 whole years. The problem was that during all of that time I felt uncomfortable behaving affectionately towards my girfriend. I was too nervous to kiss ... (142 words)

How can I get my girlfriend to feel better about herself?

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9 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have a great relationship and are very happy. We live together and share everything together. We are both quite attractive but lately my girlfriend has started gaining weight. It's hardly anything and I don't even care. Thats not why I'm with her. She ... (136 words)