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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm going to try to make this short but I can't promise anything.Basically my gf and I split for s weekend, and over that weekend my exbff kissed her.Then the exbff made my gf swear not to tell me until the summer because she didn't want "problems".Some bff right?Well my gf and I got back together and she didn't tell me.Then over spring break she told me and I was floored.My gf decided to cut ties with the girl and a boy who she used to be good friends with.HER CHOICE.I did not make her do that.Anyway, the girl is now trying to create drama for me by apparently planning to out me.And probably make up a ton of things.Now I'm not fighting back, but my ex gf is very mad and will probably do something stupid.How do I handle this drama?I haven't talked to the girl since I got back from spring break and she's telling people I did something or saying she doesn't know why I won't talk to her.I'm very stressed over this situation.I mean, I've been sitting in the library by myself for lunch because I can't stand being around her.This is killing other friendships I have and I just don't know....Please help.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (8 April 2009):
 ok well She told you that is a good sign, Girls will be girls, we always start drama. Were you mad at her when she told you or did you try and be understanding? If you flipped on her she prbably got scared. I think that you should try andsit down with both of them and try to understand were each and every side is comming from.
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