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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Everyone said he liked me but when we got talking, all he spoke about was this other girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need advice. There is this guy I REALLY like. Everyone said he liked me too because of how he acted. But we were at a party and he started telling me about some girl. It was really awful, especially as the whole time we were talking we were pressed up against each ... (162 words)

He said he lost his phone yet he answered when I called him anonymously!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been talking this guy almost 3 months.. we working the same place both of us said we liked each other. Also we only once a time go out. I asked him 3 times to hang out with me. He made an excuse... Now he lost his phone last Friday. On Saturday he said ... (122 words)

My husband of 2 years is now claiming that he is really a woman on the inside!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 2 years is now claiming that he is really a woman on the inside. He loves to crossdress and has been out in public to join support groups completely made up as a woman. I am having a great deal of emotional problems with this. I have let him dress up at home... (225 words)

Scared of turning 30!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am scared of turning 30++ because that's a new generation altogether. It makes me old in comparison to someone who is 28 years old and living life to the full. Help!... (34 words)

You just can't do this when you have children!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my dad is taking my brother on holiday. He said me and my sister wouldn't enjoy it as much as my brother and he wasn't allowed extra people so we couldn't come, but now he's invited my brother's friend and his dad without telling us! I found out through them and am so ... (122 words)

He didn't see the funny side and now is barely talking to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

14 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I think I've messed things up with my boyfriend and need some advice. We've been dating for 6 months, haven't been intimate yet - just kissing, etc. He's a fairly shy guy but only at first. Last week I came to visit him in his dorm. When I got there he was masturba... (222 words)

My bitchy ex friend wants the boy I like... how do I tell her to get lost?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - The boy that I fancy has just come back from holiday and in a joking way I said "did you miss me" and put 'lol' after it, and he replied "actually I did miss talking to you on msn" what could this mean? And I think he slightly fancys my ex friend (long story why we're not fr... (142 words)

Do people stop using condoms in a committed relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a foreigner dating an American and in the country I came from it is quite natural if you are in a committed relationship to drop condoms and using other types of birth control such as loop or pills. The other day my boyfriend said that he have never had unprotected sex ... (139 words)

Love sucks!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy from the net... he's cute... when I first met him he told me that he will travel soon... so I said to my self that I should never get emotionally involved with him... Then things started to change... and we had sex... and he was super amazing... the way he makes... (274 words)

Am I stupid for staying with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

14 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Anyone please help me I think she's cheating still and lying. First I'm 24 years old and my girlfriend (and hope to be wife) is 19. We have been dating for 6 months. I know seems kind of short but I know without any doubt that I love her with all my heart and would give her t... (459 words)

I want a mini me!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm kind of freaked out. Yesterday, my mom's friend came over with her baby, who's just at the walking stage. She's so cute! And I loved the way she was hobbling around in circles. I used to never like babies, so I thought it was odd that I was enjoying watching her so ... (152 words)

I'm dating a married man... but he's seperated!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months now but he is married. He has been separated from his wife for about 8-9 months now. She does not want a divorce so of course she is not going to pay for it. He recently got scammed for $3500. This is his excuse for not getting ... (189 words)

Risk of pregnancy... please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend, he used a condom so afterwards we decided to do it again so he put a new one on. We did it for a little bit he didn't cum in the condom so he took it out but then 30 minutes after we reused it. Is there any chance of getting pregnant?... (60 words)

I love her but she hates me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my best friend but then I told her how I felt and now she hates me. I don't know what to do, plz help me!... (29 words)

I want marriage etc as we have children...

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14 April 2009 (F)

age - I was speaking to a friend today and sharing an plum and she made me think about my bf who I have not slept with for nearly a year. She made him sound so appealing. I am so unhappy and want marriage etc as we have children. I don't know what to do any more as I have tried ... (102 words)

Does anyone know of any methods/strategies I can adopt to learn to love myself more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello again... I posted a question yesterday asking how can I learn to love myself. I didn't really get any of what I was looking for so I'm wondering if someone who has experienced life a little (over 30) can comment or advise on my situation. I'm 28 years old and want... (113 words)

My boyfriend seems to put everything before me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend seems to put everything before me - Football, cricket, golf, and worst of all his playstation. He spends hours on it - sometimes 7 or 8 hours in one day. We don't live together so when I go over to his and he spends this long on it I get annoyed. I consider ... (252 words)

How can I get the pleasure back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years now, but recently I've been finding that I'm not getting any pleasure from our sex any more. He still enjoys himself and loves what I do to him, but when he tries anything on me for some reason I stay really dry and can't get ... (97 words)

My boyfriend has cheated 6 times and I don't know how to get him to stop

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that my boyfriend has cheated on me yet again. This is the 6th time that this has happened and I keep taking him back. The girl called me and said that he was with her on Valentines day when he told me that he had to work. I found out later that he paid for her ... (334 words)

Is it sex if he only goes in a little bit, but doesn't break my hymen?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know it is quiet weird to ask , regarding my age but i just have to .. i wanna know if what we are doing is -sex - , me and my bf , he slightly enters me and u know in and out all that , but not that he actually gets his peins -inside- my hymen isnt broken yet , it got a ... (83 words)

How do I talk to my teenage son about my new boyfriend. He's so angry!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am recently divorced since 11-08, but my ex stayed with me until the end of january 09. I have recently met a wonderful man who we are getting serious and talking of marriage later. My daughter, 16, is fine with this, but my son found out, he's 13, and he already is trying to ... (205 words)

I want to be more than friends with her - we're long distance buddies but I want more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (M)

- I have finally met this great girl, i am 34 and she is 24. We started chatting over the internet a couple of months ago and we got along really great, and we also sent pictures of ourselves to each other. We arranged for our first date to be somewhere exciting, so we decided to ... (301 words)

Got my mistress AND my wife pregnant. Now my wife is being difficult. Shall I leave her?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

14 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Last month I asked a question about how I could get my wife to forgive me after I had an affair and the other women got pregnant. Thankfully she forgave me but now things seem to be getting worse rather then better. My wife told me that she too is pregnant... which means that ... (148 words)

How loose is loose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - pretty weird question actually but i was just curious. what would constitute a woman feeling loose? i am aware that it would depend on the size of the penis and how relaxed she is. but is there any guidelines, i suppose how many fingers you can fit in, to put it quite bluntly... (53 words)

I don't like messing about in class. Am I strange?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

14 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old and i guess girls find me weird becasue i am so shy, I heard that is one of the biggest turn offs for women. ok I'm in class right and their are these boys and these girls who piss me off so much. One of the girls happens to be the one girl I used to have a ... (210 words)

I want us to be more than friends but I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This boy that I've known since September has been close and friendly but sometimes distant. I'm trying to be more than friends but I don't have much time left with him only one year then I go to college. I think he knows I like him but I'm not sure. What should I do? I have ... (158 words)

Do I do him a favour and remove myself from the situation? Or see him anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age - I have recently reconnected with a friend from high school forty years ago. We have hit it off through email and on the phone and I was planning on visiting him in June. Recently his son has been in trouble and his Mom is not in good health and these things are taking up his ... (118 words)

24, virgin, totally inexperienced with dating....what should I do with this girl???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and in graduate school.....not only am I a virgin, i've never really 'dated' or even kissed a girl....i lost a bunch of weight during freshman year of college and the confidence didn't just materialize...so as a result, i haven't been able to go out and do the sorts of ... (416 words)

Am I sabotaging my relationship? My boyfriend is so good but I keep thinking....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up about 6 months ago, and we started seeing each other again two months after breakup and now he wants to be with me officially. We broke up basically because my boyfriend kept feeling that he does not deserve me and is worthless. He is a type of ... (415 words)

He's not as abusive any more but I still want to leave him - should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi so confused, please if anyone has advice i would really appreciate it. My husband of 19 years has always been abusive in one way or another, the worst was about 5 years ago when he hit me on a number of occasions because he couldnt handle the fact that i had a sexual ... (257 words)

I like him, but he goes for popular girls. How do I get him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this boy that i really like. Hes so cute and we have a lot in common, we like the same music that know one else in our school really knows about and dress in the same unique style. He wears the tight pants has a lip ring and band shirts and has straight black hair, and ... (199 words)

Useless husband. Please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, i have 3 boys and ever since i had the first one my husband doesnt help me at all, am just so tired, i have to do all the house work plus gardening, the kids too yet i go to university, its really hectic please help... (49 words)

What kind of foreplay do you use before anal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend always drops hints that he wants to try anal sex. I've never done this before and am kind of nervous. I don't want him to ask I kind of want to try it on his birthday coming up. I just don't know about the foreplay of it all. I mean normal sex self lubricates, ... (84 words)

I resisted temptation. Now how do I get over it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

14 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a married man with 2 kids and a good person. I have been married for 9 years and love my family. I also have a great job and CANNOT lose it. I am having a real problem at work...I have a married co worker with whom I have harmlessy flirted with for about 5 years. ... (301 words)

I am attracted to my younger step brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay.. I am 24 years old. I have a step brother who is 16. I have known him since he was 5. Honestly I never really cared much for him when he was younger.. he was aggravatting. lol. My dad married his mom. anyways it was him and two other siblings. We have always refered ... (184 words)

How do I get him to be nice and not so clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I have dated seriously before, but he has never dated at all. I love him, but lately that love has been disipating. I am a very independent and ambitious person, and he is stifling me. I know he really loves me, and I think he's ... (202 words)

How to get some confidence back after this disease?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm a 14 year old girl, and I have a 'disease' called Trichotillomania. This is the wikipedia definition, prolly much better than mine: "Trichotillomania (TTM) (also known as "Trichotillosis"[1]), or "trich" as it is commonly known, is an impulse control disorder or form ... (165 words)

How do you make your boyfriend WANT you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you make your boyfriend WANT you? This is a strange situation - I've been seeing a man who I love but I'm not sure he really wants me! He only used to call or meet up when he wanted something so I told him we may as well forget it. Anyway, since then he has been seeing m... (116 words)

In love with hubby's best friend..now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - OK so Im probably a bad person bit I am in love with my husbands friend. It happen 4 years ago. But before this I always had this attraction to him and we play flirted but I never thought he would let it go as far as it did or that I would. One night on my bday my hubby blows ... (293 words)

Why lie to me? We are just friends!

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been dating this guy for over a year we mostly have been friends with benefits.at first we stayed in the same city but i relocated a hour away from him. i still would visit him at least twice a month but lately we have not been spending time with each other because of a... (166 words)

My boyfriend is very jealous of my past.

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14 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend is very jealous of my past. Sadly, I used to hook up with a friends YEARS before I met my boyfriend, and I later met my boyfriend because of this friend. I used to really like this friend. Well, I also used to have a crush on another guy (also before I met my b... (386 words)

A diamond in the rough? A jailbird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

14 April 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Ok. I don't know what y'all can do for me, but I have this little problem. I met this 32 y/old girl (no kids, no ring) from a rough background and we hit it off nice, I mean I was different (or so she thought at first) from every guy from around her way, and I could see ... (419 words)

Teenager--interested? or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Lately I been going crazy about this boy named JK his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Today I saw him when I was walking to school he kept looking behind to see me and at the end he crossed the road and then looked at me and I smiled and he... (314 words)

6 weeks married and my husband has undergone a personality change?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 6 weeks now, and my new husband has undergone a complete personality change - he's become pompous all of a sudden. He was never like this when we were dating. I've tried to find out why he's become like this, but he just gets more pompous and said ... (157 words)

How can I spend the night with b/f without my parents finding out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to spend the night with my boyfriend. I'm 18, he's 19. His parents won't be there. His parents don't care, and they won't tell my parents. My parents know where he lives or i wouldn't have this problem. I have a friend to cover for me but I can't leave my car at her ... (93 words)

Kinky new ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my bf have been dating for a while and we have done kinky stuff like tying him up tying me up blindfold and chocolate syrup and things like that, but we are trying to find something new to do any ideas?... (44 words)

Speaking to an ex again after a few years apart..need some input

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone i have started speaking to an ex recently again after a couple years. Weve been texting briefly and he even wanted to take me out and to come see his flat and as soon as i asked him why he decided to talk to me again after all this time, he didnt text back. Why is ... (154 words)

I think he cheated but he won't talk about it!

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 yrs old and my bf is 23yrs old we have been together 5 yrs, we did get seperated about 3 times. And when this happened I did meet new people, when ever he found out he wanted us back together but then always saind that I cheated on him, but how if we where broken up. ... (290 words)

Our first pregnancy..unplanned! How does a guy take the news?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice PLEASE! How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm pregnant..unplanned. This is 1st baby and I was thinking of doing it in a special way. Just because you know..Think back at how he found out. But I'm not sure how a guy takes these things. I would imagine ... (135 words)

Hubby wants to make a movie with hot guy on guy actioin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband have a good sex life, well, normally anyway. His latest suggestion shocked me, however. When I was about to get into bed with him he blurted out about how he'd like to make a movie with "hot guy-on-guy action" in it, starring himself and a "hot guy of your... (146 words)

Large tipped condom does ????

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i bought a variety pack of condoms. Ribbed and Studded, i completely understand, but what is the large tipped one ment for? When he put it on it was just like the top was all baggy and didn't do anything for either of us. Is this the "erotic" feature of it, or ... (62 words)

Daying to reach a climax

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age - Recenttly my husband has had a problem reaching a climax during sexual intercourse. What could be the problem? Is there something I can do?... (26 words)

Reusing condom and pregnancy risk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my bf and I had sex a day before i'm suposed to get my period today is the 14 and the 15th I need to get my period but while we had sex everything was ok but then he wasn't hard anymore so he pull out then put another condom but he wasn't hard so he took the condom off but ... (83 words)

Somewhere different, something different to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - its mine and my boyfriends 2 year anniversary coming up in septemper. i know its a while off yet but i really want to do something really special, out of the ordinary and different. my boyfriend is quite cultured, into historic things, educational.. an stuff.. but also... (154 words)

Trust issues with girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So basically I have known this girl for around 7 Months since the start of my University school year. (Im 18 shes 19) She is from across the country and moved here for school while already having a boyfriend and was trying the long distance thing. I met her a week or so into ... (1122 words)

He's married, threw me out like garbage but I miss him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend left me in February, but until now I'm still in love with him. I cannot concentrate with my job anymore. I'm obsess and the problem is he is married too. Please anyone can give advise how to move on. He throw me like a garbage.... (61 words)

I want to be with my husband and this other man too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married. My husband is lacking though in the affection dept. now I'm not talking about worshipping the ground I walk on. I just want a love you or kiss in the morning before he gets up to start his day. I have talked to him several times and am trying to save our marriage. ... (481 words)

Is he just showing off? Or am I being played?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive just got back together a few weeks ago with my ex boyfriend who i was broken up with for a year. He had to go into rehab for drinking and since October he was totally sober . However alot of his friends are drinkers and he's started doing it again and his nasty side is ... (114 words)

I'm pushing my boyfriend away when I really need to be closer to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have a problem. i'm pushing my boyfriend away and i need him close to me. i've had a lot of trust issues however my boyfriend is great and gives me no reason not to trust him. how can i trust him more? how do i bring him closer? i'm so scared of losing him. i realise that ... (87 words)

Will I always be scared about having sex? Or will I outgrow this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old female, still a virgin, but I'm scared to have sex. I was sexually harassed for 3 years by my father and I'm scared that I wont ever be able to trust a guy enough to have sex with them. Am I going to out grow this or am I going to be "stuck" like this for ... (66 words)

Period onlylasts 3.5 days..should I worry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it normal for a period to last only 3 1/2 days??? its been like this since my son was born in july. im only 20 so im not going through menopaus or anything. should i be concerned.... (38 words)

Mixed signals..what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have known this guy for four years now and I would say that we're quite good friends. As time has progressed so has my feelings towards him. I am not sure if he feels the same way. I haven't had intercourse yet because I am only 15 despite doing other sexual acts with ... (132 words)

What does his approach about our sex life say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now. we have sex on a regular basis. he always uses the "f" word to describe it. the other night he asked if i wanted to make "F". he never refers to our sex as making love. its kind of offensive to me since we've been ... (137 words)

Apple cider vinegar & weight loss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all. i just wanted to know if apple cider vinegar really helps with weight loss? Is there anything to this, or is it just a rumor/myth? Anyone have any results good or bad using this? thanx... (37 words)

I'm confused about where to work, where to live?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. I left my last job a few weeks ago to start a job for the summer in wales but, I ended upcoming home again because the manager wasnt very nice. When I got back I thought mayb Id go and live with my brother and try that but, Im not sure about that ... (97 words)

I'm married so why do I desire other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - why do i desire other women even though im married? when i see a women i can't help but look up and down at her and then i think of her like crazy! Why do I do this?... (39 words)

Married..but seperated..but now seeing each other in secret!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm married for ten years and we have been separated for more than five years.But this year we realised that we love each other and we are having sex twise a week and we are doing it in secret.becouse is involved with another women.... (44 words)

Pregnancy..all the symptoms!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 17 years old and i have all of the symptoms of pregnancy but when i had taken the home pregnancy test, it told me that i was not pregnant. Ive gotten everything from gaining weight to morning sickness and everything in between. i really dont know if i should trust th... (67 words)

He didn't tell me he was married and I have really fallen for him!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Last month I saw this guy @ work.He came and introduce himself to me,he was nice en freindly.We working for the same company but in diffent branches.We started chatting,I enjoyed talking to him.After 3 weeks we orgarnise to meet en it happened.I felt strong feelings for him,I ... (101 words)

She says she doesn't love me! How can I make her love me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - How can you make someone you girl frnd who is telling you she dont love you love you.... (18 words)

How do I become dominant? I thought I was but he considers me submissive!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So today is my one year with my boyfriend and he's always said that he love having sex with me, but it bugged me one day when I was trying to be the dominant one he said that i was submissive. This was a while ago and tonight i want to show him that i can dominate him and have ... (137 words)

Had an affair..do I stay married and "pretend" to love my husband for our children's sake?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 10 years. I am 32. I had an affair with a 49 year old married man. He told me first that he loved me. It lasted 6 months until we got caught (by text). It has been 2 months since and I haven't heard a word from him. I am so hurt. I truly loved this man ... (133 words)

He's started making comments about large woman on tv..is he dropping hints to me?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age - I am a large woman. I was a large baby, child and nothing much has changed. A couple of times in my life, I lost a lot of weight but it always came right back. I have been with my husband for almost two years now and have put on a few more pounds (as has he). He has nev... (98 words)

How can I make him feel good about himself and be more into me?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i have been together for almost 15 yrs we hav children too. we've always been into each other, but how can i catch his attention more? i want to make him feel good about himself and want him to be more into me...... (46 words)

Take him back and trust him again?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My b/f and I had been dating for almost 9 months. We've been through a LOT in those months (including a custody battle over his son, which he won), and things had been a little rocky lately (bickering over stupid things), but things seemed to be getting better. After taking his ... (475 words)

I can't please everyone and its really starting to get to me!

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately me and my boyfriend have been fighting and the fight is always the same thing. It is about how he well never spend time with my family I hear so much shit about this from my family that it's starting to drive me up the wall. Evertime my family has a little get toget... (141 words)

College classmate is putting the moves on me and I'm not sure what to do!

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice. I've been married for quite a few years, have a wonderful husband, and we have 3 kids. I never went to college before, we got married young, and I stayed at home with the kids. Now the youngest is in middle school, and I don't need to be at home all the time ... (1046 words)

I messed up, lied, my b/f caught me with ex even though nothing happened

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I messed up terribly and lied to my boyfriend of a year and a half. He was at school on Thursday when my ex, whom I haven't spoken to in over a year. He told me that he was leaving for the army in August and he wanted to make ammends with everyone that he had hurt. (He screwed ... (307 words)

Can you truly be friends with your ex?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My and my ex's relationship ended on good terms. I was just too shy and he felt we acted like friends. Me and my ex are really close, we're best friends coz we can tell each other everything even if its embarrassing. We even sometimes have a little bit of flirting going on, but ... (281 words)

My sister is obsessed with my boyfriend

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 20 years old n i am dealing with the sensitive heart of a 17 year old girl to begin with there was this daily saop that used to come on an indian tv show..it was like this huge hit soap ever based on teens life more a like the gossip girl of american televisi... (205 words)

I don't know if he's nervous, or its me but he can't seem to stay hard

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, me and my bf are having problems in the bedroom and i dont really understand why: heres the back story... Me and my Boyfriend met about 9/10 months ago as he lives about 3 hours away in a house with my sister and his best friend who is also my sisters boyfrien... (621 words)

Spicing up oral sex

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need new ways to get turnd on any ideas please also has anyone got any ideas on spicing up the sex life or new thing that a lad can do to us girls please all ideas welcome thankyew xx... (49 words)

B/f's ex will be at his b-day celebration..how can I keep things from being ruined?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My partners birthday is coming so we are going to his home town and meeting up with his old friends who are now good friends with me too. Since one of his good friends is with my partners ex girlfriend it is likely she'll be there too. I don't like her, she is a bitch and my ... (155 words)

Ex from the past..says he doesn't deserve me but is unhappy in his current situation

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently connected with an ex from years ago. WE have discovered that we are still in love. He however has an on and off miserable relationship with someone else. He keeps trying to make it work because she has a son that he adores. He has also told me that he is very ... (67 words)

My b/f said "I want to sleep around because I feel like I'm missing out"

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 19 an I am 17. We have been together a year and a half now and we are still going strong... so I thought. As I am 17 I can't always get in clubs. I understand my boyfriend wanting to go out with his friends in clubs. He wnet out with them last weekend Fri... (522 words)

Will a special encounter with a female help me?

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14 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old. I am most confused. I don't have a reason to wake out of bed. I still haven't had any real special encounters. I have no experience in the dating game whatsoever. I hate to use the dreaded "V" word if you know what i mean. I have trouble talking to femal... (289 words)

Curious 14 year old girl ....

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i'm 14 and have done basically everything sexual. i was just wondering what age people have done different things eg. oral, lost virginity, anal, fantasies etc.... (27 words)

13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in away i think it will be cool ... (216 words)

I am now scared to get hurt.

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently started dating a guy that i met a few weeks ago. He is really lovely and is a complete gentlemen who puts a smile on my face. Only i have one problem. at the beginning of the year i had my heart broken by the man i was madly in love with and now i am so scared ... (139 words)

Should I let him go and forget about him?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone,I need advise. 2004 I meet this we were in love,we are not staying in the same town. He used call and ask me to visit,it was nice. 2007 he introduce me to his family then November(same year) I got pregnant. Following year I got a job to his town but he was not the ... (120 words)

Mom & boyfriend get along really well..I don't like it!

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys,i need some advice. My mum and my boyfriend get on really well...i know its a good thing but at the same time it irritates the hell out of me! They jokingly gang up on me,taking the p*ss of things that know bother me. What makes it worse is if me and mum have a fa... (243 words)

Why didn't you give in to temptation?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone ever been tempted to cheat? If so- how didn't you give into the temptation?... (16 words)

Do you think I ever have a chance with her being my real girlfriend?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really guilty. 2 months ago I was in a long distance relationship with a guy who claimed he loved me. The problem was I hadn't seen him for a long long time and I cant fall in love with someone over such a long distance. I really liked him but after he proposed to... (396 words)

Mid 20s guys dating late-teen girls?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys opinions plz. What do u think about younger gals. Guys aged 25-27 about girls of 18? To u think of them as a little girl or a girl u could date? Of does it depend on how mature the girl is? ... (42 words)

My girlfriend gets insecure when she's away from me

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14 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm 18 years old and I have a girlfriend who I totally love and adore. We haven't been together for long, a few months, but I still find her great. Only problem, she is a bit insecure. She can take compliments, but questions me on them sometimes, asks why I think she's ... (241 words)

Glad he's a good dad, but was I the rebound girl?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't help but to feel jealous when my boyfriend talks about his baby mother. He tells me he can't stand her and they will never be together again. He will never mess with a younger girl again; But he says he loves her cause she takes care of his son and they were friends ... (261 words)

Another ex on the wall

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there, First off I love the site. It gives people a chance to give constructive advise. I have been with my current bf for 2years. We have known each other for 10. Him and his ex girlfriend have been broken up for over 3 years. Here is a bit of the history: Th... (270 words)

Single forever?

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14 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone sometimes I feel like I'm going to be single forever!!! I'm 28 and just broke up with my girlfriend 8 months ago...(long story)...since then I've become so depressed...now I'm very cautious about my relationships and have some kind of fear of what's gonna hap... (223 words)

I feel guilty because I am not physically attracted to my b/f

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14 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - iv been with my boyfriend for 6months now.. his loving, caring, senstive all the things a girl can look for in a guy and i do love him the only problem is im not psychically attracted to him and i feel really guilty about it.. his always telling me how beautiful i am a... (225 words)

We're in a make or break situation...unsure what to do!

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just had my first child with a my partner of 7 years. After having the baby my patner never bothered with me or my child and carried on with his life as if we didn't exist. I split from him after 5 months and went on a date with someone else. I got back with him after a ... (151 words)

Ok for me to make the first move? Or wait for him?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've started messaging a guy online that I used to work with but he moved to a different branch and he's really nice. is it ok for me to make the first move or should I wait for him? He's said its nice to be talking again...is this a good sign?... (51 words)

Why do I bottle things up?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so i am 20 years old i've had alot going on in my life since i was about 12, loss of family family fueds so on and so forth, but my main problem is i always keep things bottled up. if something in my family goes wrong or something upset's me or anything i find it hard t... (211 words)

B/f told me I can have whatever I want in terms of cash

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriennd told me that he does not feel in the relationship,he been saying this for a month now but he said i can ask evrything i want in terms of cash.I told him that if that is the case then we don't have to communicate anymore i need my time. what does he really mean o... (61 words)

My ex is cheating with his new b/f does that mean he still has feelings for me?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I broke up with my bf about a year and a half ago but we continued to talk alot and it felt for a long time that we were going to get back together but i was scared to tell him i still wanted him and i thought maybe he felt the same way, we would text constantly and he ... (343 words)

Self conscious about bikini & men on the beach

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i going on holiday i feel very strange wearing a g-string bikini. i am feeling very self conscience but some girls arent .i saw in swim suit competition on foreign tv and she was a g-string bikini there was group of young guys were watching and the next thing she did she had ... (95 words)

Why do her moods change so much?

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14 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi theres a girl that i like, and she really changes her moods with me and i don't understand it like. sometimes she'll be all lush and sweet to me then the next thing it's like she don't give a shit i don't know where i stand like is this normal for girls? it re... (131 words)

B/f watches porn and doesn't care how I feel about it

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year now and the other day i found out he had been watching porn on my computer and lying to be about what he was doing. I was so incredibly hurt by this I cried non stop for days, it feels like im not good enough, like he wants other ... (118 words)

Is it time to call it a day?

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14 April 2009 (M)

age - I don't think I can put up with my wife anymore. She's driving me to misery. I've been married for 18 years and have two step daughters, both of which I adore, that are both almost married themselves. I work my backside off five days a week as a joiner. My wife is abusive ... (516 words)

We're constantly on and off! Should I just leave him alone?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i went out for my 18th bday bak in january 2008, i decided to go out in a town which i never been to for a change. and met this really hot guy and we swapped numbers, he made the 1st move might i add! we got to texting the next day and he picked me up, we went to his house ... (873 words)

I want things to go back to the way they used to be!

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right here goes.. It has been 2 years since I broke up with my Ex. Oh I loved him so much, he was the best boyfriend I could ever ask for. We were 2gether for 2 years. He wasnt the sort of person I would usually go for. Where to start! he was rough, poor, no job. He had noth... (210 words)

Used & Confused

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so there's this guy that im crazy about that i've dated for a while in the past but we somehow stopped seeing each other with no formal break-up or anything. we started back talking about 5 months ago and ended up having sex for the first time. he would always ask me if i wa... (239 words)

I am so guilt stricken. What should I do?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am guilt stricken and need to pose a question anonymously to see what to do: I am single and have been so for some time - 5 years in fact. At the beginning of this year I went to a wedding with friends, and my best friend ended up soooo plastered her husband and I tsk tsked ... (282 words)

He controls my life and pisses me off yet I still feel I need him.

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Big problem here, really need some help now. I have been with my partner for over a year now. We started off so happy and I fell for him instantly! For the first 6 months it was pure bliss, we was in love and everybody thought we was brilliant together. Then everythi... (247 words)

From Prince Charming to abuser

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is one minute abusive and the next acting like the victim. Yesterday he screamed at me because I had cut the grass on the front lawn too short! All the while he was sat with his feet up in the back garden. Later in the afternoon he screamed at me in the kitc... (488 words)

Turning 30 and no first kiss, no boyfriend. So sad ...

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am scared of turning 30 and never having no boyfriend ever and never even got my first kiss Am I a joke?... (23 words)

After 4 years together, stay in or get out?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, My fiance and I have been together nearly 4years now and i think the spark has gone. We argue a lot of the time, we have no money, huge debts, we hardly make love and if we do I don't enjoy it, I just do it for him because he has a high sex drive and he's v... (121 words)

I think he is playing me but all my friends say I am ridiculous

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My new love affair has been keeping me excited but I feel it's causing too much stress. I had fun with this guy. We were in a same class 2 years ago but we started talking again a day before valentine's day. As soon as he started talking to me, I immediately knew he was ... (438 words)

How do I give him the go ahead without straight up telling him?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18, turning 19 in a few months, and I really want to lose my virginity. My bf and I have been dating for almost two years but we've kept it pretty innocent; we're both virgins. The funny thing is, all my friends think we're sexually active, whereas all his friends thin... (150 words)

To guys that wil be honest with me.

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy now for about 3 weeks, and we had sex for the first time last night. We started off with 4 play and well I have had 2 kids, so my " area" is not the most perfect. He was fingering me and asked me if it hurt, I in return said no of course not. Then he ... (250 words)

Can't Seem to Ejaculate All of a Sudden - Help!

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14 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How's it goin' ya'll? I've got a few questions, although I'm still pretty new here. Actually, frankly, this is my first question. I have a few inquiries about the sex life both my girlfriend and I enjoy. Well, really, it was being enjoyed, then it just kind of stopped.... (849 words)

Why the sudden change in using protection?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why after 4 months of (2 times a week) having unprotected sex with my married "boyfriend" does he want to START to use condoms? ( I can't get pregnant either)... (31 words)

Masturbating with feeling sorry about myself

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I cannot stop thinking about my ex and masturbating to him. I don't wanna masturbate to him anymore because it makes me sad and forelorned and all that "ugh" stuff, like no one can make me feel like that again or something. Because basically, he was the first guy to make me ... (150 words)

Doubts about compatibility

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have a problem that i dont know how to deal with. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for a year now well it will be a year next week, we have been on and off because my family doesnt like him and because he is into the outside life a lot. He is also 1 and a half... (279 words)

Hidden Love Trouble !! Need all help that is out there

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14 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i always talk to this girls at school and i consider her.. just a friend...we went out for lunch a couple of time and talk about stuff the question is how do i let her know that i really want to be more than a friend to her..??????? her EX cheated on her and she told... (163 words)

I find his swearing unattractive. Or am I over-reacting?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are very close, we spend heaps of time together, he has future plans to be with me, we have spent 7 years of being close friends, talking about everything.. Since we started dating we're constantly amazed at the differences between us, however. I'm starting ... (378 words)

Is my boyfriend lying to me? Or is it that I read the situation wrong?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Everything between my boyfriend and I, is fine when we get to talk about everything... But we went to a party together the other weekend..and I could tell he was interested in talking to this other girl. He said later that he wasn't that interested in talking to her.. but I ... (132 words)

Do you think I'm in love with her?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think im in love with my best friend, she is a girl as i am a girl numerous times we have kissed and we went to Thailand recently and things went a little farther i like guys and i'm not a lesbian i really love her lately the last few months we have been fighting a bit cause ... (106 words)

Have I done anything illegal with that girl ..Please read this xx

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14 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i was dating a girl who is 5 years younger to me ...she was 16 and half when she started seeing each other ...i am a very shy guy and usually wont talk to any girl that is why i never had any girlfriend ... i knew my limits and the age of my girl so we have only kissed till date... (143 words)

Why is keeping me away from his dad? What is his motive?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ever since I hit puberty, I've been fascinated and turned on by older men. When I was 17, I lost my virginity to a 28 year old. Since then, I've only ever dated and had sex with guys at least ten years my senior. So far, I've had four partners, including one college professor ... (353 words)

How do I choose between my ex and a new guy?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Miss A, It has been over two years since my ex and I have been in a official relationship. We broke up when I left for college but have continued to talk ever since. We got back together while was back in school but broke up shortly because he felt we were too young to h... (637 words)

Ideas on twin boys' names please.

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this site is mainly for relationship advice but this is my last resort. I am being induces in the morning and my husband and I still can not agree on a name for our twin sons. From the moment we found out we were prenant we agreed on naming them Briten Everret (Brite) ... (96 words)

Regret and worry over one night in hotel room

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I tend to be OCD and I worry over everything. A year ago I met a guy online who seemed pretty cool. We got into some sexy talk and talked a couple times via instant message. He sent me a picture of himself straight away and usually that bugs me, but I had just gotten o... (221 words)

Does he just wants to fool around or is he actually interested in me?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just need some explanations. I have met my friend's brother a couple of months ago at her house and that night, we kind fooled around and got very intimate but we didn't have sex. After that night, we have seen each other a few more times within the span of 3 months and... (184 words)

Curious: How does porn turn people on?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey y'all what's up! How's it going? Okay I need to know how in the hell does porn turn ppl on? It's just naked ppl hooking up! Just go to your spouse or the one you love! And in my opinion Its gross!! But I just need to know how does porn turn u ppl on!?... (57 words)

Is he taking a break for slowly breaking up with me?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been really insecure that my boyfriend hasnt been as interested in me because he hadn't been as affection or wanting to hang out as much. I don't think there is someone else because we work together and are constantly in touch with each other at all times. We were livi... (252 words)

Husband is punching holes in the walls and ignoring me for days after arguments

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14 April 2009 (F)

age - Hi. My husband and I have been married for 18 years and have 4 children ages 7-15. He is a good guy for the most part, makes a great living, is generous and usually kind. He does drink more than I would like to see him do but he is mostly home and doesn't sit in bars or anyth... (299 words)

We text 24/7 but never heard his voice or met him. Next step?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy named "J". He is soooo sweet and nice and i have no problem with him whatsoever. but their is a problem with our relationship. its that i never even heard his voice. he found me on facebook, and we started from there. we talk on aim, but we text 24/7. liter... (152 words)

What do you guys think? Virgin or not? Or, at least, is my hymen broken?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - One night, I was drinking.. Long story short, he started to put his dick inside me until I said stop. I just remember it hurting and it was just for a second. I KNOW he didn't put it in all the way, but I just remember it hurting and it was only for a second.. Now what ... (108 words)

I'm in love with my gay best friend. But I am also totally in love with my boyfriend.

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I have been best friends with "C" since we were 12 and now we both are 17. When I was 14 to 16 I was dating somebody and "C" would always tell me he was in love with me and he told my brother he thought he would be better for me then my boyfriend at the time ever would be ... (356 words)

My mum is having an internet affair

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive just found out that my mum is having a internet affair and all the while my father has been in a retirement home very sick I caught her talking to a guy on the phone all i know is he is an American guy what am i to do. I know I will not tell dad but I don't know weather to ... (95 words)

Why did he leave me hanging?

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14 April 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Why would a man date you for 3 months talk about evidently becoming a couple and then back way off without any explanation? I don't understand men. I would rather him dump me than to leave me hanging. What can I do? I really care for him.He has mentioned he was scared. Is ther... (65 words)

I invaded his privacy... what do I do to make it better?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, just have a quick question: I read the text messages of a guy i have been seeing for a year and i told him that i read them. I also called a girl that he had fooled around on me with because she was texting him again. (I'll mention also that the text msgs were har... (234 words)

How do I convince her she is better off?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my roommate to bits and she just got dumped by her boyfriend of seven months. She is totally crushed and really wants to get back with him but I know she could do so much better if she only gave it some time. I have no idea want to say or do to make her less upset or ... (67 words)

How do I tell him with all of this going on?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, a guy I went on a few dates with lost contact with me. After a few months, we caught up on Messenger and I found out he had gotten a girl pregnant (not long before we were dating) and he is scared. He explained that he stopped talking because he doesnt want me caught up in ... (141 words)

Do all girls play this game?

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14 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - there is this girl who loves playing with me,catching my attention,beeing allitile seductive and stuff,but sometimes she suddenly backoff,and continues after a few days as nothing happened and my problem is when she backsoff i keep worrying about what have i done wrong,to... (78 words)

It's so hard NOT to talk to him!

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A little more than over a year ago, I started to have this relationship with this guy who lived in a totally different state than me. We became real close, even if we were off and on for practically a year. Anyhow, when this all first happened; things were actually really ... (438 words)

Why would he be putting me off like this?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My man is 31 years older than me. We used to have great sex before I had our son. Its been 3 months and im always horny. We couldn't when I was preggo cuz of complications. We have has sex once since after the baby. I let him know when I want it and he will say tomorrow and ... (93 words)

Is this a sin?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im so embarassed because I recently started to masturbate and need help. I've read pages on the internet saying how it isnt a sin and some saying that it is. So idk what to do?! I want to but I feel guilty and weird like I'm sinning really bad. ahhh please help... (52 words)

I'm attracted to my boyfriends older brother!

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really bad about this but I've been trying to figure out a way to get rid of it to no avail. I have a very strong attraction to my boyfriend's older brother. I know it's wrong and I've tried and tried to stop thinking about it but It's really bothering me. I rarely s... (276 words)

Is there something wrong with me being a virgin at 18?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and still a virgin, but I live in a dorm and people here all just, they pretty much go after me and talk with each other about how I'm scared to have sex just cuz I havent ever done it. Is there something wrong with me being a virgin at 18?... (53 words)

Not sure how to act with his daughter

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i need help, ive been dating this guy for 2 years and he has a 3 year old daughter, now he and his baby mother are not together but he says they are good friends still, his baby mother took his daughter to jamaica for 2 years and just recently brang her to him so me and him ... (274 words)

I've just been so confused about him lately.

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Uhh...where to start....there is this boy that I like, and Ive liked him since we were in 7th grade. He is really nice to me, cute, and is able to get me out of my shell and be myself when Im near him. Up until now I denied the fact that I liked him, but Ive accepted that ... (162 words)

Any advice on what we should do

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm engaged to get married in September and I jsut found out that I am 10 weeks pregnant. That mean that I will be 7 months pregnant on my wedding day. I want to postpone the wedding but my finance doesnt want to. I have always dreamed of this day and I dont want to look bac... (110 words)

My husband wants me to be more outgoing

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Question. Okay, I've been married for eight months now, so obviously I'm off the dating scene, but is it wrong to be shy? My husband wants me to be more outgoing, and my freshman year of college, second semester, I was more outgoing, but then I stopped being that way and went ... (294 words)

The passion is gone

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I stay with my boyfriend when I don't feel there is any passion in our relationship? Even though I know he loves me and I love him!... (28 words)

Are his jokes half true?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i speak to this boy practically everyday, he said its weird how we get on so well. He kisses me and that, we havnt slept together. Why has he not asked me out yet?? He jokes about seeing other girls and sleeping with them..am i stupid to believe that he is only joking. ... (68 words)

Should I keep trying?

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14 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok. so i like this girl that doesnt want a boyfriend but she really likes me.. should i keep goin or end it here... (24 words)

How do I learn to love myself?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello aunts...im 28yrs old and im wondering how do i even begin to work on myself meaning 1)get to know myself and 2)love myself? alot of responses to questions involving bad relationships always get around to saying that one should get to know their self and do some soul sea... (391 words)

17 guys...do you think that's a lot?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To my knowledge every female makes a list with every guy she's ever been intimate with. Well I was bored and decided to make mine. And over the course of 8 years I've been with 17 guys. Do you think that's a lot?... (43 words)

Is it too soon to be love?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with this guy for a month and everything has moved so fast and I think I'm in love? It sounds unlikely as its been only a month but he's like the other half of me. (very cliche, I know.) I'm always thinking of him and ever since I met him, I barely s... (96 words)

I do love him but due to his current status, I am not willing to see him at all!

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex is engaged and has been contacting me for two months now explaining how much he loves me and misses me. He originally contacted me to check on me because he thought I was still living in another state but I had been living back in the state that he resides in for a... (149 words)

Almost my whole school has labeled me as a "slut'...

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started having sex 2 years ago and soon found myself sleeping with different guys at parties almost every weekend. There really isnt anything sexually that I didnt try and almost my whole school has labeled me as a "slut'. I know that I deseve it (I have had over 35 ... (106 words)

I just asked if we could talk about it!

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14 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - About 2 months ago my girlfiend and one of her old friends had a kinky (dirty) talk with each other just because i got real mad and some how she got mad at me because of it. I think i had a reason to be but we passed that. Last weekend my girlfriend had another talk wit... (351 words)

A question on masturbation!

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14 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, This may seem like a somewhat strange question, but when you masturbate, how long does it take a normal person to cum? How can you make yourself last longer? Thanks, Anon... (41 words)

I just wanted to know if you all think I'm depressed and I should get some help, or am I just getting over past experiences?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ugh. I think I might be seriously depressed. I had a really bad childhood. I got raped. I just recently got an abortion. I just feel really bad about everything about me, I don't like who I am and I'm just really sad all the time. I feel unappreciated, unloved and not good ... (85 words)

How can I forget my feelings for my ex? It might ruin my friendship?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex are really close friends, he's the closet person i am to,we're basically best friends. Our relationship ended on good terms, he just felt we were acting like friends he was my 1st bf. We never kissed coz he didn't wanna rush me, but im still insecure about not ... (397 words)

Does getting raped affect your muscles "down there"...

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked this same sort of question and didn't get the response I was looking for. Well long story short when I was about 15 I was raped and after that I noticed that I was pretty loose "down there" Does getting raped affect your muscles "down there" therefore causing you to be ... (54 words)

Is there a possibility he fancies me?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, There is this man who works at my local pub and I'd like to know if he fancies me as when it was my birthday celebration at the pub he asked who's birthday was it and I told him that it was mine. The next Tuesday and he asked would I be coming in, to which I said I don't ... (121 words)

How to pick the best therapist?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I are in need of couseling. I was wondering what information you need from a counseling establishment before you pick a therapist. It seems like picking the one that is just closest is not the way to go. Any thoughts.... (45 words)

What is the best way to accentuate your bust without it making you look easy?

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14 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Odd question, sorry: If a girl is quite busty and curvy, what is the best way for her to accentuate it without looking easy? -GG... (27 words)

Will there be another chance and how do I take that chance without messing everything up?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a problem that I have had for a while now, and there is alot behind it so please if you can, read it and help me or give me some form of advice thanks. I have this friend. He's a best friend to me and likewise I'm a best friend to him, he tells me a lot, except fami... (1008 words)

My crushes friend...

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was walking down the hallway at school and I saw my crushes friend. I don't know him I just know they are friends. He was with another guy I've never seen before. My crush was nowhere around. My crushes friend was standing with his back towards me and the other guy was facing ... (151 words)

Was I too late and is he considering taking his ex back?

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Heya, ok so I've posted this a few times but have never gotten any answers to my updates, my question's named: - I turned him down when he asked me out, now I regret it. Is it too late? - I can't work out if this girl is his older sister or a new gf. Help here? Ok, ... (192 words)

I made a mistake with a "bad" boy and now I've been put in an awkward position!

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14 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm very uncertain how to proceed, I have a bad boy in my life that I have a boyfriend but I can't resist the bad boy. He's extremly drop dead gorgeous and every time I was meant to meet him something went wrong like the universe saying don't do it. Well I went to see him after ... (163 words)