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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Even although I've had anal sex before and it didn't hurt, why did it hurt so badly this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've had anal sex before... quite a few times and all has been fine. Even my very first time didn't hurt at all. However... it's been a few months since and my boyfriend now wants to try it again.. so we try to.. but it hurts so much I'm in agony and it can't happen. Why is ... (71 words)

We've been together for 3 months now and we've still not slept together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello people, I have been with this girl for three month now. We have done a few things like cinema going to footy etc. One thing though we've not yet slept together so I am wondering when is the best time for her to sleep with me? I stopped at her house once but I slept in... (110 words)

Can I get past this and get my life together again? Please help me with your advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Whoever can help me would be greatly appreciated. To start my story - my boyfriend and I have been together for 12 years, we have children together and I love him with all my heart. I just recently found out that he had an affair, it just crushed me, I feel like my life has ... (261 words)

The adults on this site are so annoying!!!

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You are not living in this ... (145 words)

Should I wonder if she is cheating again or should I trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend went out on me with her ex for 1 month before we moved into our apartment. I recently found out she had been looking at his myspace profile. I asked her why and she said she just wanted to see how he was doing. Should I wonder if she is cheating again or should I ... (59 words)

I want him to get a boner over me!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I finally go out with the boy I like, he asked me out but last night I went to see him and then we went about with his mates and they were like Drew she's the only one you haven't gotten a boner over and then he was like you don't know, you weren't there. I don't know if he's ... (133 words)

If I lose weight will my boobs get smaller?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, I am 16 years old and I am overweight and at the moment trying to lose weight. I also have big boobs (36 e) and I was wondering if by losing weight my boobs will get smaller becausue although I don't like them being as big they are, they are the only thing that makes me ... (65 words)

Why am I not losing weight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm not sure if anyone can help.. but about 2 months ago I started a diet. Reason why? I am 5"2 and I (did) weigh 11 stone 10 pounds. (164 lbs) which is around 1 stone overweight (14 lbs) for my height. I decided to go on weight watchers diet specifically and also do a lo... (160 words)

4 months and I still cry over him... not because I still love him but because I'm hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am asking for advice and just a comment! Please be honest! I am 13 and I am going on and off with my ex-boyfriend for about a year. Every time we go out we are the main thing in each others life. We spend a good amount of time with each other and we talk more than enough! ... (446 words)

If I tell my dad then I lose my mum and my sister... What do I do???

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Very tricky problem! My boyfriend of 2 years recently went to pick my younger sister up from school (she is in year 11) it was after hockey practice and she wasn't at the front of the gates like usual so he went inside towards the all weather pitch and saw inside the PE ... (445 words)

I don't get butterflies with my boyfriend... something's not quite right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - This is driving me mad... please I need advice!! I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months, I was in love with his friend, before I met him and I was young at the time but that's all in the past. My boyfriend is loving caring, polite, thoughtful and has great sense of humour.... (308 words)

Are bigger boobs better?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm a size 34A but sometimes 36AA fits me well too - well only when I 'stuff' my bra to make my boobs look bigger. I just feel so crap about my boobs, well some of the time anyway and I get so conscious of my boobs when there's this beautiful girl with a bigger bust than me ... (202 words)

Where can I buy a vibrator online? (Discreetly packaged)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm just 16, I want a vibrator, mainly because I want to get the pain and blood out of the way before sex. and I just really want it, but don't have a steady boyfriend at the moment and don't want to have my first time on a random night. Therefore I've thought about it... (96 words)

My ex has started texting me again after we broke up 2 months ago, I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Dated a girl for 4 months. Was really good until the last month when things went south. She wanted to not be tied down at this point in her life (she's a freshman in college I'm a junior in college). I wanted something a little more serious. So we went our seperate ways with ... (130 words)

He can't get hard, does he find me unattractive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hiya, would love your opinions. I met this boy about a month or so ago and we speak all the time. I've stayed at his a few times but no sex. He tried it on with me a few times and I think I lead him on but I didn't mean to. Now he says he can't get hard with me and it's ... (146 words)

Tracking down my teacher has led to a dead end again...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - I don't know why but suddenly even after almost a year of not seeing my old science teacher I've suddenly gone crazy for her again. At the end of year 11 I gave her a note on how I felt about her, my parents had to go into school and had a word blah blah blah. So I went to s... (312 words)

What the hell's going on? Why is she blowing hot and cold all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so this is for the girls mostly, but if guys you have been through it too by all means let me know what you think. My ex broke up with me in January and initially we did not talk for a while. For your information we had been going out for about a year and a half. However ... (200 words)

I don't like the way I look, but I can't afford Rhinoplasty. I feel so unattractive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm feeling very sad about something, and I'm not sure what I can, or should, do. I've hated my nose ever since I can remember. It's not "just me." I've been told by complete strangers that I would be really pretty if it weren't for my nose, and it spoils my whole face. As ... (347 words)

My boyfriend refuses to go down on me. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - my boyfriend wont go down on me! i am very clean and shaven down there, just how he likes, and i dont taste bad either. hes only given me oral sex 3 times in 2 months we've been together. its been about 3 weeks since the last time and when ive asked him to do it recently, he ... (258 words)

I had sex while I'm off the pill. Could I get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi so i have only been on the pill for maybe a month now and i am usually pretty good about taking it regularly, plus i am not even really sexually active and up until last night i was a virgin. not considering the circumstances, i forgot my pill last night and also decided... (101 words)

I have no idea what to do or say!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Im "S" and I am 13 years old! I have already talked to my mom about a vibrator. She said to be honest when you need a vibrator I will get you one. Well I want one but I don't know how to ask her. How should I ask?? :)... (51 words)

I don't want to lie to Mum anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - There is a guy i have known for years and recently we have fallen for each other and and been sleeping together. My parents like him but i don't know how to tell them that i am not a virgin and have been sleeping with this guy. Im sure my mum suspects as everytime i go to see ... (98 words)

How do we move on from the affair I had last year?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband recently found out that I had a affair that ended over a year ago. After weeks of living apart following his discovery, we are trying to work things through and I am delighted that he is back home. The problem is that we now struggle to relate. We have been talk... (159 words)

I was sick, I said NO, and now I haven't heard from him for 4 days. Why do think that is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend is not calling me... Why?? I guess it started with a few days ago. I know this may seem long but please read..it's actually a quick read and i really need to know why?? He came over even though I told him I was sick and that it may be best for him to stay ... (526 words)

My teacher kissed me at a party. I feel I betrayed his wife. What should I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I was at a party the other nite and one of my school teachers was there. He is young, quite good looking and is also married to one of my other teachers. He teaches me ICT, she teaches me english. She wasn't at the party but he was, like i said. Well, anyway, me and my mate... (237 words)

What do you think guys - good or bad signs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - There is a girl I like. I've never spoken to her before but I see her everyday. Her friends all seem to like me but I don't know about her. Today I was playing football with my friend and she was watching us. Everytime I went near her with the ball she called me a show-off and ... (123 words)

How could I trust her in the future now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my 24 year old girlfriend for 2 years(I am 32). We had some minor issues over the last few months over us being a bit more serious(i.e moving in together) so we gave each other a little space however we still saw each other at least 2-3 times a week. Then l... (257 words)

Am I over-reacting in my current (LDR) situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Well my question is if im overreacting in my current situation? I'm in a long distance relationship and at first my girlfriend didn't trust me much. She finally started to trust me but know i have doubts about her being fateful. Recently my girlfriend has been stressed out a lo... (196 words)

I can't bear to spend my life in USA. I know in my heart I don't belong...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This question isn't exactly about a boy/girl relationship, but my heart IS breaking, and I really need answers, and as an aunt myself, I've given so much so please let this technicality slide. If there is someone out there who can help me, I'll love you forever. My heart is ... (776 words)

Why would he block me on Facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, this may sound like a really stupid question, but am a little confused. I was going out with a boy last year and things ended really badly. He finished with me. He has now been in a new relationship for six months. We were friends on facebook however I deleted him last year ... (161 words)

Tell me what can I do to protect myself from this narcissist who thinks he can manipulate me, my time and my emotions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have gone through emotional and severe psychological abuse from this guy who manipulates me with court orders and officers who mitigates me using other women, who abandoned me and uses every weapon to push me to the edge of anguish. He disappears and appears to see his son ... (116 words)

She asked if she could kiss me, but I am not so sure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I am 14 be 15 in September.I have never dated. Last night a girl who is quite attractive, better looking than I am, who is 17 asked me while we were secretly alone if she could kiss me. I was shocked and told her perhaps later as I had to think. I had anticipated my first kiss... (157 words)

I find it hard to make a single friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is the middle child ever wanted? Is the middle child just a hassle? I am a middle child and I live at home, I am 28 years old, my younger sister is 14 years and my brother is 34 years old. My dad listens to my 14 year old sister before he'd listen to me. I work on farm, he... (215 words)

I am confused, depressed, frustrated, devastated, sick of my life! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone! I'm 15 but I got the problems of an old woman with 10 children. I wanna ask you for help to solve at least some of these problems. 1- I love a boy and we go to the same school but we never talked before and we don't know each other at all. I'll call him 'w... (514 words)

I've asked my ex to help me get over him how can he help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My ex knows I still have feelings for him, but he doesn't see me in that way more like a sister. He admitted when we were together he only saw me as a good close friend, not a gf so he held back and never kissed me he said it didn't feel right. This has dented me but at least ... (236 words)

Even although I've not missed my pill... could I still be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm on the pill. I've been on it for about 16 months now. Recently I was sick. I thought maybe it's food poisoning but I feel queasy now and then recently, been bit dizzy and going to toilet frequently. My period is due in 6 days and I'm just worried I could be pregnant. ... (72 words)

Should I just wait to see where things go? Or is this just a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 218 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

- There's this guy that I've known for around 2 months now. For around the first few weeks we got along reeeally good and flirted a lot. We have like exactly the same personality. Then for a few weeks after that he started distancing himself and not really making an effort so I ... (219 words)

How can I get the motivation I require to lose weight and gain some confidence in my body?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. This isn't a love problem well not exactly. It's just I have no motivation! I have a baby of 9 months. After I gave birth I was actually slimmer than what I had been for a couple of years! But then I started piling on the pounds again, I want to lose weight but when it ... (131 words)

I found a pair of my panties hidden in my stepson's room! How do I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a stepmother to a 16 year old boy. I recently discovered a pair of my panties hidden in his room between the wall and the bed. It was apparent that he was using them to ejaculate into. It was also apparent that he had used them on multiple occasions. I am very ... (111 words)

Should I move in with my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Well... I find my friend sexually attractive (I'm bisexual, and she knows I do but she pretends she don't but she knows because I told her once and when I got drunk I kept feeling on her and she mentioned it and thought it was funny but she wants us to get a place together, and ... (114 words)

Pregnancy tests...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

- I'm not sure if I am pregnant or not! In the start of March me and my boyfriend had sex and afterwards he told me that the condom broke. He said he wasn't sure how much was in me but he did see some still in the condom. The next morning I ran out and took the Plan B pill. ... (212 words)

He still mourns for her, even although she's been dead 5 years now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

- I need advice. My boyfriend was divorced from his wife for 20 years when she committed suicide. She had been re-married to another man for 10 of those years. She's been dead for 5 years yet my boyfriend still cries about her death sometimes as if she had died last week. For a ... (274 words)

Am I over thinking the age difference? I'm 41 she is 27

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently met a beautiful and wonderful woman who is 27. I am 41 and we met online have gone out the past few weeks. To give you an idea what this is about, I’ll give you the details: As I stated, I am 41. However, if you saw me your jaw would drop as I look so much younger ... (511 words)

How do you get over a guy who uses you for sex only?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

- how do you get over sleeping with a guy who fed you compliments and bullshit just to get you into bed, takes down your number then never calls? And how exactly do you act when you see him again? Im so humiliated I dont know what to do. ... (48 words)

I'm a little confused about my b/f's behavior. What's your take on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - A little confused about my b/f's behavior. Been together 5 years, things going fairly well overall. But I've noticed lately when we go out with other couples to party on Friday night, my b/f is a dream; sweet, romantic, flirtaeous with me. But when we go out alone, he becom... (193 words)

Questions about first time sex, with emphasis on the penetration

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) age 18-21 - Hello, I'm a virgin and I never had sex before. I've heard a lot of great tips about foreplay and about the importance of listening to your partner etc. But I've not heard much about the actual penetration itself, surely it's not just sticking it in there and out and it's over ... (86 words)

If someone smokes weed does that change his moods?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - If someone smokes weed and he sees a girl that has a brother that is friends with him and he has been giving her signs that he likes her and at the end he ignores her but still smokes weed does that change the person for who they are, because i am in that situation and this... (134 words)

Ideas for token of how I miss her while I am away on holidays?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi There, I am going on holiday soon for two weeks and I'm going to miss my gf very much and she says she is gunna miss me. What can I do to make her feel that im thinking bout her whilst im gone. I was thinking of organising some flowers to be sent for her house, 14 red ro... (85 words)

How can I find out who the father of my child is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Please help me... i had sex with one guy round dec 11 or 12 we only had sex once n it was unprotected.. but ive been having sex with this other guy for a while n its always unprotected.my last cycle was dec 26 and now im 16wks pregnant who could be the father of my child...... (58 words)

What's going on? Did I do something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi,there I am So confused:S I been going crazy about this boy named "Harry" his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Last week On Monday I saw him when I was walking to school he kept looking behind to see me and at the end he crossed the road and then l... (664 words)

Any ways to get girl's virginity back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - is there any way to get back the virginity for a girl?if yes then what are these ways?... (18 words)

I think my younger g/f's best friend like her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a forty-seven year old male who's been married four times before and has five children (wih only two of the women). I am also currently dating a twenty-one year old woman. We've been together since last Christmas and yes, we have had sex. But I have a slight dilemma h... (172 words)

Why do I keep going back to guys I've had a relashionship with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have this problem where I often go back to guys I've had a relashionship with. Theirs one guy in particular that already has a girlfriend but hooks up with me from time to time. I keep thinking I'm a whore or something...am I? I mean I like him, I think. Theirs other guys... (129 words)

Why doesn't my dad trust me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi so i'm 20 years old still a virgin and never been kissed. i mean i've had boyfriends but never felt comfortable in kissing them i just want that perfect one so i am waiting for the right one i guess. but my problem is my dad, i still live at home but my dad does give ... (210 words)

I turned from a nice to a negative person. How can I change back to being nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This isnt a relationship question but i was hoping for some advice. Im 25. I have always been a nice down to earth person but i've noticed some changes in myself recently that i dont like. Im getting very vain and bitchy and materialistic. When i was at ... (216 words)

I keep craving attention and flirting all the time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all! My problem is that i cant stop flirting with men. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years in a long distance relationship-i have always been faithful and would never cheat on him. Lately though i just want to keep flirting with other men. I get to a point where i f... (116 words)

He's not holding up his end financially and its really stressing me out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My finace and I are living together in my house, he has rented his out. He earns far more than me and yet only pays for food and the odd utility bill, I am seriously overdrawn, and when i try to talk about the subject he gets angry, he has promised to pay some money into my ... (179 words)

Why is she asking if I'm jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - okay here is the thing we are normal friends we meet first then she went to russia for some resons am in italy , we kept in touch by emails for almost a year now i really like her alot but i dont know her feelings towards me but her last e mail she asked me some thing i ... (148 words)

What do you say while giving a lap dance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - What kinds of phrases should i use in a lap dance? Like dirty things to say to him to make him really horny?... (23 words)

Is he testing the waters? Being friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I wonder if you can help me figure this guy out please? I had a one night stand at Christmas time with this guy who is a friend of a friend. I knew this guy vaguely before but only as an acquaintance I would see with my friend once a year over the Christmas period. When he ... (316 words)

Choosing between the father of my baby or a nice stable man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i had a baby 10 mnths ago with my boyfriend, long story short he was drinking alot and not treating me right when I asked him to talk to me and make things better he chose to leave me and his 4 month old baby. the last 5 months he has been involved in the babys life and has now ... (144 words)

He wants to 69 but I have an "appearance" problem

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - OKay so my boyfriend wants to 69 but I'm embarrassed cause I have butt crack hair. I've never talked to anyone else about this...is this normal? Does everyone have it? and if not should I shave it?... (37 words)

I feel isolted by my family and the Out Back, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Is the middle child ever wanted? Is the middle child just a hassle? I am a middle child and i live at home i am 28 years old, my younger sister is 14 years and my brother is 34 years old. my dad listens to my 14 year old sister before he,d listen to me. i work on farm he prais... (239 words)

My ex is coming back into the scene and I'm so angry. Help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am stressed as hell. My ex is coming back into the scene after four months of absense. After offending me and humiliating me with his fling. He is saying that "now" he was wants to see his son. He wants to paas by my home to see his son. I am full of anger, I don't kn... (92 words)

Lost - Been with husband for only 2 years and already cheating on him. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 29 and been married for nearly 2 years, we have a home together and no kids. I met my husband 7 years ago and i knew he would make a good husband because he's so kind and loyal. Over the past year I have lost my attraction to him, physically. I see him more as a ... (221 words)

So close yet so far away! Do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have this friend with whom i chat with on facebook since he is abroad.the problem is i really used to like him before he moved but i didnt tell him because i never knew he would go so far away.i really like him.am not sure if i should tell him because i dont know if he likes ... (65 words)

Do I love this narcissistic egotist?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey. Well I'll start off by saying I've never been in love. I believe in it but I've never really liked anyone enough to think it is love. Now I've moved recently and I've met this guy. He's a narcissistic egotist. He annoys me so much and now we have this love-hate ... (202 words)

How can I divorce my Gambling, cheating, pot smoking husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I told my husband I wanted a divorce, as I was getting fed up of his constant gambling, smoking, drinking and cheating - and the fact he wouldn't work things out with me. He said he wants me and his other woman, and refuses to sign the divorce papers - how can I get divorc... (135 words)

Signs of pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I had sex with my bf a couple of weeks ago. We used protection but we have used protection in the past and I still fell pregnant. I had an abortion but that is a different story. I had what a believed to be my period last week but it was ligher and shorter than normal. I took a ... (112 words)

Do I need to cut all contact with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello people, we broke up 2 weeks ago and I cleared the message to her that it's over now... no hopes please...! We cared A LOT and can't think of letting go completely. Also she became very panicky about losing me so we we decided to remain friends after that. She used to ... (339 words)

I am sick of his abuse!

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Oh gosh, I have this boyfriend who is now my fiance. I want to break up with him. I just don't love him any more and I am sick of his abuse. He mentally and emotionally abuses me. He swears me and calls me names all the time for nothing and tells me how worthless etc I am. H... (123 words)

I think I told him "I love you" too soon...

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm currently going out with a boy and we have been together for two months now, although we have been talking for about six months. I really like him now and I stupidly told him that I love him. He said it's a bit too soon to say that sort of thing. Now I feel embarrassed and ... (97 words)

Has she bought him the car to try to keep him?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My ex boyfriend's new girlfriend has just bought him a new car, a 57 reg and he knew nothing about it, thing is they have been together for 2 months,and now I feel I wasn't good enough for him because I could neve afford anything like this, I did buy him things but never big ... (147 words)

19 and 45, what to do... need some help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I met this guy when I was 10 and I fell deeply in love with this guy sexually emotional and physically. I'm now 19 and he is 45 and I feel it would be wrong but on the other hand I really love him and we are starting a relationship, and I was wondering if I should stop now or ... (90 words)

Very self concious about hair around my nipples and other parts of my body! Any help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - This is really really embarrassing. I am 13, I shave my pubes down there, and legs ect ect. But MY BOOBS ARE HAIRY! like around the nipple and then I have hair on my chest and stomach and stuff! It's not like proper chest hair or anything lol, it's like the stuff you get before ... (114 words)

Stuck in a depressing rut, please help!

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very lonely, I have no friends, no boyfriend, there is nowhere to go in town, its living here. Nobody understands my loneliness and my sadness. I cry because I am so lonely and upset. There is nothing I can do about it. I go nowhere, I spend 365 days a year at home, I ... (224 words)

Does this Claire have a crush on my fiance or are they just friends?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm in my first serious relationship (22 years old) with a man in his 30's. We met on a blind date which in a strange way was set up by his mother who I knew. We got on real well and got engaged recently. His Mum sometimes spoke about these two people - brother and sist... (925 words)

So... are we girlfriend and boyfriend yet?...

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am kind of slow about relationships so I need people to clearly tell me what is going on but this question is way too stupid so I don't wanna ask my partner. Today, we had a talk about where we were. He told me "yes, we are seeing each other" and a while ago he told me we we... (146 words)

It's my first relationship where we both tend to be rather quiet, can this work long time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My partner nad I have been together for about a year now and am just wondering if our relationship can stand the test of time. A couple of years ago I dated a guy for about a month (he went back to his ex who was also his fiance) who was very passionate. He smsed me constan... (425 words)

I'm 13 and we are considering "fingering", does it hurt and how should we do it?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, well I'm 13 my boyfriend is 15. He is 22 months older then me. He is very very sweet and always is like, "we are not doing anything that you are not sure about or comfortable with." and he means that, seriously. He gets really really worked up about how he wants me to be ... (221 words)

How can I tell if my b/f is getting aroused?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - So me and my boyfriend have made out quite a few times. At first, I wasnt sure if he was getting "excited". Then, last week we were kissing and I was laying next to him and my curiousity grew. I've read some other sights for tell-tell signs that he is aroused and i think i ... (113 words)

How do I act if someone is against me?

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18 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - hey ppl, sometimes i get sad like everyone hates me. what do i do if someones against me and bothers me? do i fight back or accept the social abuse?... (30 words)

Is she really sorry? Or just sorry she got caught?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend of 4yrs cheated on me during the summer vacation with a mate from her neighbourhood!the same girl that broke past my defences, taught me how to love and be loved the mother of my kid has given everything up just to be with this guy! the funny thing is she didnt ... (306 words)

Caught the flu and my yeast infection went away??

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been having yeast infection which was not cured by my doctor for some time now. I recently caught flu though its getting much better now i've realised an amazing clearing of my yeast infection. I wonder how all this could be possible since i haven't yet returned to my ... (62 words)

Flirting is hurting! Would asking her out relieve the pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello. I was always told that flirting should be fun but with this woman at work the flirting is hurting. Does this mean I have feelings for her? Is it a bad sign to have feelings for someone when we have not even been on a date together? Am I hurting because I am coming up ... (174 words)

Is an affair in the cards...non stop emails and phone conversations

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18 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. A question for the ladies out there. The older man is higher up in the organisation than the younger man, the younger man is slighty better looking, the older man is taller and stronger, the older man is English and sophisticated, the younger man is French and very ... (233 words)

Stress is really taking a toll on me..should I talk to my teacher?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I am 15 years old and I have really been finding the past few terms at school difficult. I have a lot of stress from exams and courcework (who doesn't!!) and I have a friend who is currently very ill at the moment. I have tried to do everything I can to support them but they ... (391 words)

Handsome man in nightclub alone intimidates a woman?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am in a bit of a pickle.... I am a 26 year old guy. I have been told I am very attractive by many females, and I have noticed a lot of woman looking at me.....in streets, at clubs etc. However I am totally clueless and I may be misinterpreting things. I only go on what I a... (406 words)

What do I do? My b/f doesn't hang out with me?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - We have only been together for a couple of months and we barelly see each other. We are both in college and I live on campus, he lives off. He comes to my place about once a week and we usually spend friday night together but never saturday or sunday. His friends live like 30 ... (186 words)

Period very light..not even for a day..what is this?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I came on my period this month but it was for not even a day and it was very light/little spoting. So my question is what could cause this. And is it normal?... (34 words)

I said stupid things out of frustration and now she wants nothing to do with me

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18 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Please help. I am newly married and I said something stupid on the weeknd and now she will not have anything to do with me. I am utterly heartbroken. We have recently come back from our honeymoon and my wife has not yet moved into my house. There were some rennovations done but ... (678 words)

I don't want her to go through what I did after the break up!

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - A very close friend of mine just broke up with her boyfriend of nearly three years and she's freaking out because she can't remember how to be single. (By the way, their break-up is justified because he's a crazy, sort of Edward Cullen-type with a knack for flirting with other ... (193 words)

Getting through depression alone

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - how do u get thru depression by yourself? my friends dont care cuz they cant see it and when i tell them they still seem to not care. im going thru a break-up of my first love. and they say that its hard to get over your first love and it is. help.... (53 words)

What do I do if this comes back?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Earlier today at school my friend offered me strawberries to eat. I said sure I will eat some. I asked my friend for a fork because my hands was dirty. So then my friend searched in her backpack and gave me a fork. This was when the classroom was dark and I could not see what ... (243 words)

What are some signs a guy is thinking of you??

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - well i know when a guy calls you thats a sign hes thinking of you. but what are some other signs that hes thinking of you. whithout asking him if hes thinking of you.. xD... (38 words)

Work troubles

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello. Hope you can help me. This is not a relationship question really, more of a work related problem. I have this female manager and for four years we have never seen eye to eye. I know it is because i am always very quiet and shy when she comes in to orbit but that i... (409 words)

How do I get this friendship back?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I need help! I am so confused. I don't know what to do!! My friend doesn't want to be friends anymore. I know that kinda sounds a little silly to be asking for help by only just that. But then i Came to the conclusion of That he's my BEST friend. People kept saying for me to ... (179 words)

I'm really confused and freaked out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a group of men stalking me-I dont't know who they are or what they want-they will follow me onfoot ,taking it in turns every couple of streets or in their cars-Im really freaked out -can you think of any reason why a group of 8 men would be following a 20 year old girl- ... (115 words)

Broke up...what should we do about prom?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - my ex is going crazy because we broke up and we are going to prom my and his prom what should i do ?... (24 words)

Quietly hurting.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiancee and I have known each other for 30 years but had lost contact for a few years..we were always dating someone else..we finally caught up with each other a year and a half ago and he told me he often thought of me in a loving way and we started dating. we are now ... (241 words)

How do I survive the next two months?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend has been going away during the week to school for the past two months. He drives three hours sunday night and comes back friday nights. It was only supposed to be for two months and I was so excited that he would be home at the end of April, so I wouldn't have to ... (214 words)

What do I do to make him see that he is losing me?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I met my boyfriend 10 months ago. We were doing really good. I even moved out of my parents house to be able to see him more often. The week i moved out, it turned out that he got a job in Miami. (over 1hr and 30 minutes away) We see each other less, he claims that he loves ... (299 words)

Lower than usual...

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18 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - The last two days my balls have hung a lot lower than they normally do and if anything the weather is colder so it isn't a temperature thing. What would be causing this? I have had more sex than usual over the past week so would that be the cause or could it be some kind of ... (58 words)

What am I suppose to do when I've got all this happening

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i dnt no what to do anymore im really f**k up rite now..from the age of 7 ive jus been a mess...my step brother who is 18 now. he did thing to me and i thought i was normal but it wasnt and i love him but he knows how to play with my mind so it an on and off with him but he has ... (116 words)

Lied to me about her an ex for a year...end it?

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18 April 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - If my girlfriend has lied to me for a year now about her ex, should we just call it done or what? I have tried talking to her about this promise and she says she want,and then she doesn't for awhile, but then it all happens again. ... (47 words)

Sex! Where can we go and not get caught?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I want to have (protected)sex with my bf tomorrow. But we can't go to my or his house. Any suggestions to where we should go and not get caught? And if we do get caught by the police and since I am 18 and he is 19 will we get in trouble?... (63 words)

Why did he break up? why didn't he just talk about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - me and my x bf were dating for about a month and a few days. 2 weeks b4 we broke up he told me he tried smoking. i had a family memeber die from smoking and i didnt want it to happen to him. then a couple hours b4 we broke up i found out he was smoking still. he knew i didnt ... (151 words)

Making excuses or means what he said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - There's this guy that I really like and I thought he liked me too but I don't know what happened. We've been really good friends for about five years; one day we were hanging out and we were kissing then all of a sudden he's pulling away, saying he can't get into that he has to ... (110 words)

Pregnancy? Could I be right?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I think im pregnant, last period was on 27th March, had unprotected sex on 10th and 11th of this month, now 1 week later i feel extremely tired, dizzy and off food. Could i be right?... (36 words)

I don't know what to consider myself???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am straight.. I think. All my life I was attracted to men. I love men! but once in a while I would look at a girl and think "wow she's mad pretty!" but I never have thoughts of getting with her or having sex with her. I usually imagine kissing her and how it would be ... (89 words)

He's nice an' all but he doesn't know how to ACT like a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (?) age 13-15 - Hey, How can I try to fall out of love? I really love my bf, and we're pretty much perfect together, but he really doesn't know how to act like a bf. I need someone that does. As much as it hurts me, I'm tempted to break up with him because he doesn't know how to handle our ... (99 words)

I didn't make a move on him one time and now he's really off with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I need help, I'm really confused. Me and boyfriend have always been intimate. However recently he is losing interest ever since I didn't make a move on him one time and now he's really off with me. He's not usually like this, he called himself a pig for being distant. I don'... (94 words)

Is this the start of love... or an extreme crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

18 April 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi there, I need a little advice. I'm 16 years old and I have a friend who I really like, she's just my type of girl, I love everything about her! I get butterflies whenever I see her and even when I hear her name. I get extremely jealous when I see her and her boyfriend ... (150 words)

Call me old fashoined, or stupid, or naive, but I believe that truly amazing and intense sex comes from love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Does the best sex ever mean he truly loves me? Call me old fashoined, or stupid, or naive, or whatever you want, but I believe that truly amazing and intense sex comes from love, and not JUST the physical stimulation. My current boyfriend is by far the best sex I have ever had! ... (227 words)

Anyone with mild bi-polar disorder or heavy mood swings who can help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am with a guy and have been for about a year. Time is coming up when we both will have to move out of our current homes. We have been thinking about getting a place together. Unfortunately, he was recently layed off and hasn't found any good leads. I am not worried about ... (292 words)

Stepping out of my sexual prison...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm still young but have been stuck in a mundane and protected box, only had 1 boyfriend which my mom really chased away when he found out we had had sex, and any mention of anything sexual is'nt something I'm allowed to partake in because I'm too young. I'm a good girl always ... (162 words)

Rollercoaster ride!!!

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My ex boyfriend and I are on this crazzzzy roller coaster with our relationship! I'm getting tired of it and hurt and every time I think about just turning away everything we went through makes me heartbroken and go into a depression. I need help and it seems like my friends ... (75 words)

Are there any steps you suggest to getting over a guy you are madly in love with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am asking for help how to get over a guy I love because I'm tired of being hurt and always the last to know everything. This 'relationship' with him began 2 years ago and since then he's lead me on, only talking to me if he wants sex. He never really talks to me, ignores m... (145 words)

2 months dating too soon for oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am 20 and he is 23 and we have been together for a month and a half. We havent done anything sexual even though he really wants to. I told him that I am not ready to have sex because I have been really hurt in previous relationships because of it and he said that he respects ... (91 words)

Would it be a good idea to move in together?

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My and my bf have been going out for 9 months. I am moving out soon, and I think he wants to do this. I'm moving into an apartment complex and I would like him to come live with me. We would split the rent, and all that stuff. Should we? We fight occasionally, bu... (86 words)

I'm 17 and feeling guilty about my sex life!

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, I'm 17 and I feel very guilty about sex, I started last year and never told my mom and she found out in a messed up way so I broke up with the guy that devastated me and I feel like I should be innocent for her sake because she believe I've only done it once. I feel like ... (169 words)

I don't like being with him any more because of the way he looks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I don't like being with him any more because of the way he looks. My boyfriend is 13 and I'm 15, he's 5"2, I'm 5"6, he's small and thin, I'm broad and larger... Everyone looks at us wierdly together ect. What do I do!!!... (44 words)

I now find myself feeling unsatisifed with my relationship...

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18 April 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, I seem to be asking for advice again... Me and my fella have been together over a year now and last time I wrote in we were bickering a lot... Now that has calmed down a bit but I now find myself feeling unsatisifed with my relationship... When we first met my boyfriend ... (191 words)

He means a lot to me and I can't bear to lose him, what the hell is he thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 9 months now and no matter how pathetic this sounds I admit I have fallen in love with him.. We rarely argue but recently we have started to have problems. Last week everything was perfect and we were seeing each other a lot an... (322 words)

Should I call the guy she is engaged to and tell him what is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have concerns for my friend. She became engaged to be married to a guy on January 1. The issue is she has continued a relationship with an old boyfriend up until recently in which I know that they have been having sex. How can she have sex with an old bf and be engaged to ... (100 words)

What is a "rainbow kiss?"

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

18 April 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 13 my boyfriend is 16. We are both non virgins from other relationships. We have had sex and done everything. Finger, BJ, 69, toss off, lick out ect. We were keen to move onto a rainbow kiss he said, I don't know what a rainbow kiss is.. What is it? :S ... (52 words)