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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

Should I carry on sleeping with him?

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I've had the serious hots for the guy in question for as long as I can remember (i.e. all through school) but after he left high school we didn't really see each other. About three years ago we bumped into each other and kept in touch. He text me and asked me to meet him for ... (293 words

Could he be scared to commit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age - I met someone online a few years back, he was all fired up about meeting in person. It took a few months for us to meet. We clicked immediately, he called me, we spoke on the phone all the time. I called his house and his children would pick up and I'd ask for him. We always ... (357 words

How to surprise my girlfriend whens he comes back? Suggestions please?

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29 April 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hey. My girlfriend is away for a month, and I want to do something special for her when she gets back. Are there any suggestions? Ideally we would stay on campus (we go to a boarding school) to do it. Thanks!... (41 words

Opinions! Does he like me back or are we just friends?

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29 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - I have a crush on this guy and I want to know if he likes me back. Whenever we see each other we talk a lot about random things and he never ignores me at school. He talks to me online too but sometimes he ignores me. We have bets and act like we're best friends but I al... (117 words

Do you have any suggestions on men's colognes that don't smell too strong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

29 April 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hey. My problem is not too pressing, but nevertheless it is important to me. My clothes often smell bad when they come out of the dryer. And even if they didn't, I would still want to smell good, so do you have any suggestions on men's colognes that don't smell too strong that ... (75 words

I had sex on my period whilst taking the pill. Can I fall pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hiya.... I've been on the pill for 3 months now, me and my boyfriend had sex whilst I was on my period but I was taking the pill at the same time, so I had sex on my period but took the pill on the same day. What I want to know is... can I fall pregnant ? ... (58 words

Why does he have a picture of his ex on the wall?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been having a long distance relationship for about three months with a guy I have known for 10 years or so. I went to visit at his house last weekend and noticed that there was a picture of him and his ex up on the wall. They were together for three years or so, but ... (331 words

Why am I being ignored all of a sudden??

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now, and I thought everything was fine between us, but suddenly he has been completely ignoring me for the past few days. We live two and a half hours apart and only get to see each other on the weekends but we usually talk at ... (70 words

How do I tell him the truth? Please help.

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I work in a small shop with a male lead sales assistant. We get on well, and ever since I started he made me feel welcome and comfortable. Also, we are both very shy and can be quiet. The problem is I blush when we talk (maiden shyness etc) which he has mistaken as 'fancying ... (191 words

How can I possibly have anything to do with someone who might be different to what I had come to assume with getting to know her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I have liked this girl for a few months now and though we are only friends at the moment I feel there could be more. Anyway last time we met (Saturday) I discovered something about her that I found incredibly shocking (I won't say what it is, that isn't relevant). The r... (172 words

I need help! Why doesn't my husband want to have sex with me?

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - My husband never wants to have sex with me. Our sex life consists of me giving him blow jobs and very, very occassionally he might grace me with a couple of minutes penetration to stop me grumbling. I am sooooooo sexually frustrated and masturbate every day. I put so much ef... (183 words

He'll probably try to talk me into going back with him but I don't want to. What can I say?

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29 April 2009 (F age - so me and my ex Chuck had a really bad history like he was really mean to me and so on... and we eventually had to end because it got so bad our parents had to get involved... and i havent seen him or talked to him in a month.. He sent me a letter saying he was very sorry and ... (178 words

Although I don't want my ex back, I do miss him...

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up quite recently. We had gone out for almost 2 years the first time, broke up, and the second time we went out for 3 months. About a week later, I found someone new. It was sudden. He is better than my ex, and he is perfect for me. Although I do not ... (70 words

I thought I meant more to him but he's saying to colleagues he isn't looking for anything serious...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - So I have been seeing this guy from work and we have hooked up on several occasions. Everyone at our job knows about us. He's mentioned to a couple of my co-workers that I am more than just a hook-up or a crush, but when asked what was going to happen between us he said that he ... (70 words

Am I taking our friendship too seriously?

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - This girl and I are good friends but lately things have slipped. I have known her for about a year and since she was able to drive, we have been able to meet more often up til recently, due to busy plans on both sides. Despite this, we chat online although in the past few ... (114 words

Can someone give me ideas on how to perform better to either save my job or to build a relationship with the big boss?

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - This time it is a work issue. I have been with this company for 8 months. I have just received feedback from the executive boss, who wrote very harsh words that left me feeling distraught.... This is a mid-management position. it is the first time I have received a manag... (567 words

Opinions needed. Does he deserve another chance?

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I will be there at 3.30pm. He doesnt respond it and he doesnt pick up my phones either. so I went home without seeing him. he texted me back and he forgot to take his phone with him while he was eating thats why he couldnt respond so we couldnt meet... even though he tried... (82 words

I have loved this guy for 2 years and recieved nothing but now how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I need helpful advice for my situation. Long story short, I am in love with this guy after 2 years who I have been intimate with but we are currently not seeing each other. In fact, he only talks to me for sex and in the last 2 years, I have seen him with 4 different women ... (186 words

What is this lump? Help!

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29 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - hello I feel quite embarrassed asking this question and I understand that you aunts are not doctors but I would like some advice. Well... just above my clit there is this small lump and I know it isn't a spot, I do shave and haven't yet come across an ingrown hair and I'm not ... (112 words

Please tell me if you can think of anything I can do to try and make up for what I did.

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29 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - About 4 and a half months ago my wife cheated on me. The affair had been going on for almost two months before I found out. When I found out I instantly forgave my wife and asked her to stay with me. She was going to leave me for him. However he went to jail and my wife found ... (319 words

Do all guys like to brag about their girlfriends to their friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - Do all guys like to brag about their girlfriends to their friends? Including telling his friends some sexual things that they do together, (Not actually about having sex but fingering, making out, touching, etc.)? Do all guys do that? Just wondering.... (41 words

Guys with girlfriends, do you guys ever look/think about other girls besides the one your with?

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29 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - This isn't a serious serious question but it's something I'm curious about. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and he never looks at girls, or anything like that but we watch tv shows, movies, etc. with girls in it but he says their ugly. If a guy has a ... (122 words

Help!!! My prom dress doesn't fit me any more as I've gained a ton of weight!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey Guys :o) Here's the dealydallyo, I bought my prom dress just under a month ago and I can't fit into it any more! I have no idea what's happened, or well other than I've obviously gained a tonne of weight, and I've literally tried everything. No diet or amount of exerci... (89 words

Why is he scared to come near me?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have a class with this one guy. I've just recently noticed something. If I'm around he won't come near me. If I'm talking to his friends he will either go sit by himself or he will sit off to the side and wait for me to leave. There was a seat open right in front of me in his ... (93 words

I'm paranoid that he's cheating on the 2nd date

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29 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - I met a man recently on facebook. We went out on a couple of dates. I'm keen on him as he was keen on me on my second date and hurried to take things further. I emailed him the other day to say I would ring him on his mobile tonight as I can't get him on facebook or on ... (68 words

Tips about having sex on top

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Just need a few tips about having sex on top!! Im 22 and have been with my boyfriend for 2years but everytime I build up the courage to go "on top" i freak out!! Dont have alot of confidence and basically dont really know what to do, am worried that I wont satisfy him.. ... (60 words

Secretive boyfriend makes me paranoid

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hopefully someone can help me.. have been with a guy for 2years broke up (for the 100th time) recently bcos theres is no trust what so ever, i know yer probably thinkin "no trust no future" but god do we love eachother!! We have tried to end it and i have tried to move on... (177 words

We agreed not have watch porn, now I've seen he's been searching it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend told each other that we would not watch porn when we weren't around each other - a mutual agreement... However, I have watched porn once and literally by accident just now, I have seen on his past searches that he has been looking up porn. I realise we'r... (117 words

Any tips for a shy girl on top?

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Just need a few tips about having sex on top!! Im 22 and have been with my boyfriend for 2years but everytime I build up the courage to go "on top" i freak out!! Dont have alot of confidence and basically dont really know what to do, am worried that I wont satisfy him.. ... (60 words

I don't want to lose any of my friends, despite how they treat me.

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29 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - Sorry, this is VERY long. I recently got back with an ex boyfriend, and things are going great. We are both so happy and it's perfect. The thing is today my friends starting making fun of him. Whilst I was with them. At first I knew they were just joking, but it still hurt a ... (395 words

Is it normal to bleed the second time too?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok so I already had sex for the first time and it hurt so bad lol...but why did the second time hurt and I bled a little my second time too.. is this normal??... (35 words

Why is my ex doing this to me?

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Why is my ex doing this to me, he has a new gf, and we still get on really well as friends, the thing is he keeps going on about how i want 2 suck his cock,and then he says hes teasing me but then he said it may happen or it may not, I no i wont do anything cuz hes with his... (277 words

Keeping my boy a secret?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi my name is hotta to everyone i know . my mom tells me who i can date and who i can not date but my mom does not know i'm dating someone she does not like we have been best friends for so long. and i love this guy name crazy and me and crazy have been best friends since 2006. ... (76 words

Sometimes I regret for not accepting her friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

29 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - i broke up with my girlfriend a month ago due to some genuine reason because i didnt love her...i broke all contacts with her as per the advices given by people on DC ...i resisted her to the core and completely pushed her away from my life by changing my mobile number to ... (388 words

Can't stop thinking about this other guy

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I can't stop thinking about this other guy. Ive been with my boyfriend 4.5 years and were going through some problems, i met a new guy 2 weeks ago whos so handsom and charming and i gave him my number, we have been texting and emailing everyday and we met up nothing happened... (86 words

After a year, I'm still in love with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I'm in love with my ex-boyfriend still a year later after we split. I don't know how to move on though because I don't want another man in my life at the moment. How do you move on from the past?... (41 words

My teacher loves me too!

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - hey im 16 and i like so many others have fallen in love my with teacher but this time its different! He says he loves me too. now im totally confused. he told me last week and iv seen him a few times since but he havnt mentiuoned it again. i first told him that i had feeli... (149 words

Should we continue to wait or should we just be with each other?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Not long ago I posted my dilemma . . . . with regards to my boyfriend and I, and whether or not we should finally make love. We've dated for over 4 years now and it was my decision to remain a virgin till marriage and well he agreed that if it was what i wanted that he'd wait ... (184 words

My best friend asked me out at the beginning of the year, I turned him down... Now I'm regretting it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay so i think im in love with my best guy friend He's 17 and Im 15 and he's gonna be senior next year while im gonna be a sophmore. He asked me out at the beggining of the year but i turned him down cause i was too busy for a boy friend. He's been with me thru everything ... (144 words

Is she being for real or not?

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29 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - Ok, First want to say I have been writing on this site through every process in my breakup and the whole process is going as you all said it would. I followed all the advice given to me and it has lead to me to where I am right now. My ex of 4 years broke up with me 5 mon... (241 words

He just wants to play online games. I don't know what to do, and I'm lonely...

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - This confuses me, so good luck potential advice givers. I've been in my relationship three years now, and I've overcome a lot. But, to the more recent issue, he has a bad online addiction to MMO RPGs. He used to be so hooked on WOW that he turned down my attempts to romance ... (414 words

I'm desparate and I can't take it anymore!!please help me its my first love!!

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi! I'm 15 and I was hoping you help me because I got a problem. I really love this boy let's call him 'wb' I saw him staring at me many times and even my friends did, he tried to talk 2 me because he knows 1 of my friends but every time he comes my way I walk away! I just get... (400 words

I like my teacher... I just want to say hi to him but I'm too shy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - hey. i'm 14 and theres a teacher at my school that i really like, he doesnt teach me for any lessons, i just want to say hi to him but i'm really shy. will he think its weird because i havent really spoken to him before. sorry if this seems like im making a big fuss over no... (60 words

2 questions about sex....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - So i have 2 questions basically and i need some advice... my gf got topless for me couple days ago, but her nipples didn't get hard at all nd i tried everything, kissed the, sucked on them touched them and kissed her body... by the way we didnt have sex yet and she`s a virg... (144 words

Is three years long enough to have been together before getting engaged?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm so excited. My byfriend has gotten me an engagement ring. ^_^ We still won't be getting married for a few years- we'll be saving money and such for a house, car, etc, etc... we've been together for three years, and our love is stronger than ever. every morning i wake u... (134 words

Feeling very stressed and I'm only 17! How can I deal with it?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm working on my love of my body and life in general, having the stress level of a 30 yr old woman with kids isn't me- i'm 17!!! =( i need help keeping my stress level at a even well...level. I've tried some types of stress relievers like meditaion n all but it doesn't seem to ... (98 words

My husband revealed my secrets and completely broke my trust

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29 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have always been in some ways disliked by my family in law over the last 15 years and for the last 5 years I have removed myself from their insulting comments. I have not once expected my husband to cut any ties that would be wrong and have encouraged him to attend family ... (573 words

Is he playying with me?

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I met this guy and we hit it off from the begining. His marriage was broken down a few years ago and he has not been dating anyone since. We are close and I care for him. After talking for months, he said last Wednesday that he liked me and I confessed that I like him too. I ... (144 words

How do I win back the best friend I loved?

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - My best friend and I used to be unseparable. We used to go out all the time and do everything together. There was something else though, we were both in love with each other but we dared not to say anything to each other. I only know that he was in love with me because mutual ... (224 words

Views on sex based abortion

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - This is a question for those who are pro abortion or against it. I know of a person who has been pregnant 3 times and each time she found out she was having a boy and decided to have an abortion because she wanted a girl. Do you think this is ethical?... (52 words

I love my teacher and need some advice

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey. So my name's Sina. I'm 17 (turning 18 in June) and I'm madly in love with my teacher... He's my English translating teacher (i'm on a school for foreign language assistants) and he's sooo cute! I think I fell in love with him when he walked into the room for the very first ... (661 words

My ex is all over me but then says she just wants to be friends... and then not anything!

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29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - About 3 weeks after my breakup my ex called me and came over and was crying and said she missed me and couldnt eat or sleep. So we went back out and 3 days later after it seeming we were back in deep love, she breaks it off cause she doesnt want the stress of me going to ... (576 words

Her ex just WILL NOT stop chasing her. Do I have a word? Or let her handle it?

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29 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - I am a 39 year old female that I have just married my wife Jan. 30th 2009. We got married in Connecticut. (legally) Well my wife has a friend that is her ex that is still in love with my wife. My wife has told her to quit emailing and texting her. I know that for a fact. I ... (245 words

Tempted to cheat on my boyfriend as the sex has dried up.

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and everything was going good until we stopped having sex its become like once a week but even then its not amazing. So i went out to a club and met a fella i gave him my number and we have been texting and emailing, i met up with him ... (113 words

I've kicked out my husband but he won't leave!

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Almost a month ago I asked my husband to leave, and he won't go. At first he was looking at apartments, then he said he could stay at work, but he never left. I told him to at least go into the garage and he did nothing. He sleeps in the living room. I don't even want him ... (179 words

He dumped me, I went on a date, now we're back together but he keeps throwing it in my face!

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Here is my situation – my boyfriend and I live together and we each have one child from a previous marriage (ages 3 ½ and 2). We have been together for about a year and a half now. In September (prior to us moving in together – we moved in together in January) he broke up ... (294 words

Homeless and depressed, how can I improve my lot in life?

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29 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - Hi everyine my name is Paul and ive been going through alot lately. Im not sure what to do. Right now im staying at a homeless shelter and im trying to get back on my feet. Its like i keep getting knocked down for some reason. I was currently staying with my brother inlaw and ... (172 words

I took my girlfriend for granted and I don't know if I've ruined it forever?

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29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend recently split up but it was more we went on a break but we can do what we want on this break. im only 18 but i know shes the one for me. thats bold to say but im not jumping around the issue. she is. in the months before we split up i was taking her for ... (352 words

Deteriorating relationship already?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Two months ago I started dating my boyfriend, and it was going pretty well. We live about 2 1/2 hours away from each other, so we would talk on the phone every night and then take turns visiting each other on the weekends. He hasn't really ever acted like you would think a ... (202 words

Man whore got me knocked up!

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - sooo im not in the best situation right now im a very privalaged kid. i have alot i have a nice flexible job my own car my own house a nice allowence. yeah i have my far share of partying and all that jazz. but i have been hooking up with this guy who has a girl friend but also ... (172 words

I cant stand living with my ex now he has a new girlfriend but he doesn't want me to move out!

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I'm really confused and am wondering if anyone can help me understand my situation more please. I split up with my boyfriend in September 2007 but we stayed friends, then in November 2007, after a short relationship with another girl, he asked me to move in as his housemate... (271 words

I tried to slow down our relationship and now she has moved on to a 60 year old guy!

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29 April 2009 (M age 51-59 - Hi, I met a woman about a month ago - we got along great. I had reservations because her previous boyfriend had left her just 2 months prior and she would talk about him often and how bad he treated her. I did not want to be her rebound guy. She wanted to rush things... (231 words

Unemployed boyfriend is being too picky about what job he would take!

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - my guy has been unemployed for about seven months now. he has been looking for a job but not on a consistant basis. he is still living with family. when we are together i pay for most of our entertainment. i don't feel obligated to do it but i want to be able to do things. ... (107 words

She claims she really wants to be with me but I don't know if it's real!

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29 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - This Is a bad situation to begin with i know. About 2 months ago now i was reintroduced to my friends cousin who is/was Engaged, Red flag right there i know. Last time i met here was a few years back, I always had feelings for her, and i find out that she did as well. To get ... (254 words

How do I tell my dad I'm pregnant?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have to tell my dad i'm pregnant tonight, and I havn't got a clue how to start the conversation. How would you react if your 17 year old daughter told you she was pregnant? I took precautions, and still ended up in this situation, so i'm hoping that whilst it's going to be a ... (71 words

My boyfriend told his lover that I was a homeless transient who slept on his couch!

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend through my brother in law and he came from NC all the way to MO to meet me. We fell in love and he wanted me to move to NC with him. I quit my job that I had for a long time and left my family and friends to be with him. Everything was going good and then I ... (379 words

Baby daddy crap!

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29 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - my girlfriend of 1year has two kids(9 and 10). their dad is in prison.he wants my girlfriend to come visit him.She claims that him and her are best friends.the problem im having out of the situation is that I've been feeling disrespected by her kids father. He knows that me and ... (293 words

I feel like he is putting everything else before our wedding!

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I have been with my fiance on and off for around 6-7 years. We are planning on getting married this year, however I feel he is not putting in that much effort when it comes to the wedding plans by putting his plans and other things frst. We have decided to get married a... (322 words

My boyfriend claims he is the shy type in the bedroom yet he likes discussing porn with his friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hello, I got a question about my bf. We together 1,5 years. Our sex life was very good when we started and we did allot of stuff in the bedroom. However, my bf made me believe that he is a quiet and shy type, as he was not into experimenting with vibrators e.c. He one of not ... (533 words

To all married men who have cheated.....please help me!

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29 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - I know I may be asking you to step outside your comfort zone here, but I'm sure you'll be doing more than just ME a favor by answering these few (not so)simple questions as HONESTLY as possible. What makes you cheat? (Of course everyone has their own story) but the bottom l... (167 words

I've become the green eyed monster over two girls I'm not even with anymore!

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29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - I've become a green-eyed monster. I feel jealous and I don't know why. There are two women I'm concerned about right now. It started last night. I came across some old photos of an old girlfriend. My first love, who broke up with me nearly two years ago. Seeing her huge smi... (235 words

How should I approach the subject of sex toys with my boyfriend?

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - how do i no if my boyfriend is into advetureous sex toys ect.. we have not been together long so nothing o rush just he has not had much exsperience he is the only one i no is the one and its took me years to find him but how do i introduce it i dont want him to ... (97 words

Pretty obvious she has been cheating but I cant bring myself to break up with her!

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29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Ive been with a girl for a month or so (known her for alot longer) but recently ive had my suspicions that she might be cheating on me. Things like saying she was at a friends because she wasnt feeling well and needed to stay with her(i heard guys voice in background), another ... (239 words

Closet bi-sexuals having trouble communicating!

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - i met this girl from italy on internet about a month ago.... i sort of like her (it's mutual). we only chat online and text each other like few times a week. but she is not good at english, only in italian. many times when i chat with her i feel we have limited topics to talk ... (189 words

Going through hell

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have been going through hell of late. So here it goes. I was married for 10 years. 3 of it happy, next three years long distance and unhappy and the past 4 years without having sex and always fighting. I was having an affair for the past 4 years and... (201 words

Is this love or merely a crush?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - is this love or mearly a crush? ... there is this guy i've know literally since i was born, recently we've become really friendly again, we talk everyday and i feel so comfortable around him. i'd love for something to happen between us but havn't got up the courage to ask whet... (121 words

Can you trick a pregnancy test into showing a positive result?

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29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Is it true that you can trick a pregnancy test into saying "yes"? If so how is that even done?... (21 words

I cant get this girl out of my head....Am I just feeling rejected or is this something more?

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29 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - Right... now I can't get this girl out of my head. We met about a year ago, I was going to the pub she worked at to see a friend play guitar. The first night I saw her I’d mentioned to a mate that I thought she was hot and that I was going to have a crack but she beat me ... (1164 words

Trouble in the bedroom with my new partner

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - hi i've recently started to see this guy who i adore he is 33 and i'm 25 we slept together for the first time a few weeks ago and he was a little nervous.. so one minute he had an erection then it would go this would happen through out the night we would have intercourse... (336 words

Trust is not possible for me without evidence!

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29 April 2009 (F - I have been through one hell of a difficult few years and so has my little 8 year old son and his sister . My second husband was dreadfully abusive and we were quite ill by the end of it. Now I am with someone who seems to care about me very much and who really loves me... (294 words

My boyfriend wont spend any time with our baby!

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - hi..... i need some advice on my relationship. my boyf and i have been together six years and we have a seven month old baby. when i was pregnant we discussed what i would do when the time came to go back too work and he said i could stay at home and raise our son. i love being ... (281 words

I'm stuck watching as this guy uses and abuses the woman I love!

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29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - ive been on here before asked a question about a girl. "this is my life is there something wrong with me?" i unfortunately got stupid tried to drown my sorrows in a nice tall bottle of jack and top it off wit some hard tequila. i drunk texted her. i told her how i felt. now im ... (727 words

Lied to him about smoking and now he doesn't trust me!

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - when I met my boyfriend we were both smoking until I fell pregnant and decided to stop for my babies sake. a year ago my Mom passed away and the stress made me start again, I have have been smoking for a year now, lied to my boyfriend that I have stopped. he has seen signs and ... (225 words

Angry boyfriend!

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi Guys Please some advice as not sure If i am over reacting here!! Well my boyfriend obviously can be lovely very sweet etc always complimenting me. But he gets angry and irritated by the slightest things, if he calls and I miss his call he will get moody or if he sends me... (331 words

How do I show this married man I'm over the affair?

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I mistakenly had an affair with a colleague that lasted half a year. We became extremely close but I ended things with him because I wanted more and knew it would be an emotional dead end and the whole act was beating me up inside. Now this man and I barely speak at work an... (162 words

Only dating her because I wanted to experience a lesbian relationship!

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Im 24 years old and I have been dating this girl for the past two months now. Everything was okay until lately where I feel distant from her. Im starting to feel Im only dating her because I wanted to find out how it would be like to be in a lesbian relationship and I don’t ... (91 words

Financial support for single mothers?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm 17, and i've just found out i'm pregnant (I was on the pill, so definately not intentional). I've decided to keep it, and i've made an arrangement with school so I can carry on with my education. I'm a bit stuck with what to do as regards to other things though. I've told ... (258 words

All I want is some attention, is that too much to ask?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - me and my fience have been togehter 3 years we've recently been looking at places to live together. he's just started a new job and he's being sooo werid when he get in from work its like a 5 minute conversation then he wants to go to relax then i dont hear from him till the... (225 words

Text message from his so called "boyfriend" claiming he is gay!

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I started using a dating website a few months back and after a while met this guy who was very friendly, attractive and got on with me so well. He was willing to wait to go on a date with me because I'm in my 3rd year of university and need to concentrate on my studies at ... (162 words

Funny smell "down there" after sex!

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, I always seem to get this problem where if I sleep with my partner without a condom I seem to get a funny smell down there after a few days no matter how much I wash. any ideas of what it could be? p.s We have both been checked for STI's and a clear and ni'm o... (80 words

I could be gone for 8 to 24 months...how do I stop our relationship falling apart?

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29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - my girl and i have been in a serious relationship for over 8 months now, everything has been going wonderful, we love each other dearly. But, today I just got word that I got into Job Corps, wonderful opportunity. But the problem is that I leave on the 12th of May. And can ... (116 words

Should I visit my g/f's kid's dad in prison with her?

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29 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - my girlfriend has two kids . her baby dad is in prison. his mother is going to visit him soon but she wants my girfriend and her kids to come . i don't mind the kids going to visit their dad.but my girlfriend wants to go also. she's said if I don't go him and his family will ... (101 words

I thought he liked me but asked another girl to prom!

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I need some opinions...... I'm at high school and this year I have my ball/prom... I've been friends with this guy for a long time and we're really good friends but this year we have no classes together and he has his own friends and i have mine and we hardly ever talk ... (241 words

Recently self conscious about my labia

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29 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - I'm a female in my late 30s who has recently noticed that my labia looks different from others in adult movies or pictures. My lips hang down a bit. I'm not tight like those I've seen in pictures. Before someone asks if it's from excessive use - NO. I've always been this ... (97 words

Could I get pregnant after only 1 depo shot?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I just took my first depo in January and I'm do today for my next. If I had sex yesterday is there a chance I could be pregnant?... (28 words

Does this guy like the girl?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - if a guy flirted with a girl non verbally. But she does not give in, after some weeks. they become friends. But he does not talk to her... only looks at her. So the girl ignores him. After a weeks he comes back all nonverbal. but she ignores him ... he goes away. BUT... (232 words

We're taking a break from the relationship; how do I get her back?

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29 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - My gf of one year and I had some problems. Shes 2 years older and we're around 20-24 We were too dependant on each other for happiness. We actually started living together the last 4 months of the relationship (doing everything together, scheduling classes around the sametime). ... (338 words

He slept with someone else after we broke up and I can't shake it

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I am a twenty-two year old, single female whom just earned her Bachelor's in English. This past Fall, I started work at a local high school where the majority of faculty men are either already married with nearly grown children or in some way committed to somebody. I am quite ... (404 words

I let the relationship get physical without commitment, now I want to back off from sex with him

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Theres this guy ive been seeing for umm maybe 4 months or so.We started having a sexual relationship after a few dates.I know,dumb on my part.He seemed interested in more than sex,and still does seem to be.Sometimes we just go out and do things together,no sex involved.The ... (240 words

Why do so many men prefer bigger breasts?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - probably been asked a million times... but here it goes, ok... why do so many men prefer big breasts? i don't get it... it's the same shape as small ones, only bigger in size, but it's basically the same... two lumps of fat... they're for feeding babies... etc. well, you prob... (322 words

Don't think I can have a baby that's a product of rape

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have an issue I hope you can help me with.I am currently pregnant with my second child. My first is almost 7 months old-I am about 2- 3 mo along. Dilemma #1 I am seperated from my husband and divorcing him as soon as the papers get thru...it's not his baby..not this one I am ... (151 words

Get lover to leave his wife for you or get her to leave him so you can have him for yourself

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have found an ex lover after being apart for 8 and a half year.We have been in contact by phone and computer for the last 16 months. we are both married. I have been married for 9 years 10 months. He has been married around 4 or 5 years. he says he has never really been ... (949 words

I love my b/f, but my ex is in my head all the time

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I saw someone post a question kind of like mine but a little different. I am going to be 20 in a few months. I have been with this guy for over months and he is living with me. We planning to get married next year. But for some reason my ex-boyfriend is always popping into my ... (177 words

One night "make out" broken heart. Please Help.

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi. I'm usually a self confident woman, who reaches every goal in her life. However, from 5 days I hurt. Here the story: Jhon, my friend from work introduced me to Mike a couple of weeks ago. Mike was not really my type, but he's not bad at all. The day we first met, we fo... (534 words

I've fallen hard for her -- why won't she leave him for me?

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29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - I fell in love with a girl that was my best friend as well. She has been dating my one of my ex-friends(we had a falling out a few months ago over her) for a year and a half. She loves him even though he treats her like crap. She has told me many times that he is useless and ... (281 words

I've been done wrong so often I'm thinking about same-sex dating.

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Every person I've been with has did me wrong so I'm thinking about dateing my own sex should i do that or just stick it out??? All my boyfriends I've had has cheated on me and used me 4 sex and money so I'm tired of it help me ... (52 words

Is he just a two-timing lowlife??

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy a while back. He lives in a different state, one that is right next to mine. Since we cant see each other all the time since he went back home, we talk on the phone and on the computer. My problem is I have trust issues! I dont think that he is telling me the ... (325 words

I'd like to ask her out, but I'm afraid I've missed my chance.

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29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Ok, there is this girl that I like, and she liked me. We went out to a movie as friends, and I was going to ask her out. I felt a connection. But the next day, I was texting her, and we were joking around, and she jokingly said we're not friends anymore. I didnt realise she was ... (212 words

My kids hate him, and I'm beginning to hate him too. How do I move on?

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29 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - I am a common-law wife of a man that is like Jeckel and Hyde only when he drinks. He drinks everyday. None of his family talks to him anymore, so myself and our two children are the only ones he has. They hate him when he is drunk and are afraid of him. I am beginning to hate ... (102 words

My sister is being played -- how do I help her?

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Ok this is not about me its my adopted sister she is 30 years old and is in a long distance relationship. The guy is 26 and is a truck driver. They have been together for 4 months and he proposed to her they have only seen each other twice since they started talking. He told ... (185 words

I'm pregnant and he leaves me home alone every night!

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together more or less two years with tons of ups and downs. We've lived together for a year and a half. And we more or less were together every night. I'm 8 and a half months pregnant now and the second one of his friends calls him he rushes to go ... (134 words

Is it possible to fall in love as a freshman in high school?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ive been dating this guy for almost seven months and i know that its not a long time but i feel like i can really last with him. Ive dated a lot of guys before and they all used me for drugs and sex and they nevere respect4ed me. but my current boyfriend actually helped me ... (327 words

I like my best friend. ahh!!!

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay, hello. So, Me (a girl) and this guy have been best friends for maybe about 2 going on 3 years now and we just started high school together and got even closer. So, we have been hanging out a lot now. And my other friends would always say things like "ohh, you guys loo... (174 words

Very much in love with someone who does not treat me the way I feel I deserve to be treated.

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29 April 2009 (F - Feeling a little depressed. Very much in love with someone who does not treat me the way I feel I deserve to be treated. I know we all have our faults but I try to be supportive, kind, calm and loving towards my b/f. He swings from being funny and romantic to yelling and ... (248 words

I want to take her to the prom but my parents hate her!

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29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - I want to take the love of my life to the prom, the thing is that my parents hate her and i have no idea how to tell them im going with their consent or not, for goodness sake in 17!... (41 words

I keep having recurring dreams about my friend!

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I've known my best guy friend since we were 8 years old. We're now both 19. Neither of us have ever expressed any romantic feelings towards the other and that is what makes this disturbing to me. I've been having recurring sex dreams about him and I have no idea why! I'm afraid ... (78 words

Do guys just want us girls for sex?

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29 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - is it true that when a guy is with a girl it is mostly for sex? most of my guy friends say they love a girl but then say i wanna do her tonight.... (35 words

Gay unrequited love problem.

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29 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Quick details: 16 years old, 17 in August, England, Currently in college studying IT in hopes of going into industry. I have a case of homosexual unrequited love. He's straight, i'm gay, iv'e felt like this for about 8 months now, except then it was a sort of schoolboy crus... (282 words

Help! Is this normal?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my bf have made love twice. he is totally amazing, but there is one problem. he can never get in more then 5-6 in. even with foreplay it still doesn't go in all the way. when 6in come around it starts to hurt really bad so he has to stop. is this normal?... (55 words

How can I show them that I am not trying to trap their son?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - This year I went out of state to college and met a guy in the beginning of the school year and a few months into our relationship I found out I was pregnant. He said he was too young to be a dad so he bailed. During the time a guy in my apartment building , who also is in one ... (248 words

Do I have to tell my boyfriend everything about my past?

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have a serious question that I need advice on. I am in a long term relationship and I'm starting to get the feeling that my boyfriend is going to propose. I love him very much and definitely want us to get married. I have two things that I have never told him: 1. When I w... (214 words

I can't stand her ex to be around her.

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29 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - I fell in love with a wonderful woman when i was going thru my divorce but I have a major issue. She was separated from her husband when she was with me and went back and forth a couple of times but now she assures me she is done with him and we have been together for about a ... (259 words

I don't think marrying someone I can't have sex with is a smart choice... do you?

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - okay so i was confused and was with a guy for a year and 2 months..still had feelings for my ex..and i felt bad..everything was just wrong so like i was saying before here i was confused didnt know who to be with..now i broke up with my bf and my ex is like w/e and im crying ... (195 words

How do I make my ex of 2 plus years choose me over my friend?

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29 April 2009 (? age 30-35 - Instead of cutting straight to my question, I am about to explain the background of my situation because I feel that it is unique and should be fully understood if I am to consider advice. If you are going to give me an answer, please do not skim what I write; read it in its ... (1095 words

My heart wants to work this through but my mind tells me different... Help!

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29 April 2009 (F age - My boyfriend of almost 3 months cheated on me. I found this out recently when his 'girlfriend' called me after an apparent argument they had and tattle-taled on their affair. I was crushed! He admitted to their relationship, (supposedly an old flame) apologized for hurting me, ... (148 words

I'm 19, he's 36...

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - When I meet my current boyfriend i was 17 and he was 34 i am now turning 19 and he is turning 36 i live with him and have for 11 months. He has a 5year old son and its hard because he only has him half the time. whenever his son is over i feel really jealous because he gets to ... (148 words

How can I apologize to someone I haven't spoken to in a while?

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29 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - To give a bit of back story, I'm a gay guy. I'm 21 and the person I need to apologize to is 15 (please don't turn this into a moral issue, my intentions are only amicable, and I would never force him into any sort of situation that would be considered even morally gray). We ... (383 words

Is a polygraph test the answer?

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am in a real dilemma and don't know what to do. I am engaged and have been with my fiance for 9 years now and never imagined this horrible nightmare i am now in. We were shopping on the weekend when some girl approached me and said your boyfriend's a cheater. She knew his ... (87 words

If I am over him why does he keep coming back in my head?

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29 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - i'm kinda of confused. I went out with this guy a while ago and for the 1st few month is was really unhappy and was like i hope we get back together and thought about him almost constently. now i still think about the time when we were together but if he like went off and got ... (150 words

Lies, don't know where I stand, friendship doomed?

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I'm at uni, a popular girl in my final year. We've all had exams and work sabbaticals and I've been away from my group of friends revising and working. I'm about to return to uni and my friends. In the time I've been revising for exams and working I've been in contact with ... (920 words

I need your advice. What would you do??? Life changing situation.

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I know questions on this site are usually relationship based, but I feel that I am in a big dilemma and really need advice from outsiders. I am 23, American and for the past 2 1/2 years I have been spending my time completing a documentary overseas. I am back in the US n... (458 words

I can't wait forever...

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I really want to know how to get over this guy I like, I'm still very young but I want to forget him so bad so if you know how please help me, or also any advice would be grateful. The story goes like this: He and I were very close friends, in fact we were best friends, th... (365 words

Is there a hidden message in his behaviour?

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29 April 2009 (F - My b/f is always for the "underdog" he never takes my side. If I have a fender bender he will say, "You should've done this, or you should've done that." even though I was not the one who got cited, so clearly it was not my fault. If the sink is stopped up he accuses me of ... (402 words

When he gets intimate I don't feel anything.

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29 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Ok, i am dating a really great guy and I like him a lot. The thing is just when he gets intimate I don't feel anything. I really like him. I like kissing and touching but when we go any further it stops. I don't feel anything. I'm not repulsed or anything negative but I don't ... (96 words

Help! Is she trying to make me jealous?

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29 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - I have been dating this girl for a while and recently she started pointing out to me how "hot" other guys are, Movie stars and models excluded, everyone has an attraction to some movie star or model (that is just human) but recently it has been normal guys. For example, her ... (118 words

Me and my best friend had lesbian sex!

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - hiya... im 17 and i have feelings towards my best friend who is also a girl... when we drink we usually end up kissing and once or twice its lead to sex... it was unbelievable... and i cant stop thinking about it...it was amazing. the thing is she is always the one who kisse... (233 words

My wife of 20 years wants a threesome...I may want a divorce!

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29 April 2009 (M age 51-59 - Let me start by saying my wife and I have been married for twenty years. she would like to have a threesome or swap with a couple. When she told me this i was shocked and hurt. i would like someone to help me understand this. She is forty im forty five she said that when she ... (109 words

I just found out about my boyfriend's threesome! I'm shocked!

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29 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now and we are very much in love. we have our ups and downs like most relationships but we have gotten through bad moments and are enjoying time together. we've recently been away and had the most amazing time. i came home and found out ... (273 words

How do you ask a guy where your relationship stands?

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29 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - How do you ask a guy where your relationship stands after 2 years?... (13 words

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