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Do women like to view porn?

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Question - (7 April 2009) 15 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *he_phoenic writes:

it is an old new quistion,

please girls answer me i need more answers please

GENERALY does women love to view porn??

because most of the girls that i know deny,

while i am sure they do

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009):

I'm female and I love porn.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009):

I go through phases --- when I haven't had sex in awhile, I turn on the porn for my viewing pleasure. The only genre of porn I enjoy is rough sex with two people involved (as opposed to threesomes/orgies/etc.) and that are more realistic (none of this screaming at the top of one's lungs business).

Oddly enough, I am very open about watching porn with my guy friends (maybe it's because they don't judge?) --- none of my girlfriends know my porn-fiend side. So to answer your question, yes, there are many girls who watch porn, but only a small proportion would actually admit it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009):

I do look at porn yes - but very rarely. It is not something i would tell anyone about!!! Its embarrasing - definately wouldnt tell my girlfriends, and i wouldnt tell a boyfriend either. its weird.

Its degrading, makes sex not special - not proud that i do sometimes look at it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

I wouldn't say women love to view porn but they like it. I view it myself. I enjoy watching, but just like many other women around the world wouldn't want to tell anybody or admit it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

well,the truth is that while a lot of us might watch it,not many of us would like to admit it because of certain perceptions of societies.let me give you an example:a women sleeps with lots of guys,and she is immedietly labelled a 'slut'.but when a man does the same,he's looked upon with envy by his mates and is termed a 'stud'...can you see what i'm trying to tell you?its called double standards.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009):

Oh, also, some statistics on women and pornography:

1/3 of visitors to adult websites are women.

17% of women reportedly struggle with porn addiction, compared to 10% of men who admit to this.

9.4 million women access porn monthly.

13% of women admit to accessing porn at work, compared with 20% of men.

Finally, 70% of women keep their activities in this regard a secret. Therefore, it is probably safe to assume that the gap between genders regarding porn usage is much smaller than we are led to believe.

So, in response to those who say "most" or "normal" women don't view porn, think again.

Source: http://wsr.byu.edu/content/view/2591/

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009):

Satindesire - you mean generalizations like the one you just made concerning generalizations? :)

Anyway, I am female and a sex-positive feminist, and I like porn every once in a while. I just like to be certain that it has no sort of involvement in human trafficking, which is the ugliest of ugly things in the world, so I try to find feminist porn (no, not SuicideGirls, it's a guise) directed by women.

It's hard to find, but it's out there.

That said, porn can be extremely degrading - be careful of what you show your partner.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

i'm a 19 year-old female, and i watch porn sometimes 5 times a day, and i masterbate. granted, some women don't get turned on by porn. but a lot do, and deny it. porn shouldn't just be between you and your computer or tv, it should be able to be expressed in real life. explain your fantasies to your man one day. you'll be surprised [or not!] how much it turns him on.

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A female reader, malteser  United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2009):

malteser  agony auntI must admit that i do like watching porn on the internet and i have lots of movies on dvd. I use porn with my boyfriend because it turns me on and i like some of the positions and the role play.

We sometimes watch porn and have sex while we are watching it this makes it more exciting. If i want sex i put a porn movie on when my partner is in then he gets the message. I think that some girls dont like watching porn because it can make some feel inadequate or not so good. If you have a girl like this dont watch porn.

But find out what she likes. And never compare the talents of a porn star to the person who you have SEX WITH.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009):

I think woman put up a front honestly. If a man asked me if i liked porn, i would either say yes or no. it depends on who i'm talking to (no i'm not talking about family!). but yes, i like watching porn, woop woop!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009):

nope. i'm straight and a girl and i don't watch porn, and none of the girls i know do either (and we talk about some fairly sexual, weird and embarrassing stuff so i'm pretty sure they're not just scared to admit it).

i've looked at it a few times just out of curiosity and i tend to find it sort of revolting/degrading/ridiculous in most cases and it's rarely even like real sex. more like some weird over-fetishized representation of it.

just looking at some naked guy with a huge cock isn't going to make me horny. i get way more turned on just thinking about having sex with my boyfriend than i would by watching porn.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009):

Haha- Satindesire- I hate generalizations too- every one of them! Especially this one!

I wonder why this posters NEEDS to know 'generally' anyway? By all means talk to your partner/s about this, but what does it matter if someone else's partner does? Either you're trying to prove some point or else you're getting off on asking this/ hearing the answers??

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A female reader, chazx United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2009):

chazx agony auntI am female and i love to watch porn especially lesbian porn :)

Now alot of my friends male AND female love watching porn to, sometimes we actually watch porn together with out boyfriends (like a double date) and have sex with our partners near each other.

I hardly ever find a man OR woman that doesnt like porn, but i do agree each to there own, some people wont and maybe just try to talk to your girlfriend not just random mates :)

I also know a good few men who hate porn and find it degrading.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009):

I am a woman and gets turned on by watching porn, so my answer is yes.

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2009):

k_c100 agony auntWell I am a woman, and I dont look at porn. I have in the past, when I was about 17 but since then I dont look at it anymore, I just dont find the need to nor do I have the time!

Women are very different from men - they dont need to be watching something like porn to be aroused, women tend to fantasise about a variety of different men + scenarios rather than watch porn (in my experience anyway).

Some women will enjoy to watch porn, whereas others will never watch it. It is all down to personal preference! However I imagine if you are going around asking female friends if they watch it then of course they will say no, they wont want to be giving out personal information like that! Maybe if you ask your own girlfriend (providing you have one) then you might get a more honest answer, but dont expect friends to be that honest with you about something like this!

I hope this helps!

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