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writes:Im looking for some advice a little about two month ago me and my ex broke up. I was living with her.We was alway fighting and her family was get involved. her mother would cried everything we would fight. Me and my ex was not seening eye to eye. We was both unhappy and miserable. So I decide to move out of her apartment an getting my own place."FYI i move out few days before our anniversary" Apparently, the was a wrong move to her. She ended up leaving me, telling me that the relationship was over once i move out. An that she wanted space. come to know that there was some other guy she was talking to during the same time we was brake up. However I dont think she cheating on me while we was togetter. I dont think there talking anymore at the present time. I still want her back. I try not to have any contact with her at all. she alway find a way to contact me. the thing is that she does not went a relationship she just call to check up or if she need something asked me for it. I normaly give it to her. i alway treated her like a queen. I alway trying pleasing her. I never give her a challenge. I know that where i went wrong. mind you i never got anytype of gift from her while we was togetter chrismas, Birthday, Valentines ect. I dont want to sound like a was played like a fool.I really dont know how get how back. how to play my cards
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): If you were fighting all of the time then the two of you have poor communication and are not compatible. I personally wouldn't want to get back together if I were you, it doesn't sound like it was a great relationship if she was so selfish as to never even get you a gift, but blame you for moving out before your anniversary???
Something doesn't add up here for me. Also, I don't mean to be rude, but your grasp of the English language and verb tense is quite atrocious. Is English not your first language? Perhaps you may want to consider furthering your education and use this time to gain valuable skills that you can use to further achieve your own personal goals. Put your attention onto you instead of her and use this free time to work on yourself. You will be the better for it.
Good luck, and I am sorry that this happened and that you are upset.
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reader, Blessbybeer +, writes (13 September 2009):
Blessbybeer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the post. Not to long ago, I told her I better if we should not have contact with each other. I told her that I deeply love her. But, eveything she contact I feel as I have a chace. So I ended as I love her ,to a better tomorrow
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