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*ust-another-concerned-girl
writes:Ok so i havent been here in a long time life has been going good with me lately but now i have a major problem. A month ago or so my cousin came here to cali to live with our aunt so everything was going great with her i was being good with her and we were getting along but now she has turned my family against me. It all started with the day my sister invited her to go out my sister wanted her to meet my sis bf cousin so maybe i got a lil jelous but i took a pic of my cousin getting ready and i sent it to her bf saying she was prettying up and i kinda hinted that she was gonna go see another guy, so later that night i get a txt from her bf asking me if she was at home and i said "no she's out with my sister" later i get another txt asking why she had lied to him. So now my sister and my cousin blame me for him almost breaking up with him, But is it my fault? i dont think so i mean i dint lie to him, my cousin is a player she like to play with guys and she said she wasnt gonna do the same to him and i told told her not to becuz the guy had a gf who he was gonna get married to but a week before she called it off and left to poland and i feel sorry for him and dont want to have his heart broken again poor guy. Well it doesnt end there well after that she was gonna go to the store with my sis my sis went home and was taking long to come back so she asked me to go so i said ok i went to my house to get somthn when i came out she was already leaving with my sister, my sister had decided she was gonna to her place instead so they were already leaving and i got mad becuz if i hadnt come out at that moment they would have left and i would be waiting there like stupid so my cousin turns around and sees me and says oh lets go with ur sis i refused after that my sister started saying i hated my cousin i'm being mean to her and my cousin that what i think she told my sis and my sis my mom and my gramma and everyone else and now i'm a bitch to them and everyone is against me.Another thing i was having a fight with my mother like always and she gets involved and the next day my mom comes into my room and is looking for somthn and she completely ignores me usually when we fight the next day its like nothing happened. oh and since she came here there is problems with the neighbours and the manager (i live in an apt.) Am i paranoid or is she really trying to wrap everyone around her little finger?is it wrong for me to get back at her? (i know how and even if u dont approve i still will)
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reader, just-another-concerned-girl +, writes (13 September 2009):
just-another-concerned-girl is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok thanks anyway
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 Why ask for advise if you won't take it? P.S I don't approve.
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