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writes:My boyfriend and I split up a few days ago. I ended it with him because he had started to have feelings for this other girl and wasnt sure what he wanted anymore. i've been in bits ever since. the thing is he still phones me everyday, calls me 'babes' and tells me he loves me before he hangs up. we've talked about meeting up in a couple of weeks and maybe trying again.he says he wants to take things really slow though. what do you think is going on in his head?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): He obviously didn't want to end it with you and is hoping you'll have him back. If he was the one that ended it I could understand you asking the question, but seeing as you did, there's no mystery about what's going on in his head.
If he's still got feelings for the other girl he's keeping his options open, and trying to metaphorically keep an iron in both fires.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): He's keeping you emotionally attached just in case the other girl doesnt work out. Have some self respect and dont be so available. Thats hard to do when your heart is involved i know but at this point he's playing you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): I think he likes you but he is unsure about his feelings. He has feelings for another girl, so he is probably confused. If you love him, wait and take it slow. But if you think he is playing you or does not really love you then tell him you do not want to be with him as you can not be second best.
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