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*ugusta
writes:iam 22 with a boyfriend who would rather look at porn then have any fun with me. iam so unhappy that he does that. i wish i knew what to do. i need advice on how to tell him how i feel .
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): The vast majority of men look at porn at some time in their life and some can get quite hooked on it, and for most it's a visual thing that doesn't affect the way they feel about their partner; for them it's not much different to a woman reading a Mills & Boon romance.
However, if he's neglecting you because of it, that's not good. As for how to tell him how you feel about it, it sounds simple enough to me! Something along the lines of "If you'd rather look at porn instead of playing with me, how long do you think our relationship will last?" should be enough, and if he doesn't take any notice of you perhaps it's time to leave him to it.
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