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writes:Background: Our relationship was born out of a triangle and sadly had a turbulent birth. She needed space then, but still had issues so she tried counselling but even after counselling there was still an unresolved bug that nether she nor her councillor could resolve. There were months of tension and passion. She is a professional and this last year and a half I believe we have had it good. We don't live together, we are a weekend couple.The space issue has come up again though this time in a text message and phone call. So I said she should take out whatever time she wants and when you are ready for a chat call me.After two weeks of space I dropped a text mesage just to say how are you - her reply - hello thinking today to communicate with you - need my space still - feeling better this way - more whole - grew increasingly uncertain that our relationship had a future - I think because it started in a place of pain for all three of us - I still love you - can we be friends and not lovers??I sent a reply to say OK friendship will be fine be nice to see you sometime.She replied can we meet. I said yesNow I have written this down I feel a degree of acceptance however I feel a huge sense of helplessness and want her back... any answers please... am I doing the right things... should our meeting go ahead?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): You put her feelings 1st. A very selfless act. I commend you. You are respecting her wishes. It would not have been easy but you are doing what is right. You have allready shown great strength in character. Best of luck!
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