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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone.I met a girl, divorced and 8 years older than me. Our relationship is about a year.Occasionally, we have agitated conversation but we are doing fine.She still keep in touch with her x husband because she has a daughter who is living with her. I am perfectly fine with that because he is the girl's father.We lived in different city and meet once or twice a week.For the past 2 months, she hasn't call and we don't meet too. This is strange because she used to call every few days.I called her from time to time but I have stop doing that since last week. Even with the absence, she never call to see if I am doing fine.From our conversation week ago, she isn't stressed with work or having any problem. When I tried to ask why she ignoring me, she would become furious and say I am doubting her.I doubted because she always in a hurry to hang up whenever I call her. Sometimes, she hang up in a sudden. She always home late, past mid night, after off work at 5.Since we can't talk on phone, I just email her trying to fix things up. Unfortunately, she replied my email once only with 1 non sense sentence.I give up. I am thinking to call her to end it for her.Am I doing the right thing?Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): Thank you very much for the replies.
I don't think she will feel sad or call me. If she will, she could have done that months ago.
I guess there is someone living with her. One morning, I called her, she said she just woke up and still in the bedroom. In a sudden, I heard a guy's voice, "hello". She quickly hang up and sent me a text that her phone ran out of battery. Strange right :)
There is no reason for me to keep waiting for someone like that. Unfortunately, love just unexplainable. I hope when time passed, I will feel better.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (27 April 2009):
 yeah to be honest she's probably doing that because she wants to keep you there just incase whomever she has obviously got her eye on isn't interested in her so she knows that you're always there to be a back up.
she tells you that you are doubting her but obviously you can't help it she's only saying that to make you think there is a little bit of hope whereas maybe in her eyes it's already over until the new guy (which i am guessing is whats happening she likes someone closer to home)
decides whether or not he likes her if she does then that's it she cuts all contact with you
if things don't go too well she'll keep you close just until someone else like that comes along.
i know you're going to think why do i assume there is another guy?
because i've been there myself, i've had that done to me and it's not nice in the end i just gave up and cut all contact with him because i thought i don't deserve to be treated like that waiting until someone better comes along.
it's unfair on you it's stopping YOU living YOUR life an finding someone whose really great and deserves you.
hope this helps.
message me you need anymore help :)
best of luck.
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