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writes:Hey. Sorry this appears long if your reading this.I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and I couldn't ask for more.. I love him dearly. But, recentely 'I' had terrible mood swings because, I was on my period. I felt really horrible because, I hurt his feelings and I didn't mean too which really made myself mad for doing it.Afterwards, he said ''I think you are better off without me'' because ''I know I'm hurting you and makes me feel really bad to see you hurt'' which really hurt me the most because, it wasn't true. He thinks I deserve better with someone else and that he feels terrible for treating me bad. Honestly it's not what I believe because, he hasn't been treating me bad, his a good person in heart and we trust each other. I know he said this because, I know I hurt his feelings and told me I act differentely towards him.There's no words to describe how many ways I just break down because, it was painful because, of me. He just wants to be friends even he says it hurts him too and he'll never change his mind but, he said he still loves me. Which I respect and I do want to give him his space. My two best friends and mum know my relationship better than anyone and they believe we'll get back together because, we had something special but, only if I give him space, of course.I don't want to lose him despite me being such a fool I have learned my mistakes. I don't want him to think I'm like this around him because, I'm not. It's really hurtful for him to say I deserve better..Thank-you for your time for reading this. I apperciate your advices.! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank-you for all your wonderful responses and support. It has helped me alot from this situation.
Erm. He doesn't understand the women's body but, he knows the menstrual can lead to moodiness..but, mine got out o control... so it's not a excuse for me. :!
For now I haven't talked to him since, yesterday because, this all happened the day before. Which is fine even, though it's painful like Ginalolabridga responded.! But, I'm giving him space.
I don't know if he wants to get back together because, he said he'll never change his mind and just be friends - which is respectful but, 'never' is a harsh word. I don't know if he means it since, he's not that type even the ones I told says he's just saying that..
I just want him to know my actions weren't meantful if I had a chance to communicate with him but, I don't know what to do... I'll just have to move on and wait..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): There's some interesting information from this website which might help you, and there's a few links to follow:
http://www.womenshealthlondon.org.uk/leaflets/pms/pmsnutrition.html
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (27 April 2009):
 does he understand the womans body? i mean i get really snappy when you know ladies time comes.surely he understand you didn't mean it.but all you can really do is for now be his friend and let him know you're still there for him and you know you deserve him and give him his space.you guys will probably get back together i mean it was a silly mistake maybe he just needs to get his head around why you said it.but definately give him head space so he can think clearly.only time will tell :)best of luck hun.
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