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writes:Hey I really need some advice (I am 15 by the way), I am really upset cause I just found out that the guy I have been crushing on FOREVER has a girlfriend at another school, like a serious one and their MySpace’s are all devoted to each other and stuff. We have been on a break and I have been thinking about him so much, in like 3 days we go back to school and I've been thinking about him so much! Now I'm really sad, but I’m angry that it could have such a big effect on me. What do I do? I really like him and I can't just stop liking him or try to forget. It’s so hard. Please help!!! xoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): Hate to say it gf, there's only one thing you can do. He us unavailable so that's the end of the story.
Respect the relationship he has with this other girl and accept the way things are. This is a good time to start teaching yourself to back off of unavailable men. If more people did that at a younger age, we wouldnt' have so many issues with cheating and homewreckers.
Nobody expects you to forget him or stop liking him. Just to do the right thing.
Goodluck.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (27 April 2009):
 You've got to let him go.
Or take the other route and keep checking his myspace until they are broken up? I say this, because even if you are trying to get over him, sometimes it will be rough and you will be wondering if he is single, and you won't want to kick yourself if he goes single and someone else gets him, but yeah sounds like one of those couples that is going to be together for a while so, if it were me, I'd just try to move on.
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