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writes:We were hanging out the other day drinking and just talking and maybe sex. He said the reason why he's not married to that b* is because she's not fun anymore and he doesn't love her. Is this wrong? I want to provide a better life for him and I kinda hinted around that, but he never gave me a straight answer. She never does anything for him, the other night I cooked for him, and he said he wished that would happen more often. My birthday's coming up and he asked me what I wanted for my birthday besides him and I said a life. He said he wishes he could provide me with one but he doesn't know how that would work. He did tell me he doesn't want to screw up the relationship he has with his daughter. If your married to someone other than the babies mother will the kid understand later in life? I need some advice on this whole concept please. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): so that "b* is because she's not fun anymore"
what is going to happen when you are not fun anymore. please, please do not let this man sucker you in, and make you feel as though you mean anything to him. he is using you for sex and good times, yet he is still with her. her will not leave her. you need to understand this, because 1 yr from now, he will still be with her, 2 yrs, the same thing until your precious life is wasted away. is this what you want.
question him all the time, you will find inconsistencies with his stories, I can assure you. so he hates her, but is still with her because of his kid? does not hold any water. be very very wise. you are young and he is just using you and your efforts and resources.
good luck
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reader, sunny123  +, writes (27 April 2009):
I take it from your post that you are dating someone who is in a relationship with somebody else? Firstly, it is a well-known fact that men like this will play the sympathy card with the new g/f. For example "she doesn't cook for me blah blah" I wouldn't believe a word of it. If he is that unhappy why doesn't he do the decent thing and leave the relationship.Secondly, his child will be much better off with parents who are happy on their own, rather than miserable together!Don't get your hopes up that he will leave this woman for you. If a guy can have his cake and eat it he will...if you let him!
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