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I think we have hit the 7 year itch!

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Question - (15 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *johnson86 writes:

Ive been with my partner for 7 years, weve got 2 young kids together and everything was prefect until we hit the 7 year mark. We argue all the time sometimes about stupid things.

I dont want us to split up but im not sure i can carry on like this, he never wants to come near and always makes stupid comments that are not apporaite. I am at uni at the moment and all i want is to be comforted but when he does hug me, its like he doesnt want to. We try to talk it over but then we just argue again.

I kicked him out of bed last night and now he wont speak to me, i can tell the kids are getting aggravated by they way we are but i just dont know what to do.

it would probley be easier if we could have time without the kids but we have no family to look after them. Even if we did have time together im not sure i want to be.

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A female reader, ljohnson86 United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2009):

ljohnson86 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for your replys, i think we are going to try and spend the day together next week whilist the kids are at nursery and school. We talked last night and i asked him if we could try to stop arguing things seem to be ok but im worried it will go back to normal in a few days.

Thanks again

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