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writes:i fell in love with my f**k buddy. i never wanted it to be f**k buddies i was totally into him! he lied to me and made me believe he wanted me to be his girl. He is now seeing someone new. He treats her like a proper gf not like how he treated me. Even though time has passed, it hurts so much to see them together. I get a horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): same issue... but i don't know he got new friend or not... he ignores me completely... he doesn't even want to talk to me anymore... i don't know what's wrong... he just suddenly threw me away... like a trash...
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reader, OSCARS MUMMY  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 i dont think theres any such thing as a f/buddy... theres one person who is totally in love with the other and would do anything for them (ie put out) and the other person who is using them for sex, a cheap thrill. Hes a bit of a rat and i presume he will be back sniffing round you when it doesnt work with his girlfriend. Its then when you can gain your self respect back and tell him no your no interested. I'm sorry your hurting, easier said than done but it will eventually pass, seriously i would ignore this creep in future x
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reader, kaylagal +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Never give a man the FWB option. The only reason a man will have you as a FWB is when he's not into you and just wants sex. He will keep you there until he finds the right girl. He just wanted sex from you and he's moved on to a girl he really wants, that's why he treats her like a real gf coz she is his girlfriend. She most definitely didn't give him that FWB option.
How did he lie to you? I don't think he lied to you coz you called him your f**k buddy, so you knew your position.
I understand you are hurt and maybe even feel betrayed. But don't blame him or be upset at him coz he didn't play you, YOU PLAYED YOURSELF. Your body is a temple, you are a princess. A man is supposed to earn and fight for your cookie. Don't give it freely.
You have to get over it and take this as a lesson learned. You're young so don't beat yourself over it. What's done is done but learn from it.
Good luck.
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