My fiance likes to wear my daughter's underwear!

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I've been with my boyfriend/fiance for a year now and we live together along with my 15 yr old daughter and his 15 yr old son.. about 4 months into our relationship I did a load of laundry for him and found a pair of womens underware in his clothes.When I confronted him about them he said they belonged to his sister.(at that time he was living with her)so I just let it go.Everything was going great until one evening when I came home from work, that same pair of underware from months ago were now hanging in our bathroom. Confronted him once again and he said they belonged to him.He says he uses them while he masturbates because it feels good with silk..I then started to notice certain things around our place that just didnt seem right, like pictures of my daughter and other women in his drawer and x-rated magazines.He also had a lot of porn movies..I know that doesnt seem bad well heres the BIG problem..I found a bag of womens undergarmets in his closet.all different colors and sizes.My daughters items were in their as well..the were 3 digital camers in the bag so of course i looked and he had taken pictures of himself wearing my daughters thong and tank shirt playing with himself.There were nude pictures of himself along with pictures of women from the x-rate magazines.I was terrified and trembling thinking that he molested my daughter.He said he never did nor will he ever touch her and I believe him.I of course asked my daughter if he ever touched her in a wrong way and she said no way.ew thats gross..He is diffently obsessed with womens undergarments and enjoys masturbating while wearing them..I tell him that I dont feel as though I turn him on because everytime we try to make love he either cant get errect or goes limp right away but yet masturbates right next to me and has no problem performing on himself.He claims that since I am the first woman he has been with since his nasty divorse 14 years ago,he still has to get used to a womans touch again.The other day while performing oral sex on him he called me my daughters name and i freaked out.He claims he doesnt see her in that way but her underware keep dissapearing and after snooping I find them hidden in his drawers.Once again I know people will say I'm stupid for staying with him, but I honestly know he wont touch her.So I'm confused,Should I leave him for the wellfare of my daughter or should I stay with him and make sure he gets help for his fettish?

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