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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

After a male orgasms is it common for him to need to urinate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - After a male orgasm's is it common for him to need to urinate? And is it also common for it to feel different than when you normally urinate? Thanks for the help....

I think I might have an infection, please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity on new years....... ever since I have been itching a little bit and there has been like this muddy type substance and the color is like a brownish greyish.... I wash real good and it goes away... but the next morning when I wake ...

Does taking speed and drugs stop a guy from getting a hard on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Does taking speed and drugs stop a guy from getting a hard on?...

Unprotected sex for only 1 second

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - hi, im 14 and im terrified, i think my girlfriend might be pregnant. shes 2 days over due for her period supposobly.. we had sex, but used a condom, then once only for a second literally without one. please if anyone can give me relief about this i ...

Female curious about animal sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - my friend has a male dog he's about 3 yrs old. she's been curious about having sex with animals is it ever sinces she was 9. is it alright for her to do it with out getting Any Std's? ...

If you like girls but get aroused looking at guys photos, are you gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (?) - if you like and are strongly attracted to girls... and get arouse when you see nude guys..does dat mean your gay??? thanks...

Do I have to say in front of mom that I've had sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I'm going on bith control, my mother will be in the room with the doctor as well but do i have to tell him that i've already had sex as my mother does not know and i dont want her to. will it do any harm if i say no i've not and sex?? ...

Do girls have female sperm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (?) - im really curious.. you no how in the porn movies,, the guys starts having sex with the girl and all of a sudden a bucnh of watery fluids squirt out of the girls vagina.. what are those fluids?? why does that happen?? and do girls hav...

Can we still be friends now that we've had sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 319 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - is it possible to remain friends with a close friend i had sex with? we used to fancy each other but nothing happened. and we turned into close friends, but ive always liked him and he knew about it towards to the end because i told him but h...

Girlfriend can't orgasm and complains of having no labido. What to do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Girlfriend can't orgasm and complains of having no labido. What to do next? We've been dating for two years. We are very much in love and very close. To me she is the most beautiful and special person i've ever met. We are both attractive fit p...

How old does a 15 year old woman have to be to have sex with her 18 year old boyfriend without legal consiquences?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - How old does a 15 year old woman have to be to have sex with her 18 year old boyfriend without legal consiquences?...

I seem to have much more sex drive than my boyfriend and wanting sex more than he does.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and ever since we've been together, I seem to have much more sex drive than him and wanting sex more than he does. We have been together on and off and when I've told him how I feel he says the fact that ...

She always gets a nasty feeling after an orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend an I have been along the lines of 2nd base for a bit (touching below and above waist) I have made her orgasm by fingering several times, she has tried to jack me off but we're getting to that. That's not my question though, when I ...

What do women mean when the say "It's not the length, it's how you use it"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I'm not trying to offend any women,but when you say "It's not the size of his tool,it's how he uses it that matters" what do you mean? I also have heard that being able to perform oral well is also good,what's the best way or a good technique. ...

Had sex but with no condom.Then I had unusual bleeding. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Ok me and my bf had sex on december 24 and 26 {first time}. First we had a condom on and he said he didn't feel anything he said it was kind of tight the condom on both days so he took it off. I'm stupid for letting him still go in me with no ...

What can I do to feel something when he sucks on my nipples?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - the only time ican be alone with my bf is in the car...we are not public about our relationship because where ilive u r called names if uhave abf...so in order to be together we go to a different town, where i live weekdays because of uni. so my ...

Why do women laugh when they cause you to have blue balls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Why do women laugh at you when you've got blue balls? Do they like to see you in pain or something? I really don't like girls at the moment.....

How to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - i want some advice...my bf and i are moving on in our relationship...but there is no sex, until we are married he knows it very well and wants me to be a virgin on our wedding night, where i live its very important to be a virgin, so for sure we ...

I'm always the one to initiate sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and our sex life has always been just ok. My last relationship was fantastic in that department and I have a high sex drive (well, I don't think I do but my new boyfriend thinks I do bec...

Why do women sexually tease men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Why do women sexually tease men? They get you all riled up and expecting sex (intentionally) - but then deny any form of release - and provoke physical pain (referred to as blueballs). It hurts! So why do it?...

He ejaculated near vagina can I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Hi i am a mother of 2 and happly married (6yrs) We are planning on a 3ed child for next year. We currently use condoms for protection which has worked the past 6yrs...BUT THEN IT HAPPEND...the condom ripped...he wasent inside me when it happened...

Sex life not good and he said "you're gammy!"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - My husband and I have a shocking sex life. it consists of me trying to make him orgasm by giving him an hour or so of foreplay and him finishing off by having sex with me - I might get a 2 minute one handed fumble before we have sex. As a result we ...

Fetish for white socks

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I have a fetish for girls in socks, small white socks. Is there any possible reason for this? I'm quite perplexed myself because it just... happens, just getting turned on by girls in white socks....

Will sex ever happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I have been dating a man for 2 years. We recently moved in together. He treats me like a queen. He's been alone for many, many years and told me he needed his alone time. Which I do by going shopping or playing golf, The problem is we don't have ...

Tell him about my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I have a problem! I have just ended a relationship with an agressive boyfriend for another boy I like. My previous boyfriend sexually assaulted me and was rude, and physically abused me as well. The guy I am going out with now doesn't ...

Horny! Advertise for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Every month just before I get my period I fel really horny and desperate for sex. I'm single though I'd like to be in a relationship and I don't sleep around. I know that I could give myself pleasure, vibrators etc but what I really want is the real ...

Normal for different guys to ejaculate differently?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boy friend for about a year. We are both in college. About two months ago we broke up for about a month and then got back together. During the breakup time I went out with another guy for a while and sometimes I ...

How do I stop myself from 'freezing up'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Im 19 and been in an relationship with my boyfriend since my fresman yr in HS....and we havn t had sex yet. But recantly we ve been trying to and each time i do the same thing. IM still a virgin and i want to have sex with him i go over to his house ...

Should I have sex with this much older man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - ok i dont no if i should be with my man. he is older and say he loves me. he told me that he wouldnt change a thing about me, and latly he has changed. before it was all dirty, but he is now calling beautiful and other things that r really sweet. a...

How can I make my penis scars less noticeable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Hi im 19 years old male and still virgin. I have a great relationship with a great girl for 2 years atm. She asked me for sex 18-19 months ago, and never stop asking yet. She says she finds me attractive and wants to make our relationship "co...

Questions for women about virginity and sex...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Okay I don't want to seem rude or anger anyone when I ask this. I am simply curious to know more about women and their beliefs on virginity and sex. 1) Do many women lose their virginity after high school 2) Do a lot of women save themselves f...

How can I really turn my BF on when we're making out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - is there any ways to really turn my boyfriend on while we're making out? i dont want anything that might lead to sex but other things (fingering, handjob, etc.) are fine. im normally on top and generally that gets him going but is there anything ...

Are my fetishes normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I have a few fetishes and was wondering if any of them were not normal. 1)I am extremely attracted to redheaded females 2)I am turned on by pregnant women 3)I find older women more attractive than girls my own age. I'm also 18 and have tho...

Why do girls feel the need to lose their virginity at a young age?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Why do girls feel the need to lose their virginity at a young age? I know when I settle down,I want someone who hasn't slept around with many partners. All sleeping around seems to do at a young age is get girls popularity and a nasty reputatio...

If he didn't clean his hands properly, what are his chances of getting syphillis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I have a couple of questions. If sperm got onto a male's hand, and ate something without washing their hands (just cleaning it with tissues ), what are their chances of getting Syphillis? My friend did that and he is a bit worried....

I think my body is unattractive and it's holding me back from sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I find my body very un-attractive i am an english size 12-14 a 36C bust size. I have a boyfriend and am afraid to further the relationship into a sexual one because my body holds me back, please can someone help me?...

Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?...

Will he think I'm disgusting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Well, I always worry that when you shave your pubic hair and you go to a boyfriends or whatever and engage in sexual pleasure with him... Then the next after a few days you have it again but haven't brought a razor along to get rid during a shower. ...