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Archived questions from: 27 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I really don't want to get hurt...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a while and I really really like him, I've fallen too deep and that goes against everything I've ever wanted and stand for. When we started for the first 2, 3 months we seen each other all the time like 4 - 5 times...

What is the best way to have a good "clean out" before anal sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - My girlfreind and myself have got to a stage of looking for new things to try, we have amongst other things decided to try anal sex. We both know the basic rules about not transferring from anus to vagina using the condom that has been inserted in...

My boyfriend won't finger me or do anything sexual for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Okay, well my boyfriend and I have now been in a relationship for over 4 months now; I am 17 and he is 18, and we both love each other very much. Yet I'm worried something is wrong because he won't touch me in any way more than touch my breasts. I ...

Why do we like what we do on the opposite sex???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - The question to end all questions..... why do we like what we do on the opposite sex??? Why do you guys like boobs or asses legs anything else??? And girls why do you like what you do??? Please and thank you in advance...

Can you make love for 5 hours and NOT be in a loving relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Is it possible to make love constantly for 5 hours and not be in a relationship that is based on true love?? ...

Is it a bad thing if I can only cum once?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Is it bad if I can only cum once during any sexual activity? I hear most girls can cum a lot more than once during sex, is something wrong with me? After I cum that one time, it gets sensitive down there and doesn't really like to be touched at ...

Afraid of giving a blow job!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I have been sexualy active for about 9 years.... but have never been able to bring myself to give someone a blowjob. It has almost become a phobia.... the reason I can think of causing the fear are: 1. I have issues with texture and food, which ...

He knows how I feel so why is he still pushing for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for around 2 months now. When we where friends he didn't want to rush into any thing like sex, he just wanted to take things slow and at a time, he didn't seem like all the other boyfriends that I've been out with, ...

What are the pros and cons of giving a baby up for adoption, and the pros and cons of keeping it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Ok, I waited until I was 18 before I started having sex with my long term boyfriend of two years. I made that decision, because I did not want to leave any burden upon my parents if I was to become pregnant. My now fiance and I plan on marrying in ...

Has my husband been unfaithful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I am married and have not had sex with my husband or anyone else for months. Last Friday I had sex with my husband and 2 days later I had a white discharge, itchy and sore vagina. Did I get it off my husband? Has he been unfaithful?...

My fantasies...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - When I have sex with my husband, I tell him of my fantasy of watching him **** another women. I usually go into detail. I am so into it while we are having sex and if he brought someone into our room at that moment I would let it happen. I also tell ...

Would I hurt a girl with the size of my penis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Hi I am 16 years old and I am still a virgin and I want to know... I have a penis a little over 7 inches long and about 5.5 inches in circumference. Is that big and would I hurt a girl by having sex? Thanks...

Can you have a healthy relationship without sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - this is an awkward thing to be asking strangers, but i don't really know what to do. My Boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years, and man has it been a ride. But we don't have sex. We don't have sex because he doesn't like vagina's, but he ...

Why do guys expect but don't return the favor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - why do some guys expect blow jobs, but they won't ever go down on the girl? ...

What was it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 299 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My bf was fingering me. and while he was this white liquidy stuff came out. but it couldnt have been cum because ive read up about it and it says it should be clear. and it didnt feel 'all that' so what was it? ...

How can I hint at her to give me a blow job?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Hey, I recently started fingering my girlfriend and was just wondering what I could say to get her to start giving me bj's. Weve talked about it lightly and she said she would rather give bj's than handjobs. I kinda think it's fair that she sh...

Any romantic ideas for welcoming hubby into bedroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - im recently married to my wonderful man and im having a great relationship.im a very romantic person and sometimes i feel like im run out of ideas . my husband has a very exhausted job "a journalist and correspondant " and i would like to ...

I just gave my first BJ and I HATED it!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Ok, young agony aunts/question readers LOOK AWAY as this isn't really appropriate but I have no-one else to ask. Basically I went down on my boyfriend the other day for the first time. I'd never done it before and he knew I was really weird abo...

My girlfriend wants to be able to kiss other guys

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I am 19, and my GF is 18. Basically, my girlfriend loves me says I am perfect for her, says she wants to marry me and everything. Prior to this, I guess our lowest point is when she kissed a guy out clubbing drunk (i know no excus...

Ever since we got caught having sex we argue about stupid stuff

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I feel like i'm losing my boyfriend. We met on holiday and i just fell in love with him and ever since then we spend hours on the phone every night and meet up with each other when we can. The last time i saw him we got caught having sex by his...

I hate condoms, will mini pill protect me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (?) - ok so i have been with this amazing boy an we have started to have sex .. it has been both of our first time. i hate using condoms and we never use them and i think it feels way better wit out them. i am on the mini pill for period pains and spots ...

He wasn't able to perform, is that normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Hey Ive been seeing this guy for a few weekes now, last weekend he invited me over to his place to cook me dinner..and invited me to stay the night..which i happily accepted..lol Anyway so we hop into bed and talked for a while and then he told me ...

Am I the father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been seeing an ex and having sex on a pretty casual basis for the last year. She has always been on the pill. I last slept with her on the 1st January. A couple of weeks later she said she couldn't see me anymore as she had met someone ...

Emotionally isolated and sexually frustrated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I have an embarrassing problem, well maybe two. I'm a guy in my mid 20s and I can't seem to cum unless I am in love with the person I am sleeping with. This wouldn't be a problem but I have not been in love in almost 18 months and since my las...

Lovemaking is painful for my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been sexually active for 4 or 5 months now, we've probably had intercourse 15 - 20 times. She told me today that every time we've done it, she feels pain - she still wants to do it, because sometimes it feels good or she ...

Fantasizing about my girlfriend, me and her best friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Im in a awesome relationship. I love my girfriend but lately ive fantasize with having a threesome with her best friends. why? is this normal? finding your girlfriends friends atrActive?...

He just doesn't feel like a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - hi,hope someone out there can give me some advice. I am in a relationship with a man who has been in the British army for 9 years,he is a corporal and is currently training to become an officer at sandhurst. We have been together on and off for abou...

Can his problem be fixed or Is it his age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I am a 34 year old women and my boyfriend is 46.my boyfriend was real sexualy active and big.up til about 2yrs ago he has not been so active his penis has gotten small.when we do have sex his penis gets hard for a few minutes then goes limp.what can ...

After sex does he still want the same thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - so here's the thing... i've known this guy for about a year now, but we just started "talking" about 6 months ago. and ever since then we have only hungout about 5 times. it was nothing big, no intimate contact was involved just hanging out and ...

He can't seem to perform and only wants oral sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for little over two months now. We have a wonderful relationship overall, but have been facing some issues when it comes to sex. He seems to love (almost prefer) oral sex and we do that the majority of the time. ...

I wish my dream would come true

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 301 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Is wrong to wish I was going to target every day with friends that are girls and letting them dress me up to look like the best girl I could be? That the dream I have every night and I am a guy. I turly wish it was true is that wrong? ...

Why did my GF stop while tossing me off to reply to her text message?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I was gettin tossed off by my girlfriend other week and about 10 seconds during, she got a text and stopped... Why? We could have perfectly carried on and got down to more.... Maybe she wants to reply to texts more than you know Haha. Anyway... why ...