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*ahervoola
writes:I'm going on bith control, my mother will be in the room with the doctor as well but do i have to tell him that i've already had sex as my mother does not know and i dont want her to. will it do any harm if i say no i've not and sex?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): It's VERY important to tell your doctor the truth.
If you don't want to say it in front of your Mom, either find a way to go inside without her or try this:
When the doctor asks you about it, raise your eyebrows suggestively or look pointedly at your Mom. He'll probably take the hint and ask your Mother to leave you two alone or he will know you did have sex without you saying it.
Anyways... it's important to be examined by a Gynecologist after you've had sex. You could have infections and not know about it.
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (4 January 2009):
It is important to tell the doctor because if you have had sex then they will do a pregnancy test and STD test before they put you on the pill. They will also encourage u to get a papsmear to make sure everything is ok. Keep in mind that your mom doesn't have to be in the room with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): You'll have to ask the doctor that. I don't know.
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reader, cahervoola +, writes (4 January 2009):
cahervoola is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know I should tell her but I'm not going to, I only want to know will it do any harm???? thanks =D
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): You should arrange an appointment with your doctor without your mother knowing about it or being present. She isn't legally bound to accompany you on every visit. She'd probably be disappointed if you didn't confide in her, but that's your decision.
I'm guessing your mother already either knows or suspects you've had sex previously if she's taking you to see the doc to get you put on the pill. There's no need to hide things from your mother though - she'll have your best interests at heart now and for always. Remember - she was a teenager once and knows what you're thinking because she's already 'been there'!
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reader, Chippymunk  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 You probably shouldn't lie to your doctor as this is a health issue. I know you don't want your parents to know but I think your health is more important than keeping it a secret. Your mom will most likely get mad at first but if she loves you, she'll help you through it.
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