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30-35,
*ovely_babe
writes:i want some advice...my bf and i are moving on in our relationship...but there is no sex, until we are married he knows it very well and wants me to be a virgin on our wedding night, where i live its very important to be a virgin, so for sure we wont have sex.but we've moved on from kissing from first to second to third base, where he fingered me. im a bit shy about making a move, since im not experienced(he's my frst bf) while he's experienced, he knows he's my first bf...i was wondering how i make my move,do i wait for him to put my hand on his penis or do i make the fisrt move...i wan to pleasure him the same way he does for me...and idont know how to if u can give me some ideas... do i do a handjob or ablow job for the first time, and how do i do them? ur help really means a lot to me, thx in advance!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (4 January 2009):
 You could read "Tickle his Pickle" by Sadie Allison. There are good instructions for hand/BJ, though I don't suggest you go straight for that. Why not tell him that you want to do something nice for him? Ask him what and how.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (4 January 2009):
wait a mo. if you want to keep the sex at bay i suggest you dont do too much foreplay and def not oral. because like you said one thing always leads to the next.
but if you want to pleasure him, when you are both getting close and kissing just place your hand on his groin. if he does not move it you know he is happy for you to go there. then slowly move into his boxers if he has any on. then you just rub away. he will probably remove any clothes if he wants a good seeing to. lol. just take it slow and only do things that you want to.
just grip his penis in your hand and move you hand up and down at different speeds, maybe now and then circle the top of his penis with your thumb. give his balls some attention too. it's pretty simple.
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