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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

What makes a guy go from wow to I want her badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I'm curious.. I'm dating this guy and our kisses are very passionate. I am not ready for sex, but he's up and willing. So, as far as KISSING..what makes a guy go from WOW that's hot to I want her badly?!? ...

I want to try things but I'm scared to talk to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - so this is a basic sex Q so iv been seeing this guy for a while . . . . call em jo an we were gud enuf mates bfore we got together great thing abou us is we both dont want to get to serious so were just kinda like together ??? but bk in august an ...

Circumcision problem???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - So I am going out with this girl and I am looking for an advice here. I know she wants to go down on me sometimes but I don't know what to do... I am uncircumcised and I have a frenulum... should I let her do it? It hurts when I pull the foreskin ...

I'm frigid! Will a dildo ease the pain of my first time???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I'm a bit frigid, but know I'm ready to have sex soonish if that makes sense. I'm scared of the blood coz it'll be embarrassing and I'm scared of the pain. Will a dildo help? Like if I gradually use it more and more will it make sex less painful...

He prefers Asian porn better than having actual sex and I'm sooooo frustrated!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - My bf likes Asian girls and he lusts for then on the internet(porn) and it makes me uncomfortable when we have sex. He only likes me cuz, I look asian (mexican) my eyes do.. And I just don't know.. What should I do.. I'm not comfortable with this at ...

Do most men lose interest in sex over 40... or just with their wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - Do most men lose interest in sex over 40... or just with their wife? I didn't feel like having sex for a long time. I haven't tried looking at other woman but sure I never think of having sex with my wife, or nobody.. What happens to man? Do they ...

I'am very submissive when it comes to sex, and love someone to take charge but hubby isn't comfortable with it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for several years and other than our sex life, everything is pretty good. The problem is, when it comes to sex he is kind of old fashioned. I like to experiment with new things. Toys, bondage, ect. I'am very ...

How can I encourage her to take sex at face value and enjoy it for the moment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - I have a good relationship with a female friend. I want our relationship to become closer and I want sex. She seems hesitant. How can I encourage her to take sex at face value and enjoy it for the moment? What are some benefits she could receive by ...

Is it safe to orgasm during pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Is it safe to orgasm during pregnancy? I was advised not to have sex for the first trimester (by my doctor) due to a previous miscarriage. I'm now in my 12th week of pregnancy, does no sex mean no fun on my own? Is masturbating still ok? Ple...

When's the best time to begin buying baby items.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm just going into my second trimester of pregnancy and I was wondering when the best time to begin buying baby items. I've bought most of the smaller things, but I don't know if starting to create the nursery now is a good idea or not. I'm ...

I really want to orgasm while having actual intercourse.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Basically I really want to orgasm while having sex and as funny as it seems I'm finding it hard, I need some tips on how to, because when my boyfriend goes down on me or uses his fingers I do within minutes but never through sex???...

How do I stop the funny noise after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - when i have sex with my boyfriend when hes finished and he pulls out i make a funny noise out my vagina which sounds like ive passed wind how do i stop this happening?...

7 year old daughter touched by 9 year old..what to do next?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - My 7 year old daughter has recently informed me of a 9 year old boy that has touched her privates on different occasions. She stated to me she thought it tickled and even liked it. Now she does it to herself. I thanked her for telling me and t...

Stressful experience, now sexually vacant. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years. 4 of those years were sexually spectacular. Last December she became pregnant. It turned into an ectopic pregnancy and she had to have surgery. She was in the hospital for a night, and in be...

How do I pace myself during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm 16 years old and I have had sex only 3 times before, all with different girls. Recently I met a girl that I really like and after 2-3 weeks of seeing her we had sex for the first time. When it happened I ended up coming too fast and I kn...

Sex drive worries!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I have been in an relationship for 2 years but we spilt up for 6 months and now are back together and everything is happy. One thing - I don't think I have a high sex drive like him and we spilt up because it. Advice please....

Pain when I go to toilet & "sticky stuff"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - Hi there i am realy stressed, and not getting what to do, as i had a sex with many ....and now my pennis is giving out some sticky thing out when it is normal also, and it is giving the tread like structure out which is sticky, and it gets pain ...

How can I tell him NO without hurting him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and know I'm not ready for sex just yet but my boyfriend and I are hanging out ALONE with my best friend and her boyfriend next weekend.... he is very very experenced.... but I'm not as much.... I was raped when I was younger but thankfuly ...

Sex with the ex while I was away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - My partner of 8 months had sex with his ex girlfriend of 2 years behind my back. He'd always made her out to be a bit of a monster, and said she always tret him like shit and he hated her. Apparently she is a real bitch. Once in a hotel when we'...

Why do middle aged men lose their sex drives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Why some middle aged husbands losing their sex drive? Are most marriage lose sex at the middle? What turns man off, and why?...

Is it just about the sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 309 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Ok so there is this guy that i used to work with the day before he left he invited to his to watch a film we ended up getting on eachother the whole night and i stayed over. He invited me over on friday and i ended up staying, were we meant to be go...