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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I don't want her to think I'm a lousy lover...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (?) - I need help.. I'm feeling kind of worried. I'm about to have sex with a girl I've been going out with for over three months... she's cute, sweet ect. and I'm a pretty nice guy, but I'm afraid what she'll think when we have sex, I'm afraid making t...

How do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - So yes I have asked this question but I want to know how do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you??? It's gotten to the point where it's like hmmm shouldn't we have already done it like a dozen times???????...

First time sex for girls hurts, but how does it effect the guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - This may sound a little silly, but it is something that just makes me wonder. Basically we all know that first time sex hurts for us girls and can make us feel alittle un well after. but how does first time sex effect guys? do they have any wier...

What's with the eye contact when I'm masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - When I masturbate in front of my man he just looks me straight in the eyes and he won't even blink. Why does he look into my eyes and not pay attention on how I masturbate?...

I hate the idea of sex, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I hate the idea of sex. I haven't had any bad experiences with it or whatever (I've never even been kissed) but I just hate the idea of sex. Is this normal?...

Will it affect my health if I stop masturbating for a long period of time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Lets say I stopped masturbating for a year, would it affect my health in anyway?? I want to stop not just because I feel guilty after I do it, but I feel weak just giving in just because my body wants. The longest I've ever stopped was about three ...

I'm married, but still feel like I'm not ready to have sex with my husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hi, am 24 years old and I just got married 4 months ago. I married my husband after 3 years of a love story and finally now am with him but am having a problem that is affecting my marriage as I think! I always liked to be a virgin until I...

Would a man get offended if a woman told him his penis was beautiful?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Lol just wondering, would a man be offended if a woman told him that his penis was beautiful? Or would he be flattered??...

He just likes to look at porn ALL NIGHT, and jerk off..

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - OKay so, I talked to him last night about the asian porn and everything he lusts after.. I told him. When I stress it's not good for the baby.. And he told me porn is fine.. And I said "every day" He was just well, there's the door if you don't like ...

It seems impossible. How can I get him to cum???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for three weeks, we have a good sex life, but he hasn't came yet. I've asked if he's nervous, but he says he doesn't know what's wrong. He's never been like it before. He did say he hasn't always used condoms with his exes, they ...

What can I do? We both want to have sex but I can't ejaculate yet.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I have got a girlfriend that I have known for 3 months now. We both want to have sex but I can't ejaculate yet. Is there anything I can do to change this? I have heard about eating different foods but I don't think that would help. Help Please?...

The walls of my vagina have collapsed, (what do I do? )

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now, I'm 15, but 16 on Monday, I have become sexually active for 1 year, my periods have always been regular, not much menstrual pain and recently the walls of my vagina have not collapsed but ...

High sex drive !!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hi, Well I am 14 and let's just say my sex drive is very high but is that wrong because I'm a girl? When a boy has a high sex drive it doesn't matter but when a girl does it's vile and disgusting, am I the only girl who has a high sex drive? Is ...

I can not reach an orgasm while having sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - My big problem is that I can not reach an orgasm while having sex. When I am masturbating, I reach my peak in not so much time, but having sex is completely different. I haven't had much experience; had sex four times without any orgasm. We do ...

French kissing & oral sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Would you french kiss a girl who engage in oral sex with her ex boyriend 3 years ago? Next question is it true that if you kiss a girl that engage in those things it will come in like you kissing the guy private part?...

Will I hurt her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - This is yet another penis size question folks! Well, I have been dating a girl of over a year now and we have not had sex yet because she isn't ready, but, I am scared I may hurt her since she is a virgin and I am also. My erect penis length is 6 ...

Unhealthy to immediately kiss after oral sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I've heard that it can be really 'unhygenic' if you have oral sex and kiss immediately afterwards. Obviously I don't need an explanation as to why lol, but was wondering if there's any risk of catching something (not neccessarily STDs) and if there ...

To have sex? or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - im 16 and my boydrien is 20, we have been 2gtr for 7months should i have sex with him or wait longer?(im still a little scarde) In if so how much longer?...

B/f upset--pastor says no fornication!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - my pastor says i should not commit sin of fornication(sex between young ones) and my boyfriend is really pissed off cos wev neva sexed since we started dating for 10months now. am 20yrs and he is 26yrs working in a company.... wat do i do i really ...

If I was to go get the morning after pill would Social Services be able to find out I'd taken it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend last night and the condom split. I'm on no other form of contraceptive like the pill or anything, so I need to go and get the morning after pill. Thing is I'm having some problems and home at the moment and social ...

We always fight and I feel like he doesn't want me sexually anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - ok so me and my bf have been together over 2 yrs and we are always together we live together and everything we always fight over the stupidest things i hate fighting with him and he says it's cuz i whine all the time and cuz im to clingy what ...

How can I regain my libido?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I had sex for the first time quite recently. It hurt a lot the first time, but I feel it's getting better. Before having sex I though once I start, I will want to have sex all the time. But I have found out it's not the case. I have a feeling maybe ...

I've lost my sex drive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - I am a 46 year old male. Happily married for 25 years. I love my wife and she loves me. Sex was great until 3 years ago, when I first started to experience erectile difficulties, then loss of sex drive, and now I have no desire for sex, not even mas...

How long will a guy wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I was wndrn how long can you make a guy wait b4 he gives up and looks for someone that will give him what he wants?...

If I lose my virginity to a guy I don't love, won't it be easier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Im listening to the advice ppl give me bout waiting for sex, but i have another theory. i know a girls first time is special and something she will remember BUT, i dont know if i can lose it to someone i absolutely love, and then lose HIM. I have f...

16 and scared to have sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Im 16(virgen) my boyfriend his 20(not a virgin), we have dun about evrything,but im to scared to have sex with him. His also scared he dosent wanna get into trouble, and his scared to get me pregnat. I dont know what to do, what should i do? ...

Can you control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Is there any way to somehow control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies? i feel like it would heko scratch the itch if you know what i mean... help me get over him. i've tried picturing senarios in bed while i'm trying to fall asleep ...

Is it ok to have sex & orgasm when pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

21 January 2009 (?) - Well you see i am 20 and i just got marries and i am having my first baby i am 13 weeks pregnant and i am as horny as hell. I want to have sex more than ever but my partner says he doesnt want to hurt the baby. is it safe to have sex and an orgasm ...