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My wife and me have been married for 3 weeks now. But a little problem I never saw her breasts.

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18 January 2009 (? - My wife and me have been married for 3 weeks now. But a little problem I never saw her breasts. Even when we were dating she wouldn't let let me see them. She said they'll gross me out (she has a long scar one of them) and also she thinks she ...

I'm very unconfident about my genitals

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18 January 2009 (M - I'm so unconfident about my body especially my genitals. I can't bring myself to get undressed in front of my new girlfriend as i have never properly been intimate with someone and i can't stand the way i look. Without trying to be too crude- my ...

We broke up because of sex and I want her back

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18 January 2009 (M - Me and my gf had been going out foe 5 months ok? We were each other's first make out partner all the way to oral sex in this time. All of the people in school said we were a beautiful couple and we were perfect for each other. Even some teachers ...

Fiance doesn't want sex-treats me like a room mate

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18 January 2009 (F - I am 21 years old, have been dating the same guy for 3 years and engaged for 2. We have a 1 year old little girl together. He is a great father, but lately he is not such a great partner. He is not interested in having sex with me at all. I asked ...

Circumcized vs not circumcized

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18 January 2009 (? - hi im curious..im 14 and uncercumsized i juss wanted to no from all you girls out there??? does it feel better circumsized to you?? do you like iot better that way and to all my fellas that are uncercumsized, have you ever had a problem wi...

Possible to catch chamydia without sex?

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18 January 2009 (M - I had i previous question if you look me up but i have another question regarding the last one....Is it possible to catch chlamydia without having sex?..My partner caught chlamydia from an ex but that has been over a year now..she got treated ..but ...

I've been wearing my g/f's knickers and fantasizing about being a woman

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18 January 2009 (M - I'm a pretty down to Earth lad. Sporty and popular without ever standing out from the crowd. However lately i have been wearing my girlfriends nickers and have fantisied about being her and being a women. Am i a "freak" for this?...

Left side hurts during sex

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18 January 2009 (F - When I have sex with my boyfriend, my left side hurts. What could it be, besides a cyst?...

I'm having memories of sex with my sisters

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18 January 2009 (M - A long time ago when i was about 10-12 and lived at home with my 2 sisters and 1 brother i think i may have done something but cannot be sure if i had dreamed it or not. Basically i have at least 2 very strong memories of either things that happ...

When we have sex he wants me to talk about him with another man! What is THAT all about?

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18 January 2009 (F - Hi there! I have a Q. When me and my bf are horny/playing/having sex he loves me talking dirty which is fair enough but he always wants me to talk about him with another man every time we do have sex. Whenever i talk about him with another man he ...

How to get pregnant

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18 January 2009 (F - have a friend who had to do abortion and she want to get pregnant now it has been 2yrs she went to the doctor and every ting wz ok what else can she do...

Confused about me sexuality and looking at porn.

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18 January 2009 (F - My question, i guess, is sort of about porn. Okay, so i'm seventeen, and i a little sexually confused. i thought theat by looking at porn i'd get a better answer about whether i was straight, or a lesbian, or bi, or pan, or WHAT! in fact, i enjoy ...

Can dating get us into trouble since we're minors?

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18 January 2009 (F - my b/f, 18, and me, 15 r going out in secret, and when were talking to a teacher, while i said things that made it obvious that im in his life alot, like a g/f, so the teacher asked if him if we were going out, and he said to ask me, and by then ...

Was I just a good time to him?

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18 January 2009 (F - I just recently had sex with this guy that i really liked and i thought he liked me but one night i came over his house and we had sex and now we barely talk at all. Did he use me or what? I need help!!!!!!!!!!...

If I don't give him what he wants, will he drop me for someone older?

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18 January 2009 (F - Hey people I'm 13 years old + I'm going out with a 16 year old guy. I know technically it doesn't matter but I've been told by almost everyone I know that it is "immoral", he is "too old", and I should "stick to people my own age". Please don't gi...

How worried should I be about being pregnant

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18 January 2009 (F - okay well me and ma boyfriend had sex friday night and i'm worried i might become pregnant because i ovulated the other day. How worried should I be about getting pregnant?...

I can't control my dick

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18 January 2009 (? - hi everyone.. i need a little advice so im 14 years old and im in the 8th grade and lately ive been having a really- really strong erge to have sex... and its like i cant control my dick.. i get hard so easily and it happens when it wants to...

Can I become ill from no masturbation?

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18 January 2009 (F - Is it atall possible for a man to get ill from no masturbation or sex for 40 days?...

How do I find a virgin?

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18 January 2009 (M - I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was ...

Period started but could I be preggers?

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18 January 2009 (F - I've practicually worried myself to death, I had sex on the 11th of this month, it was unprotected. I started my period today. It's only been 6 days, I read up on some forums that girls can still be pregnant, and get their period. How likey is t...

Why do I feel so sad and empty after I masturbate?

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18 January 2009 (F - Alright well sometimes I masturbate. I'll just want to really want to, so I do. But then right after I'll fee l really sad and empty for some reason. Any idea why?...

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