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Archived questions from: 29 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I think my mum is just trying to scare me to put me off having sex too soon.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - hey, I'm 16 and thinking about having sex with my boyfriend. I'm on the pill and we're going to use a condom. The thing is my mum has made me really paranoid about having sex. We had a talk the other day about Sex and she said knowing my family's ...

I'm not going to let him have his way, I want him to take me serious.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - What the heck?!? My boyfriend of a few days kept joking around and making comments about having sex. So, I figured that I should mention 'no sex' yet. I want to get to know him better and not rush into it! Basically, I'm not ready yet. His respo...

How do you know if your cherry has popped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I am a virgin and I had to wear tampons for swimming. I also have been fingered a couple of times. I don't know if my cherry popped or not. How do I know?...

I don't want to give blowjobs but it seems like a problem.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Every time I make out with a guy they always go down on me or should I say oral sex but I feel bad because they lay back expecting me to do the same thing to them which I can never do because it seems disgusting!!! I know it's unfair for them but I ...

I never think about having sex with my boyfriend, or I am NEVER in the mood.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I have a HUGE problem! I'm a 22 year old Nursing student... I'll be 23 Feb 28th and I never care to have sex. I am healty, 5'1'' 140lbs, work out regularly and I am usually a very sexual person, and always think about looking sexy or feeling sexy. ...

Does Pineapple Juice Make it Taste Better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Ladies, does drinking pineapple juice and eating fruits really make a man's semen taste better?...

Do guys really like when a girl sticks fingers or toys up the males bum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Do guys really like when a girl sticks fingers or toys up the males bum? I have a few guy friends that say they like it around but not in. I have another male friend that says to help my boyfriend out with the whole anal thing but I feel ...

Why don't I want to have sex any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over a year. At first I wanted to have sex all the time and loved it. Now I don't feel like doing it that much and she thinks that I don't lover her. I do. What's with my decreased sex drive. ...

I was wondering is there a chance there could have been sperm on his penis from the first round?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were having sex today, we used contraception and I'm going on the pill when my next period is due but anyway we were having sex and he came and everything that was round one. Round two we were having sex and the condom ripped ...

My molers get in the way when I give him oral sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Okay so I have a problem! My boyfriend loves oral sex but that is a big problem. You see my boyfriend has a very large penis. Not only is it long but it is fat but you see my teeth get in the way because he is so big. Not my front teeth my my back ...

How can I be sure he's not in it just for the sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I just started a new relationship with this guy a few days ago. We are soooo into each other. The kisses are more than passionate. So, far it's gone as far as a touch here and there. No sex. He wants it bad! And I'd like to get to know him bett...

Is cyber sex just as bad as physical cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a problem i am in a happy relationship i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he works away in the week i only see him at weekends. I have been chatting to this guy online but i also now him, everytime we talk after a while it ...

Do you guys think, he still loves me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My husband and I like to do 3somes sometimes. It's his fantasy.. to have a 3some. I am not a lesbian but I like to try have 3some and want to know what it's like. I just want to make my husband happy cuz he tells me he never had any chance to do ...

Sex games?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - First I'm gay and I don't want any annoying advice on it, I get enough of it already. I'm meeting and going camping with him soon and he wants to play some sex games and I want to look like I know what I'm doing (even though I don't 0_0) any advice ...

A lesson to be learned here...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Met this guy on internet dating site. Texted, only, for 5 weeks, and then we arranged to meet. Because he works till late.... he came to my house.... I was sure he was someone I could trust. Of course, our texting was mostly of a sexual nature... ...

3 questions about sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Hey, My boyfriend and I lost our virginity about 3 months ago and have sex every day. Before I lost my virginity my boyfriend would finger me. Since I've been having sex my vagina has become somewhat looser (to the point where my bf can fit 4 fin...

Sleepy fun?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Does anyone else have the sexual fantasy of having sex with a girl in her sleep, then her waking up and being totally into it?...

Sex for the first time.... but I've taken my period!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have never had sex before, and this Saturday was going to be our first time. The only problem is today I have started my period (this morning) and we were planning to have sex either late saturday night or the early hours of...

Should I keep talking to him? Or distance myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy at the mall and we started talking. He asked me out on a date, now he doesnt have a car so ive had to go pick him up the times we've gone out. He is about to turn 22 and he is still in his party/club/drinking stage. I know he ...

Tips on dirty sex games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I will be going to be meeting my online girlfriend, that i have been talking to online and on the phone, for the first this summer. We were going to camp in a cave by a creek of mine.She says that we will have lez sex for the whole week we will be ...

Suddenly no more sex?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 298 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - ive been with my gf for 2 years, we used to have sex every single day without fail. then like the flick of a switch we only have sex maybe twice a week. what the hells going on...

Is the new sensitivity in my penis going to be a problem for our future sex life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Well, this is kinda embarrassing but what the heck! im 20 and am very sexually active when in a relationship, but i have noticed within the past year i am starting to come alot faster than i used to!! with one of my ex's "C", i used to be abl...

Am I still a virgin and will I bleed if I have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - i have fingered my self before. i once by mistake inserted something thing down there it hurt but i had no blood. i've never had real sexual intercourse with the exception of dry sex with my boyfriend. and my boyfriend might have inserted his penis ...

Help me to not have sex with this guy who just wants to get in my pants!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - So i really need advice because i dont kno if i should lose my virginity right now to this guy..he gets his license in 4 days. only 4 DAYS! and thats how much time i have left to decide because that is when he gets his license. and when he does, he ...

Guy wants a booty call but I don't want to be one, how do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - This guy Im friends with and am attracted to has been hot and cold with me, calling me recently only when he wants a booty call. We used to talk about everything from school to friends to family but now, he only talks when he wants 'some'. I do...

Daughter's friend raped by her grandfather

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - My daughter aged 17 has just told me how her close friendship with another girl gradually ended. The two former friends are in separate 6th forms, my daughter in a college, her former friend in the local sixth form attached to the local high school, ...

Is my boyfriend bisexual?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Ok, so last night by boyfriend was not sober and I went to his house this morning. I went into his bathroom and I saw a dildo on his shower, I didn't want to say anything about it cause I didn't want to embarrass him. I walked out of the bathroom ...