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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

During intercourse she doesn't seem to be able to last very long.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - Hello there I'm 22 year old male, I'm engaged to my partner of five years. My problem is that during intercourse she doesn't seem to be able to last very long, by this I mean she ejaculates long before I'm ready to and there is a lot of fluid. ...

My wife wants a sex change

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - Yesterday my wife told me she wants a sex change. I was completely shocked by the revelation. I asked her to repeat what she had just said, and she said that she'd suppressed it ever since she was a girl. She said she'd known she wanted to be a b...

How to give my man a mind blowing experience with me on top, all answers will be appreciated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Hey im a 17 and ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just over a year. We both lost our virginty to each other and i was the first person he had ever done anything sexually with. Heres the part that will most probally shock alot of ...

He won't initiate, and it's making me insecure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - my BF doesnt intiate lovemaking, i have to always do so..... its making me feel insecure about my self....what so i do?...

Everything is great except for this one little detail....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Hi! I need some help with my situation. I was sexually abused by a family member growing up and now am very distrustful of men in general and sensitive to their motives. This has caused me to wreck just about every relationship I've ever been in. I ...

I think he wants me just for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Well im not sure if he wants to move on i mean i am. 20 i been with this guy like 3 years and i want gto make te next like to marry but im not sure if he wants to how can i get him to know that i want to move onto the next step without pushing him ...

My husband was raped by his boss!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I'm 31, my husband is 33 and we've been married for 4 years now. My husband works in management for a local distribution company. On Tuesday he came home from work, early in the morning after doing 3 day negotiations with a client, and said...

Can I get my penis straightened?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - Dear All, I am 27 Yrs Male Unmarried.I have a Bent Penis ( Penis facing towards ground ) . Till now i have been wit my GF but havent had real intercourse ...we were happy with foreplay and toung tricks. But now we are planing for a real sex .... ...

Will it ruin the relationship if we pleasure ourselves too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - well me n my boyfriend are still virgins but we pleasure ourself which i dink is best instead of having sex an well since he started fingering me now it has become an addiction. Is that normal that we want to mostly do that everyday an is kinda ...

My ex is a beautiful godess and I can't find sexual pleasure in other women since I met her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - I have a problem that doesn't seem to be going away. I broke up with my girlfriend of 3.5 years about 14 months ago (long story short: we were fighting a lot, neither of us were happy, I suggested taking a "break", and we never got back together- ...

If he wants to be with me, why is he seeing another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - i have been friends with benefits with a guy for sometime now. the thing is, he doesnt like it when i see other guys and because we've been close friends for a long time i respect that and i have chosen not to see anyone else. but recently, hes been ...

Are there any theories about why a hangover would make a guy horny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Whenever he's hungover, my boyfriend of 3 years gets incredibly horny. I'm not complaining about this - he's very sensitive about me saying no if I'm hungover myself and if I'm in the mood and we're not busy I get 3 or 4 rounds of great sex out of ...

She keeps pausing to catch her breath during oral sex, which is ruining it for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - Hi i ve got a simple question.. My gf is not able to give me a blow job. Whenever we try for it she gets prob wit her breathin. My cock is just 5 inches.. Not tat big to choke her.. Its like she sucks my cock for 30 sec then pauses to catch her ...

We messed around and did everything but. Now I'm scared!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - hi! im 17 and still a virgin but new years morning i was at my boyfriends house and we started messing around we did everything but _____ . after taking both our clothes off i asked him to put a _____ on and he did then began rubbing ...

Does he want me for something more than a hook up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I have this friend and we used to be really close last year, we would hang out every day for a couple of months. Then, one night we started kissing and he wanted to have sex with me. I told him no because I want to get to know him more and asked if ...

The first few times of sex, I don't understand why it's still uncomfortable.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - About a month ago, I told my boyfriend that I was ready to have sex. He told me that if I really thought that I was ready, then we could do it. I said that I was. (We were both virgins.) We had sex for the first time three nights ago. I knew that...

When a guy invites you to his house is it for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - When a guy invites a girl to his house, does that basically mean he just wants sex even though we're close friends? He's an older man (probably close to 50) if that means anything; he's not some young horny teen. I just want to know what his ...

Tongue piercing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I just wanted to know if getting your tongue pierced makes going down on a guy feel alot better or does it not really make a difference? I'm considering getting mine done not for that reason but i was just wondering......

Warts on his penis and now I have them too. What is it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Im an 18 year old girl and ive been with my boyfriend for a good few years now. I noticed a few months back that he had developed some califlower looking lumps, like warts, on his penis. I know he hasn't or would.t cheat but i just dont want to ...

What does foreplay really mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - I have read that size doesn't matter and stuff and that foreplay is very important. What actually does foreplay mean? And why doesn't penis size matter? I have a 5.5 inch penis when erected and 5 girth.... Is that good to satisfy a women? I'm also a ...