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writes:I'm not trying to offend any women,but when you say "It's not the size of his tool,it's how he uses it that matters" what do you mean?I also have heard that being able to perform oral well is also good,what's the best way or a good technique.I'm just a male teen who is curious.If I offended anyone I didn't mean to. Reply to this Question |
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reader, ams +, writes (4 January 2009):
 When women say its about how you use it they mean - how you work it during sex. If you: move well, use different angles, how fast or slow you move, etc Dont worry it comes with practice. =)
To give good oral I think you need to use both your hand and mouth. You can finger her while licking the clitoris or Lightly sucking on it. You could even mix it up more and while sucking on the clit, swirl your tounge around it. Just play. But listen to her reactions (unless she is shy and doesnt make any noise, if so tell her its hott and encouraging so dont be shy). If she makes noise, or breathes heavily while youre doing one thing, hesitate for a little see if she keeps doing it. If so you might have a good idea/spot.
Hope this helps!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): As harsh as it sounds, it is not simply "it's not what you've got it's what you do with it that counts", it's "it's not what you've got it's what you do with it that counts, but an extra bit would be much appreciated". It sounds mean, but obviously the 'more' you have the more a women is going to feel it. obviously, it's a matter of personal preference but you have to bear in mind that a woman's vagina does not contain many nerve endings (the bits which send the 'pleasure' signal to your brain telling you that there is contact)so therefore with a smaller penis you won't be hitting those all important endings and 'spots'. Like the other post said, with oral sex slower to start with is better. Don't go straight for the clitoris! too many nerve endings= too sensitive! Imagine when a women strokes your penis end when your foreskin is back= too sensitive!! (well, I've been told it is? lol). Aim for goosepimples on her stomach and work your way down. tease her, tease her lots! Make her REALLY want you to kiss her (down there), then when she finally gets contact she'll melt! tease her labia (the flaps of skin covering her clitoris) and don't be shy to use your fingers to tease at the same time! When you do (finally!) get to the clitoris, start slowly and gradually build up, using both the flat and tip of your tongue. Use her body language to tell what she likes, and even ask her! Might be embarrassing, but she might be squirming with pleasure or squirming because she doesn't like!! Again, just a matter of personal preference though, i suppose.Hope this helps x
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reader, michele21 +, writes (4 January 2009):
 well that means if you have a under the average size penis its all about the motions the positions that you do it in its kinda like practice makes perfect nothing you can really teach you just gotta do trial and error babe.....oral sex well im a female and im with a female its all about the softness don't be ruff like right on the clitorous if you don't know where thats at look it up online not hard to find stuff these days about that kinda stuff.....take your time and love it its not going to go anywhere a lot of guys are ruff some girls also like it different ways just ask her she will tell you what feels good and what doesn't to her and you can always tell by her actions and movements....good luck sweety don't know if i helped but all i can do is try
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