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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Please help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Me and my BF got into an argument.. he got really angry and started saying horrible things to me.. he said I am always whining and..(f*king about with other guys).. he said I am not having sex with him so someone else must be getting since he ain't ...

I have to ask to have sex and when I do he goes off saying he doesn't need me pressuring him or wanting sex on demand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 313 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I love sex a lot, everyday if possible! but I wonder what I've done so wrong to get none at all. My husband and I used to have sex daily and for months, now it's like he's lost intrest in me. He doesn't tell me I'm beautiful any more, he doesn't ...

I feel like I deserve being treated like this "no love just sex" coz I have no good qualities.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I was abused as a child and every relationship I had after that was purely the men wanting to have sex and once they did they dumped me in the worst possible way. Now I'm dating someone who has never satisfied me during sex and he only wants to see ...

Her period isn't due for another 5 days, can she be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Hi, Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time on Saturday. We used a condom and were really safe. I did'nt even cum. Now my girlfriend has cramps and her period is'nt due for another 5 days. Can she be pregnant?...

Why are guys so quick to start talking about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hello Dear Cupiters! I'm wondering why this is happening.. I talk to guys just fine. But when they start to mention sex a lot in the conversation, I make it clear that I'm not an easy gal! And this happens when we're just getting to know each ...

He's sweet but sucks in bed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for the last few months and we started having a sex just before Christmas. He is a really sweet guy and I get on with him so well. But there's a but. He's crap in bed, and I mean that in the nicest possible way, but its ...

If you stop masturbating for too long can it hurt you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Well Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and I am sick of always having sex with him, sometimes if were just laying there watching a movie its all he can think about and I don't wanna be mean and then I feel bad when I say no so ...

Need help for a virgin relationship with no sex, and very little foreplay.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 313 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Okay, story time. My girlfriend on I have been dating since high school for 4 years now. We were both raised highly on morals and have remained virgins throughout these 4 years. BUT, we do manage to play around and have fun, but it's gotten real...

Eternal love & peace

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - My brothers in humanity , My love for you all , I do not know why many men and women talk about fucking the ass or the pussy , this is actually personal and it is now becoming public and natural . Can we call it shame or immoral .Actually everyb...

Does anyone understand this dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I HAD A DREAM THAT MY HUSBAND AND I WERE AT A STORE AND THIS GIRL AND HIS PARTNER PASSED BY AND AS HER PARTNER WONDER AROUND, MY HUSBAND AND HER WERE FLIRTING AND THE HE ASKED ME IF HE COULD HAVE SEX WITH HER AS THEY WERE GETTING NUDE AND HE WAS ...

Anyone had sex on a first date that turned into a relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I just wanted to know if anyone has ever had sex with a guy on a first date and it turned into a relationship? Men and Women please both answer. Thank you....

I have a new girlfriend who is a virgin, how do I know she is ready for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - I have A girlfriend who is a virgin. Shes 6 years younger than me. We've been going out now for about a month and I like her a lot. She plays with me and stuff but she's kinda shy when it comes to me playing with her(By that I mean fingering her) I ...

I am a high school student and I watch gay porn.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - I am a high school student and I watch gay porn. 85% of my porn watching is of gay porn and the rest is of gay and straight. I have a girlfriend whom I love very much but I am still attracted to men. What's wrong with me???...

While having sex it felt like I had to pee?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I had sex for the first time recently. At first it was painful but after a while it became incredibly good. The feeling was so strange. It was as if I wanted to pee. ( actually i didn't and there was no urine). but the feeling was such. It was a ...

Is she prego?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Hey, my girlfreind might be pregnant, shes really worried bout it. and now her pants are getting tighter and that worried her more. I think its just extra fluf from the holydays. but shes really worried nad doesn't want to get a test. so how long ...

When I go pee goop comes out

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Alright so on September 25th, 2008 i had sex with one of my friends. He had a girlfriend and we still had sex anyway. ( i now dumb move, dont tell me about it.) he wanted to have sex with me because he was a virgin and so was i and he didnt want to ...

He lost it during oral

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for about three months now. We haven't had sex yet but we've fooled around and stuff. He's given me oral and i do him, every time i've given him head he has always ejaculated. So anyway the other night, we were fooling ...

I asked my b/f for naked photo, he sent and now wants one from me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - i asked my boyfriend for a picture of him naked, but i didnt think he would do it, yet he sent it to me!!! and when i saw it, i felt like i had a porn star boyfriend, lol. and he told me he would want a pic of me naked, but i wasnt likeing the idea, ...