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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is he using me? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Ok I lust for this boy in my health class and we started talkin for about 2 months and I decided to give him my virginity which I now regret.after we stopped talkin to each other after we had sex I realize that he used me .a month later he called m...

Please help! I don't know what is happening

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - This is yet another annoying teacher-student-love question. But really, this is getting out of hand for me. I had this teacher in year 7 (Mr S I'll call him) and by the end of that year obviously I started 'fancying' him. I had him the next year as ...

Is my boyfriend trying to bribe me into having sex with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Is my boyfriend trying to bribe me into having sex with him? We had that talk last night and I said, "I wasn't ready." It was cool. But this afternoon he text me something like... a co-worker told me that his wife text him '911 I want sex' And he...

I can't tell my friends what I am doing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - hi im not really sure if there is a question in this, im so confused, i think i just needed your opinion on my situation as i cant talk to friends about it i have a best lad friend who i trust with my life and everything in it, we began fooling...

Penis preference - a poll!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - The questions is, if you had a choice between three people who were exactly the same, both in character and in looks, except for the size of their penises, one big - in this case big would mean the maximum that you can take without causing any pain ...

Submissive and wants my permission to masturbate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy online, cute, successful, seemed absolutely normal. We have seen each other twice each time for 24 hours straight and have talked on the phone for probably the past month. Extremely physically attracted to each other as well. Have ...

How do I make my boyfriend more sexual with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend are the perfect couple but he not as sexual as I want him to be. How do I loosen him up? And I also want to give him oral. should I?...

Should I have sex with a boy I lust for if I already have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Ok well Im 14 and I had sex with this boy that I was talkin to for 2 months and I always liked him the first time I saw him, and also we have health class together. anyways after we had sex a couple of days later I didn't talk to him for like a ...

He says if we're not 'intimate', he won't introduce me as his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had the 'sex' talk last night. He's been making comments, jokes about us having sex, so I set him straight and said, 'I'm not ready.' He was respectful and we continued on... We're all lovey dovey. But he did say, "I want to ...

What are some hot, sexy party games we can play?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - hey i am having a get together with my lover and some of our friends and was wondering does anyone have any ideas for some hot party games sexy, kinky, sweet or otherwise plz and thank you...

I would love to give him oral too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - My boyfriend gives me oral sex but he never asks me... but I really want to do it. What should I do? I'm afraid of what he might think of me if one day after he gives me oral I just bend down and give him oral, what do you think?...

Still haven't had my cycle yet and I'm beginning to fear I'm pregnant.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - Hello I'm 14 years old and I had sex with my boyfriend on January 15 2009 and today is January 30 2009 and I still haven't had a cycle. I'm starting to feel a little different. I really believe I am pregant. Yes I have told my boyfriend and he is ...

Have I advertised "I want sex ASAP" because I talked about birth control?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - To start off- I'm 19 and a virgin and my boyfriend is 25 and not. We were talking last night about contraception and I told him that I've just started the pill perscription to be on the safe side but want to use a condom as well. He was a bit odd ...

How can I stop feeling pressured about sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I'm in a new relationship that is going well, however he keeps bringing up sex. He says he has a high sex drive and would like to have sex everyday but that he doesn't have to. I myself have a lower sex drive and i tend to shy away from talking ...

Will having sex make me feel any better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - i recently went through a pretty rough breakup with a girl i had been dating for nearly 3 years (she was my first)... and every once in a while it still hits me pretty hard... i have been getting involved with someone in a "friends with be...

I think he's ready for sex but I'm a virgin and not sure I'm ready!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - im kinda nervous about this but i need to know.My boyfriend may be ready to have sex,and hes told me he has before.Im still a virgin and I was wondering if i should or not.Ive heard its gonna hurt really bad and i hate pain but im not sure.Any ...

We're too young for sex...how can I make her orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - im 15 years old and i have been dating my girlfriend for a few months, i dont want to have sex yet cause we are too young, wat would be the best way i could give her an orgasm without intercorse?...

When can I talk to her about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - me and my gf have been together 4 2weeks and 4days.when do i talk to her about sex? by the way im 14 and she15...