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I think I might have an infection, please help!

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Question - (4 January 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I lost my virginity on new years....... ever since I have been itching a little bit and there has been like this muddy type substance and the color is like a brownish greyish.... I wash real good and it goes away... but the next morning when I wake up it's there again.... please tell me what it is.... we used a condom so I don't know what's wrong..... thanks

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A female reader, Blue_Angel0316 United States +, writes (5 January 2009):

Blue_Angel0316 agony aunt Brownish discharge can be a sign of bleeding inside. The color and consistency of the discharge can be caused by certain things. Old blood is washed out by the vaginal fluids, if you were a virgin is also possible that you had small tears inside the vaginal walls which could have been caused from the stretching during intercourse.

Below is an article which I wrote more on this you can read it and get a bit more information about discharges. I am pretty certain that the itching is due also to the stretching or tearing of the walls and hymen but it can be due to an infection that has set in because of the bacteria that can enter during intercourse. Yeast infections can occur along with other things like STD's. It's also possible that you are allergic to the condom. (latex)

Your best bet is to check with a Doctor, clinic or other facility who can diagnose and treat you for whatever is going on. Hopefully it won't be anything of major concern but it's better safe than sorry. It's also best to refrain from any sexual activity as it can aggravate the condition and certain things can be transferred to your partner during sexual intercourse. At your age I urge you to STOP completely and wait until you are much older and able to take better care of yourself physically and emotionally.

Article as follows:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-is-causing-this-white-discharge.html

God bless,

Blue_Angel

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A female reader, vix08tyler United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2009):

when you lose your virgnity for the first time, most people bleed, but all in all it sounds like you could have and if so its best getting it treated straight away, if it isnt then, your still best to be safe than sorry as the saying goes

you have whats called discharge which normally means that theres something there, so ur probably best goin to ur doctors

hope this helps

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A male reader, MichaelS2 United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

MichaelS2 agony auntNot a female body expert,but I think it may be discharge.

If you are truly concerned you should see your doctor.They can't say anything unless it threatens someone's life because of Doctor-Patient Confidential.

Good thinking to use a Condom!!

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A male reader, Western3589 United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

Western3589 agony auntIf only i knew about stds as much as i knew about reletionships. well have you tried asking the person you slept with if he had anything?

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A female reader, purplemonster10 United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

just to let you know condoms are not 100% effective. You should see a doctor or diagnose yourself on webmd.com. It can't be normal. Although, i'm sure if you get treatment and do your research you'll be fine.

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A male reader, MichaelS2 United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

MichaelS2 agony auntI am not a female body expert but I think it's Discharge.If you are really worried you should see your doctor.Doctor's are allowed to reveal information because of Doctor-Patient Confidential.

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A female reader, confusedinkent United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2009):

confusedinkent agony auntit sounds to me like you have thrush. you can buy over the counter creams and tablets for it.

there is a tablet and cream combo that really works. they come in a set together, you simply take the pill then use the cream for the recommended amount of days it should be fine.

Im not sure if you have the same brands over in the US, but its called canesten over here. look out for the combo pack its the most effective way of dealing with it.

Hope I have helped xx

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

It sounds like a yeast infection which you can get with a condom or not. He probably wasn't clean enough down there and you got an infection. You need to go to a doctor because only they can tell you for sure and only they can help you

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