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Archived questions from: 15 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Looking for a good read!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Girls, are there any books that turn you on that aren't those cheesy romance ones?...

First time sex.... what can I do to blow his mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Ok, my boyfriend and I are planning to have sex soon. The thing is I love him really I do. Knowing that we are both virgins and that he is taking it very seriously, well in the sense that he wants everything to go right. He planned everything to the ...

First time sex...the usual worries

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I know this is a question that has come up a lot, though thought it would be worth putting things in my own terms exactly so I can make things clear as possible... I'm 18 and met this guy about 2 months ago, he's 25 and not a virgin. We live a f...

Old flames meeting up again wanting fun but nothing serious... any harm in that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - thro' the wonder/monster that is social network websites, I have just got back in contact with an old ex. He is an old flame only, a steamy college romance that petered out and it was never a serious relationship or anything but the chemistry was ...

Ladies do you have some suggestions on planning a nice night leading up to sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - I want to plan a nice night leading up to sex for my girlfriend. Ladies do you have some suggestions on planning a nice night leading up to sex?...

My husband told me that most men don't like to give oral and he does it only because I like it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I have been married to my husband for seven years. I have told him exactly what I would like when it comes to oral sex. More often than not, he doesn't do it. He told me the other night that most men don't like to give oral and he does it only ...

Is there an easy and secure way to avoid her getting pregnant???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - Hi, yesterday I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend. I didn't cum inside her, I came outside but after some minutes we started having sex again still without protection and without me having cleaned my penis. She is in her fertile period, ...

Sexually molested--am I still a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - when i was a little girl of 11 years old , i got molested sexually by many people .i didnt know what that meant back then and honestly i dont know what it was like i mean if i was fully raped coz i didnt bleed. now im in a love relationship and ...

Experience with anal sex please give me input

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a man for about two years now. We both have children and our separate places. Our relationship is heading toward marriage so there are no insecurities. Although how sex life appears to be wonderful, a whi...

I just don't want sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I don't want sex. I am 23 and I dated my boyfriend for 6 years before we broke up for a number of reasons. After a year we got back together and when we did I did not want to have sex. I had no explanation for why, I just did not think about it...

Pain & bleeding after sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - im 24 and am really worried and dont know what to do. i have been with my partner for 4 years and have had no problems but recently i have started having pain during intercourse and also bleeding after sex. i am also bleeding when i am not having a ...

Finger my girlfriend on her period

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - Can I finger my girlfriend when she's on her period? I'm seeing her this weekend and she said she'll be on. If we wanted to should I just stick to the clit? She got fingered by her previous boyfriend while she was on her period but I don't know all ...

He shagged like a porn star in his affair!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 14 years, with 2 kids. He is 40 I am 37. For a long time (possibly always) our love life has not been right. He is very highly sexed, and would want to make love every day, and several times a day if ...

She doesn't know and I'm ready to go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - ok so im at uni in 1st year and living in student halls. i started to like 1 of my flat mates early on and its grown into more. i mean we always kiss and sleep in each others beds and we have had sex once at the very end of last term. this term ...

Ex is good for nothing but sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - We got divorced after 21 years of marriage. After two years, I have now slept with 5 different men, but not one of them can make me have an orgasm, like my ex used to give me. My ex is a good for nothing except when it comes to sex. He won't have ...

I had sex with a male friend..now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - after a night of intoxication a male friend and i ended up sleeping together. he and i have been good friends for about 6 years, and although i always found him to be a great guy, i never allowed myself to be interested for fear of ruining our ...

I can't have an orgasm any other way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Hi. So I've been masterbating for years now, and able to orgasm, usually with a pillow. But I can't orgasm any other way. I recently started having sex and can't orgasm and it's beginning to get frustrating. Any help?...

Advice on Oral Threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend has a birthday coming up in a month or so, and we've decided for his birthday that we're going to try finding a third (female) to share oral sex with. So, it won't necessarily be a threesome. We're also considering waiting until our ...

I feel the fool now, how does this happen? A person who said I was the love of his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I too am very prplexed and also hurt I have been term relationship of over 7 years he was much younger and persued me. he was innocent a virgin at 26 and i never knew till after. now after 7 years he says he wants to still be with me but needs to be ...

Is wanting to have sex with your step aunt wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

15 January 2009 (?) - is wanting to have sex with your step-aunt wrong? is that incest if you have only known her like 4 years?...

She says if I ever need anything..I want to have sex with her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

15 January 2009 (?) - ok there is this 35 year old mom who lives next to me. her 8 year old son is best friends with my 8 year old brother. we have been neighbors for about 4 1/2 years now. she has always been very nice and really cool. she always says if i ever need ...

How to prevent UTI

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - how often do women get urinary tract infections after sex? and what can be done to prevent it (apart from taking antibiotics and other medicine)?...

First time sex will cause condom to break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - is it true that the first time you have sex and use a condom that it will be most likely break???? please help me because me and my bf have been planning to have sex and well he has no problem with the whole becoming a dad thing but Im not so ready ...